With the opening of the highly anticipated, debated, snarked at, and side-eyed 50 Shades of Grey this weekend, we thought rather than read passages from the book (which we’ve covered before), discuss the movie’s disastrous press tour, its reviews, or even what the film and book may have cribbed (if anything) from gay BDSM culture, we would take this opportunity to draw your attention to a different kind of grey: that is grey hair on gay men. 

We pulled together a list of 50 gay men who make grey look good. Young and old, covering a diverse range of backgrounds and professions, these fellas rock all shades of grey. Whether it’s just the whiskers, a dash of salt and pepper or full on silver fox, these men show the true diversity not to mention growing popularity of grey hair. Some have embraced going prematurely grey and others have gone grey well before they might ever do so naturally to make a style statement.

Get ready to fall crazy in love with these gay men sporting grey, AFTER THE JUMP…

1. Armistead Maupin, Author – Literary Grey

One of our favorite authors who has regaled us for years with Tales of the City proves that grey is not only literary but also soulful.

(Photo via Babelio)

 

2. Anderson Cooper, Journalist – “Keeping Them Honest” Grey

The ultimate silver fox, Anderson Cooper delivers hard-hitting news from far flung corners of the earth all while showing off his taut physique in a usually tight tee.

A grateful nation thanks you, Anderson.

 

3. Murray Bartlett, Actor – Looking for Beefcake Grey

Salt and pepper hair? Check. Pornstache? Check. Salt and pepper chest hair? Double check. Swoon. So much swoon. 

(instagram image luke austin-paglialonga)

 

4. Adam Lambert, Rock Star – Glam Grey

Never one to shy away from a bold look, Adam Lambert proves that grey isn’t just for the daddies. 

 

5. Mo Rocca, Humorist, Journalist, Actor – Politically Irreverent Grey

Grey doesn’t have to be stodgy and serious. Just ask Mo Rocca.

(Photo credit: Broadway World) 

 

6. Tim Gunn, Fashion Sherpa – Fashion Forward Grey

Whether it’s his charcoal grey suits or his signature grey locks, Gunn shows us all that grey is most definitely always on trend.

(Photo via The Hollywood Reporter)

 

7. Greg Louganis, Gold Medal Winning Olympic Diver – Olympic Grey

Who cares about gold when grey looks this good?

(Photo via OUT)

 

8. Colton Ford, Singer, Actor, Former Adult Film Star – Pinup Grey

He may have left his adult film ways behind him, but Ford is still every bit the pin-up. If Colton doesn’t make you want to embrace the grey we don’t know what will. Woof.

 

9. Tim Cook, CEO @ Apple – iGrey

Cook’s shade of grey is not quite “Space Grey.”

(Photo via Instagram / DailyMail)

 

10. Pedro Almodóvar, Filmmaker – Todo Sobre Grey

Because grey is sometimes on the verge of a nervous breakdown.

(Photo via Politikis)

 

11. Alan Cumming, Actor – Swings Both Ways Grey

Life is a cabaret when you’re grey.

(Photo by Annie Leibovitz for Vanity Fair)

 

12. David Currie, Detective of the Broward County, Florida Sheriff’s Office – Grey in Love

Currie swept us off our feet with his too cute pictures of him and hubby Aeron Woodard on their wedding day, the first day same-sex marriage became legal in Florida.

(Photos via Barbara C. Dwarte and Chicago Tribune) 

 

13. Aiden Shaw, Author, Musician, Model, Former Adult Film Star – Hyphenated and Hunky Grey

Musician-model-adult-film-star-author Shaw is the second former adult film actor on our list who seems to get better with age.

(Photo via girlxinwen)

 

14. Andy Cohen, Talk Show Host, Author – Watch What Happens Grey 

Bravo for showing salt and pepper can be a man’s best friend.

(Photo via Instagram)

 

15. Tyler Oakley, YouTube Star – Viral Grey

Proof that a touch of grey can get you millions of followers.

 

16. Marc Jacobs, Designer – Ready to Wear Grey

Because a touch of grey is sometimes fashionable.

 

17. John Amaechi, Former NBA Player – NBA Grey

A little grey goes a long way.

(Photo via Amaechi Performance)

 

18. Barney Frank, Former Congressman (D-MA) – Trailblazing Grey

Grey says what it wants when it wants to.

(Photo via Coffey Photo)

 

19. Nick Denton, Journalist, Entrepreneur, Founder of Gawker Media – Gawker Grey

Denton knows that grey means business. 

(Photo credit: Playboy / Marius Bugge)

 

20. Tyler Glenn, Rockstar – Neon Grey

There’s a fine line between bleach blond and grey as it turns out, one Neon Trees frontman Tyler Glenn jumps on either side of from time to time. Though he leans a little more bleach than greige, his locks are just silvery (and stunning) enough to make our list.

