Iowa Couple Wins Lawsuit Against Wedding Venue That Discriminated Against Them

Iowa Couple Wins Lawsuit Against Wedding Venue That Discriminated Against Them

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Iowa man Lee Stafford and his fiancé, Jared, who were turned away from a Grimes, Iowa wedding venue because they’re gay reached a settlement two years after Stafford levied a lawsuit at the venue for discrimination reports KCCI News. The incident occurred two years ago when the couple approached Betty Odgaard and her husband, the owners of Gortz Haus where the couple hoped to wed, to host their wedding there. The Mennonite couple refused them citing that the marriage conflicted with their personal religious beliefs. Stafford then pursued the case with the Iowa Civl Rights Commission. Tom Conley with the Iowa Civil Rights Commission affirmed that Iowa law states that commercial enterprises cannot discriminate against patrons. 

Screen Shot 2015-02-03 at 11.22.28 AMThe settlement included paying $2,500 to both Lee and Jared along with an agreement from the owners of Gortz Haus to not discriminate in the future. However, the owners of Gortz Haus have since closed the venue to all couples and no longer offer weddings or receptions for straight or gay couples. The Haus couple states weddings were a large part of their business but Gortz Haus still offers other services. The Odgaard’s still say they stand by their convictions and faith after the results of the settlement. 


Anthony Costello

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Born This Way Foundation: Reaching Young People Directly

Born This Way Foundation: Reaching Young People Directly
There has been growing attention lately, from politicians and the media, on charities founded by celebrities that spend more time talking about doing good works than actually doing them. Born This Way Foundation is not one of these.

The foundation has one mission: to make the world a kinder and braver place. It is a simple goal but not an easy task. When Lady Gaga and her mom, Cynthia Germanotta, founded the organization, they did so in the belief that the only way to fulfill this mission was by reaching young people — by understanding what they need to become healthy individuals as well as empowered members of their communities. That’s why Born This Way Foundation has worked to connect, engage, and inspire young people — on the road, in their communities, and online.

As their public filings demonstrate, Cynthia, as president of the organization, draws no salary from Born This Way Foundation. It spends its resources directly on reaching young people, to the tune of over $3 million.

First, there was the Born Brave Bus Tour. Partnering with more than 30 local and national organizations including the National Association of School Psychologists (NASP); the Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network (GLSEN); Active Minds; and Youth Service America, the bus tour provided key infrastructure to connect coalition groups with young people. The bus tour, which attracted over 150,000 participants between 2013 and 2014, was a place where young people could connect with one another as well as learn about important mental- and emotional-health resources in their communities and across the United States. It was a place where they could equip and empower themselves to tackle whatever problems they may be facing and be inspired to be kind and brave ambassadors in their communities.

By meeting young people where they were, the bus tour revealed a major gap in the way we approach ensuring the well-being of our young people. Academic research examines how to improve the mental and social conditions of adolescents, but what is often ignored is the translation of the research into the most effective ways to deliver such services. Traditional mental-health delivery methods that we think are appropriate, like telephone hotlines and self-help books, may not actually be useful or effective for young people. Born This Way Foundation is committed to listening to young people themselves and connecting them with the resources they prefer to use.

Second, to reach young people where they are, the foundation partnered with the University of Nebraska-Lincoln, the National Council for Behavioral Health, and the National Association of School Psychologists to collect data from more than 2,500 young people, via both the bus tour and online, on their views of mental-health services and delivery methods. This information formed the basis of two academic papers (presented at the American Psychological Association’s annual conference in August 2014) exploring the gap between the services that are available and the services young people actually want and are willing to use.

Though valuable, this research can only get us so far. So third, Born This Way Foundation, with input from the diverse teens who make up its Youth Advisory Board, has begun to implement these findings into real resources that young people find accessible and effective. Through its website and social media, they are connecting youth with resources both in their communities and online that young people find valuable and easy to use — meeting them where they are instead of forcing outdated and unused service delivery methods on them.

As detailed in the recently released report “Past & Present: A Report on Impact and Our Strategic Vision for the Future,” Born This Way Foundation is gearing up to tackle these issues with a renewed focus on social and emotional learning and mental wellness. Increasingly, academics, educators, parents, and providers understand that young people’s overall well-being is intricately connected to their ability to cope and thrive socially and emotionally. Over the next year Born This Way Foundation will continue to offer innovative approaches that promote these skills and provide young people with support where, when, and how they need it.

There are barriers here that must be overcome. For instance, many states’ youth mental-health policies limit online or text-messaging help. Thus, advocating for more-efficient service delivery methods (i.e., telehealth, text lines, and online support) across the world must be the next frontier for any organization hoping to truly impact the social and emotional well-being of our youth.

No one action by any one organization or person will make the world kinder or braver. But Born This Way Foundation is determined to work with young people to start making a difference, where and when they need it.

Susan Swearer, Ph.D., is currently the chair of Born This Way Foundation’s Research Advisory Board. She has been a high-school special-education teacher for students with emotional and behavioral disorders and has worked as a licensed professional counselor with children, adolescents, and families in residential treatment, inpatient, and outpatient settings. She is a professor of psychology at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln (UNL) and a licensed psychologist in the state of Nebraska, where she was the director of the Nebraska Internship Consortium in Professional Psychology for seven years. She is currently a supervising psychologist in the Counseling and School Psychology Clinic at UNL and the founder of the Empowerment Initiative.

