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Open Question: I don t know how to handle my emotional roller coaster alcoholic fiance.
Help. Nothing I do changes anything.?
Being adaptive, myself, being understanding and being distant from the negativity does nothing.
He seems to be in denial about homosexual feelings, likes shows with gay undertones/drama and hyperfocuses on other men, even to the point of treating me poorly around them. He no longer complements women/ focused on his own colognes, haircut etc and responds nervously around men, while almost blowing women off entirely now.
Drinks a six pack or more every night. Tried to turn it into a positive by involving him in beer making and supporting him, but he still shows little restraint..He lacks interest in being close with me/sex but encourages us to spend quality time. He tells me ‘lets watch XYZ/cuddle’. He’ll say things like ‘I tried to spend time with you you just talked the whole time’ I suppose he’s referring to me being interested in something he likes, but I’m unsure. He thinks I’m more emotional than I am (I’m usually very direct with him, and I don’t beat around the bush so he calls this ‘aggressive’), and gets uppity very quickly. If I help him put a shelf up, or put his computer together for him, he thinks it’ll ‘make him less of a man’. I fair better with his 3 year old daughter and usually take control of her better and he gets embarrassed when trying help him coparent when he would rather look at his phone&ignore it.What do I do and where do I start. I can’t stand being around him anymore. I feel like I’m faking my happiness around him just to avoid another argument.
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