(Photo via ELLE)

 

21. Mark Takano, U.S. Congressman (D-CA) – Capitol Grey

Openly grey from California.

(Photo via lasplash)

 

22. David Mixner, Activist, Author – Oh Hell No! Grey

 

There is no grey area when it comes to full equality, however.

 

23. Dan Savage, Activist, Author, Journalist – “It Gets Better” Grey

Because sometimes grey is nice when it’s a little bit stranger.

 

24. Tom Bianchi, Nude Photographer – Naked Grey

An appreciation of the male form is a key ingredient in this shade of grey. Check out his work HERE. 

 

25. Richard Buckley, Editor – Tom Ford Grey

Note: piercing blue eyes plus a silver mane makes for a striking combination (see also: Anderson Cooper)

 

26. George Michael, Singer – Faith Grey 

With that salt and pepper hair, we’d let Michael be our father figure. 

 

27.George Takei, Actor, Activist – Intergalactic Grey

Remember, it’s ok to be grey. Even if it’s just around the edges. 

 

28. Victor Garber, Actor – Sophisticated Grey

He really is the personification of classic. Whether in a period piece or as a shadowy spy, he leaves us wanting more.

 

29. Dan Mathews, Senior Vice President, PETA – Animal-Friendly Grey

We’d rather he go naked. That’s how the PETA slogan goes right?

(Photo via Polari Magazine)

 

30. Sir Ian McKellen, Actor – Gandalf the Grey

All that needs to be said is that there is nothing to be said. Bow down. 

(Photo via Blastr)

 

31. Sir Derek Jacobi, Actor – Vicious Grey

We can’t mention Sir Ian without his Vicious partner-in-crime.

 

32. Tim Gill, Computer Software Entrepreneur, LGBT Rights Activist- Silicon Grey

Tech-savvy and activist-oriented. What can’t grey do for you?

(Photo via Bloomberg)

 

33. Jim McGreevey, Seminarian, Former Governor of New Jersey – Gay American Grey

Because sometimes grey comes out whether you’re ready for it or not.

 

34. John Waters, Director, Screenwriter, Actor, Comedian, Journalist, Visual artist, Art collector – Renaissance Grey

Often grey is trashy. In this case, divine.

 

35. Francisco Costa, Designer, Women’s Creative Director of Calvin Klein Collection – Minimalist Grey

Nothing comes between Costa and his grey. Nothing.

(Photo via The New York Times)

 

36. Klaus Wowereit, Politician, Former Mayor of Berlin – Ich Bin Ein Grey

German daddy bear.

(Photo via SDGLN)

 

37. Rupert Everett, Actor, Writer – ‘Don’t Come Out’ Grey

Once worried that grey might ruin his acting career.

(Photo via ATRL)

 

38. Karl Lagerfeld, Designer – Uncle Grey

Grey is the new everything.

(Photo via Pret-A-Porter)

 

39. Bret Easton Ellis, Writer – Neo Noir Grey

Less than zero color.

(Photo via Jamie Lee Curtis Taete for Vice)

 

40. Jim Ferlo, Pennsylvania State Senator – Keystone Grey

Fighting to make hate crimes against LGBT people illegal in the Quaker State. Thank you, Senator.

 

41. André Leon Talley – In Vogue Grey

Your eyes won’t be starving for beauty when Talley and his grey coif enter a room.

(Photo: The Coveteur/Trunk Archive)

 

42. Leslie Jordan, Actor, Playwright – Pink Carpet Grey

Well, well, well. If it isn’t Beverly Leslie.

 

43. Pat Patterson, Former Professional Wrestler –  Ready to Rumble Grey

Grey will lay the smackdown on you if you’re not careful. 

(Photo via Instinct)

 

44. Terrence McNally, Playwright – Stage Grey

Still got the grey.

(Photo via The New York Times)

 

45. Larry Kramer, Writer, Activist – Survivor Grey

Grey ACTS UP.

(Photo via Esquire)

 

46. David Hockney, Painter – Artistic Grey

Pop art is so grey.

(Photo via The Guardian)

 

47. Ryan Murphy, Writer, Producer, Director – Power Grey

Grey is a triple threat.

(Photo via iDominick/Wikimedia Commons)

 

48. Jim Kolbe, Former Congressman (R-AZ) – Republican Grey

You can find grey on either side of the aisle.

(Photo via AP)

 

49. Joel Grey, Actor – It’s Never Too Late To Come Out As Grey

Willkommen, bienvenue, welcome, grey!

(Photo via Twitter)

 

50. Lee Daniels – Precious Grey

Grey has an empire.

(Photo via Wikimedia Commons)

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In a 6-2 decision late Friday, Alabama Supreme Court agreed to consider the Liberty Counsel’s petition seeking an end to same-sex marriage licenses being issued by state probate judges. 

