Gay Man’s Alleged Killer Escapes From Houston Jail, Considered Highly Dangerous – VIDEO

Gay Man’s Alleged Killer Escapes From Houston Jail, Considered Highly Dangerous – VIDEO

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A gay man’s alleged killer is on the loose and considered highly dangerous after escaping from a juvenile detention center in Houston.

Alferis Coby (above right), 16, is charged with capital murder in the death of 22-year-old Carlos Ramirez, who was fatally shot in the parking lot of F Bar, a popular gay club, in March.

Coby, who reportedly has psychopathic tendencies, escaped along with two other juveniles early Sunday.

From The Houston Chronicle:

“I’m worried not only about what he is capable of, but his very demonstrated lack of empathy to other people,” said 315th State District Judge Michael Schneider, who certified Coby to stand trial as an adult in October. “I usually don’t like to talk about kids in our juvenile system, but this is a dangerous kid. I am really worried he is out.”

Authorities said Coby asked for toiletries and then overpowered a guard who opened his cell door to provide them. Coby took the guard’s keys and phone and unlocked two others. The boys, all 16, slipped undetected through the lock-up, then somehow get buzzed through a security door leading to Caroline within 15 minutes.

Some of the detention-center issued white T-shirts and blue shorts the teens were wearing were found a few blocks away.

RamirezAccording to the Chronicle, a court-ordered evaluation determined that Coby has an exceptionally high risk for violence, aggressive tendencies, psychopathic features and extensive criminality.

Ramirez (right) was leaving a talent show at F Bar when Coby and another suspect robbed him, shot him and stole his car after he refused to turn over the keys. The suspects were later found driving Ramirez’s vehicle.

Ramirez’s murder was one of several violent crimes in the city’s gayborhood this spring that led to a “Take Back Montrose” rally and meetings between LGBT activists and police.

Authorities identified one of the other teens who escaped Sunday as Jahrell West (above, left), who faces charges of aggravated robbery and home burglary. The third teen has not been identified because he hasn’t been certified to stand trial as an adult.

Anyone with information on the escapees’ whereabouts is asked to call Crime Stoppers at 713-222-8477.

Watch a report on the escape and ensuing manhunt from KHOU-TV below.

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Celebration Today as Ireland Recognizes Same-Sex Marriages

Celebration Today as Ireland Recognizes Same-Sex Marriages

Marriages between same-sex couples are legally recognized in Ireland as of Monday, according to Irish media outlets, but due to delays and Ireland’s complex betrothal system, the first weddings may take place tomorrow.

Dolores Murphy and Mabel Stoop-Murphy plan to be one of the first couples to tie the knot in the country, according to the Irish Independent. The pair have a civil partnership but will obtain a marriage license at the registry office in Cork on Tuesday.

The certificate will finally give Murphy legal rights to the couple’s two-year-old son, according to the paper. However she explained that her wedding day would be emotionally difficulty.

“It will be bittersweet because there will really be just the two of us and our two witnesses,” Murphy told the paper, “We have no family left.”

Murphy’s her father was present to walk both women down the aisle during their civil partnership, but he died in 2013.

“My dad knew Mabel for more than 10 years and he adored her. We’re both so sad that he won’t be here to share this special day with us,” she told the paper.

Same-sex marriages registered abroad will be immediately recognized in Ireland, according to L’Agence France-Presse, while other couples can now submit their intention to marry and begin the archaic three-month long betrothal process.

Vivian Cummins, 57, from Dublin who married his partner Erney in South Africa in 2009 told AFP that before the passage of Ireland’s same-sex marriage referendum it was hard for him to speak openly about his relationship.

“I would never really admit by choice to being married because I didn’t feel married in this country,” he told the wire, “I felt I didn’t have permission to say we were married but from now we will say it at every opportunity.”

In May, Ireland made history by passing marriage equality by popular vote with 62.1 percent of voters in favor of defining marriage as being between two people “without distinction as to their sex.” This was the first time that marriage equality has been passed in a referendum.

It is not known which same-sex couple will be first to wed in the country but “regulatory and procedural issues are expected to require a 24-hour delay,” following today’s legalization according to the Irish Independent.

Those who already have a civil union must sign up to be married and wait a fortnight, or two weeks, according to the Irish Gay and Lesbian Equality Network.

However, in addition to the Cork women’s union, same-sex marriages are already planned for tomorrow for Dublin and Galway, according to the Irish Independent.

