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Dude Gives Cabbie A BJ In Exchange For A Ride, Wonders If He Was Raped

Dude Gives Cabbie A BJ In Exchange For A Ride, Wonders If He Was Raped

img_taxiIn a recent Reddit thread titled “Was I Raped?” mylordm9 writes:

“Yesterday I went to a gay party. I went outside and was immedeatly (sic) in front of the train station. I needed to get a train to get home. I just missed it though. I sat outside and waited for the next one when a cab came along and asked me where I needed to go. I said that I don’t have the money but he offered me a ride anyways. This of course should have been a red flag but I was drunk and I made it very clear that I just wanted a ride. I’d pay if it was cheaper but I didnt want to have to do anything for it. He said yeah sure just get in I get you home and you don’t have to do anything.”

Turns out, this was a lie. At least according to mylordm9. He continues:

“Anyways, during the ride he got his dick out and wanted me to blow him. I was so afraid that I did and well.. now i feel terrible. I am such a dumbass for getting in the cab and I hate myself for it. I cant get over the feeling.”

As a result, mylordm9 says he “can’t swallow anything” and feels “real shitty.”

“What do I have to do now?” he asks. “I have no idea. I’m such a fucking dumbass!”

Never fear, mylordm9, your fellow Reddit users are here to offer their two cents on your dilemma.

“I don’t think you were raped,” hatessw states matter-of-factly. “Unless you’re omitting relevant facts, no force seems to have occurred, and everything you did on your own volition, drunk or not. That’s not to say what the dude did was classy, but there’s a pretty big gap between lack of class and rape.”

“Based on your story, a guy asked for a BJ and you were uninhibited enough to do it,” Kolyarut5 adds. “Don’t hate yourself.”

“You voluntarily engaged in a sexual act,” significantrisk says, “that is the opposite of being raped. The only way to be less raped than voluntarily having sex is to have no sex at all.”

But Vandal1 disagrees: “He was drunk, and not able to legally consent. Therefore, non-consensual, therefore rape. As well, he is experiencing many of the same feelings as a rape victim. He feels violated and hurt. From what he described, he probably also feels un-clean or dirty.”

“Uhh, I’m pretty sure that whipping out your dick on a drunk person is rapey,” filipelm adds.

“This is rape,” kpatl says. “Regardless if you were drunk, this is rape. Coerced sex is rape. You didn’t exchange sex for a ride; you engaged in a sexual act because you were afraid of the consequences if you didn’t. This is unequivocal rape. Everyone else posting is very clearly wrong.”

What do you think? Was mylordm9 raped? Sound off in the comments section below.

Graham Gremore

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Governor Pence Is Right: Tolerance is Not a Liberal Value

Governor Pence Is Right: Tolerance is Not a Liberal Value
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Poor Governor Mike Pence, victim of Intolerance.

Sunday morning, in “sorry, not sorry” mode, the Indiana governor visited George Stephanopoulos to clarify, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that he has no intention of changing the state’s newly passed Religious Freedom Reformation Act or pushing for protected status for the Hoosier state’s LGBT citizens, which would ensure the RFRA could not be used to target them.

Many had thought the governor would strike a conciliatory tone, but Pence was unapologetic. In full Culture Warrior mode, all but ensuring a plum slot on the speakers roster at the next RNC (and maybe even on the ticket), Pence lashed out at the media, liberals and (without ever deigning to name them) members of the LGBT community for shamelessly unloosing an “avalanche of intolerance” on Indiana.

Those protesting a law co-authored by Curt Smith, President of Indiana Family Institute (who has likened homosexuality to bestiality) and promoted by Eric Miller of Advance America (who celebrated SB101 as the only means of “protection” for “Churches, Christian businesses and individuals … from those who support homosexual marriages and those who support government recognition and approval of gender identity — men who dress as women”) were the intolerant ones, and Pence wasn’t having it! The Hoosier state was fighting back! “I think people are getting tired of it, George, I really do,” Pence snapped at Stephanopoulos. “And I’m not going to take it lying down.”

Preferred positions for taking it aside, crying victim and labeling liberals “intolerant” for opposing discriminatory legislation is, unfortunately, nothing new for Culture Warriors on the right. And Pence used his ten minutes of fame to drive the point home. “Is tolerance a two-way street or not?” Pence trolled. “I mean there’s a lot of talk about tolerance today having to do with people on the left…. And this avalanche of intolerance has been poured on our state!”

