22 Halloween Costumes For Grownups Who Are Big Kids At Heart

22 Halloween Costumes For Grownups Who Are Big Kids At Heart

Hey, just because you’re an adult doesn’t mean you have to grow up! 

Seriously, let’s face it — though many of us are attempting to adult, we all know that we’re really just big kids at heart. So why not show off your fun and kooky side this Halloween with some costumes inspired by kids’ shows, movies and books?

From “The Powerpuff Girls,” to Darla from “Finding Nemo,” these getups will make you feel like a kid all over again — without the pain of braces or awkward school pictures. 

Check out the costumes below! 

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Open Question: Why are LGBT people so sensitive?

Open Question: Why are LGBT people so sensitive?
Lol they call me a homophobic just because I told them to stop complaining about their lives. I think it makes me laugh when they say people in other countries around the world are discriminating against LGBT people daily I think that is true but so are other groups of people being persecuted even killed around the world. Lol being a LGBT is not that bad it doesn’t give you some disadvantage in life they can still have a successful life and make good friends. . I also find it hilarious when they think I would hit on a lesbian or bisexual women. I don’t care about gay women dumbasses. I don’t take the time to look at a gay woman when she is walking by in real life. What I am trying to say is people who have genetic disabilities are usually more discriminated against than gay people are. The news doesn’t bother to say people with genetic disabilities are being persecuted the most because the public could care less about people with genetic disorders.

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Married Congressional Aide Attacks Male Lover With Shovel In Front Of Wife

Married Congressional Aide Attacks Male Lover With Shovel In Front Of Wife

craftsman-shovel-xlAn aide for Democratic Rep. Sander Levin of Michigan was arrested after allegedly choking his male lover, threatening to stab him with a knife and then whacking him with a shovel, authorities said.

Related: Straight Man Seeks Advice After Sleeping With His Married Boss

Tim Foster is, er, was the online communications director for Rep. Levin. That is, until last Thursday when he allegedly got into a heated verbal altercation with a man who identified himself as Foster’s boyfriend.

Roll Call reports the argument occurred at around 12:30 a.m. on October 8 in Baltimore. It’s unclear what sparked the blowup, but, according to police, Foster allegedly put the other man in a chokehold then yelled, “I want to kill you! Die dirty faggy!”

The boyfriend managed to break free. That’s when Foster grabbed a stainless steel kitchen knife and began waving it around in the air, threatening to stab him.

Related: “Straight” Married Man Feels Guilty After Messing Around With Another Guy

Things took an even more dramatic turn moments later when Foster’s wife — that’s right, he’s married to a woman — jumped between the two men in an effort to break up the fight. Foster dropped the knife then grabbed a shovel, hitting his boyfriend in the back as he fled for the safety of his car.

The boyfriend managed to escape and immediately drove to a nearby hospital where he was treated for abrasions and bruises on his upper back, neck and torso, police said.

Rep. Levin’s office says the issue is “a completely private matter” and it would not be commenting other than to say Foster has since been placed on unpaid leave.

A trial is scheduled for November 10.

Related: STUDY: At Least 5% Of American Men Are Gay, Millions Closeted, Many Married To Women

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Gay Adult Film Star Blue Blake Has Died

Gay Adult Film Star Blue Blake Has Died

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Gay adult film actor Blue Blake has died in London at 52. The cause of death is not yet known. Blake, née Glenn Marsh, was also a producer and director of gay adult films, who eventually started his own adult film company. He was inducted into the GayVN Hall of Fame in 2005.

SouthFloridaGayNews.com reports:

Blake, who reportedly died in London, performed in several gay porn scenes between 1993 and 2003 before taking a more active role behind the scenes, according to the website. Blake, whose real name is Glenn Marsh, ran his own studio, Big Blue Productions, and in 2008 published an autobiography “Out of the Blue; Confessions of an Unlikely Porn Star.” […]

Blake was a former Royal Marine (the U.K.’s amphibious light infantry force) and hailed from Nottingham, England, according to Al’s Gay Porn Stars directory, which also notes he studied at the London Academy of Music and Dramatic Arts and appeared on stage in the U.K.

Below, watch an interview with Blake from 2009:

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Walmart Sued By Transgender Woman Who Says She Was Harassed And Then Fired

Walmart Sued By Transgender Woman Who Says She Was Harassed And Then Fired

Walmart and one of its managers in a New Jersey store have been hit with a lawsuit alleging that a transgender employee was harassed and then fired over her gender identity.

Samantha Azzarano began working at Walmart store in Deptford, New Jersey as a service associate in September of 2012. In January of the next year, she informed a manager that she is transgender. Later that year, she began outwardly expressing her gender identity and had her name badge changed to Samantha. The lawsuit says that there were no problems with her coworkers or performance.

That is, until another manager, Sheena Wyckoff, joined Azzarano’s team in January of 2014. “That’s when the trouble began,” Azzarano’s lawyer, Kevin M. Costello, told ThinkProgress.

According to the complaint, Wyckoff referred to Azzarano as “Samantha, Robert [her birth name]…he/she…whatever,” “that fucking tranny,” and told Azzarano that “we are always walking on eggshells for you.” The use of the slur tranny is particularly troubling to Costello. “If we were at all uncertain about some of Ms. Wyckoff’s very obvious discriminatory remarks before that…this kind of put the nail in the coffin,” he said. “The word ‘tranny’ is not a word that acceptable to use to describe a trans person. It’s as unacceptable as a racial epithet to describe a black person.”

