The Biggest Dating Trends Happening this Cuffing Season

Data from OkCupid’s in-app matching questions predict what daters around the globe can expect this fall and winter

OkCupid matches people on what matters to them through in-app questions about dating, relationships, sex and everything that is top of mind for Gen Z and Millennial daters. So far this year, our matching questions have earned more than 250 million responses — and over 10 billion responses since OkCupid launched 20 years ago. These are the biggest trends we are seeing leading into cuffing season:

MENTAL HEALTH

Discussions around mental health are becoming more prevalent both in society and in dating, with singles prioritizing and discussing everything from self-care to therapy. On OkCupid, 99% of almost 1.5 million daters asked believe mental health is as important as physical health — and 94% of nearly 1 million singles are open to discussing mental health with their partner. Today, being open and vulnerable is a big turn-on.

RISE IN OPEN RELATIONSHIPS

Speaking of being open, this past summer there was a noticeable shift in attitudes toward open relationships. During the last few months, 34% of daters on OkCupid said they would consider an open relationship, up from 32% in 2022. Many people are now more open to exploring non-traditional relationship structures. Factors such as increased conversations around relationship dynamics and a greater emphasis on personal freedom may have contributed to this resurgence, indicating a growing acceptance of diverse relationship models.

This year, we added new matching questions to OkCupid to better serve people looking for ethical, non-monogamous relationships including:

• Would you consider an ethically non-monogamous relationship?
• What are your thoughts on ethically non-monogamous relationships?
• Have your views on ethically non-monogamous relationships changed recently?
• Do you have any friends in ethically non-monogamous relationships?

DECREASE IN KINK

This year, there has been a notable decline in interest in kink and BDSM activities. When asked, 38% of singles on OkCupid this summer said they are kinky, 6% less than we saw during summer 2021. Factors such as shifting social norms or a focus on emotional intimacy may have contributed to this trend, suggesting that individuals are prioritizing connection over adventurous exploration.

MONEY MATTERS

In the era of looking for a man in finance, financial responsibility and stability is playing a big role in dating on OkCupid. Women on OkCupid are 38% more likely to say finances stress them out — more than their job, politics, and family or friends — compared to men, and many daters are looking for singles who are fiscally smart. Daters who keep a budget of their finances get 25% more Matches and have 16% more conversations on the app than those who don’t.

POLITICAL VIEWS ARE NOT AS DIVISIVE (FOR SOME)

Despite people being passionate and vocal about their personal views, they are more open than previous years to have healthy, respectable conversations with romantic partners — and even date people who might not vote the same way. On OkCupid, 68% of respondents said it’s not a deal breaker if their date is voting for a different candidate than they are in the 2024 presidential election. But members of each political party feel differently about this. Almost 7 in 10 (68%) of liberals on OkCupid said it’s a deal breaker if their date is voting for a different candidate, compared to 30% of conservatives and 16% of moderates.

WOMEN’S SPORTS ARE A TURN-ON

Women’s sports are experiencing a remarkable surge in popularity, fueled by increased visibility and support through media coverage and social media platforms. This growing interest not only highlights the incredible talent and dedication of female athletes but also inspires the next generation to participate in sports — and it’s becoming a deal maker for singles. Daters on OkCupid who watch women’s sports are getting 59% more Matches and having 42% more conversations on the app than those who don’t.

Now that you know what to expect this cuffing season, it’s time to update your dating profile! People who complete their OkCupid profile get 200% more matches, so what are you waiting for? Download OkCupid today.

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Voting Is a Major Turn-On for Gen Z, Millennial Singles in 2024— and Differing Opinions Are No Longer a Red Flag

New OkCupid data shows what young singles are prioritizing in the upcoming election and that they’re more open to dating outside their political party

Earlier this year OkCupid added brand new matching questions related to the election to see how singles felt about the issues driving people to the polls. Our matching questions received more than half a million responses, and revealed that not only are daters discussing politics on dates, they’re even willing to go with a match to vote.