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Watch Rob Gronkowski Read Even More Erotic Fiction About Himself

Watch Rob Gronkowski Read Even More Erotic Fiction About Himself

Screen Shot 2015-02-03 at 12.40.03 PM“At the end of a row of lockers, I turn a corner and there he is. It’s a giant of a man, a warrior. His muscles ripple in soft light and a splash of water coming from the shower head,” reads New England Patriots’ tight end Rob Gronkowski from the erotic fan fiction story about himself called A Gronking To Remember.

We got a sneak peek at the meta-reading last week at the Super Bowl Media Day, but now he’s back to finish what he started.

“His buttocks are sublime,” continues Rob. “Gronk has a 6-pack you could wash laundry on. I lick my lips thinking about it.”

They might want to fins someone besides Rob to do the book on tape, however. He’s a bit flat. Good thing that whole football thing seems to be working out for him.

Watch below:

Dan Tracer

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Go On A Romantic and Sweet Gay First Date With Music Video 'The Thing I Didn't Know' – WATCH

Go On A Romantic and Sweet Gay First Date With Music Video 'The Thing I Didn't Know' – WATCH

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To promote his new book, The Thing I Didn’t Know, author Brent Hartinger had a novel idea to build interest in his latest work: create a song and music video inspired by the book. With the help of musician Brett Avery and filmmaker Jeremy Ward, Hartinger set off on his journey.

Towleroad readers may recall Hartinger’s previous effort, The Geography Club, which was adapted into a feature film. The Thing I Didn’t Know continues to follow that book’s protagonist Russel Middlebrook as he matures into adulthood:

“Russel Middlebrook is twenty-three years old, gay, and living in trendy Seattle, but life isn’t keeping up with the hype. Most of his friends have a direction in life—either ruthlessly pursuing their careers or passionately embracing their own aimlessness. But Russel is stuck in place. All he knows is that crappy jobs, horrible dates, and pointless hook-ups just aren’t cutting it anymore.”

When turned into a song and music video, the end result is romantic and endearing. The video stars Hans Iverson as Russel and Randall Brammer as his beau, Felicks.

Catch a case of the awws, AFTER THE JUMP…

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Sean Mandell

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Same-Gender Marriage Enters the Twilight Zone

Same-Gender Marriage Enters the Twilight Zone
I’ve asked Rod Serling, creator of the 1960’s television series “The Twilight Zone,” to write this column.

Serling: ” Your traveling through another dimension, a dimension not only of sight and sound but of mind. A journey into wondrous lands whose boundaries are that of imagination. There’s a signpost up ahead. Your next stop, the Twilight Zone.”

Serling: “Imagine if you will, you’ve been transported to the future. It is the 50th anniversary commemorating the legalization of same-gender marriage in all 50 states. We look in on a high school history class discussing this significant milestone. The teacher just asked the class to discuss some of the arguments opposing same-gender marriage.”

Student 1: Opposition to same-gender marriage was based on religion that teaches homosexuality was sinful.

Teacher: “That was indeed a powerful argument for some, but it was ultimately proven to be a non-sequitur. Marriage in the eyes of government is not a religious enterprise. No one in America is officially married until that union is filed with state and local government. Churches have always enjoyed the constitutionally protected right to decide the unions they wish to officiate, but they could not claim marriage was a wholly owned subsidiary of the church.”

Student 2: “But biblical marriage is defined as one man and one woman.”

Teacher: “That’s true until one gets to Genesis chapter 4.”

Student 3: “There was also the procreation argument.”

Teacher: “Doesn’t that assume all couples marry to procreate? Countless numbers of heterosexual couples marry for reasons other than procreation. Moreover, the Supreme Court case of Griswold v. Connecticut (1965) put an end to any notions that marriage in the United States was based on procreation.”

Student 4: “Some were concerned about the backlash of reverse discrimination. Some Christian organizations were allegedly forced out of business because they maintained their biblical-based beliefs.”

Teacher: “Because one proclaims to be a Christian organization, it does not grant them immunity to discriminate if they are involved in commerce. This was the basis for the Civil Rights Act of 1964.”

Student 5: There was the concern that same-gender unions were redefining marriage.

Teacher: “Perhaps a better way to state that would be same-gender marriage would be redefining an institution that has been redefining itself since its inception. If one assumes love to be part of the 21st century standards for marriage that alone moves one away from biblical understanding. For thousands of years marriage was based more on property and passing along inheritance than love. It was not an institution designed for the socially inconsequential. In fact, marriage for individuals without property or a name to pass on has only been around for several hundred years.”

Student 6: “There was the argument that individual states should decide.

Teacher: That was in my view is the most palatable, pragmatic, and unconstitutional argument put forth. That argument finds its basis in the 10th Amendment that states:

‘The powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the States, are reserved to the States respectively, or to the people’.

But Section One of the 14th Amendment reads:

‘All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the state wherein they reside. No state shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any state deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.’

The existence of the 14th Amendment weakens the 10th Amendment. States rights do not include violating the equal protection clause. In the case of same-gender marriage, no state could tax gays and lesbians, while denying them services that heterosexual enjoy. Civil marriage, which was the issue, is supported by the tax dollars of all. Moreover, isn’t ‘all’ the first word in the 14th Amendment?”

Student 7: “Why didn’t they just read the 14th Amendment? The issue could have been solved quickly, perhaps decades earlier.

Teacher: That’s a great question for which I have no response.

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