Even Science Says Women Should Be Tweeting About Sexism

Even Science Says Women Should Be Tweeting About Sexism
“Shorter #OscarNoms: White men FTW,” I tweeted the morning the Oscar nominations were announced. I watched my phone buzz as women (and men) retweeted and responded to my tweet with solidarity — and of course, the requisite bit of hate from trolls. Overall, it felt like a very small victory to join a conversation about the lack of diversity in the entertainment industry and to have my voice heard and affirmed by others.

According to a new study published in the British Journal Of Social Psychology, tweets like mine — that is, ones that address issues of inequality on a very public Internet stage — may actually be good for the well-being of the women doing the tweeting.

Dr. Mindi Foster of Wilfrid Laurier University in Canada led the research, which looked at the ways female undergraduate students felt after tweeting about issues of sexism. According to ScienceDaily, Dr. Foster split the 93 students surveyed into three groups: one that tweeted publicly for three days, one that tweeted privately and one that did not tweet at all. All participants were given information each day about current sexism in politics and the media, and took surveys meant to assess their mood and overall well-being.

The study’s results suggested that tweeting publicly about these sort of issues could improve the way women feel, specifically making them see themselves as a part of a collective action. As Mic’s Liz Plank summed it up on “Krystal Clear,”: “Tweeting doesn’t just give you an outlet to express yourself, it also makes women feel less helpless in the face of inequality.”

Social media platforms like Twitter have become a hotbed of feminist activity over the last five years. Given the democratic nature of Twitter — anyone can join and gain followers — it has given voices to those who mainstream media might have traditionally ignored. That’s why feminist, racial and LGBTQ activism has found its way to the platform.

In turn, the conversations that happen on Twitter, whether they are about why victims of abuse stay with their abusers (#WhyIStayed), the perfect sexual assault victim myth (#TheresNoPerfectVictim), police brutality against people of color (#BlackLivesMatter), or the casual sexism women experience every day (#QuestionsForMen) become mainstream news on publications like BuzzFeed, The Guardian, New York Times and, yes, The Huffington Post.

But even as a platform that seems tailor-made for these sort of dialogues, Twitter has its issues. Women are consistently subjected to harassment and abuse, especially when expressing their thoughts about issues of gender equality. “I’m a writer and a woman and a feminist, and I write about big, fat, bitchy things that make people uncomfortable. And because I choose to do that as a career, I’m told, a constant barrage of abuse is just part of my job,” wrote Lindy West for The Guardian. (See Mic’s video of feminists reading mean tweets to get a small taste of the sort of messages vocal women receive on a daily basis.)

But even an exhausting and constant deluge of horrible comments has done little to silence the women (and men) who give a sh*t about calling out injustice. And it seems that Twitter’s higher ups are finally starting to listen. On Feb. 4, Twitter CEO Dick Costelo sent an internal memo to his employees taking personal responsibility for the platform’s failure to protect its users from trolling. “We suck at dealing with abuse and trolls on the platform and we’ve sucked at it for years,” he wrote, promising to take steps to truly tackle the issue. If and when platforms like Twitter become safer spaces, their power to promote positive change will become even greater.

If tweeting about the inequality that exists in the world makes us feel a part of something greater than ourselves, and creates a space where our voices can be heard and amplified, then that in and of itself is extremely powerful. The feminists of the 1960s and ’70s had consciousness-raising groups, and young feminists of the ’90s had zines and the Riot Grrrl movement. We have Twitter, Instagram, Facebook and Tumblr.

Obviously activism can’t live and die online, but it can be born and nurtured there. #Preach #Listen #Act

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Jack Falahee, TV’s Sexiest Gay Law Student, Pulls A Sean Hayes on His Own Orientation

Jack Falahee, TV’s Sexiest Gay Law Student, Pulls A Sean Hayes on His Own Orientation

jack-falahee-750x563What’s always the first clue that an up-and-coming TV star might be gay?

A) They submit to a splashy feature story in Out magazine, complete with a sexy layout,

and/or

B) They decline to discuss whether they’re gay or straight.

Sure, there have been plenty of Out stories that feature straight folks that are gay allies, but aren’t nine out of ten straight actors who make it big playing gay characters, when asked about their orientation, quick to admit that they’re not gay? (Case in point: We all knew from the beginning that Will & Grace‘s Eric McCormack was straight, but Sean Hayes remained tight-lipped about it for over a decade, annoying many of his fans — some of whom never forgave him.)

Jack Falahee, who plays sexy gay law student Connor Walsh on the hit show How to Get Away with Murder, has made quite a splash on the series, appearing in some oft-discussed, highly graphic man-on-man sex scenes (the sort that Billy Crystal doesn’t want to see too much of). As fans of the show, we love how comfortable his character is with his sexuality and how said sexuality is handled by the other characters — either as a non-issue or with a big thumbs up (when he seduces a sexy bad guy as a way of getting information).

