Frank Ocean Blasts Donald Trump For Trying To Turn Paris Tragedy Into Political Gain

Frank Ocean Blasts Donald Trump For Trying To Turn Paris Tragedy Into Political Gain

frank-oceanLOVE TO PARIS AND ANY INDIVIDUAL OR FAMILY WHO’S LOST LOVED ONES TO EVIL ANYWHERE IN THIS WORLD. CHILL W/ THE ANGLES [sic] ON THE REAL THOUGH DONALD TRUMP. HOW IS IT ‘INTERESTING’ THAT THESE SHOOTINGS HAPPENED IN A COUNTRY THAT’S TOUGH ON GUNS? TELL US DON? BECAUSE IT SOUNDS LIKE THAT VACUOUS OBSERVATION WAS ABOUT GIVING YOUR NRA-LOVING CONSTITUENCY A HANDJOB AND SPINNING A TRAGEDY FOR POLITICAL GAIN AND I’M THINKING MAYBE USING A SITUATION WHERE DOZENS OF INNOCENTS HAVE JUST BEEN MURDERED IN THE STREETS ISN’T THE BEST TIME. NO?”

 

Out entertainer Frank Ocean in a note posted to Tumblr criticizing blowhard GOP presidential hopeful Donald Trump for his politically opportunistic comments that yesterday’s tragedy in Paris would have been less deadly if the victims had been armed with guns

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George Takei's Beautiful Response to the Paris Terror Attacks

George Takei's Beautiful Response to the Paris Terror Attacks

Out actor and activist George Takei always knows what to say. In light of Friday’s devastating terror attacks in Paris that killed at least 127, Takei took to Facebook to ask people to not cast guilt upon immigrants and refugees “because they look like those who perpetrated these attacks.” Takei, who spent three years of his childhood in a Japanese-American internment camp in California, used a very personal metaphor in his post:

I’m writing this backstage at Allegiance, my heart heavy with the news from Paris, aching for the victims and their…

Posted by George Takei on Friday, November 13, 2015

 

Of course, there is no shortage of ignorance being perpetrated on social media when it comes to the terrorist attack. Exhibit A: antigay talking head Ann Coulter.

Why does NO ONE say the obvious thing on TV?! It’s insane. Don’t want terrorism in US? Stop importing Muslims!

— Ann Coulter (@AnnCoulter) November 14, 2015

Most rational voices responded to Coulter, including out immigration activist Jose Antonio Vargas. 

Because it’s not obvious. Stop spreading hate and ignorance, Ann. Oh never mind–that’s your currency. t.co/KMa4VJnd7o

— Jose Antonio Vargas (@joseiswriting) November 14, 2015

Neal Broverman

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The Truth About Transgender Suicide

The Truth About Transgender Suicide
For this year’s transgender awareness week I wanted to write about something that the transgender community and its allies are often afraid to discuss. Those who want to drive transgender people into the closet, legislate against us, and stigmatize us, talk about all the time in order further marginalize us. It is literally a matter of life and death.

It is suicide.

People know that transgender people are at a higher risk of suicide, but why this risk is higher is often not understood by the public, or misused by people who wish us further harm. The statistic that 40% of transgender people have attempted suicide is used all the time to justify all sorts of things that have absolutely zero basis in science.

Why transgender people are at risk is something that has actually been studied in great detail by psychologists and sociologists. They have found many of the same factors increase risk across multiple peer reviewed studies.

Rejection by friends and family increases suicide risk

Transgender people who are rejected by their families or lack social support are much more likely to both consider suicide, and to attempt it. Conversely, those with strong support were 82% less likely to attempt suicide than those without support, according to one recent study. Another study showed that transgender youth whose parents reject their gender identity are 13 times more likely to attempt suicide than transgender youth who are supported by their parents.

Discrimination increases suicide risk

Transgender people in states without LGBT legal protections are at higher risk of suicide. Other studies have found that transgender people who have been discriminated against are at a higher risk of suicide. What makes this worse is that discrimination against transgender people in health care, employment, accommodations, and housing is very common. Even in places with legal protections for transgender people, like Washington D.C., cultural bias and discrimination remains.