This ⁦Election Day, daters on OkCupid won’t be ghosting the polls — and a date won’t stand in their way. When asked, 46% of daters said they are open to discussing the 2024 presidential election on the first few dates — and more than half (52%) of OkCupid respondents said they would even go to the polls with a date.

Singles are engaged…in the political process.

More than 3 million people in the United States on OkCupid said they are registered to vote — 84% of all respondents — and that voting is a big turn-on for them. In 2024, registered voters on OkCupid are getting 15% more Likes and 12% more Matches than those who aren’t. They also have 18% more conversations. And singles who are planning to vote in the upcoming presidential election (77% of Millennials, 64% of Gen Z) are also getting 17% more Likes.

Daters are open to differing views.

Despite people being passionate about their personal views, they’re still open to healthy debates and discussions with romantic partners. About 7 in 10 (69%) OkCupid respondents do not think it’s a deal breaker if their date is voting for a different candidate than they are in the 2024 presidential election. And 61% of singles could date someone who ‘s voting for the opposing candidate, with Gen Z (64%) being more open than Millennials (58%) and Gen X (62%).

Most people are voting the same way as they did in 2020, but it’s party dependent.

More than 7 in 10 (73%) daters on OkCupid plan to vote for the same party that they did in the last presidential election — but it depends on where you sit on the political spectrum. When asked, 92% of liberals, 86% of conservatives and 69% of moderates said they plan to vote for the same party they did in the last presidential election. Conservatives were 75% more likely to be voting for a different party in this election than they did in the last one compared to liberals, and moderates were the most likely to be voting for a different party.

Women especially are hopeful about a female candidate.

There’s been unease over the election, but a woman entering the race is calming nerves. In early-to-mid July 2024, 60% of OkCupid respondents expressed concern about the upcoming presidential election. That percentage dropped to 51% within 24 hours of Vice President Kamala Harris announcing her run for president. During that same timeframe, the percentage of women concerned about the election dropped from 66% to 48% — and concerned men went from 54% to 49%, while worried nonbinary daters went from 94% to 88%.

Now that you’ve learned about our 2024 election cycle dating trends, it’s time to put in the work, on your dating profile and at the polls. Download OkCupid today, and don’t forget to register to vote at vote.gov.

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Stay safe while traveling this summer

While your dating life is heating up, don’t cool off on being cautious

About 3 million daters on OkCupid have shared that they could live a life of travel — and we know many of you will be hopping on a plane any second now that summer is around the corner. But it’s important to keep safety top of mind when meeting someone new, especially in a new country. To make it easier on you, we put together a guide to help you stay safe this summer — both online and when meeting for the first time.

1. Sharing is caring. Create a game plan and share details about your date with friends and family, such as their photo and when and where you are meeting them.
2. Be honest about what you’re looking for. Be clear about your intentions and establish personal boundaries. Whether you’re looking for a casual fling or a serious relationship, be upfront about your intentions in your dating app profile and conversations. This will help you find matches who are on the same page.
3. Video chat first. Before meeting in person, schedule a video call with your match to get a better sense of their personality and ensure there’s chemistry. This can also help you avoid any potential catfishing or misleading profiles.
4. The more the merrier. When you’re ready to meet someone in person, research local spots and busy areas and avoid meeting anyone in unknown locations or non-busy areas. Avoid meeting or going to someone’s home or hotel — and don’t share where you are staying until you feel comfortable.
5. Say something. Connect with others who have verified profiles and familiarize yourself with safety features within the apps, such as reporting and blocking options. If someone is making you uncomfortable or using abusive language — on or off the app — always report back to the app.
6. Leave early. If something doesn’t feel right or if you’re uncomfortable during a date, trust your instincts and prioritize your safety. Don’t hesitate to end the date early or leave if necessary.

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OkCupid reignites fling with ChatGPT as summer dating heats up

The dating app is using the chatbot to write OkCupid’s famous matching questions and share outdoor date ideas

Last year we released new in-app matching questions written by ChatGPT about everything from what you value most in a partner to how you can balance your own needs with the needs of a partner. Since then, daters have answered them more than 4 million times.

