EXCLUSIVE: After Colby Melvin Lost Everything, he Clawed His Way Back to the Top

EXCLUSIVE: After Colby Melvin Lost Everything, he Clawed His Way Back to the Top

IMG_9992

In Part 1, interviewer Matt Baume chatted with Colby Melvin about how he came out, lost his job, and moved across the country to pursue his dreams. Here in Part 2, we’ll take a look at how just how those sexy fun dreams are coming along.

Before he suspected he was gay, Colby Melvin knew that he wasn’t like the other boys. “I don’t really like hunting, and I’m not really crazy about most sports,” he reflected. For years, that difference gnawed at him until he realized the stereotypes didn’t have to define him as a man. “I can be fun and playful and like the things I like, and still be masculine,” he said. “the definition of what masculinity is is changing, and I think the modern man is comfortable being silly … being confident about who you are on the inside.”

0

That’s certainly reflected in his interest in style. A few years ago, he picked up a sewing machine simply because he wanted a hobby. His great grandmother was the head seamstress for department store Montgomery Ward, and taught his mother how to sew. Growing up, he was surrounded by textiles, and he had picked up the basics. The rest he taught himself over the next year, buying whatever fabric and patterns appealed to him.

The result: a bright, sparkly collection of underwear, swimsuits, tank tops, activewear and more. There’s no mistaking his designs, which feature bold shapes, wild neon colors, and animal prints aplenty. His outfits in these photos are all Colby Melvin originals.

0

“I pride myself on being a goofball and having a vibrant personality,” he said, “so I wanted to make clothes that showcase that. I wanted to be adventurous and show personality.”

Last summer, hunched over a sewing machine in his West Hollywood apartment, he created a swimwear collection called Petting Zoo that was inspired by animals. Swimsuits sported cartoon sharks and seahorses, callbacks to everyone’s inner child.

IMG_9931

Becoming a fashion designer was never his plan. “I had no intention of starting a fashion line or doing any of this,” he said, but “there weren’t other brands that were making the things that I wanted, so I was like, ‘okay I’ll make it.’”

At first, he just started wearing his handmade garments out of the house. But people started asking him where he got them, so he offered a few pieces for sale. Demand kept increasing, and he opened an Etsy Store. It sold out within 15 minutes.

0-2

For now, “I am the sweatshop,” he said. But he’s working on scaling up, and plans to open a bigger store early next year. (At the moment, he’s only doing custom designs by special request.

Colby wants to make people feel good in his clothes, “like they’re putting on a superhero costume or a cape. It’s meant to accentuate the awesomeness that’s already within. I want people to feel empowered and confident when they put it on.”

IMG_9964

You can’t miss the parallels between his sartorial goals and his difficult coming-out. Growing up in Mobile, Alabama, being manly required masculine apparel: hunting hear, sports uniforms, baggy one-size-fits-all garments. For a bright, playful kid like Colby, those clothes were an oppressive disguise. Now, finally, he can outfit the world the way he’s always wanted.

In Part 3: Colby’s lived a very public life via social media. But he’s also learned the hard way that some things are best kept secret.

matt baume

feedproxy.google.com/~r/queerty2/~3/KpwAmDGGue0/exclusive-after-colby-melvin-lost-everything-he-clawed-his-way-back-to-the-top-20141227

PHOTOS: Inside The Bizarrely Sexy Phenomenon Of “Boyfriend Twins”

PHOTOS: Inside The Bizarrely Sexy Phenomenon Of “Boyfriend Twins”

We’ve all seen it happen. Two people start dating, and over the course of the relationship, they start to morph into mirror images of each other. It can be funny, sad, hot — it all depends, really.

But did you know there’s a blog that chronicles this phenomenon? The aptly named BoyfriendTwin Tumbler is just chock full of wonders.

Here’s a taste of our favorites:

tumblr_n8ebayme5K1txg5sso1_1280

tumblr_ncmsko2K2P1qhbwg1o1_1280

tumblr_nf5msnJgbC1txg5sso1_1280

tumblr_ne6wc2TBnW1txg5sso1_500

tumblr_ndni4vXGHj1txg5sso1_1280

tumblr_ne6wbrAs3X1txg5sso1_500

tumblr_nf5mtcUNrl1txg5sso1_1280

tumblr_ngth9q8pok1txg5sso1_1280

tumblr_nb4ottSXUf1txg5sso1_1280

tumblr_ngth8wgFN61txg5sso1_1280

tumblr_nb4oxhT1vo1txg5sso1_1280

tumblr_nb4ow23BUh1txg5sso1_1280

tumblr_ndphsyo7qj1txg5sso1_1280

tumblr_nb4ot0VQJr1txg5sso1_1280

tumblr_ndphs3CVNj1txg5sso1_500

Dan Tracer

feedproxy.google.com/~r/queerty2/~3/LZ0YDLFPTrU/photos-inside-the-bizarrely-sexy-phenomenon-of-boyfriend-twins-20141227

Michael Sam Tells Oprah Heartbreaking Childhood Bullying Story (VIDEO)

Michael Sam Tells Oprah Heartbreaking Childhood Bullying Story (VIDEO)
Coming out as a gay athlete takes courage — just ask Michael Sam, the first openly gay player drafted into the NFL. In his first television interview since being cut from the Dallas Cowboys, Sam opens up to Oprah about the painful experiences he endured as a child.