Physical abuse increases suicide risk

Transgender people who have been physically or sexually abused because they are transgender are at a higher risk of suicide. As the number of abusive incidents increases, the more likely the person is to have attempted suicide. The amount of abuse is also associated with the number of time suicide has been attempted. Again, studies on how often transgender people are assaulted show shockingly high levels of violence.

Being seen as transgender or gender non-conforming increases suicide risk

People who are seen as transgender or gender non-conforming are more likely to have attempted suicide. Also, people who have had access to surgery which allows them to “pass,” such as facial feminization surgery, report qualities of life not significantly different from the general population. This is perhaps the most damning study, since it strongly suggests that when transgender people are treated the same as cisgender (non-transgender) people, the risk of suicide becomes no different than for anyone else.

Internalized transphobia increases suicide risk

Internalized transphobia is when a transgender individual applies negative messages about transgender people in general to themselves. It’s not hard to find such messages in our culture, especially since a multi-million dollar smear campaign in Houston successfully convinced an uninformed populace that transgender people should be treated like rapists and pedophiles. When transgender people start applying such messages to themselves, the suicide attempt rate skyrockets.

Intersecting minority identities increases suicide risk

Multiple studies have found that transgender people of color are at higher risk of suicide than white transgender people. This is a result of the combined effects of racial and gender identity discrimination.

Notice a pattern here? None of these risks for suicide are about being transgender. They’re about what is being done to transgender people. And therein lies the rub.

There’s nothing inherently wrong with being transgender .

There is something horribly, horribly wrong with the way we as a culture treat transgender people.

The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services has addressed the issue of suicide in LGBT populations, and reached the same conclusions on the actual causes of suicide in the transgender community:

“Suicidal behaviors in LGBT populations appear to be related to “minority stress”, which stems from the cultural and social prejudice attached to minority sexual orientation and gender identity. This stress includes individual experiences of prejudice or discrimination, such as family rejection, harassment, bullying, violence, and victimization. Increasingly recognized as an aspect of minority stress is “institutional discrimination” resulting from laws and public policies that create inequities or omit LGBT people from benefits and protections afforded others. Individual and institutional discrimination have been found to be associated with social isolation, low self-esteem, negative sexual/gender identity, and depression, anxiety, and other mental disorders. These negative outcomes, rather than minority sexual orientation or gender identity per se, appear to be the key risk factors for LGBT suicidal ideation and behavior.”

This doesn’t change the fact that people who push for discrimination against transgender misuse studies, and use “experts” who are proponents of reparative therapy for all LGBT people, and haven’t seen a transgender patient in 35 years. Their so-called logic is that if people weren’t transgender and didn’t transition, they wouldn’t commit suicide. This is the intellectual equivalent of suggesting we should prevent rape by making women wear burqas, chastity belts, and never letting them leave the house.

In other words, any attempt to suggest that the solution to the problem of suicide in the transgender community is to stop being transgender is nothing more than chaff. These individuals are more interested in enforcing their brand of Biblical morality on society than the actual well-being of transgender people.

They’re hoping that no one will read this article. They’re hoping that no one will think the problem through. What happens when you rape, beat, fire, evict, reject, isolate, demonize, and humiliate a class people on a daily basis? What happens when all of this is done by people in the name of God? Would you expect a group of people experiencing this to thrive?

Or would you expect 40% of them to try to find escape in oblivion?

Leelah was right.

If we want to end the scourge of suicide, it’s time we stop trying to fix transgender people.

It’s time to fix society.

(H/t to Sebastian Barr for his excellent literature review and blog.)

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The Champagne Water Polo League pays tribute to Paris

The Champagne Water Polo League pays tribute to Paris

It was a grey and rainy day in London which seemed to complement the sombre mood across the city.

As they prepared for a business-as-usual training session at the University of London pool in Malet Street, the thoughts of the London Orca water polo squad were clearly with friends in Paris – a city still reeling from the shock and devastation of the attacks of the previous night.