Now, as the weather gets warmer, activity on OkCupid is heating up as well. There’s already been 150 million first messages sent on our app this year, so we decided to tap the famous chatbot once again — this time to write new matching questions (that were already answered more than 100 thousand times at launch) and share date ideas to help singles navigate dating this summer.

What outdoor activities do you enjoy during the summer?

Day-drinking (8%)

Hiking (22%)

Swimming (31%)

All of the above (38%)

Do you prefer romantic beach picnics or adventurous hikes in the summer?

Romantic beach picnics (65%)

Adventurous hikes (35%)

How do you typically stay cool during the hot summer days?

Indoors with AC (56%)

Outdoors at a beach or pool (44%)

Are you more of a fan of daytime summer dates or evening sunset dates?

Daytime (22%)

Evening (78%)

What kind of summer foods or drinks do you enjoy the most?

Fresh fruit (23%)

Fruity cocktails (6%)

Ice cream or sorbet (20%)

All of them equally (51%)

Would you rather escape the summer heat with indoor activities or embrace the sunshine with outdoor dates?

Indoor activities (47%)

Outdoor dates (53%)

How do you feel about spontaneous road trips or weekend getaways during the summer months?

Love them! (90%)

Not my jam (10%)

What are some fun outdoor date ideas for the summer?

Go on a boat or kayak (23%)

Have a picnic (41%)

Bike ride (13%)

Concert (23%)

How do you stay cool and comfortable while out on a summer date?

Dress light (44%)

Drink water (36%)

Avoid strenuous activities (12%)

Stay inside (8%)

We also asked ChatGPT for affordable, outdoor date ideas that singles can recommend to their OkCupid match. Whether you’re into fitness or food, movies or music, you’re bound to find a date idea that works for you both. Here are some summer date ideas from the chatbot:

• Outdoor movie night: Set up a cozy outdoor movie screening in your backyard or local park.
• Beach day: Spend a relaxing day at the beach swimming, sunbathing, and enjoying a picnic.
• Ice cream or gelato tasting: Explore different ice cream or gelato shops in your area and indulge in sweet treats together.
• Hiking or nature walk: Enjoy the great outdoors and go for a hike or nature walk in a local park or nature reserve.
• Farmers’ market visit: Browse through a farmers’ market together, sample fresh produce, and pick out ingredients for a delicious meal to cook together.
• Stargazing: Find a quiet spot away from city lights and spend the evening stargazing together.
• Water balloon fight: Have some fun and cool off on a hot day with a water balloon fight in your backyard.
• Kayaking or paddleboarding: Rent kayaks or paddle boards and explore a nearby lake or river together.
• Outdoor concert or music festival: Check out local outdoor concerts or music festivals happening in your area.
• DIY outdoor brunch: Set up a DIY outdoor brunch with mimosas, fresh fruits, pastries, and enjoy a leisurely meal together.

Now that you have a bunch of summer date ideas, it’s time to get matching on OkCupid and schedule a date!

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OkCupid and Photoroom help daters erase their exes and find new matches for summer

62% of single women want to erase an ex from a photo

As the weather warms, people’s dating lives are heating up. This year, daters on OkCupid have already sent more than 100 million first messages — and almost seven in 10 of people on our app are looking for a long-lasting relationship.

Whether singles are preparing to dive into something casual or more serious, they’re looking through some of their favorite photos to add to their dating profiles — and unfortunately sometimes an ex appears in one of the best shots. So OkCupid is partnering with Photoroom, the world’s most popular AI photo-editor, to enable the hottest new dating trend for summer: ex-terminating, or the act of removing an ex from an otherwise cute pic.

About 6 in 10 (55%) Gen Z daters have photos where they want to erase a former partner. That’s why OkCupid and Photoroom have created a tool that lets singles erase their exes from their best selfies for good.

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To find out daters’ unfiltered views about what photos they want on dating apps, OkCupid added brand-new matching questions, which were answered more than 250,000 times.

Most singles, it turns out, want to paint over unwanted parts of their past: some half of Gen Z (54%) and Millennial (50%) singles say they have a good photo of themselves that needs their ex erased. As for why: 43% say they don’t want to see an ex; 41% want to get over the breakup; and 16%want to use the photo on a dating app profile.

