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Coldplay’s Chris Martin opens up about the time he questioned whether he was gay

Coldplay’s Chris Martin opens up about the time he questioned whether he was gay

Grammy winner Chris Martin, of the band Coldplay, has opened up about questioning his own sexuality, and about the homophobic bullying, he endured in school.

Speaking to Rolling Stone, 42-year-old Martin recalls attending boarding school in his native UK, and feeling a bit homophobic himself.

“When I went to boarding school I walked a bit funny and I bounced a bit and I was also very homophobic because I was like, ‘If I’m gay, I’m completely f*cked for eternity’ and I was a kid discovering sexuality. ‘Maybe I’m gay, maybe I’m this, maybe I’m that, I can’t be this,’” Martin said.

The singer went on to detail his own experiences with bullying when classmates would call him “‘definitely gay’ in quite a full-on manner.” The harassment only added to his own confusion over his sexuality.

Fortunately for Martin, his thinking has progressed beyond that of a bullied 15-year-old. Over time, he began to question his own homophobia and why being gay was so bad in the first place.

“I don’t know what happened, I was like, ‘Yeah, so what?’ and then it all just stopped overnight,” he recalls. “It was very interesting. Once I was like, ‘Yeah, so what if I’m gay.’”

As a result, he also began to question his religious beliefs.

“[It] made me question, ‘Hey, maybe some of this stuff that I’m learning about God and everything — I’m not sure if I subscribe to all of this particular religion,’” he says.

“So for a few years, that was a bit wobbly and then eventually I just was like, ‘OK, I think I have my own relationship with what I think God is and it’s not really any one religion for me.’”

Martin’s admissions come just ahead of the release of Coldplay’s latest album, Everyday Life.

Related: Andrew Garfield French Kisses Chris Martin While Emma Stone Watches

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Judge who said she’s “entitled” to discriminate against gay couples slapped with misconduct warning

Judge who said she’s “entitled” to discriminate against gay couples slapped with misconduct warning

The Texas Commission on Judicial Conduct has slapped a Waco, Texas judge with a warning for refusing to marry same-sex couples despite the 2015 SCOTUS ruling on marriage equality.

The Houston Chronicle reports Justice of the Peace Dianne Hensley will perform marriages for straight couples but has refused to marry same-sex couples citing her “conscience and religion.”

In 2017, Hensley, she told the Waco-Herald that she demanded a “religious exemption” from performing same-sex ceremonies, saying “I’m entitled to accommodations just as much as anyone else.”

She had also proposed to the Commission that she recuse herself from performing same-sex weddings if her refusal to do so would question her impartiality. The Commission refused.

The Commission on Judicial Conduct issued a warning to Hensley on Monday, saying her refusal to perform same-sex marriages cast “doubt on her capacity to act impartially to persons appearing before her as a judge due to the person’s sexual orientation.”

A warning issued by the commission is the second-highest order of discipline the committee can take against a judge. Should Hensely’s refusal to perform same-sex marriages continue, the Commission on Judicial Conduct could impeach her, removing her from her judicial post.

In Texas, judges acting as justices of the peace can collect thousands of dollars in personal income by officiating weddings. Since 2016, a number of them have refused to perform marriages altogether, lest they have to officiate for same-sex couples.

Related: Texas teacher claims he was fired after coming out as gay to his students

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See how this mom responds when her son says he can’t wait to get “wrecked” by a hot 6’4 guy

See how this mom responds when her son says he can’t wait to get “wrecked” by a hot 6’4 guy

A viral TikTok video has been making the rounds on social media. It features a young gay man, probably in his late teens or early 20s, talking to his mom about the super hot guy he’s chatting with online.

The son tells his mom the guy is 6’4 and that he “can’t wait to get my sh*t wrecked” by him.

Without looking up from her iPad, Mom responds, “So you are a bottom?”

(Clearly they’ve had this discussion before.)

When the son insists that no, “I am not a bottom,” his mother looks straight into the camera and, without batting an eye, says, “Bullsh*t.”

She continues, “Have you ever given anything in your life? No. You’re a taker.”

Watch.

MOM OF THE YEAR pic.twitter.com/s2Rp95In4O

— @DCHomos (@DCHomos) November 29, 2019

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Zambia angered by US ambassador’s ‘horror’ at its treatment of gay men

Zambia angered by US ambassador’s ‘horror’ at its treatment of gay men

Daniel Foote, US Ambassador to Zambia
Daniel Foote, US Ambassador to Zambia (Photo: US Department of State)

The government of Zambia has said it intends to write a letter to Washington to complain about the US ambassador meddling in their country’s internal affairs.

The diplomatic spat has come over the country’s treatment of its gay citizens. Last week, the High Court in Zambia sentenced two men to 15 years imprisonment for having gay sex.

Yes, you read that correctly: 15 years.

Zambia offers no legal protections to LGBTQ citizens. It retains Colonial-era laws outlawing gay sex.

Related: Zambia human rights activist acquitted after pro-gay remarks

The men were arrested in 2017. They’d been caught in a room at a lodge they’d booked in Kapiri Mposhi, central Zambia. A female worker at the lodge said she’d seen what the men were doing through an open window. She then called over colleagues to also witness what was going on in the room.

A magistrate’s court found the men guilty of sex “against the order of nature” last year. The men appealed to the High Court.

However, in its ruling last week, that court backed up the magistrate’s court’s verdict, with the judge, Charles Zulu, saying, “The trial court cannot be faulted and there is no basis to review or substitute the conviction and I further find that there were no irregularities by the trial court.”

The sentencing of the men has been met with international condemnation. Among those to criticize the sentence was US ambassador, Daniel Foote. When asked at a press conference last week what he thought of the case, he said he was “horrified.” He implored the country to review the sentencing.

Zambia receives hundreds of millions of dollars in financial aid from the US: No less than $4billion over the last 15 years, much of which goes to helping fight HIV/AIDS.

Asked by reporters if there was a chance the US might cut some of this aid, Foote diplomatically replied: “I want to give the government of Zambia the opportunity to renew and rejuvenate its partnership with the U.S.”

He also took a swipe at the Zambian government, saying the men’s relationship hurt nobody, while at the same time, “government officials can steal millions of public dollars without prosecution.”

In a blistering statement issued yesterday, Foote also said he’d been subjected to hateful comments online since condemning the sentencing last week.

“I was shocked at the venom and hate directed at me and my country, largely in the name of ‘Christian’ values, by a small minority of Zambians. I thought, perhaps incorrectly, that Christianity meant trying to live like our Lord, Jesus Christ.

“I am not qualified to sermonize, but I cannot imagine Jesus would have used bestiality comparisons or referred to his fellow human beings as ‘dogs,’ or ‘worse than animals;’ allusions made repeatedly by your countrymen and women about homosexuals.

“Targeting and marginalizing minorities, especially homosexuals, has been a warning signal of future atrocities by governments in many countries. In my heart, I know that real Zambian values don’t merit your country’s inclusion on that list, ever.”

Now, Zambian government officials have hit back. Associated Press reports Zambia’s foreign affairs minister, Joseph Malanji, as saying his government intends to send a protest letter to Washington over the remarks over the ambassador meddling in Zambia’s internal affairs.

Related: ‘Black Panther’ actor exposed as gay adult film star

In an interview with Sky News yesterday, Zambian President Edgar Lungu also defended the court’s decision, saying Zambian culture prohibited homosexuality. Lungu, a former lawyer, has often spoken out against gay rights in the past.

“If you want to be tying your aid to homosexuality… If that is how you will bring your aid then I am afraid the West can leave us alone in our poverty,” Lungu said.

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