With a state of emergency declared in Paris, there would be no training for the teams of Paris Aquatique and Paris Aquahomo, but there were messages of support flooding in from the members of the Champagne Water Polo League around the world.

As they prepared for training, the London Orca squad reminisced about their visit to Paris earlier in 2015 for the annual tournament – having drinks at Le Carillon on rue Alibert, before choosing between Petit Cambodge and Maria Luisa for dinner (ultimately the decision was for pizza at Maria Luisa where the sexy waiter flirted outrageously with Ginger Luke). On a Friday night that vibrant corner of Paris would have been buzzing with young people excited to be out with their friends.

In London for training it was Ass. Coach Andrea in charge and after a quick warm up it was straight into friendly scrimmage with four even teams battling it out for glory.

The action was fast and furious. Nico Bardot seemed determined to single-handedly mount a French resistance, vigorously disputing the numerous calls that Ass. Coach Andrea made against him. Trigger Morgan took delight in sledging Hackney, who seemed to spend most of his pool-time being dunked by Secretary Ricky. However the highlight of the session was the performance of the women’s team – playing a tight defence and a driving attack that rained goals down on their opponents.

Life goes on in the Champagne Water Polo League.

Action from the London tournament of the Champagne Water Polo League 2015
Paris Aquahomo at the Champagne Water Polo League 2015
Action from the London tournament of the Champagne Water Polo League 2015

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LDS Church Clarifies Rules for Kids of Gay Parents After Handbook Sparks Mass Exodus

LDS Church Clarifies Rules for Kids of Gay Parents After Handbook Sparks Mass Exodus

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The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints clarified rules in its handbook regarding children of same-sex parents after news of the rules sparked an uproar and caused hundreds if not thousands to leave the Mormon church.

The new rules said that members of the church in same-sex marriages will be considered apostates against whom leaders of the church must enforce discipline.

Additionally, children of members in same-sex marriages will be barred from baptism and church membership until they pass the age of 18 and disavow same-sex cohabitation and marriage. Also, entrance into the church would then have to be approved by church leaders.

On Friday, LDS Church leaders sought to quell the uproar by clarifying the rules, though the clarification is unlikely to satisfy most who are angry about them.

The Salt Lake Tribune reports:

…a clarification released Friday by the faith’s governing First Presidency said that applies only to children whose “primary residence” is with a same-sex couple. If a child spends weekends with a parent in a same-sex relationship, for instance, he or she still can receive a naming blessing, be baptized or go on a proselytizing mission like any other Mormon.

The clarification sent to lay LDS leaders also said that if a child already has been baptized but is now living with a same-sex couple, the new policy does “not require that his or her membership activities or priesthood privileges be curtailed or that further ordinances be withheld.”

“Decisions about any future ordinances for such children,” the First Presidency added, “should be made by local leaders with their prime consideration being the preparation and best interests of the child.”

The Church also put out a memo trying to educate members about its handbook.

Nearly 1,000 people have confirmed that they will partake in a protest today in Salt Lake City where members wishing to resign from the church will publicly turn in their resignations to church officials.

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Childcare workers refuse to accept trans child, sue employer for discrimination

Childcare workers refuse to accept trans child, sue employer for discrimination

Two childcare workers fired from a Texas daycare for refusing to address transgender issues are now suing their former employer for discrimination.

Madeline Kirksey and Akesha Wyatt have lodged a lawsuit against the Children’s Lighthouse Learning Center in Katy, Texas because they feel their religious belief has been discriminated against.

Both women were fired two weeks ago after a six-year-old child returned to the daycare with his parents saying he identified as a boy – but both Kirksey and Wyatt refused to call him by his chosen name.

Kirksey, a Christian author and blogger, also said she feels the boy’s parents – a gay couple – were forcing the issue of gender onto their child.

According to the Daily Mail, teachers – handing out leaflets on working with trans students – encouraged staff to educate other children about transgender issues and to ‘defend their dignity’, but the women said they were uncomfortable speaking to children about trans issues.

‘I don’t think we should be talking to other people’s children who are under the age of 18 about being transgender,’ Kirksey said in an interview with Fox News.