When it comes to their profile pics, the majority of OkCupid daters (58%) prefer an individual photo or selfie, 37% opt for a photo of them doing something they love and only 5% go for photos with family or friends.

When it comes to what photos they want to see from a match on a dating profile, almost 7 in 10 daters (67%) prefer individual photos, 17% want to see you doing a hobby or on vacation, 10% enjoy seeing you with animals, and 6% love photos with family or friends.

It’s time to erase your ex and now it’s easier than ever to move on with the help of Photoroom and OkCupid.

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Got a special someone you’d like to erase from your selfies? To erase an ex from your photo, simply upload your chosen image to Photoroom’s Ex-Terminator, paint over your no-good ex, and Photoroom will do the rest.

Download OkCupid to find a date (that you won’t have to edit out of a photo!) now.

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OkCupid and Opendoor break down post-breakup behaviors

76% of daters say having to sell a place after a breakup is more stressful than a cancelled flight

Every March there’s a spike in divorces and breakups, leading newly-single homeowners to sell their homes quickly and download dating apps.

So this year, OkCupid is partnering with Opendoor, the fastest and easiest way to sell your home, to help these new singles out — because they’re busy enough with their dating lives! In March 2023, there was a 7.4% increase in Likes and 8.5% increase in Matches on OkCupid compared to the previous month, and we’re seeing similar trends this year. People are dating a lot on the heels of breakup season.

To better understand post-breakup behaviors, OkCupid in collaboration with Opendoor added new matching questions to the app, which garnered more than 65 thousand responses.

What happens after the dreaded breakup talk? The even worse “move out” conversation. On OkCupid, 86% of singles said they would move out after breaking up with a partner. Further, 55% of OkCupid daters would want to move out ASAP after a breakup, and 18% would leave within a week (14% could wait as long as a month; just 13% would not rush to move).

Most singles on OkCupid (80%) said they would rather move back in with their parents or couch surf (75%) than live under the same roof as their ex.

A majority of singles (76%) on OkCupid say having to sell their place after a break-up is more stressful than a canceled flight. Contrast that to homeowners that sell directly to Opendoor and can close an average of 3x faster than a traditional sale. That speed can mean less time on the pain of decoupling and more time moving on.

Finding your way out of a co-living situation and/or homeownership can add a whole new layer of stress to an already complex process — let alone managing a rollercoaster of emotions and some tough conversations. Michael Kaye, OkCupid’s Director of Brand Marketing and Communications, has some survival tips for the newly-single:

• Take a moment. Have clear expectations about if you want to be the one to move out or stay in your shared space, and fairly divide up your belongings accordingly. Remember, there’s two people impacted by this breakup, and being fair will help move the process forward more quickly.
• Ask for help! Lean on your family or friends for support during this time. No one should have to go through a breakup on their own. Ask your ex to leave for a night, invite your friends over, order in and start packing. A new chapter can be exciting!
• Keep yourself busy. Moving out of a place with an ex, or having an ex move out, is a big change. Be kind to yourself, and be patient with your emotions.

For singles who are navigating post break-up life and thinking about their next move, platonic co-buying might be a route to consider. According to Opendoor’s 2024 First-Time Homebuyer Report, 77% first-time home shoppers bought their home with a non-romantic partner.

And when it comes time to rethink that living situation with a new match, co-buying with romantic partners remains a reliable route for first-time home shoppers: 61% of Opendoor’s survey respondents bought with a spouse or partner in 2023.

Whether you’re looking to sell your home and move out — and on — with minimal disruption to your life, or you’re ready to meet your next match, OkCupid and Opendoor have your back.

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Opendoor’s 2024 First-Time Homebuyer Report: Methodology

The First-Time Homebuyer Report was conducted by Wakefield Research among 1,000 nationally representative first-time US Homebuyers using an email invitation and an online survey. “Homebuyers” are defined as those who purchased their first home in the past 12 months, between January 2023 and December 2023. Data has been weighted to facilitate tracking.

