50 Cent, Vivica A. Fox And The Absurdity Of Hip-Hop Homophobia

50 Cent, Vivica A. Fox And The Absurdity Of Hip-Hop Homophobia

On a recent episode of “Watch What Happens Live,” Vivica A. Fox, set to play Cookie’s sister in an upcoming episode of “Empire,” was asked to weigh in on ex-boyfriend 50 Cent’s alleged comments about the show. The rapper reportedly reposted a blog which suggested the ratings for the FOX drama have dipped because of the “gay stuff,” ostensibly referring to the relationship between Jamal and his boyfriend Michael.  

“First of all, you know… pot calling the kettle black. That’s all I’m saying,” Fox responded.

When host Andy Cohen asked Fox (who dated 50 Cent in 2003) to unpack her statement — specifically the suggestion that the rapper is gay — she smiled and said, “He’s not. We had a great time. I mean, he just seems like he’s got something that’s not quite clear,” she said. She also referenced a magazine cover featuring 50 Cent and rapper Soulja Boy, adding that 50 looked like “a booty snatcher” in the photo.  

It wasn’t long before 50 Cent took a few shots at Fox on Twitter and Instagram, making fun of her looks and divulging intimate details about the former couple’s sex life. “Oh no!! Now she thinks I’m gay because I let her lick my ass,” wrote on his Instagram. “Wait, I didn’t want her to, she forced me, my hands were tied. 50 Shades of Grey.”

The whole saga, which has been playing out on social media to the glee of Black Twitter, is a perfect example of the absurdity of hip-hop homophobia. Now, it’s important to remember that homophobia is not exclusive to the hip-hop and black communities. The narrative that black people are somehow more homophobic than any other group is a false one

But the way that this homophobia manifests in hip-hop is still worth examining — and calling out. The feud has now sparked a debate within Black Twitter about “booty eating,” whether men who receive and like it should be suspected of being gay. On the one hand, the fact that black people and hip-hop lovers are discussing this is great. On the other, it’s unfortunate that a totally natural part of sex is under this kind of scrutiny.

The spectacle of this feud just detracts from the conversation that we actually should be having; why hip-hop figures (like Eminem, or Waka Flocka) still feel empowered to make publicly homophobic comments. 

There have been rumors about 50 Cent’s sexuality in the past, which Fox was very likely aware of when she made her comments on “Watch What Happens Live.” That 50 Cent felt the need to lash out at Fox via Instagram is disappointing, especially since his insistence that he was “forced” by Fox comes off as his way of assuring us all that his masculinity is still intact. 

Both 50 Cent and Fox’s comments and actions have been petty, but on a larger scale they’ve also been damaging to the dialogue surrounding black male sexuality.

Equally disappointing, though, are the comments Fox made about the rapper to begin with. Fox took the intimate relationship between herself and the rapper and weaponized it against him. She was responding to his homophobic comments about “Empire,” a show she is set to appear on later this season, a show whose creator is an openly gay man and a powerful player in Hollywood. But rather than simply saying “no comment,” or unpack why 50 Cent’s suggestion was problematic, she chose to retaliate by trying to “out” him.

Both 50 Cent and Fox’s comments and actions have been petty, but on a larger scale they’ve also been damaging to the dialogue surrounding black male sexuality.  Black masculinity is constantly threatened, undermined, and scrutinized, and comments like those made by Fox do nothing to push the conversation about how to be more inclusive of LGBT people in hip-hop forward. While she may have thought she was just throwing “shade,” what she was really doing was once again perpetuating a stereotype that we desperately need to get away from.  

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When Growing Old Makes You Invisible As A Gay Person

When Growing Old Makes You Invisible As A Gay Person

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“LGBT seniors are going back into the closet because that fear is real. You just know when they don’t want you there,” says one elderly participant in a new documentary Gen Silent about the largely unreported issue of homophobic home care workers intimidating the people they should be assisting.

The show takes a hard look at aging in the gay community, where seniors are less likely to have children or close contact with family and in turn more likely to age alone.