I don’t know who Governor Pence has been eavesdropping on, but as a lifelong progressive and a proud member of the LGBT community, I know of no “talk on the left” that highlights “tolerance” as an aspiration among my cohort. I have heard talk of diversity, inclusion, universal access, individual empowerment, and mutual respect. I have heard progressives speak of protecting and extending voters’ rights, improving public education and expanding economic opportunity to all. Liberals like big, bright ideas that embrace the belief in a culture of opportunity for everyone and inspire those who struggle for opportunity in a society that’s not quite there yet. Progressivism, I’m not ashamed to say, is aspirational. No one aspires to be tolerated. And no liberal I know would hail tolerance as the best we can do or be to one another.

Liberal values aren’t about tolerating difference, they’re about celebrating it. Progressives are all about finding our strength as communities and as a nation in our incredible diversity. Despite cynical histrionics on the right that claim the contrary, this includes all religious belief and practice that does not seek to coerce, oppress, or harm.

Governor Pence’s attempt to co-opt religion in pursuit of a political agenda rings particularly false given the opposition to the RFRA by Christians in his own state.

Mainline and Progressive Christianity acknowledges the central message of the gospels. As Rev. Sharon Watkins of the Disciples of Christ denomination, which has had its headquarters in Indianapolis for more than a century, said in a letter to Governor Pence critical of the RFRA: “As a Christian church, we are particularly sensitive to the values of the One we follow — one who sat at table with people from all walks of life, and loved them all.”

The Episcopal Diocese of Indianapolis also issued a Pastoral Letter on the RFRA, reading in part: “Provision of a legal way for some among us to choose to treat others with disdain and contempt is the worst possible use of the rule of law. For Episcopalians, whose lives are ordered in the Gospel of Christ and the promises of our Baptismal Covenant, it is unthinkable.”

I don’t know what religion Mike Pence is, but the Christian religion does not call for tolerance, regardless of what a political party with a persecution complex would have him believe. The Christ of the gospels did not exhort his disciples to “tolerate thy neighbors,” but to love them.

Just to clarify.

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Homophobic Florist Fears Homelessness After Being Slapped With $1,001 Fine

Homophobic Florist Fears Homelessness After Being Slapped With $1,001 Fine

barronelle-stutzmanA Washington state florist says she may lose her business and her home after being ordered to pay a $1,000 fine, plus $1 in court fees, for violating Washington’s anti-discrimination and consumer protection laws when she refused to sell two grooms a bouquet of flowers for their wedding back in 2013.

Arlene’s Flowers and Gifts owner Barronelle Stutzman says the $1,001.00 fine will “financially devastate” her, as it will cause her to dip into her “retirement and personal savings,” and that’s simply not fair because she is a “70-year-old grandmother.”

Speaking to the Christian PostStutzman said the harsh punishment is a “threat to Christians” with a very specific message: “Surrender your religious liberty and free speech rights, or face personal and professional ruin!”

Again, she is being fined $1,001.00.

In Feburary, after spending nearly two years fighting in court, Stutzman was offered a settlement from Attorney General Bob Ferguson that wouldn’t have cost her quite so much, but she refused on grounds that doing so would be a betrayal of Jesus H. Christ.

“I certainly don’t relish the idea of losing my business, my home, and everything else that your lawsuit threatens to take from my family,” Stutzman told Ferguson in a letter. “But my freedom to honor God in doing what I do best is more important.”

Stutzman has 60 days to fork over the $1001.00.

Related stories:

Washington Florist Refuses To Supply Gay Couple Flowers For Their Wedding

Washington Florist Refusing Service To Gays Faces Lawsuit From Attorney General

Washington Florist Won’t Greet Gay Wedding Guests, Even Though No One Asked Her To

Graham Gremore

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Massive List of Companies Warn Indiana: NASCAR, Marriott, Twitter, GAP, Duke U. – UPDATE

Massive List of Companies Warn Indiana: NASCAR, Marriott, Twitter, GAP, Duke U. – UPDATE

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Dozens of companies are taking action against Indiana’s Religious Freedom Restoration Act including NASCAR (below), Anthem, Cummins, Dow, Roche, Starbucks, Apple, Angie’s List, PayPal co-founder Max Levchin (below), YELP, Salesforce, Eli Lilly, NBA, WNBA, Indiana Pacers and Indiana Fever (below), Marriott (below), NCAA, and Gen Con:

Here’s an update:

NASCAR:

“We will not embrace nor participate in exclusion or intolerance,” said NASCAR, which is based in Florida and North Carolina. “We are committed to diversity and inclusion within our sport and therefore will continue to welcome all competitors and fans at our events in the state of Indiana and anywhere else we race.”

