High school athlete in Wyoming comes out in remarkable text to friends and family

‘I’ve held these feelings in for wayyyy too long. Longer than the normal person should hold a secret’

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gregh

www.gaystarnews.com/article/high-school-athlete-wyoming-comes-out-remarkable-text-friends-and-family111214

Join HRC in Calling on Michigan Senate

HRC.org

www.hrc.org/blog/entry/join-hrc-in-calling-on-michigan-senate?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss-feed

News: Rick Perry, YouTube, Liam Hemsworth, NSYNC, Ocean Pollution

Kyler Geoffroy

www.towleroad.com/2014/12/news-5.html

Another 'Gay' Man Thrown From Building, Stoned to Death by ISIS

Gruesome photos have emerged of an allegedly gay man being murdered by terrorists in Islamic State-controlled territory.

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Thom Senzee

www.advocate.com/world/2014/12/11/another-gay-man-thrown-building-stoned-death-isis

Study Might Explain How To Change Minds On Same-Sex Marriage
It’s common knowledge that Americans are changing their views on same-sex marriage and gay rights at a breakneck pace. What has remained something of a mystery is how exactly this change occurs. A new study published Thursday in the peer-reviewed journal Science may have uncovered a clue.

Some anti-gay voters in California changed their minds five time faster than their neighbors on gay rights, according to the new study. The secret? Openly gay activists went door to door, engaging these conservative opponents in “heartfelt, reciprocal and vulnerable conversations” about what marriage meant to them, according to a press release about the study. The activists didn’t just push gay marriage, they made a point of listening to their opponents’ concerns and experiences, the release said.

“In an era where the constant talk is of implacable differences and polarization, what’s interesting here is that you have an honest, open, two-way conversation, and opinions do change,” said Columbia University professor Donald P Green, a co-author on the study.

Green has researched and written about public opinion and prejudice for more than two decades. He had reached a fairly bleak conclusion about voters, he told The Huffington Post this week. “I used to think that attitudes were stable,” he said. In 2009, he published an exhaustive review of the existing studies on reducing prejudice and found that most methods, including TV ads, mail, phone calls and even door-to-door canvassing have minimal effect, and what slight change in attitude may occur typically disappears within a few days.

The groundbreaking news in Thursday’s study, “When Contact Changes Minds: An Experiment on Transmission of Support for Gay Equality,” is that the change in attitude these California voters experienced after talking about gay rights with an openly gay person persisted steadily throughout the year that the study was conducted.

“The findings always seemed to be that you could produce short-term change in, say a controlled environment, but when people go back to their normal social milieu the change dissipates,” Green said. “Now I think part of the reason our attitudes are so steady over time is that we almost never have a conversation akin to the conversations” activists had in this study.

The study examined the work of a group of gay and straight canvassers from the Los Angeles LGBT Center. In the wake of the passage of California’s gay marriage ban in 2008, the activists had more than 12,000 one-on-one conversations in Los Angeles neighborhoods that overwhelmingly supported the ban.

Michael J. LaCour, a Ph.D. candidate in political science at the University of California Los Angeles who co-authored the Science paper with Green, said he became interested in these canvassers because of the purity of their mission: They weren’t collecting signatures, asking for money or trying to turn out the vote. Rather, the sole purpose of their conversations was changing minds on gay rights.

In 2013, LaCour and Green began the year-long scientific assessment of the LGBT center’s work, comparing the successes of the gay canvassers with their straight counterparts, along with a placebo group consisting of openly gay canvassers who talked about the value of recycling instead of gay marriage. The conservative voters answered questions in online surveys before and periodically after the canvassing. (The voters did not know the surveys were related to the canvassing, and the canvassers did not know the voters were taking the online surveys.)

Initially, gay and straight canvassers had a similar effect on voters, the study found. But those who spoke with the straight canvassers seemed to snap back to their original opinion after a couple of weeks, and those who spoke with gay canvassers maintained their new view throughout a year of surveys. Perhaps even more intriguing, those who lived in the same household as the voters who spoke with gay canvassers also reported changing views on gay rights — not so with the households of those who spoke with straight canvassers.

“It’s a subtle hint that what’s going on here has to do with conversations in the household and maybe even the mental images that are conjured,” Green said. “Perhaps the conversation was something like, ‘Honey I met a gay man and he was nothing like the gay man I thought I would meet.”

The study’s findings line up with polling that shows that Americans who know someone who is gay are more likely to support gay rights. Over the past few decades, the number of people who are openly gay has skyrocketed. Naturally, so has the number of Americans who say they know someone who is gay.

LaCour is now conducting a similar study involving reproductive rights, and expects to find similar results. He paraphrased Harvey Milk: “It’s harder to deny people rights if those people have names and faces.”

www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/12/11/same-sex-marriage_n_6309374.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices&ir=Gay+Voices

Show Me the Money: Williams Institute Explores Economic Impact of Marriage Equality

Marriage equality is not only good policy, it means big money for state economies and the nation, according to a new interactive economic report  the Williams Institute of UCLA School of Law released this week.
HRC.org

www.hrc.org/blog/entry/show-me-the-money-williams-institute-explores-economic-impact-of-marriage-e?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss-feed

Hikers 'Walk On Water' In Slovakia: VIDEO

Anthony Costello

www.towleroad.com/2014/12/hikers-walk-on-water-in-slovakia.html

A gay Ugandan on the dreaded 'gift' promised to LGBTIs this Christmas

Edwin Sesange, gay rights activist, is pleading with the world to help send messages of hope to persecuted LGBTIs

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joem

www.gaystarnews.com/article/gay-ugandan-dreaded-gift-promised-lgbtis-christmas111214

Five North Carolina Churchgoers Charged In “Demon-Freeing” Kidnapping Of Gay Man

Matthew Fenner

It seems not all churches believe in simply praying away the gay.

QNotes reports that five members of the Word of Faith Fellowship have been indicted on several felony charges following the alleged kidnapping and assault of a young gay man.

Matthew Fenner, a 21-year-old student, says his fellow churchgoers attempted to free him of his “homosexual demons” during a two-day assault that involved slapping, strangling, verbal assault, and threats of confinement. He also claims his story was not initially taken seriously by law enforcement and that it took several attempts to get a formal complaint filed over the incident, which he says occurred in January of 2013.

On Tuesday, a grand jury charged parishioners Justin Brock Covington, Brooke McFadden Covington, Robert Louis Walker Jr., and Adam Christopher Bartley with second degree kidnapping and simple assault charges, along with Sarah Covington Anderson, who was also charged with assault by strangulation.

Fenner says that during the attack he was surrounded by 15-20 college-aged men, who demanded he confess his homosexual sins and that “deliverance soon ensued” — at which time he was pushed, shaken, kicked, punched, beaten, screamed at, and told to repeat various phrases in an attempt to free him of his demons.

But Patrick Covington, a brother of one of the accused and a self-identified gay man, says Fenner’s story is a lie, as does the church’s attorney.

Located in Spindale, N.C., the Word of Faith Fellowship is no stranger to allegations of cult-like abuse. In 1995, its “blasting” technique — a method in which a detainee is encircled by church members and subjected to “high-pitched shrilling sounds, screams, and prayers” was the subject of an Inside Edition report.

While Fenner has since left the church, his mother and brother remain members and even testified against their kin in the grand jury deliberations.

Winston Gieseke

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An Inside Look At Some of the 100 Trillion Microorganisms Inside You – VIDEO

Kyler Geoffroy

www.towleroad.com/2014/12/an-inside-look-at-some-of-the-100-trillion-microorganisms-inside-you-video.html