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LAST DAY – March 31

LAST DAY – March 31

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LAST DAY - March 31

It’s the very last day for March Potpourri!

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SECOND LIFE – A Path Out of the Closet

For transgender Ladies and Gentlemen, Second Live (secondlife.com) offers a world of opportunities to explore new worlds, both romantic and exotic, adventurous and relaxing, beautiful and mysterious.

But most importantly Second Life (SL) allows you to explore yourself – your heart, needs and desires – and to share your journey with thousands of other lovely people – both transgenders (TGs) and their friends and admirers.

Basic membership in SL is free. Create your account, your avatar, your wardrobe and begin exploring.

Searching for a friendly companion? Come to SL.

Searching for a shoulder to cry on? Come to SL.

Searching for virtual romance? Come to SL.

As in Real Life (RL), SL is not without perils. We are all avatars – we all create our perfect self-images, whether close to our real selves, or dreamboats.

But take a chance. Step into a world of endless virtual possibilities.

And if you do, please visit the White Pearl Salon (Search > Places > White Pearl Salon).
maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Hispaniola%20Bay/89/21/3500

Our calendar of exciting DJ dance and costume parties is at:
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Photo albums of past and future events are at www.flickr.com/photos/191000934@N06/albums

For TGs, their friends and all people, the Pearl is dedicated to the principles of respect, dignity, pride, beauty, charm and…. well…. the best time ever in a Virtual Environment. The Pearl is SL’s most “safe space” for TGs.

So take the next step and join Second Life (secondlife.com).

Celebrate the woman… or man… within.

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Saying Bi, Bi, Bi to a Decade of Increased Bi+ Visibility

Saying Bi, Bi, Bi to a Decade of Increased Bi+ Visibility

Post submitted by HRC Digital Media Manager Helen Parshall and HRC Editorial Producer Rokia Hassanein

As 20BiTeen comes to an end and another decade wraps up, we want to look back on some of the standout moments for bi+ representation over the last 10 years. We use the term “bi+” as an umbrella term for identities that are not exclusively same-sex attracted or different-sex attracted, such as bisexual, pansexual, queer and sexually fluid. 

From the big screen to the small screen, music and sports, we have seen a bigger spotlight on the stories and experiences of bi+ people, who make up the largest percentage of the LGBTQ community.

Here are 10 of our favorite moments for bi+ visibility, in no particular order.

1. West Hollywood hosts a bisexual pride parade.

The 2018 celebration, thought to be the country’s first ever city-sponsored, bisexual-themed pride, was hosted by the City of West Hollywood, HRC’s Los Angeles Steering Committee and amBi. 

HRC Los Angeles is Proud to be a Co-Host for this historic event on Saturday! Catch up on the event here: t.co/85DQKvTMFZ

And be sure to join us this weekend! pic.twitter.com/0XAmv8cLfP

— HRC Los Angeles (@HRCLosAngeles) September 21, 2018

2. Janelle Monáe comes out, and the internet exploded with searches. 

When Janelle Monáe came out as “a queer Black woman in America” in 2018, it was a moment of visibility that resonated with many — evidenced by the number of Google searches for the definition of pansexual. 

3.  Ryan Russell brings bi+ visibility to football.  

NFL free agent Ryan Russell made history this year by coming out as bisexual in a powerful essay on ESPN. “My truth is that I’m a talented football player, a damn good writer, a loving son, an overbearing brother, a caring friend, a loyal lover and a bisexual man,” Russell said. 

4.  The Obama administration welcomes bi+ leaders from around the U.S. to the White House. 

In 2015 and 2016, the administration held two powerful bisexual community briefings in conjunction with Bisexual Awareness Week to talk about issues facing the bi+ community and to celebrate bi+ identities. HRC staffers were among the featured speakers to share their stories of navigating the intersections of their identities as bi+ people.

5. 2018 marks the 20th anniversary of the bisexual pride flag.