Marriott CEO Arne Sorenson calls it “idiocy” and “madness”:

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PayPal founder Max Levchin:

“I encourage Paypal’s new CEO and other CEOs in Silicon Valley to evaluate their relationship with the state of Indiana,” he told CNBC’s “Squawk on the Street” on Monday. “If local laws and bills say that it is OK to discriminate, you have to make sure that you are protecting your employees and you keep them safe and comfortable.”

Levi Strauss and GAP Inc:

Today Gap Inc. and Levi Strauss & Co. are calling on retail and apparel companies, and other businesses, to join us in speaking out against legalized discrimination.

Both of our companies have a long history of standing up for equal rights and equal opportunity for all. We have consistently spoken out against discrimination and unequal treatment based on race, sex or sexual orientation.

As Indiana, Arkansas, and states around the country enact and consider legislation that perpetuates discrimination, we’re urging State Legislatures to stand up for equality by repealing and voting against these discriminatory laws.

These new laws and legislation, that allow people and businesses to deny service to people based on their sexual orientation, turn back the clock on equality and foster a culture of intolerance.

Discriminatory laws are unquestionably bad for business, but more importantly, they are fundamentally wrong. They must be stopped.

At Gap Inc. and Levi Strauss & Co., we are proud to say we are open to business for everyone.

Twitter:

We’re disappointed to see state bills that enshrine discrimination. These bills are unjust and bad for business. We support #EqualityForAll.

— Policy (@policy) March 30, 2015

NBA, WNBA, Indiana Pacers and Indiana Fever

“The game of basketball is grounded in long established principles of inclusion and mutual respect. We will continue to ensure that all fans, players and employees feel welcome at all NBA and WNBA events in Indiana and elsewhere.”

AfscmeAmerican Federation of State, County & Municipal Employees are pulling their conference out of Indiana:

This un-American law sets Indiana and our nation back decades in the struggle for civil rights. It is an embarrassment and cannot be tolerated. As such, AFSCME will move our 2015 Women’s Conference in October from Indianapolis to another state. Additional details about the conference’s new location and any necessary date change will be announced as they become available.

The 1.6 million members of AFSCME cannot in good conscience make such a sizeable financial investment in Indiana knowing that women and men in that state are deliberately targeted for discrimination.

Finally, Gen Con has posted another letter after speaking with Indiana Governor Pence saying

Gen Con has asked Governor Pence to support an amendment to RFRA that includes protections against discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity. We believe that freedom from discrimination is a fundamental human right. Until Gen Con has received legally sound assurances that Indiana will support these rights, we are halting our plans to expand Gen Con into Lucas Oil Stadium, and plans for further expansion into other hotel convention spaces…

And New York lawmakers want the state to join others including Connecticut, the cities of Seattle, Portland, San Francisco in banning state-funded travel to Indiana.

Duke University has spoken out on Indiana ahead of the Final Four:

“Duke University continues to stand alongside the LGBT community in seeking a more equal and inclusive world, and we deplore any effort to legislate bias and discrimination,” the statement reads. “We share the NCAA’s concern about the potential impact of the new law, and will be vigilant to ensure that our student-athletes, supporters, and indeed all citizens and visitors are treated fairly and with respect.”


Andy Towle

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Two Gay-Bashing Murderers Fall In Love And Wed In Prison, Family Members “Proud” Of Their Sons

Two Gay-Bashing Murderers Fall In Love And Wed In Prison, Family Members “Proud” Of Their Sons

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Goodman (left) and Gallatinov (right)

When 40-year-old Mikhail Gallatinov and 31-year-old Marc Goodman first met while working together at their local bar in the U.K., it was love at first sight. Conveniently, they were also neighbors, which meant they got to see each other all the time. Last week, the two “soul partners” exchanged wedding vows in front of their friends and family members… and 10 prison guards from the Full Sutton Prison in Yorkshire, where both men are currently incarcerated. Their union is the first same-sex wedding to occur in a prison after gay marriage was made legal in the U.K. in March 2014.