Falahee, however, is evidently less comfortable. When asked straight-out by Out whether he’s gay or straight, his answer is slick:

I don’t think answering who I’m sleeping with accomplishes anything other than quenching the thirst of curiosity. And moreover, it seems reductive. It’s been really interesting to be in the middle of the industry’s fascination with the individual, because I never thought about that growing up or when I was at acting school. No matter how I answer, someone will say, “No, that’s not true.”

We get it: It’s your first big break as an actor and you’re afraid that coming out at this stage might fuck it up. But we also think the truth is more than likely revealed by your reluctance to discuss it.

And finding out this way saddens us.

This is not meant to be a condemnation of Falahee. In fact, we love him. We’re just think the Sean Hayes response is so two decades ago.

Later in the article, he says, “I really hope that — if not in my lifetime, my children’s lifetime — this won’t be a question, that we won’t need this.” Which is certainly a nice sentiment. But rather than wishing the question didn’t exist, we’d prefer it if the answer simply didn’t matter. Which it clearly does to Falahee.

But we’re getting there. Slowly.

Winston Gieseke

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Focus On The Family Throws Its Support Behind Judge Roy Moore's Unlawful Crusade Against Gay Marriage: VIDEO

Focus On The Family Throws Its Support Behind Judge Roy Moore's Unlawful Crusade Against Gay Marriage: VIDEO

Judge Roy Moore

Birds of a feather…

Since announcing his pledge to fight the “tyrannical” judicial ruling on gay marriage in Alabama, Chief Justice Roy Moore was quick to receive support from everyone’s favorite anti-gay hate group, the National Organization for Marriage. Citizen Link, a public policy partner of Focus on the Family, has thrown its hat into the ring as well and posted a charming video to YouTube highlighting the organization’s very elementary understanding of constitutional law and using it to justify states’ rights over the United States Constitution. 

It’s twee and misinformed and you can watch it AFTER THE JUMP…


Christian Walters

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The Complete Roster Of 2015 Grammy Performers

The Complete Roster Of 2015 Grammy Performers
Just about everyone on the planet with musical talent will perform at the Grammys on Sunday. Here’s a rundown those scheduled to appear. This post will be updated as more names are added.

Katy Perry
She’s only one week out from her Super Bowl halftime show, but Perry will take over the Grammys stage to sing “By the Grace of God,” off her nominated album, “Prism.” She’s up for two awards, Best Pop Duo/ Group Performance for “Dark Horse” and Best Pop Vocal Album. Left Shark is not scheduled to appear.

Rihanna, Paul McCartney and Kanye West
They’ll perform “FourFiveSeconds,” their collaborative track due out on Rihanna’s new album sometime this year. Rihanna’s up for Best Rap/ Sung Collaboration for “The Monster” with Eminem. West is also set to “deliver a never-before-seen solo performance” during the show. That will be cool.

Chris Martin and Beck
Coldplay’s front man will team up with Beck to perform something from “Morning Phase,” which is nominated for Album of the Year and Best Rock Album. Beck’s “Blue Moon” is nominated for Best Rock Performance and Best Rock Song. Coldplay is also up for three categories: Best Pop Duo/ Group Performance for “A Sky Full of Stars,” Best Pop Vocal Album for “Ghost Stories” and Best Music Film for “Ghost Stories.”

Lang Lang
Pianist Lang Lang is set to “add his musicality to one of the year’s most infectious songs.” At last year’s ceremony, he accompanied Metallica to play “One,” so he could join anyone from AC/DC to Ariana Grande.

Herbie Hancock, John Mayer, Questlove and Ed Sheeran
Who knows what this supergroup will perform on Sunday? But Sheeran’s the only nominee of the bunch. “X” is up for Best Pop Vocal Album and Album of the Year, while “I See Fire” is nominated for Best Song Written for Visual Media.

Brandy Clark and Dwight Yoakam
Newcomer Brandy Clark has become a country darling this year and her debut album, “12 Stories,” is nominated for Best Country Album. She’s up for Best New Artist as well. By pairing her with veteran star Dwight Yoakam, the Grammys are setting her up for country superstardom.

Mary J. Blige and Sam Smith
The two will perform a duet and are rumored to sing “Stay With Me,” Smith’s smash hit nominated for Record of the Year, Best Pop Solo Performance and Song of the Year. Smith’s expected to have a breakout night, since he’s also up for Best New Artist, Album of the Year and Best Pop Vocal Album for “In The Lonely Hour.” Blige is also up for Best Dance Recording for “F For You” with Disclosure.