For more than 20 years now, the bisexual pride flag has been a symbol of visibility and connection for bi+ people around the world. It was created by BiNet USA’s Michael Page to increase the visibility of bi+ people within the broader LGBTQ community.

For the past 20 years, the bisexual pride flag has been a symbol of bi pride and visibility.

Today, @HRC is proud to celebrate its anniversary with the bi community around the world. ������ pic.twitter.com/G97lRqwt6x

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) December 5, 2018

6. Sara Ramirez brings bi+ visibility to the screen and to the frontlines of activism. 

From her powerful coming out story in 2016 to her groundbreaking roles in shows such as Grey’s Anatomy and Madam Secretary and her work with organizations such as True Colors United, Ramirez works to create spaces where bi+ people feel safe enough to celebrate one another openly and without fear.

Those of us who love more than one sex/gender use many different labels, but we share a common experience: our presence makes people uncomfortable. Our very existence as #bisexual threatens heteronormativity and the gender binary. —@SaraRamirez #HRCTwitterTakeover

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) March 26, 2018

7. Tessa Thompson creates historic bi+ representation in the Marvel cinematic universe.

While there are many comic characters in books that are bi+, one made her way into Marvel’s cinematic universe. Valkyrie, played by out actor Tessa Thompson, is the first bi+ superhero in the franchise’s movie. “As king, she needs to find her queen,” Thompson said this year. 

“As king, she needs to find her queen.”

Actor @TessaThompson_x is bringing visibility to the big screen worldwide playing Valkyrie, @Marvel‘s first LGBTQ superhero! #MarvelSDCC #Thor4 t.co/xdnBnayC5I

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) July 22, 2019

8. “Getting Bi” gets stuck in our heads after watching Crazy Ex-Girlfriend.

The show Crazy Ex Girlfriend created storylines about a diverse group of people, including at least three bisexual characters. A major plot line in the show features Darryl, played by Pete Gardner, who came out as bisexual in a song and dance called “Gettin’ Bi” — an anthem for bi people that dispels myths, debunks stereotypes and gave us epic “singing in the shower” material. 

9. Pro-equality bi+ candidates are elected up and down the ballot.

From Oregon Gov. Kate Brown’s historic victory in 2016 and Arizona’s Sen. Kyrsten Sinema becoming the first out bi+ person elected to both the U.S. House of Representatives in 2012 and the U.S. Senate in 2018, to leaders like Wisconsin State Rep. JoCasta Zamarripa and Minneapolis’ Andrea Jenkins, bi+ people are moving equality forward at the federal, state and local levels.

�� Making history, @KyrstenSinema wins #AZSen race, becoming the nation’s first openly bisexual U.S. senator. #ElectionResults2018 ��t.co/qZo9s8veCM

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) November 13, 2018

10. MTV’s “Are You The One” becomes the first reality show to feature an all bi+ cast. 

In 2019, the MTV show became the perfect match for many LGBTQ people with its bold choice to feature an all bi+ cast. “As a person of color, as a gender non-conforming person … all my life I’ve just wanted to see myself represented just [the] slightest bit — to not only see myself represented but to be the representation that I wanted to see,” Basit Shittu, a Brooklyn-based artist and cast member of the show, who joined HRC at our annual #BiWeek event.

As part of our #BiWeek celebrations, @HRC was proud to host a panel about bi+ visibility in the media with:
��@AREUTHE1‘s @TheBasitShow
��@AdvocatesTweets‘ Khadija Khan
��@HRC’s @PartiallyHelen
��@TransEquality‘s @charlescgirard

and other bi+ community members and advocates pic.twitter.com/bXZa02Xa6n

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) September 20, 2019

For more information about the bi+ community, visit hrc.org/Bisexual

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Iowa man sentenced to 15 years for stealing and burning Pride flag

Iowa man sentenced to 15 years for stealing and burning Pride flag

Adolfo Martinez
Adolfo Martinez

A judge in Iowa has sentenced a man to at least 15 years in prison for stealing a Pride flag from outside a church and burning it outside a strip club.