Gallatinov, a convicted child molester who prison psychologists have labeled “psychopathic,” is currently serving a 20-year sentence after strangling a 28-year-old man he met on a gay sex hotline in 1997. Goodman is currently serving an 18-year sentence after going on a “gay-bashing spree” and bludgeoning a 57-year-old gay man to death in 2007.

The two men met while working as “bar staff” inside the prison.

Gallatinov’s folks told the Manchester Evening News that they are “proud” of their son for “being a small part of history.”

“If you find love you have to go for it,” his father, Allen Abdulla, said, “even if it is in prison.”

His mother, Christina WIlliams agreed, saying her son was absolutely heartbroken when his last in-prison boyfriend was transferred to a different correctional facility and that she is “glad he’s found love again.”

“Everyone deserves to be happy,” Abdulla added.

But not everyone is pleased about the union.

Tony Benfold, the brother of the man Goodwin murdered, suspects the marriage is just a ploy to gain early release and should not have been permitted, despite the U.K.’s Marriages Act of 1983, which allows prisoners to apply for marriage licenses, and the legalization of same-sex marriage in the U.K. in March of last year.

“How can you go out and kill a man for being gay and then have a gay wedding in prison?” he told the Mirror. “I can’t see any logic in it. It has crossed my mind that this could be a trick to get early release by showing they have built new lives.”

Others think it is a positive thing.

“Marriage is a human right for same-sex couples and even for people whose lives we may find reprehensible,” Peter Tatchell, an ambassador for a U.K. penal reform association, told BuzzFeed Newsadding that while Gallatinov and Goodwin “committed horrific murders,” the “aim of prison is to also reform and rehabilitate offenders. … Being in love and married might help stabilize these men; giving them a focus away from a life of crime.”

Congratulations to the happy couple?

Graham Gremore

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A Dad Explains Indiana's New Law So Simply a Kid Could Understand

A Dad Explains Indiana's New Law So Simply a Kid Could Understand
My family — which is composed of two dads and one daughter — discussed the passage of Indiana’s SB101 Religious Freedom Restoration Act at the supper table. A lot of folks (including these two dads) see this law as having been passed explicitly to allow people not to do business with families like ours. Our daughter was mad at first and then very, very glad we do not live in Indiana. (Sadly, other families do.)

We don’t hide from her that some people disapprove of families like ours, and some actively hate us. But in our home, town, state and region, she is surrounded by overwhelming evidence of the opposite as well, a pretty safe base from which to talk about these things. With our discussion fresh in mind, I thought other parents might appreciate simple language for summing up this bill and what it actually means.

For parents with older kids who have patience for a longer discussion, start with this basic description that walks you through the both sides’ claims: Indiana’s Religious Freedom Restoration Act is a bill supporters say is designed to prevent certain people of religious faith from having to compromise that faith, but opponents note that it was drafted in this case specifically by gay-marriage opponents to allow them the right to deny LGBT people equal access to goods and services.

Let’s start with its title. The word “restoration” means to get back something taken away and in this case, that means the “freedom” of “religious” people. There are lots of religious people in the world, but this law was designed by (and mostly for) Christians, as some of its lead supporters make clear. Let’s be fair: not all Christians wanted this law, just ones who don’t think LGBT people should have the same rights as they do. (And I don’t want to offer these folks a primer on Christianity, but the single class of people Jesus himself ever refused to do business with were people making money in a house of worship.)

The “freedom” these particular Christians say they lost was the freedom to not do business with members of the LBGT community, especially those of us who marry. Because we can get married in a lot of places these days, these people needed a law saying they don’t have to bake cakes for us or take our photos. Granted, there weren’t a lot (or any) Indianans being imprisoned for holding cakes hostage, but this law means that none will be now for sure.

The governor says the law actually has nothing to do with gay people, because the words “gay and lesbian” don’t appear in the law, despite the bill’s existence as a response to gay marriage. If those words had appeared in the law, that would make the law look mean instead of fair. And looking fair is the most important thing.