Below, an exclusive clip from the show followed by the trailer, which airs November 9th on LOGO at 9 p.m. ET/PT:

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Hal Sparks: I Was Proud to Do ‘Queer As Folk’ Gay Sex Scenes – WATCH

Hal Sparks: I Was Proud to Do ‘Queer As Folk’ Gay Sex Scenes – WATCH

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In a new YouTube video, actor Hal Sparks addresses a question he often gets about his time on seminal gay TV show Queer As Folk: were the sex scenes “uncomfortable because they’re gay sex scenes and you’re straight?”

Says Sparks,

“The reality is no, it had no bearing on my discomfort or comfort in doing the scene at all. The sexual aspect, who the partner was in these particular scenes, had no bearing on my comfort level…The discomfort that I felt [on Queer As Folk] ever was mainly physical to the environment…I felt so proud that we were actually shooting something worth doing, that it just never came up.”

RELATED: Watch These Queer Men Watch ‘Queer As Folk’ For The First Time: VIDEO

Watch Sparks explain his experience with the gay sex scenes from Queer As Folk below:

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The Devious New Conservative Plan To Turn LGBT People Against Each Other

The Devious New Conservative Plan To Turn LGBT People Against Each Other

A Change.org petition to “Drop the T” from LGBT is trying to turn the gay community against transgender equality.

The post The Devious New Conservative Plan To Turn LGBT People Against Each Other appeared first on ThinkProgress.

Zack Ford

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Out Magazine's OUT 100 List Features Caitlyn Jenner, Robbie Rogers And More

Out Magazine's OUT 100 List Features Caitlyn Jenner, Robbie Rogers And More

As 2015 winds to a close, Caitlyn Jenner can add “Newsmaker of the Year” to her ever-growing list of accomplishments this year. 

The 66-year-old Olympic champion, who came out as transgender in an April interview with Diane Sawyer, nabbed that prestigious title on Out magazine’s OUT 100 list for 205. Meanwhile, “Portlandia” creator and star Carrie Brownstein was honored as “Artist of the Year,” and British singer-songwriter Olly Alexander is the “Breakout of the Year.”

Jenner told the magazine that she’s “terribly excited about the future” after what’s turned out to be a banner year. 

“I want to be excited about life always. For the longest time, I was not. I isolated myself from the world. I never felt like I fit in anywhere,” Jenner told the magazine. “Today that’s all changed.” 

Each year Out magazine chooses 100 of the most compelling lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in the world to create its OUT 100 list. Honorees are chosen from all walks of life, and include actors, writers, politicians, activists, sports figures and artists, among others. 

Also featured on the 2015 list are U.S. soccer star Robbie Rogers, “Looking” actor Russell Tovey and “Cosby Show” icon Raven-Symoné.  Check out the full OUT 100 here, and check out a selection of the list below. 

Congrats to the honorees! 

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Open Question: If no one has a problem with flying a LGBT flag then no one should have a problem with flying a confederate flag right?

Open Question: If no one has a problem with flying a LGBT flag then no one should have a problem with flying a confederate flag right?
I mean if we’re really going to be about letting people be “who they are” we should allow it, after all most people don’t even know what the civil war was really about. this is all besides the fact the confederate flag was just the country flag of the CSA, just like how the American flag is USA’s country flag, it’s essentially just a symbol.

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John Barrowman’s Naked Bum Steals The Spotlight In Otherwise Boring Press Shot

John Barrowman’s Naked Bum Steals The Spotlight In Otherwise Boring Press Shot

We aren’t entirely sure what’s going on in John Barrowman’s latest Instagram photo, and frankly, we don’t care.

The Doctor Who and Arrow actor was posing for a photo in Louisville, KY, when he donned a cheeky smile, pivoted and presented for the camera.

And those are the only facts that matter to us at this time.

Here’s the full moon rising:

It’s all about the #Barrowbum #Arrow Thanks Louisville:) jb

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Of course, this wasn’t the first flash of flesh we’ve seen from Barrowman.

Related: Remember Aaron Carter? Well Here’s What His Butt Looks Like.

He put a refreshing spin on those “NOH8” photos in 2013 by finding some creative real estate for the logo:

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#Barrowbum for life.

Dan Tracer

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