The man, Adolfo Martinez, 30, admitted afterward that he had stolen and burned the flag because he doesn’t like gay people. Because of this admission, he was found guilty of a hate crime, in addition to arson and harassment.

The incident happened June 11 in Ames, Iowa, reports the BBC.

Related: Arsonist sets pride flag on fire outside home of sleeping family

Police were called to a disturbance at Dangerous Curves Gentlemen’s Club, where Martinez was making threats to staff. By the time police arrived, the staff had ejected him from the premises.

He then apparently went to the nearby Ames United Church of Christ. The church had a rainbow Pride flag flying outside. Its senior minister, Rev. Eileen Gebbie, is a gay woman and told local media the flag is displayed as a sign of inclusion.

Ames United Church of Christ
(Photo: Google Maps)

Ames ripped down the flag and went back to the strip club. He proceeded to douse it with lighter fluid and burn it, along with a tire, in the street. He also threatened to burn down the club.

He was arrested and subsequently gave an interview to KCCI-TV. He admitted his crime and said, “It’s my honor. It is written. It is a judgment and it’s written to execute vengeance on the heathen and punishments on the people. It was an honor to do that. It’s a blessing from the Lord.”

Asked directly if his crime “was about homosexuality,” he replied, “Yes, yes, yes. Exactly. I burned down their pride, plain and simple.”

The interview was used in evidence in the court. Martinez was found guilty last month of third-degree arson in violation of individual rights — hate crime, third-degree harassment, and reckless use of fire as a habitual offender. He returned to court this week for sentencing.

Related: After being charged with one antigay hate crime, this idiot went and did it a second time

According to the Des Moines Register, he faced a maximum sentence of five years in prison for the hate crime and arson charge. However, the fact he is a habitual offender allowed the judge to increase the sentence.

He also got one year for the reckless use of explosives or fire, and 30 days for harassment – all of which will be served consecutively.

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LGBTQTMEA – lesbians, gays, bisexual, transgender, queer, trisexual, mastersexual, exosexual, anysexual

LGBTQTMEA – lesbians, gays, bisexual, transgender, queer, trisexual, mastersexual, exosexual, anysexual

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If you have noticed that the sexual range of humanity is getting wider, then you’ll love this ultimate version of the lifestyle you may enjoy. This sexually suggestive t-shirt celebrates the complete diversity of sexual relationships by including every form of community there can possibly be. Wear this t-shirt with pride for whatever you prefer.

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#AM_Equality Tipsheet: December 6, 2019

#AM_Equality Tipsheet: December 6, 2019

IN MEXICO CITY — HRC CELEBRATES THE MORE THAN 120 EMPLOYERS IN MEXICO FOR THEIR COMMITMENT TO LGBT WORKPLACE INCLUSION: More from Latin Post, Mundo Ejecutivo, Infomercado and Reforma

Tonight we celebrate the more than 120 employers who have earned top ratings in the 2020 HRC Equidad MX report. These scores reflect their commitment to LGBTQ equality and adoption of essential LGBTQ-inclusive policies and practices in their workplaces. pic.twitter.com/U1Y5YCgh1g

— Alphonso David (@AlphonsoDavid) December 6, 2019

11TH CIRCUIT COURT IN FLORIDA HEARS CASE ON JACKSONVILLE SCHOOL’S BATHROOM POLICY: The case was brought on behalf of transgender student Drew Adams. “All I ever wanted from my school was to be treated like any other boy, and to have the same opportunity to thrive and learn as my peers,” said Adams (@drewcaofficial). More from Atlanta Journal-Constitution and Lambda Legal.