Elizabeth Daley

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Charm and enchantment in the Basilicata region of Southern Italy

Charm and enchantment in the Basilicata region of Southern Italy

Welcome to Basilicata, Italy – a charming region south of Naples with two separate coastlines (touching the Tyrrhenian and Ionian Seas), two cities/provinces (Potenza and Matera), two souls (mythical forests and Mediterranean shores) and even two names, (it’s also known globally as Lucania).

Forget the Renaissance of Florence, the Baroque of Rome, the magic of Venice and the buzz and fashion of Milan. Forget nightclubs and catwalks. Here, you’ll find the possibility of a countryside holiday in a European environment where almost everything seems to be stuck in time.

Visiting Basilicata, especially the Province of Potenza, will reconcile you with your senses, nature, traditions, good food and myths. 

Yes, myths. In Basilicata, some people believe in fairies, witches, evil spirits, destiny and ‘Rumit’ (tree-like men who live in the forests). This area is known to be enchanted throughout Italian literature and has been represented in several films.

The area is also dependent on the seasons – in summer you’ll find lush green landscapes; in autumn, the magic of foliage; in winter, snowy mountains and in spring, blossoming valleys.

Of course, gay life is not absent in southern Italy. You’ll find plenty of it in Naples or in Bari, not far from Basilicata. But my suggestion is simple and basic. Behave like you are not in London, in Sitges, in Madrid or in Berlin. Simply, you are in a part of Italy where the food tastes wonderful, the air is clean and the pace of life slow, relaxed and chilled.

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The Valle del Melandro in the Melandro river valley is one of the secret gems of Basilicata. Waterfalls, woods, small villages and mountains, and encounters with deer, wild boar, eagles and wolves. Here is the National Park of the Lucanian Apennines – Agri Valley – near the town of Lagonegro. The best towns – I’m talking Sasso di Castalda [above], Satriano di Lucania, Brienza, Sant’Angelo le Fratte and Savoia di Lucania – boast beautifully painted houses, enchanting squares, Medieval fountains and, sometimes, towers and castles. The capital city of this region, Potenza, is nested on top of a mountain with some great attractions on offer which deserve consideration.

Being a city of services and institutions, Potenza hosts the best museums in Basilicata, like The National Archeaological Museum of Basilicatau, where you’ll find the treasures of a land which was colonized first by the ancient Greeks and then by the Romans.

But Potenza is also a city of Medieval churches, like the one dedicated to San Francesco d’Assisi and another, even more beautiful, dedicated to San Michele Arcangelo.

CHEESE-SALAMI

A quick word on what Italy’s most famous for: food. Basilicata is known for its red peppers called pepperoni cruschi, which are dried and then deep fried, as well as its Caciocavallo podolico cheese which is as big as a football, and the delicious meat and salami. Obviously there is the pasta. Like the cavatelli, the strascinati or the orecchiette. Nature, traditions, food. This is a small region, but sometimes the best jewels are in the smallest of boxes.

I also spent three days hiking, jumping small rivers and rocks, looking for wildlife and very old trees, breathing the freshest and cleanest air to be found in this part of the world. The sentiero Frassati di Sasso di Castalda, part of the network of footpaths organized by the Italian Alpine Club, is absolutely unmissable.

The small town of Sasso di Castalda lies down in the valley, while on top of the mountain you will find a huge beech tree forest which is very beautiful in early autumn and late spring. Thanks to a professional hiking guide I discovered the secrets of the woods, like the danger which might come from the mushrooms, the magic of an encounter with a solitary wolf or the uniqueness of the water which spills from a mountain spring.

Meanwhile Brienza has just 5,000 inhabitants, but is one of the biggest towns in the valley. It has a Medieval castle, some entertainment and beautiful artworks, like the frescos in the Medieval cloister of the town hall. Unfortunately the castle is not easily accessible at the moment, due to the works which still are in progress after a big earthquake which happened years ago.

Other towns which are worth mentioning are Satriano and Sant’Angelo, famous for the tradition of enriching the houses with vivid colors and mural paintings.

CASCATA-waterfall

I also hiked for 45 minutes to see one of the hidden gems of this valley, the Tuorno waterfalls in the Luceto forest. They are barely indicated in the local maps, so try to ask for a local guide in the town of Savoia di Lucania. The municipality will be happy to help you with your requests.