The complaint also alleges that Wyckoff directed an inordinate amount of criticism at Azzarano, raised her voice and yelled at her, and eventually started writing Azzarano up and coaching her on her performance, none of which was done to other workers who weren’t transgender.

“Clearly she had a problem with Samantha being Samantha,” Costello said.

The incidents culminated in Wyckoff firing Azzarano in June of 2014. Walmart did not respond to a request for comment on the lawsuit.

Azzarano told her legal team that she wanted to bring the lawsuit on behalf of herself, given that the law protects her from discrimination, and any other transgender people at Walmart who may have experienced similar abuse. The lawsuit seeks to stop any ongoing abuse of transgender people at Walmart and the reinstatement of Azzarano’s job plus backpay.

She’s right that she should be protected from workplace discrimination as a transgender woman. Thanks to a provision in New Jersey’s Law Against Discrimination that stipulates protections based on gender identity and expression, hers is one of just 19 states and Washington D.C. where transgender people are explicitly covered by anti-discrimination laws. Federal law doesn’t enumerate protections for gender identity in the workplace, although the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission has ruled that it violates Title VII of the Civil Rights Act, which bans sex-based discrimination.

The landscape would be clearer and more uniform, however, with an explicit ban. The Equality Act, a bill introduced in Congress this summer, would explicitly ban employment discrimination against all LGBT people. Among surveyed transgender people, 90 percent say they have experienced harassment or mistreatment at work or had to take actions to avoid it, while about half have been fired, not hired, or denied a promotion because of their gender identity. They also experience an unemployment rate double that of the general population.

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This Underwear Company Wants To Change Our Idea Of The 'Perfect' Male Body

This Underwear Company Wants To Change Our Idea Of The 'Perfect' Male Body

A European clothing company is pledging to no longer be a brand “just for the perfect man” and instead to become a clothing line for all types of guys.

Dressmann, based in Norway, rolled out a campaign in September called #JustTheWayYouAre to highlight different body types and “broaden the picture of what a perfect body can look like,” according to promotional materials.

“We want to overcome limiting beliefs that some bodies are better, more beautiful or more normal than others,” Knut Vidar Nilsen, marketing director at Dressmann, said in a statement. “Simply, we want to show that there is no perfect man, there are only perfect men.”

Dressmann started that effort with a new ad featuring several different men, including older guys, a skinny dude and a hairier and larger man in addition to the typical muscular male model. 

“It’s about being confident in who you are, not what the fashion industry tells us is the perfect man,” Jens Bonesmo, Dressmann’s brand director, told The Huffington Post.

Watch the Dressmann ad, “Underwear for perfect men:”

 

 

The fashion chain said in a behind-the-scenes video that it was “lost” in fashion industry standards but wants to “get back to reality.” So far, it looks like it’s working: sales went up 30 percent in September compared to the same month a year earlier, a spokesman said.

One-third of guys have negative feelings about their body, according to a survey of 2,068 men in Norway and Sweden that TNS Sifo conducted with Dressmann over the summer and shared with HuffPost. The survey also showed more men are worried about their physical appearance than their financial circumstances or social life. 

A majority blame advertising for fueling that anxiety, rather than TV, films or celebrities. 

The TNS Sifo/Dressmann survey results reinforce previous findings from Britain and the United States that show a majority of men have their own body image problems. It’s not just guys feeling fat — there are plenty of men who are self-conscious because they feel too skinny, which the campaign also seeks to address.

Even guys who many think are in great shape can feel bad about their body.

Jamie Dornan, a former Calvin Klein underwear model and star of “50 Shades Of Grey” said earlier this year he “always felt skinny and small” and still gets down about his appearance today. “Now I have the same insecurities as when I was a kid,” he told the Irish Independent.

Matt McGorry recently told Yahoo! about going from being a bodybuilder to an actor and still feeling nervous about going shirtless on screen. After his shirtless scene came out, he imagined people would think he looked imperfect, but he never actually encountered a negative reaction.

“It’s funny because from one perspective you could say, ‘Oh, he’s letting himself go,’ but from another perspective, I just don’t need that validation I once did,” said McGorry, who stars in “Orange Is The New Black.” “I still love working out, and I think it’s good for my health, and I feel good doing it. I haven’t gone more than two weeks without working out in years. But I think with mental health, allowing myself to be who I am naturally in terms of my body, I think that’s sort of practicing more self-love that way.”

Older men, too, can feel left out. An increasing number of aging males have opted to use plastic surgery in recent years to look younger, according to the AARP.

Well played #dressmann. #justthewayyouare .. Are you taking notes @gant1949? pic.twitter.com/bscHbY2caw

— Under New Management (@unmgmt) September 7, 2015

Which is one of Dressmann’s points — that it’s not just young guys who feel tubby. Fifty-six percent of men in the TNS Sifo/Dressmann survey said they strongly believed advertising should better reflect different body types and ethnicities, as well as ages. 

“We have focused this campaign to be about all kinds of men,” Bonesmo said. “And as a brand for all men, I think it was about time that someone said, relax and be perfect, just the way you are.”

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Tyler Kingkade is a senior editor and reporter for HuffPost in New York. You can contact him at [email protected], or on Twitter: @tylerkingkade.

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Transgender Advocate in Arkansas: “I’m Proud to be Who I Am”

Transgender Advocate in Arkansas: “I’m Proud to be Who I Am”

Coming out, whether it is as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or allied is a deeply personal journey for each individual. For openly transgender advocate Andrea Zekis, coming out took several decades and is still a part of her everyday life.
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