The governor also says the law is exactly like all the other religious freedom laws that have been passed. He must know that this is not true, unless he can’t actually read English (which seems like a surprising attribute for a governor, but then again, it must also apply to all the people who claim to have compared the laws).

Yes, all the similar laws contain a version of the notion that the government can’t force a person to act against his or her faith unless the government is able to prove that exempting them would cause harm to the state. However, this Indiana law is broader than most, extending the notion to companies, societies or loose groups of people who all believe the same thing. But the big difference in wording is the Indiana law also says this person or society or group can refuse to do something even if the government isn’t involved. That combination of ingredients makes this the unicorn of Religious Freedom acts — you’ve never seen one before and you have to actually see this one to believe it.

What the previous laws are supposed to mean is that if the government is forcing citizens into behaviors that go against their faith, those people may challenge that burden in court and let the courts decide if the state’s actions are fair or not. What the Indiana law allows, instead, is for anyone who claims religious faith (whether or not this faith is even a tenet of their religion) to refuse to provide whatever services they wish to anyone they disapprove of, and then trust that, if it ever goes to court, their state’s uniquely broad bill will protect them. But that’s the long-range view.

The short view — the immediate application — is that, without proving any burden or hardship or even demonstrable faith, people now get to turn away people like us and families like mine, just as they’ve wanted to all along. They get to have their “no straight, no god, no service” moment and crow (or perhaps I should say, Jim Crow) about how the law is on their side.

The explanation I just provided is best for older kids, but I’m happy to boil it down for families with younger kids who have more limited attention spans. In fact, what happened in Indiana can be described in a tight dozen words: A few Christians made a prejudiced law and their governor pretended they didn’t.

The good news for my daughter is that the outcry, from within the state and without, from other religious people to politicians and beyond to employers and athletes and celebrities, has been loud and clear. It will follow everyone involved for years. For this much your kids already know: Nobody likes a bully or a liar.

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Mike Pence Dodges Criticism By Calling Critics 'Intolerant.' That Dog Won't Hunt.

Mike Pence Dodges Criticism By Calling Critics 'Intolerant.' That Dog Won't Hunt.
This weekend, on ABC News’ “This Week,” host George Stephanopoulos rather conscientiously attempted to elicit a “yes” or “no” answer from Indiana Gov. Mike Pence, who was invited to clarify the unique language of his state’s recently enacted Religious Freedom Restoration Act.

That “yes” or “no” question, “Can a florist in Indiana refuse to serve a gay couple without fear of punishment,” was dodged by Pence, as were additional iterations, ranging from whether the law’s general intent was to enshrine the right of private business owners to deny service to customers for religious reasons, to whether Pence personally believed that such discrimination was lawful.

Stephanopoulos insisted that the question was relevant, because one of the law’s supporters, Eric Miller of Advance America, specifically cited the ability of private business owners to refuse service to members of the LGBT community as one of the Indiana law’s major, and particular, selling points. Stephanopoulos offered Pence multiple chances to either correct Miller’s contention, or to publicly confirm that it was true.

Pence never answered one way or the other. Instead, showing an Ed Milliband-like flair for repeating one’s talking points, Pence largely stuck to his script, insisting that the Indiana law was in no relevant way distinct from similar laws — including the federal Religious Freedom Restoration Act, passed decades ago and signed into law by then-President Bill Clinton. (This is not, in fact, true.) At a point, though, you can see the patience drain from Pence’s face, as he offered one intriguing deviation from his flash cards:

PENCE: George, look, the issue here is, you know, is tolerance a two-way street or not? I mean, you know, there’s a lot of talk about tolerance in this country today having to do with people on the left. And a — but here Indiana steps forward to protect the constitutional rights and privileges of freedom of religion for people of faith and families of faith in our state and this avalanche of intolerance that’s been poured on our state is just outrageous.

Here, Pence is retreating to a rhetorical fortress of sofa pillows that some conservatives often crawl behind when the sentiments of the vox populi bend in the direction of calling them out for bigotry. You liberals want everyone to be tolerant! But you’re not tolerant of us! Gotcha!