WHERE TO STAY

In the area there is a lovely bed and breakfast, the Rifugio della Luna, a charming villa with a huge patio and a big garden. Its owners are very kind, the furniture is full of taste and you will also be able to organize dinners and parties. It’s not far from the town of Satriano.

Another nice option is the Fattoriabio, a rural hotel with restaurant. They’ll be able to show you how to cook peppers and local chickpeas. By staying here you will be able to see the best starry nights of your life.

Not far from here, there is also the seaside resort of Maratea, which offers top quality accommodations, like the Hotel Santavenere or the Hotel Villa del Mare.

Thanks to Full Travel, FullPress Agency and the APT della Basilicata (the Regional Promotion Agency of Basilicata).

Photos: Daniele Guido Gessa

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Monday Morning News Feed: Paris, Tim Cook, Sarah Palin, Aaron Rodgers, Demi Lovato

Monday Morning News Feed: Paris, Tim Cook, Sarah Palin, Aaron Rodgers, Demi Lovato

abaaoudPARIS MASTERMIND: Police have identified  Abdelhamid Abaaoud as the mastermind of the Paris attacks and linked him to the attack thwarted by three Americans on a French high-speed train earlier this year: “All my life, I have seen the blood of Muslims flow,” Abaaoud said in a video made public in 2014. “I pray that Allah will break the backs of those who oppose him, his soldiers and his admirers, and that he will exterminate them.”

BRUSSELS: Police conduct raids in search for terror suspect: “Heavily armed police officers wearing balaclavas descended on the Molenbeek neighborhood of Brussels on Monday in a manhunt for Salah Abdeslam, who is believed to have helped carry out the Paris terrorist attacks on Friday with his two brothers.”

PARIS: These are the victims of the Paris terrorist attacks.

Tim CookIRELAND: Apple CEO Tim Cook says marriage equality should attract more investment to the country: “It will lead to many more businesses coming in. This is another example where Ireland will be the ripple in the pond. I am thrilled about it. I think it will result in many other countries following. I give a lot of credit to the Irish people. From a business point of view, we need to be able to attract and retain talent from all walks of life, all sexual orientations, all races and all ethnic backgrounds. Otherwise we’re not going to be successful. So I think Ireland did itself a great service, not only because it’s just and right, but also because it will attract more business. The [marriage equality] campaign here was so professional. It wasn’t an antagonistic kind of campaign. So I think everyone is to be complimented.”

SARAH PALIN: Bristol keeps getting pregnant because God is giving her third, fourth, and fifth chances: “The cool thing about putting your faith in God, is that he certainly is a God of second chances, and third, and fourth, and fifth chances.”

HAWAIIDengue fever outbreak in sickens 49, is transmitted by mosquito: “The Hawaii Department of Health (HDOH) is investigating a cluster of locally-acquired cases of dengue fever on Hawaii Island. Dengue is not endemic to Hawaii. However, it is intermittently imported from endemic areas by infected travelers. This is the first cluster of locally-acquired dengue fever since the 2011 outbreak on Oahu. Of the confirmed cases, 39 are Hawaii residents and 10 are visitors. 39 cases have been adults; ten have been children. Symptoms include fever, joint pain, headaches, and rash.

Aaron RodgersSPORTS: Green Bay Packer QB Aaron Rodgers called out a fan for anti-Muslim comments during moment of silence: “I must admit I was very disappointed with whoever the fan was that made a comment that was very inappropriate during the moment of silence. It’s that kind of prejudicial ideology that puts us in the position we’re in today as a world.”

MUSIC: Demi Lovato delivered a searing cover of Adele’s “Hello” at Seattle’s Fall Ball. The clip has already been viewed more than 1.3 million times since yesterday.

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30 Then-And-Now Images That Show Beautiful Decades-Long Friendships

30 Then-And-Now Images That Show Beautiful Decades-Long Friendships

Your tribe. Your wolf pack. Your people. Whatever you call them, a woman’s friendship with her best girlfriends is a powerful one.

The strongest friendships often start in childhood — you know, with the nice girl in grade school who shared her pudding pack when you forgot your lunch. And if you’re really lucky, the respect, trust and fun found in these sacred early relationships truly do last forever.

With a little help from our editor-at-large, Rita Wilson, we asked our amazing community of Huff/Post 50 readers to tell us about their most important relationships: the ones with their lifelong gal pals. We were astounded by the outpouring of stories and photos — over 600 in total. While every long-lasting female friendship deserves special mention, here are just a few of the heartwarming pieces we received from women of all walks of life, but with one thing in common: loyalty and love for their longtime friends. 