Adam Taylor, a prominent lawyer who fought and won the case of Texas’ so-called bathroom bill being put before voters, is representing Kirksey.

He is filing a lawsuit against the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, as he says his client’s rights as a Christian have been infringed.

‘Literally, she was sacrificed on the altar of political correctness,’ he said, according to the Daily Mail.

‘It’s not just Madeline and it’s not just this school that we are concerned about. We need to send a strong message that Christians need to push back on this agenda.’

Wyatt’s attorney, Briscoe Cain, told Breitbart his client’s religious rights had been violated by the firing; she had wanted to protect the child from harassment and being discriminated against.

‘She is now out of work for defending her faith and standing up for the innocence of children,’ he said.

‘And for believing that it is the role of parents to decide whether children should be educated about transgender issues,’

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The Spiritual Power Of Tattoos: An All Together Conversation

The Spiritual Power Of Tattoos: An All Together Conversation

It seems like everyone has a tattoo these days. Whether it is a small rose, a skull or a crucifix, people are marking their bodies in unprecedented numbers. While some may want to dismiss it as a merely a trend, tattoos tap into the human need for rituals and meaning

Welcome to All Together, the podcast dedicated to exploring ethics religion and spiritual practice in daily life. You can download All Together on iTunes, or Stitcher.

As fewer Americans identify with formal religious traditions, getting a tattoo can be a rite of passage and a means to claiming of identity. Tattoos can serve like stained glass windows that tell the story of the soul.

All Together host Paul Raushenbush talks with Noah Michaelson and Josh Korda, both of whose bodies are literally covered with tattoos. They talk about why they got their first tattoos, what spiritual significance tattoos have for them and what advice they have for people thinking about getting a tattoo today.

Noah Michelson  is a poet and the Editorial Director of the Voices department at The Huffington Post. Josh Korda is a well-known Buddhist and presiding teacher at Dharma Punx NYC as well as a teacher at Against the Stream.

 

 

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Ruby Rose faces backlash for tweets sent after Paris terrorist attacks

Ruby Rose faces backlash for tweets sent after Paris terrorist attacks

Ruby Rose is facing backlash from her fans after posting tweets telling her fans to pray for the world.

Following the terror attacks in Paris yesterday evening (13 November), in which at least 127 people died, as well as attacks in Lebanon and Syria, the Orange is the New Black star took to her Twitter and Instagram accounts.

Joining thousands of people expressing their support for the victims and condemning the attacks, she asked her followers to pray not just for Paris but for the whole world.

‘Let’s be honest… Pray for humanity. What is happening in the world,’ she wrote.

‘Today has been devastating. #Lebanon, #paris, #syria and everywhere under attack right now.

‘This is not a blanket post this is a post for today’s horrific news which spans many countries.’

Let’s be honest.. Pray for humanity. What is happening in the world.. Today has been devastating. #lebanon #paris #syria and everywhere under attack right now. this is not a blanket post this is a post for today’s horrific news which spans many countries.

A photo posted by Ruby Rose (@rubyrose) on

But the compassionate post didn’t go down well with all of her fans; many urged her to delete the image. Others confronted the star about her post, comparing it to the all lives matter-hashtag created in response to the black lives matter-movement and saying they expected her to be more respectful. ‘Of course someone had to do it, we can’t go through anything without some moron,’ edgeofglory wrote. Another user, going by the name of xqueentroianx, told Rose to ‘stop erasing what happened… acknowledge the terror attacks as the tragedies they are’. Rose was quick to defend her postings, saying her post was ‘not taking away from Paris’ but was about the other incidents that happened on the same day. She later also posted the phone numbers of numerous embassies in Paris, as well as a quote from President Obama’s speech in which he said: ‘This is not just an attack on Paris, not just on the people of France, but this is an attack on all of humanity.’ ‘Literally what I said and stand by earlier,’ Rose captioned her Instagram post. ‘Yet [I] receive hate and horrible comments.’

Literally what I said and stand by earlier. Yet receive hate and horrible comments. A photo posted by Ruby Rose (@rubyrose) on

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