U.S. DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH AND HUMAN SERVICES ANNOUNCES NEW “READY, SET PrEP” PROGRAM: By increasing awareness and access to PrEP and HIV preventive medication, we can end the epidemic facing thousands of Americans, especially LGBTQ people and people of color, who are at risk for HIV. Read more from the Washington Blade and HRC

FEEL-GOOD FRIDAY — HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE BISEXUAL PRIDE FLAG!: The first bi pride flag was unveiled on December 5, 1998, and for the past 21 years, it has been a symbol of bi+ pride and visibility around the world. Learn more from HRC

Happy birthday to the bisexual pride flag!

For the past 21 years, the bisexual pride flag has been a symbol of bisexual pride and visibility around the world. ������

Read more about how you can support the bi+ community at t.co/sdGcmTGvFo. pic.twitter.com/KIRMr0lsMb

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) December 5, 2019

HRC JOINS COALITION PARTNERS TO URGE SUPPORT FOR THE VOTING RIGHTS ADVANCEMENT ACT: Learn more here

This week the House is expected to vote on the Voting Rights Advancement Act — critically important civil rights legislation that would ensure fair access to the ballot for all Americans is protected.@HRC joins @CivilRightsOrg and partners to urge Congress to #RestoreTheVote. t.co/AnhWFVWi2O

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) December 5, 2019

HORRIBLE — SUSPECT YELLING ANTI-LGBTQ SLURS USES HAMMER TO ATTACK MAN ON NYC SUBWAY PLATFORM: More from NBC 4

MASSACHUSETTS MAN WHO ATTACKED ANOTHER MAN AND CALLED HIM ANTI-LGBTQ SLURS HAS BEEN ARRESTED: More from the Associated Press

ARIZONA COURT OF APPEALS RULES THAT JUDGE WAS WRONG TO DENY TRANSGENDER MAN’S NAME CHANGE: More from Phoenix New Times.

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JOIN HRC AND SHOWTIME AT AN “L WORD: GENERATION Q” WATCH PARTY SUNDAY NIGHT: Check out the trailer and RSVP to an event near you! More from HRC.

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GLOBAL EQUALITY NEWS

JACOB EDWARD (@ItsJacobEdward) TO BECOME THE FIRST NON-BINARY PERSON TO HOST THEIR OWN SHOW ON BBC RADIO 1: Read more from Forbes

TRANS PEOPLE AND ALLIES IN INDIA START POSTCARD CAMPAIGN TO CONTINUE PROTEST OF A BILL ADVOCATES SAY IS HARMFUL TO THE TRANS COMMUNITY: More from The News Minute.

READING RAINBOW – Bookmark now to read on your lunch break!

Popsugar reviews 15 great reads from transgender and non-binary authors; New York Magazine talks to actress and HRC supporter Yeardley Smith (@YeardleySmith); Purposely Awakened interviews J. Maurice McCants-Pearsall (@McCantsPearsall), director of HRC Foundation’s HIV and Health Equity program, about HRC’s Elevate Fellowship Program

Have news? Send us your news and tips at [email protected]. Click here to subscribe to #AM_Equality and follow @HRC for all the latest news. Thanks for reading!

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Mimi Lemay: A Letter to My Son This Trans Week

Mimi Lemay: A Letter to My Son This Trans Week

Author and advocate Mimi Lemay is a proud member of HRC Foundation’s Parents for Transgender Equality Council.  Her memoir, “What We Will Become,” has just been released, weaving her experiences growing up in, and ultimately leaving, her strict Ultra-Orthodox Jewish community, and her journey parenting a transgender child. Lemay began her advocacy shortly after her son’s transition at age four, when an essay she wrote about the experience went viral.

Dear Jacob,

In these days that approach our 6th Transgender Day of Remembrance since your transition, I find myself trying to sort through a multitude of feelings.  

Foremost is my pride for you.  

You have at the age of nine years accomplished what many adults couldn’t in a lifetime. In your courageous visibility, you have changed the course of your own history, you have turned strangers into allies and allies into advocates.  