 

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Westboro Baptist Church blames Paris attacks on ‘fag marriage’

Westboro Baptist Church blames Paris attacks on ‘fag marriage’

If Westboro Baptist Church could get any worse, they just have.

The leaders of the homophobic church has blamed the Paris attacks, that killed at least 129 people, on the legalization of ‘fag marriage’.

ISIS have taken responsibility for the attacks, calling it the ‘world capital of prostitution and obscenity’. They pronounced it to be the ‘top of the list of targets of the Islamic State’.

France legalized same-sex marriage in 2013.

In a series of tweets, the Westboro Baptist Church praised ISIS for doing ‘God’s work’ and saying the shooters were ‘servants of God’s terror’.

They have vowed to go to Paris, shouting at the people who may have very easily lost loved friends and family members that they are to blame for the deaths for being ‘fag lovers’.

So long as you have fag marriage and abortion, terror reigns! #godisyourenemy! #godisyourterrorist! #ParisAttacks #ParisShooting

— Westboro Baptist (@WBCSaysRepent) November 14, 2015

The only way Paris is going to get peace with God is put away proud sin & obey. #parisattacks #NoFagMarriage t.co/8FReEJP9Nh — Westboro Baptist (@WBCSaysRepent) November 14, 2015

 

The next day, as reports of Islamophobia were growing, author Stephen King sent out the following tweet:

Hating all Muslims for what happened in Paris is like hating all Christians because of the gay-hating Westboro Baptist Church.

— Stephen King (@StephenKing) November 14, 2015

Even though the Westboro Baptist Church had spent hours praising ISIS and appearing to be happy 129 people were dead, they then appeared to be offended by that comment.

‘What do we say to this lying, malicious comparison of our gentle pickets to the violence of ISIS?’ they said. ‘First — and foremost — Thank God!’

They added: ‘The wrath to which these pernicious “talking heads” hope to expose the humble, peaceful servants of Christ at WBC, is impotent in fact.  We know that God moves in every man to act in accordance with His perfect will.  This includes the violent monsters of ISIS, as the wicked propagandists within today’s “media”.  All of them are filled with violence — which is fitting for a world that sits literally on the verge of destruction.’

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Who Is The Top Legal Eagle? Could It Be One One Surprising Antigay Ally? You Decide!

Who Is The Top Legal Eagle? Could It Be One One Surprising Antigay Ally? You Decide!

Changing hearts and minds are important, but in the end, there’s nothing like having the law on your side. That’s where the best legal advocates come in. As much as everyone likes to grouse about attorneys, the fact is that the LGBT movement would be stuck in first gear if it wasn’t for legal eagles challenging barriers we face daily. Of course they are most effective when they have political headwinds at their back, which polls have reflected in our favor. The legal and the political work best in conjunction, as each of the following stalwarts know better than anyone.

Here are six (and an unwilling auxiliar) members of the profession who have helped build the freedom & equality that we are beginning to enjoy today.

Freedom to Marry Founder Evan Wolfson

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No single individual has done more to see marriage equality become reality than Evan Wolfson. For more than three decades, Wolfson methodically built the case for marriage equality, beginning as a law student, through his tenure at Lambda Legal and then as founder of Freedom to Marry. Wolfson had the foresight to see that marriage was a viable cause at a time when the LGBT community was philosophically divided about its value.  He was more than just a legal strategist, literally redefining the debate rebranding it as marriage “freedom” and away from the less emotionally potent “gay marriage” and “same-sex marriage.” Wolfson has jokingly likened himself to Paul Revere, but he was much more like George Washington, maneuvering the way to victory despite ovrwhelming odds.