Liberty Counsel is currently representing eight Alabama counties refusing to issue marriage license to same-sex couples, despite U.S. District Judge Callie Granade’s order Thursday signaling that probate judges are to follow her ruling overturning the state’s ban on gay marriage.

AL.com reports: 

Chief Justice Roy Moore, who has been the most outspoken in advising probate judges not to issue same-sex licenses, was the only justice not listed as taking part in Friday’s decision.

Also Friday, lawyers representing Equality Alabama, a group that supports same-sex marriage, filed a “friend-of-the-court” brief urging the Alabama Supreme Court to dismiss the petition. […]

“This request before the Alabama Supreme Court is nothing but an attempt at delaying the happiness that all families deserve – a last-ditch, failing effort to stand in the way of the love we’ve seen in this historic week,” Equality Alabama chairman Ben Cooper said in a prepared statement. “The petition should be dismissed, and all probate judges in every corner of the state should follow the law.”

The court’s order stated the briefs by probate judges, due February 18, should address issues raised by the petition, including whether the state Supreme Court even has jurisdiction to hear the petition.

Both sides are claiming victory after the jury reached a mixed verdict Friday in the trial over a petition to repeal Houston’s Equal Rights Ordinance. 

But we won’t know which side is right until the judge issues a final ruling about how many valid signatures are on the petition. And even then, the decision is likely to be appealed. 

The Houston Chronicle reports: 

The ruling is not final, and a judge will now consider the jury’s findings about the work of more than 100 circulators of the petition that the city rejected last summer, citing overwhelming notary and signature-gatherer errors.

District Judge Robert Schaffer was not present for Friday’s ruling after nearly six days of jury deliberation. Attorneys on both sides said he will now begin counting which signatures are valid to see if opponents have reached the needed 17,269-signature threshold. Schaffer retains wide legal discretion in what he deems valid.

The jury’s ruling Friday will trigger a series of legal dominoes that, eventually, will yield a definitive answer: The judge will count the signatures, issue a decision on whether the petition is valid and then the case will almost certainly go to the appellate courts

Jurors determined there was widespread forgery on petition pages they reviewed, but no fraud. They also found that in many cases circulators failed to properly sign and subscribe petition pages.  

Geoffrey Harrison, the lead attorney for the city, told the Chronicle that supporters of the Equal Rights Ordinance should “be thrilled and dancing in their kitchen” about the verdict. Mayor Annise Parker, who authored the ordinance, issued this statement:  

“I am very pleased with the jury’s verdict, and I expect the court will apply the law to the verdict and issue a final judgment confirming that the petition failed.  The City of Houston has had in place for over 100 years the same rules and legal requirements governing the referendum process to ensure fairness and avoid fraud, and the jury’s verdict confirms that the petitions did not meet the legal requirements. The plaintiffs are expected to appeal any outcome that is not in their favor.  That would be unfortunate for the City.  I believe that the majority of Houston wants this divisive fight to be over so that we are able to provide equal rights protections for all of our residents. The City is confident it will prevail.”

But opponents of the ordinance were also claiming victory. Plaintiff Jared Woodfill, the former chair of the local GOP, sent out a press release under the headline, “Favorable Jury Verdict Should Result in Victory for Voters and Religious Liberty!”

“Great news…the jury returned a verdict that should allow the people to vote on Mayor Parker’s Unequal Rights Ordinance,” Woodfill wrote. “Judge Robert Schaffer will now apply the ruling to the almost 55,000 individuals who signed the petition. I am confident he will conclude we had the requisite 17,269 signatures necessary for the people to vote on this issue.”

The Texas Pastor Council, the anti-LGBT group that led the petition drive, also said it’s confident the judge will determine there are enough valid signatures: 

The coalition of pastors and community leaders behind the historic referendum effort to repeal Mayor Annise Parker’s pro-LGBT so-called “Equal Rights Ordinance” and the corresponding lawsuit after Parker and her legal team invalidated the petitions, responded with faith, confidence and optimism to today’s jury verdict that was nearly a fifty/fifty split on questions they considered.

“The Mayor’s lawyers went to extraordinary lengths to discredit, demean, denigrate and disqualify as many petitions and signatures as possible. Thankfully, in spite of an incredible amount of detail presented and even oft repeated by the city’s attack team, our God has again raised His standard of justice,” stated Dr. F.N. Williams, lead plaintiff for the pastors of the No UNequal Rights Coalition and Senior Pastor of Antioch Missionary Baptist Church as well as President of Houston Ministers Against Crime. …

“We are thankful that the God of justice stood with this David again against the Goliath of the machinery of city government in the hands of those like Annise Parker intent on serving her personal agenda even at the cost of voting rights of the people,” added Pastor Hernan Castano, an influential Hispanic pastor and network leader as well as one of the “Houston Five” subpoenaed by the Mayor.

Watch a report from KTRK-TV, AFTER THE JUMP …