There is so much confusion tied up in that defense, it might seem senseless to even try to untangle it. In terms of the ever-growing national support for LGBT rights, especially, the argument sounds like the death rattle of an old way of thinking that’s quickly going extinct. But given how often people like Pence deploy this argument, it’s worth giving disentangling it a shot. Let’s start at a basic level: To be tolerant does not mean that one must be tolerant of intolerance. Okay? If you tolerate intolerance, you have, well … promulgated intolerance. That would seem a self-affirming point, but it clearly is not obvious to the Pences of the world, so let’s peel it back further.

When a person says, “Hey, let’s please be tolerant of others, even if they are of a different race or gender or creed or religion or sexual orientation,” what is typically meant is that such people should be treated equally by society. They should have the same legal rights and opportunities as everybody else. The same fair shot at carving out a decent life. That’s what most people mean when they talk about being tolerant. Critically, what is not being demanded is universal agreement, or even universal acceptance. Indeed, the ability to countenance our occasional disagreements and allow for criticism in a tolerant manner is something that makes our society stronger.

What Pence is doing, unfortunately, is confusing criticism for intolerance. Right now, the wide world is learning about Indiana’s law, discovering that it is in many meaningful ways different from previous Religious Freedom Restoration Acts, and reacting with a collective “Duh fuh?” This reaction, as much as Pence would prefer to believe otherwise, is a thing that’s well beyond the coordination and control of a monolithic “Left.” But even if it were, the simple fact of the matter is that criticism of the law is absolutely legitimate. There’s nothing distinctly unfair or intolerant in debating or critiquing the actions of lawmakers or the laws they pass. That’s just the price of doing business in politics.

And speaking of, there is a price of doing business in business as well. A law that forbids discriminating against customers based on their race, gender, sexual orientation, religious beliefs, or et cetera — that, my friends, is the real two-way street. What is a “two-way street” after all, if not a promise to everyone traveling upon it that bright yellow lines, illegal to cross, run right down the center? What Indiana’s Religious Freedom Restoration Act and its unique statutory language has done is remove those sensible yellow lines. Gone is a world in which people walking into private businesses can be assured they won’t be discriminated against. Now, in this new Indiana, business owners face the undue burden of having to publicly proclaim themselves to be practicing fair and equal customer service. What was once automatically assumed — the neighborly, amicable relationship between business and customer — has become something that everyone now has to double-check and newly ensure.

Part of what Pence describes as an “avalanche of intolerance” is the reaction from those recognizing that a line has been crossed, who are now resolved to withhold their custom from the state of Indiana until such time as the previous, two-way street regime is restored. Pence is incorrect to describe this as “intolerance.” What Pence needs to understand is that this reaction is simply the natural consequence of the actions he took as governor.

The assurance of fair, non-discriminatory business practices is, as it turns out, pretty essential in a competitive marketplace. And when you take away that assurance, you imperil your ability to compete. Just as an openly discriminatory florist opens itself up to the risk that not enough people will want to continue doing business with it to maintain that business, so too does an openly discriminatory state endanger its ability to maintain itself economically.

Those are the consequences. And consequences have nothing to do with tolerance. All the states that Indiana competes with for economic benefactors will happily tolerate Indiana’s law all the way to the bank. Anyone who tells you that “tolerance” is supposed to provide everyone with the means of living a consequence-free existence has badly lost the thread.

If there’s something meaningful to be learned here, however, it’s that talking about tolerance is much easier than building and maintaining a tolerant society. It should be acknowledged that this Indiana law exists because of a tension between differing communities of people, and different schools of thought. Resolving this tension will take hard work. But it’s precisely hard and conscientious work that everyone deserves. To be tolerant is to acknowledge this, and to seek reasonable reconciliations and accommodations in instances like this. Were Pence a more conscientious governor, he’d recognize that the solution that’s been crafted is neither sufficiently reasonable, nor sufficiently accommodating, and he’d resolve to work harder at achieving something that is.

His protestations of intolerance aside, Pence is fully entitled to believe that gay people are icky, or Godless, or whatever he wants. He just can’t — without criticism — enshrine the right to discriminate into the law. No one is stopping anyone from having these opinions, coming on television to express that opinion, or even holding office while possessing these views. You just can’t have a whites-only lunch counter, or a straights-only bakery. Or, perhaps in Indiana, you can, but if you do, then people who are being discriminated against have a right to encourage people to take their business elsewhere and criticize those business practices. And those on the receiving end of that reaction will, unfortunately, have to tolerate that.

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