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OkCupid Celebrates Two Decades of Connections

Twenty years of data shows what’s next for dating and relationships around the world

For the past two decades, OkCupid has matched daters on what matters to them through our matching questions, which have been answered 10 billion times. During that time, there’s been tens of billions of Likes sent, billions of Matches made, tens of billions of Messages exchanged, and hundreds of millions of photos sent. And from our #BlackLivesMatter profile badge to our I’m Pro Choice profile badge, there have been more than 6 and ½ million badges added to daters profiles over the past few years, signaling to other users what’s important to them.

INDE-DATING

While millions of Gen Z and Millennial daters on OkCupid are looking for a partner, they’re still proudly independent. When we asked nearly 1 million daters on our app, nearly 8 in 10 people said they consider themselves independent — and those who do are receiving (5%+) and sending (17%+) more Likes on our app compared to people who say they aren’t. Last year, there was a 181% increase in mentions of “independent” on OkCupid profiles leading into cuffing season (October to November), and we’re confident this trend is going to lead to healthier, more successful relationships in 2024. Focusing on yourself allows you to build your self-esteem, assess your own emotions, and fulfill your personal needs, leading to being able to bring your best self to a relationship.

POLI-DATING

Gen Z and Millennial daters are increasingly interested in discussing politics with their matches. Recently, nearly 20 million people on OkCupid said they enjoy discussing politics, and with more than 60 countries holding elections in 2024, this is set to become the most political year yet — in politics AND in dating. Globally, nearly 8 in 10 (79%) daters on OkCupid said they are open to discussing politics with their partner.

TRALATIONSHIPS

Honesty has always been an indicator of a strong relationship, but younger generations are prioritizing it even more. Because Gen Z and Millennial daters have grown up with social media, we’re seeing them embrace a culture of authenticity, honesty and transparency when it comes to their dating lives. They aren’t as guarded or private as Gen X, and transparency has become paramount to any relationship they enter into. When asked about the main quality they look for in a partner, honesty (33%) was the most popular response followed by respect (25%), open-mindedness (23%) and a sense of humor (19%). And mentions of “honesty” and “transparency” increased over 30% on OkCupid profiles during 2023.

DATEHEISTS

In 2024, singles are pushing shared religion lower on their priority list than previous generations. The percentage of daterson OkCupid who said religion is important to them dropped from 55% in 2022 to 50% in 2023, and we expect this trend to continue as more and more people meet online and date outside their cultures.

VIDEODATING

In 2024, singles will value their time even more. We asked more than 2 and ½ million daters on OkCupid if they video chat with a date before meeting them in-person. In 2017 when we first added this question, only 16% of respondents say they want to video chat before meeting. This jumped to over 20% in 2020, and though we expected this to remain a pandemic trend it’s actually increased as restrictions eased and has hovered between 21% and 23% recently. People want to make sure they vibe with someone before spending money and time meeting up with them in person. And those who are looking for a video date first get 15% more Likes and 90% more Matches on OkCupid.

Now that you’ve learned about our 2024 dating trends, it’s time to update your dating profile! People who complete their OkCupid profile get 200% more matches, so what are you waiting for? Download OkCupid today.

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The Scary Signs of Ghosting Just in Time for Halloween

Damona Hoffman, author of F the Fairy Tale, shares tips on how to spot the signs once you’ve matched

One of the most disheartening aspects of modern dating is the prevalence of ghosting — the act of suddenly vanishing from someone’s life without explanation. To help you navigate the unpredictable world of dating and avoid the disappointment of being ghosted, look out for these early warning signs that someone you’ve matched with might be a ghoster in disguise:

1. Past Behavior Predicts Future Actions

You’ve probably heard the saying, “The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.” This adage holds true in the context of dating as well. When assessing someone’s potential to ghost, pay close attention to their past actions. If they openly admit to having ghosted someone before, that’s the number one way to assess the probability of it happening again. This admission, coupled with whether they express regret for their past actions, can provide valuable insights into their future behavior.