Juanes
Everybody loves Juanes, right?! He’s going to perform a new song called “Juntos,” made for the Disney movie “McFarland, USA.” Juanes is also up for Best Latin Pop Album for “Loco De Amor (Crazy About Love).”

Sia
Sia confirmed that she would perform at this year’s Grammys — her first time doing so — during an appearance on “The Ellen DeGeneres Show.” Based on her elusive sets on “Saturday Night Live,” “Late Night with Seth Meyers,” and even “Ellen,” she’s expected to be one of the most interesting shows of the night. Sia’s nominated for Record of the Year, Song of the Year, Best Pop Solo Performance and Best Music Video for “Chandelier.”

AC/DC
AC/DC is set to take the stage, but is not expected to perform with drummer, Phil Rudd, who was recently charged with “threatening to kill.” Rolling Stone reports that former AC/DC drummer Chris Slade may play with the group instead.

Tony Bennett and Lady Gaga
The year’s most unexpected duo will bring their schtick to the Grammys stage and will reportedly sing the title track from their album of duets, “Cheek to Cheek,” which is nominated for Best Traditional Pop Vocal Album.

Eric Church
Country star Eric Church is up for six awards, including Best Country Song and Best Country Album. He’s gonna play some sweet country music.

Common, John Legend and (maybe) Beyoncé
Common and John Legend will sing their Oscar-nominated song “Glory” from “Selma,” and in an interview with Us Weekly, Common spilled the beans that Beyoncé will join them. “A segue into our song ‘Glory,’ as a tribute to ‘Selma,’ being done by the great Beyoncé,” he told the magazine. “That’s one of the greatest talents you can have, helping us segue into it.”

Ariana Grande
Ariana Grande’s second studio album, “My Everything,” is up for Best Pop Vocal Album. She’s slated to perform, but it’s unclear which of her bangers she’ll sing.

Pharrell Williams
He will not sing “Happy” and that’s all that matters.

Hozier and Annie Lennox
First-time nominee Hozier’s smash single “Take Me To Church” is up for Song of the Year, and he’ll take the stage with Grammy veteran Annie Lennox, whose album “Nostalgia” is up for Best Traditional Pop Vocal Album.

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Jessie J and Tom Jones
Jessie J’s “Bang Bang,” featuring Ariana Grande and Nicki Minaj, was practically forced into your brain this year, and — shocker! — it’s up for a Grammy for Best Pop Duo/ Group Performance. The music industry is still trying to make Jessie J a thing, so she’ll sing with legend Tom Jones. (They performed together back when Jessie J was a coach on “The Voice U.K.”)

Miranda Lambert
Country queen Miranda Lambert is nominated for four awards, including Best Country Song and Best Country Album, and she’ll take the stage to show, once again, that she’s cooler than husband Blake Shelton.

Adam Levine and Gwen Stefani
“The Voice” judges will team up. Should be fun.

Usher
Usher will perform! He probably won’t sing “Climax”! Bummer!

Madonna
This will be her fifth Grammy performance, and there’s no doubt that she’ll promote her new album “Rebel Heart,” due out March 6.

Check out the full list of Grammy nominees.

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Madonna Kicks Everyone’s Ass In Her New Music Video

Madonna Kicks Everyone’s Ass In Her New Music Video

OK, we take back every negative thing we’ve ever said about Madonna in recent years.

We’ll admit, we were underwhelmed by her last two albums. Neither felt very inspired or innovative for the woman who was supposed to be the reigning Queen of Pop.

But the music monarch just released her latest music video to the song “Living For Love” and one thing is very, very clear: The queen is back. With a vengeance. And, no, she doesn’t need anyone’s help in reclaiming her throne.

Unlike the lead singles off her last two albums (“Four Minutes” featuring Justin Timberlake, and “Gimme All Your Luvin’” featuring Nicki Minaj and MIA), “Living For Love” features just Madonna doing what she does best: kicking ass and taking names. Literally.

Our Lady M harkens back to her days as a Spanish matador, dressed in a scarlet red bullfighting uniform and beating the shit out of her hot male dancers wearing Maleficent-inspired horns on their heads.

Seriously, there’s nothing we don’t love about this video. The music. The lyrics. The dancing. The costumes. It’s pure pop perfection.

Check out the fierceness below. And get ready, boys, because we have a feeling this is only the beginning of a long-awaited Madonna renaissance.

Related stories:

A Look Back At Madonna’s Greatest Live TV Performances

Something To Remember: The 12 Most Underrated Madonna Songs Of All Time

Happy Birthday, Madonna! 56 Reasons Why We Love The Queen Of Pop In GIFs

Graham Gremore

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