Mary Bonauto
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If Evan Wolfson was the force building public support for marriage equality, Mary Bonauto was the one making the argument in court with an eloquence that far outmatched her opponents. As a leading attorney at Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders in Boston, Bonauto repeatedly appeared in courts to argue for marriage equality and always emerged victorious, resulting in favorable ruling from Massachusetts to Connecticut. But her biggest victory was before the U.S Supreme Court, where she convinced a majority of justices that marriage equality should be the law of the land in a court with a conservative majority. “No gay person in this country would be married without Mary Bonauto,” noted Roberta Kaplan, the attorney (and herself a champion) who successful argued against the Defense of Marriage Ast 2ct.
Supreme Court Justice Anthony Kennedy
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Five judges constitute a majority on the Supreme Court, but one stands out: Anthony Kennedy. The Reagan-appointed justice has become the most foreceful advocate for LGBT rights on the bench, taking the lead on opinions striking down sodomy laws, anti-gay ballot measures and, most notably, bans on marriage equality. He’s done so by using language that goes well beyond legal reasoning to recognize the validity and even integrity of same-sex relationships–and their children as well. He’s become a kind of poet laureate of same- love, with such eloquent musings in his rulings such as this: “There is dignity in the bond between two men or two women who seek to marry and in their autonomy to make such profound choices.” Kennedy’s legal mentor was a gay man who clearly had a profound impact on his student. Would we have been quite as successful if someone else held Kennedy’s spot on the bench? Maybe. But we would never have had the same affirmations of the respect that we deserve as American citizens if it weren’t for Kennedy.
Lambda Legal Executive Director Kevin Cathcart
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For more than three decades, Cathcart has been laboring in the field of LGBT law, the past 23 years as executive director of Lambda Legal. During that time, Cathcart has played a role in the striking down of sodomy laws, advancement of marriage equality, and protection of LGBT youth and people with HIV. He’s also overseen a major expansion of Lambda Legal’s presence, with new offices in Chicago, Atlanta and Dallas. Cathcart announced last summer that he will be retiring when his contract ends in April 2016, leaving some big shoes to fill.
GLAD Attorney Jennifer Levi
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As head of Gay and Lesbian Defenders’ Transgender Rights Project, Jennifer Levi is at the forefront of the next big push for legal rights. Levi has been an attorney on a number of the groundbreaking cases, including a case on behalf of federal prisoners seeking to transition. Given that we’re still in the early stages of legal battles for transgender rights, you can expect to be hearing a lot more from Levi as she takes on the challenges to the legal barriers still facing the community.
National Center for Lesbian Rights Legal Director Shannon Price Minter
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For a purportedly progressive state, California has been a fertile ground for legal challenges to LGBT rights, and Shannon Minter (as well as NCLR executive director Kate Kendell) has often been right in the midst of the battles. As the lead attorney for the couple’s challenging California’s ban on marriage, Minter won a huge legal victory only to see it lost temporarily in the Prop 8 backlash. Minter’s work earned the attention of the White House, which named him to the president’s Commission on White House fellowships, making him one of the Obama administration’s high-profile transgender appointees..
Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia
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 Yes, to his unending chagrin, the most anti-LGBT justice did us a tremendous favor. How? The crusader against pro-gay argle-bargle was instrumental in the victory for marrage equality. Scalia’s dissent in the DOMA decision became the scaffolding that judge after judge used to justify the end of statewide marriage bans. Scalia provided the backward legal reasoning for these fine judges by claiming that “the real rationale of today’s opinion… is that DOMA is motivated by ‘bare…desire to harm’” would have to apply to state bans. So removed from the reality of gay lives, so consumed in his own personal and religious biases, so filled with animosity, Scalia made the case for equality almost as well as his ideological foe on the court, Anthony Kennedy.
Who were federal judges to argue? Thanks, Tony!

Who Is The Top Legal Eagle?

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John Oliver Rips the Paris Terrorists: ‘F–k These A**holes’

John Oliver Rips the Paris Terrorists: ‘F–k These A**holes’

John Oliver rips the Paris terrorists

John Oliver opened Last Week Tonight with a few words about the Paris attacks, noting there is still a lot we do not know.

“But there are a few things we can say for certain, and this is when it actually helps to be on HBO where those things can be said without restraint.”

RELATED: First Person: Susie Bright on the Sex-Obsessed Paris ISIS Manifesto

He added:

“First, as of now, we know this attack was carried out by gigantic f–king a**holes, unconscionable flaming a**holes; possibly working with other f–king a**holes, definitely working in service of an ideology of pure a**holery. Second, and this goes almost without saying, f–k these a**holes, f–k them — if I may say — sideways.”

Finally, he laid out the reasons why France will endure over any terrorism.

Watch:

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John Oliver Rips the Paris Terrorists: ‘F–k These A**holes’

What Happened After a Trans Justice Group Trained TSA Officers

What Happened After a Trans Justice Group Trained TSA Officers

For me, the 1990s were a decade full of overlapping journeys. It was 1996 when I came out — and remained out — as a trans and queer person. By 1999, I was perfecting my approach to creating inclusive change in government and private institutions, and in 2001, I established my private practice as a licensed psychotherapist.