2. Confirming Dates: A Sign of Respect

Respecting someone’s time is a fundamental aspect of dating etiquette. Confirming a date demonstrates that you value your date’s time and take the connection seriously. On the flip side, if someone doesn’t believe in confirming a date or only agrees to meet if they’re “feeling it” at the last minute, it may signal a lack of empathy and respect for your time. This casual approach to scheduling can be an early indicator of potential ghosting.

3. Initiating the DTR Conversation

The timing of the “Define the Relationship” (DTR) conversation can provide a window into a person’s attachment style. Those who avoid initiating “the talk” may have a fear of commitment or a preference for keeping their options open. Ghosting tends to be more prevalent among individuals who hesitate to make commitments. Their reluctance to define the relationship can be a warning sign for potential ghosting.

4. Handling Changes in Plans

Ghosting before a first date is a common occurrence. When a connection hasn’t yet progressed to the emotional stage, there may be less incentive to follow through with plans. Getting a sense of how someone manages their schedule and handles last-minute changes or frequent plan switches can help you gauge their level of enthusiasm and commitment to the date and therefore, how much stock you should put into the date happening or the relationship progressing.

5. Direct or Indirect Communication

How someone prefers to conclude a relationship can provide clues about their communication style. A direct approach, where they prefer a clear breakup conversation, suggests transparency and a willingness to address issues head-on. On the other hand, someone who favors gradually ending the connection may struggle with confrontation or may be signaling their intention to ghost. Understanding these communication styles is essential to interpreting their cues correctly, and not wasting your time if they resurface post-ghosting.

6. Introducing Dates to Friends

The act of introducing a date to your friends can offer a glimpse into the person’s level of commitment and accountability. Ghosting is more common when two individuals have no shared social connections. Someone prone to ghosting is unlikely to introduce a date to their social circle, as this would create additional connection points and potential exposure of their prior ghosting behavior.

In the intricate world of online dating, recognizing these early signs can help you make more informed decisions and establish open and honest communication with potential matches. While there are no foolproof methods to avoid being ghosted, being vigilant and reading the signs can enhance your dating experience and minimize the chances of experiencing the disappointment of unexplained disappearances. To help you out, I’ve written four new matching questions for OkCupid that will be helpful indicators of ghosters based on their responses:

• Have you ever ghosted someone after a date?
• Do you confirm your dates in advance?
• How often do you find yourself making last-minute schedule changes?
• When you’re no longer interested in dating someone, how do you usually end it?

And you can also check out OkCupid’s blog post on how questions you may not expect can help you spot ghosters, too.

Remember, communication and mutual respect are key pillars of a healthy future relationship so those are always the two factors that need to be met first before you can build a connection with your next OkCupid match. Happy dating!

Now that you know how to spot a ghost, download OkCupid and find a non-ghoster today!

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How to spot a ghoster

OkCupid data reveals how daters’ answers to matching questions expose their likelihood to ghost

Almost everyone has fallen victim to ghosting — and probably has been a ghoster once or twice themselves. But there are some people who are more likely to do the ghosting than others. And just like with real ghosts, it can often be hard to spot them right at first.

Enter our OkCupid data. We crunched the numbers to find how daters’ responses to various OkCupid questions reveal how likely they are to keep a conversation going versus let it fizzle. In honor of the spooky season, here are a dozen ways to pick out the non-ghosters from the ghosters.

Halloween

• Daters who don’t like dressing up for Halloween are about 8% more likely to carry out a conversation than those who don’t.
• Daters who prefer fruit over sweets are 23% more likely.
• Daters who say they would run in the case of a zombie apocalypse are 6% more likely.
• Daters who like scary movies are about 5% more likely.

Politics

• Daters who identify as conservative versus liberal are 26% more likely.
• Daters who do not prefer their date shares their political views are 12% more likely.

Love

• Daters who could say “I love you” before meeting in person are 21% more likely.
• Daters who don’t believe in sparks are 25% more likely.
• Daters looking for a relationship to last the rest of their lives versus a few months to a year are 11% more likely.
• Daters who are like the idea of falling madly in love are 11% more likely.

Family

• Daters who want multiple children versus no children are 16% more likely.
• Daters who value family over friends are 13% more likely.

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