One of eight children, Sam grew up in the small town of Hitchcock, Texas. Of his five brothers, one was killed, and another was declared dead after going missing. Sam says his remaining older brothers were always getting into trouble and known around town as the “damn Sams.”

“They used to abuse me daily,” Sam says in the above video. “Maybe just for fun. Maybe because I was different.”

“They called me a lot of things,” he says. “They called me fag, they called me gay — anything you could think of, just to hurt me.”

Sam threw himself into sports, and in the seventh grade, received his first honors in football, basketball and track. “For the first time in my life, I got a trophy,” he says.

“Validation,” Oprah nods.

“Yes, and my mom was so proud of me and it was the first time any of her kids had achievement that high,” Sam says. “It was most valuable player. And I was so proud of those trophies.”

But his joy quickly was shattered. “My older [brother], he was so jealous and he just broke them in front of me, and it was just the saddest thing,” Sam says. “I couldn’t have anything without them destroying it or taking it from me.”

Oprah’s full interview with Sam airs Saturday, December 27, at 10:30 ET, following the premiere of the exclusive “Michael Sam” documentary at 9 p.m. ET on OWN.

Like Us On Facebook |
Follow Us On Twitter

www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/12/26/michael-sam-oprah-interview-brothers-abuse_n_6382536.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices&ir=Gay+Voices

A Drag Queen's New Year's Wish List: From Serious to Sassy

A Drag Queen's New Year's Wish List: From Serious to Sassy
All good things must come to an end. Thus, 2014, a year of great highs and lows for people all around the world, particularly in the LGBT community, is fading. This time of the year a queen can’t help but be hopeful as they look ahead toward new beginnings. With this in mind, here are five things I would like to see come true for gay, lesbian and transgender people in 2015 from serious to sassy:

Supreme Court Stops Punting

While the benefit of the United States Supreme Court punting on the issue of marriage equality this year essentially raised the number of states where same-sex marriage is legal to 35, it didn’t settle this issue for the many unwed men and women in the remaining 15 states. There is increasing hope that the court will finally deal with the issue head on in the year to come, but that’s not a given. My first wish is that not only the court takes on gay marriage, but that it definitively ends the debate and makes marriage equality legal in all 50 states.

Pat Robertson Gets a Clue

It seems like there’s an almost weekly statement of stupidity coming out of the mouths of Pat Robertson or another member of the religious right desperate for publicity. Whether it’s claims that gays should be murdered, caused the crisis in the Ukraine, or be put on an island to die off, these pseudo-Christians falsely hide behind God’s cloak in an effort to spread hatred and smear the name of Jesus. For 2015, my wish is that these bigots get a clue. However, the chances are slim that the Michele Bachmanns of the world will suddenly wake up one day with compassion and intelligence. Therefore, I hope that in 2015, untold millions of LGBT people across the planet will look beyond the evil of mankind and look to develop their own relationships with a loving God.

No More Violence Against Gays

Not a day goes by when one does not read about violence and hatred perpetrated against gays and lesbians around the world. Particularly disturbing is the horrific brutality that LGBT people in Russia are experiencing, a country whose leader has been desperate to demonstrate his international influence. Many gays report being tricked into false hookups only to endure horrific beatings at the hands of homophobic groups, while the nation toughens its laws against gays and seemingly approves of anti-gay aggression. Russia is sadly not alone, however. Across the continent of Africa, many governments are masking their anti-gay bigotry in laws that allow for gays and lesbians to be murdered simply for existing. In 2015, I wish that no matter which country a person lives in they are granted the freedom to be who they are and to love who they must.

Transgender Lives Matter

No group knows the high level of danger involved in simply walking down any street in America better than transgender people. The depth of violence perpetrated against this group of individuals will probably never be fully known, as many attacks go unreported. However, a quick glance of the headlines demonstrates that there have been numerous killings and brutal attacks against transgender people this year right here in the United States, not to mention all over the world. Perpetrators of these crimes often receive little punishment and many cases somehow run cold, even with compelling evidence. As a drag queen, I play with gender roles and this has led me to develop a great respect for my transgender brothers and sisters who are not playing at anything, but are simply being who they were born to be. Therefore, my New Year’s wish for transgender people everywhere is that the rest of us recognize transgender lives matter as much as our own, and that the gay and lesbian community stands up for the rights of our brethren.

Nick Jonas and James Franco Sex Scene

What would a wish list be without one selfish fantasy? Nick Jonas and James Franco have played us gays like fine-tuned fiddles this past year. A flash of butt cheeks on stage, hot photo spreads in magazines, even their Instagram pics have left us drooling and lining up to see or buy anything they promote. My final wish for the new year is that these two hotties stop teasing us already and throw down for a full on sex scene… together. I can tell you with great authority that we won’t care anything about the plot, the scenery, the music, the artistry or under what pretext it takes place. However, a very happy New Year would bring us visions of Nick and James naked and entwined… I think we’ve earned it!

www.huffingtonpost.com/jeza-belle/a-drag-queens-new-years-wishlist_b_6381958.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices&ir=Gay+Voices

LGBT BLOG




You must be 18 years old or older to chat