In the years since, I have successfully advocated for trans-inclusive changes in multiple Nevada laws and regulations, and have made hundreds of educational presentations to increase understanding of sex/gender diversity.

And I have had the somber privilege to bear witness to the stories of thousands of transgender, intersex, and sex/gender-diverse persons who have been victimized by individuals and institutions. Among the countless queer people I have gotten to know through my career, none has escaped interpersonal and institutional violence. The vast majority of these individuals can recount not just one incident but several.

We are reminded daily that violating society’s strictly binary sex/gender norms comes at a heavy cost. Believe me, I could tell story after story of depravity — many of them would be my own personal histories.

Aside from the harrowing tales of intimate partner, familial, and faith-based abuse, we are too frequently harmed by persons in positions of power, who are sworn to protect and serve. As the recent outcry over the Transportation Security Administration’s unacceptable treatment of transgender passengers demonstrates, some of the most harmful abuse is perpetrated by persons in authority. Tragically, we as queer persons so often believe we are powerless to respond — that to resist will only increase the chances that we will be further harmed, and that this subsequent harm will be “justified” by our resistance.

We at Gender Justice Nevada have, over the past 17 years, engaged with more than 20 state and federal agencies, and innumerable private organizations, in an effort to make those environments more inclusive and accepting of trans, intersex and sex/gender-diverse persons. When we first make those invitations to cocreate change, we are often met with excitement and willingness. Individual staffers — often even leaders — working in agencies and businesses frequently express what seems to be an honest desire to make a difference.  

But this initial excitement almost always evaporates, as we dive into the details of what change really looks like. We learned this lesson the hard way when our organization last year hosted a training for TSA agents at McCarran International Airport in Las Vegas. Although TSA agents and supervisors were professional and respectful throughout the training, we have not heard from anyone at the federal agency since we concluded our preliminary seminar in July 2014.

We were offered a friendly greeting by TSA supervisors when we arrived that day. Our training was to be one of several offered to the approximately 15 TSA officers in the class. The dynamics were mostly efficient and businesslike; attendees seemed interested overall and offered respectful acknowledgement. What was lacking was the energy of interaction; few questions were asked and while the hour didn’t drag on, we left feeling that perhaps folks were mostly fulfilling a job requirement. Afterward, we were told that our presentation was successful and that they would be contacting us about future trainings. Well, we heard back only this past summer, over a year after we had shared space. And though we quickly agreed to schedule another training, as of press time, we are still waiting for a reply confirming a training date.

We have faced this dynamic over and over through the years: enthusiasm followed by lack of follow-up. By our estimation, befuddlement over changing pronouns and bathrooms and paperwork leads to a critical lack of understanding, which itself leads to resistance and fear of change in what may be the most powerful structural belief system in Western culture: that of binary sex/gender roles.

Perhaps hoping for swift or meaningful change at a hulking federal agency like the TSA was unrealistic, but we still continue to believe there are good people at the agency who want to honor their commitment to diversity, including sex/gender diversity.  

But they can’t do that by keeping us at arm’s length. And every day the TSA fails to make meaningful progress in its screening procedures for trans, intersex. and sex/gender-nonconforming passengers, our community is being subjected to violence. 

The consequences of this violence and of our responses to it are immediate and cumulative — both for the individuals directly involved and to the communities we represent. Because these violations tend to be persistent yet also unpredictable, many visibly queer people experience symptoms commonly associated with post-traumatic stress disorder. We are hyper-vigilant and experience psychological or physiological reactivity to reminders of the violence.  

As part of our healing, we share our experiences with others who we believe can understand without judgment — which often means engaging with other queer people. Such dialogue is essential to our individual healing, as it is for anyone. But it has another, no less significant impact: We are teaching each other that authority figures are not to be trusted. Not at any time, not for any thing.

This cycle of abuse must stop, and responsibility for stopping it rests primarily in the hands of those who are in positions of power and privilege. It is not enough simply to make some token efforts to change when pressured by visible stories of violence. Our queer communities have gifts to share. We are here. We are willing to help. We are seeking reliable and honest partners.

Jane Heenan

JANE HEENAN, MS, MFT, is a licensed psychotherapist in private practice, and serves as the director of Gender Justice Nevada, and the clinical director of the Queer Anti-Violence Project. They identify as trans* and queer, and prefer the personal pronouns they/them/their. Photo via Twitter.
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