Layered in my pride is my concern for you. I know your strength, but I also know how determined the forces are that have pitted themselves against you – the politicians and preachers who would rather see you languish in a dark closet, than watch you engage the world as you do, cultivating joy and love wherever you go.

I must remind myself of your strength when I become fearful. It’s a quality that I have witnessed in you from the moment you came to us at the age of two-and-a-half and set those serious brown eyes on me and declared, “I am a boy.” 

You will not be moved from the pursuit of what you know is true. Your sense of what is just, right and fair are unshakeable. Somehow, too, in your ‘old soul,’ you seem to know we are playing the long game.  You understand that the truth can take time to take hold, and therefore you are patient and hopeful, well beyond what should be expected of you.  

Your resilience will bear fruit, my love. I believe you will bend the world around you, and we will be right beside you, because we know the truth too: that you, like all LGBTQ people, are worth fighting for, and that until we are all free to be who we are, none of us will rise to what we can truly become. 

Love,
Mom

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After homophobic outburst, reality star claims “50 percent” of his friends are gay

After homophobic outburst, reality star claims “50 percent” of his friends are gay

Jax Taylor is a bartender/cast member on Bravo’s Vanderpump Rules with a penchant for exhibiting homophobic micro-aggressions on Twitter. But he’s not antigay because 50 percent of his friends are homosexual. Or something.

Over the weekend, 40-year-old Taylor got into an online spat with a complete stranger on Twitter.

What started as a thread about Adidas new line of NHL-inspired apparel quickly spiraled into a homophobic tirade with Taylor calling the man “ugly” and “fat” before accusing him of living in his parents’ basement.

“Buddy, again look at your ugly mug, and by the looks of that fat face you [couldn’t] fit into anything [Adidas Hockey] or any athletic apparel for that matter,” Jax raged. “Typical zit faced douche who chips company’s for attention. Go back to your parents basement homie.”

Taylor followed that up with a second tweet accusing the man on being a closeted frat boy who has gay sex with his roommate while wearing boat shoes.

“[You’re] the type of guy who is in frat and claims he loves women, but secretly is bending over his roommate ‘chadd’ while wearing boat shoes. 20 bucks says I hit the nail on the head with this loser.”

The man responded by tweeting screenshots of two different articles, one of which mentioned Taylor and his wife’s antigay pastor and another that mentioned a cheating scandal he was involved in.

“Also, maybe you too should not be the first to cast stones,” he wrote in the caption of his screenshots.

To which, Taylor replied by once again attacking the man’s sexuality, tweeting: “Look at this loser, it’s Friday night homie and [you’re a] straight man looking up ‘Page Six’ looks like I was right.”

After several people accused Taylor of being homophobic, he scrubbed the tweets from his page then insisted he’s not antigay, pointing to the fact that he worked at a gay bar for 15 years and that roughly “50 percent” of his friends are gay.

“I lived in West Hollywood for 15 years, worked at the abbey ( highest grossing bar in the country) (gay bar). I walked in 4 gay pride parades, I had my good friend Lance bass marry us, 50 percent of my friends are gay. But yes, You got me, I am homophobic… people are idiots,” he tweeted.

I lived in West Hollywood for 15 years, worked at the abbey ( highest grossing bar in the country) (gay bar). I walked in 4 gay pride parades, I had my good friend Lance bass marry us, 50 percent of my friends are gay. But yes, You got me, I am homophobic… people are idiots. ? t.co/dIrAoGftMo

— Jax (@mrjaxtaylor) November 3, 2019

He sounds just like Karen, who can’t be racist because her best friend is Black.

Neither Bravo nor Taylor’s boss Lisa Vanderpump, who, herself, came under fire this year for cracking transphobic jokes on television, have issued any comment on the homophobic outburst.

Related: Reality star admits he was “wrong” for antigay language, says he’s “grown up a lot”

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