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It's Almost Time for Towleroad's Pop-Up Gay Summer Camp in Provincetown: Are You Signed Up Yet?

It's Almost Time for Towleroad's Pop-Up Gay Summer Camp in Provincetown: Are You Signed Up Yet?

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It’s almost time for the kick-off of Towleroad’s first Pop-Up Gay Summer Camp in Provincetown. Those of you planning a trip to this paradise at the tip of Cape Cod from July 1 through Labor Day, please sign up with us at RSVPtown.

LogoThose who SIGN UP at RSVPtown can stop by Pop-Up Gay Summer Camp HQ at the Crown and Anchor Inn as soon as you hit town to say hi, find out about events all over town, and pick up your RSVPtown welcome bags with our guide, handbook, exclusive offers from Ptown businesses, discounts, invites, and gifts including free Kiehl’s products (they just opened a new store in town!). You’ll also be automatically entered in a contest for ticket giveaways every week of the summer (SEE BELOW FOR 4TH OF JULY WEEK).

So please SIGN UP if you don’t want to be left out!

Today we are proud to announce that the Provincetown Tourism Office is joining us as a co-sponsor and will be helping us help you get the most out of your time in Ptown.

Said Provincetown Tourism Director Anthony Fuccillo:

“Provincetown, America’s first gay destination, is excited and looking forward to the Towleroad Pop-Up Gay Summer Camp. Everyone is invited to take part in the many fun attractions, eco-tourism, great food and arts community while visiting PTown. Of course we know you will enjoy the entertainment and legendary nightlife.  The Pop-Up Gay Summer Camp is proudly sponsored in part by the Provincetown Tourism Fund.”

IndependenceWe told you earlier this month that we would be giving away tickets to parties and entertainment at the Crown and Anchor to people who have signed up at RSVPtown for Pop-Up Gay Summer Camp and for those of you coming for the week of Independence Day (June 30- July 5) we’re going to be giving away the following to a few lucky winners:

2 Platinum Passes to INDEPENDENCE – the deluxe package including 8 club nights and Beach Party, Central House Restaurant gift certificate, free chaise lounge rental and towel service Poolside at the Crown, an Absolut Vodka beach bag, and more, worth over $200. More info HERE.

2 Tickets to the all-new Beach Party with DJ Abel on July 2 from 12-7 pm.

2 tickets to see Leslie Jordan for his shows on June 30 and July 1.

2 tickets to see Dina Martina on July 2.

2 tickets to Miss Richfield 1981 on July 3.

2 tickets to Audition with Kevin Aviance and Marti Gould Cummings on July 3.

You can ONLY be eligible to win these tickets if you are signed up at RSVPtown, so do it!

Winners will be drawn for the Platinum Passes on June 23 and the show tickets on June 27.

You are only eligible for tickets for the weeks you indicated you would be in Provincetown on your RSVPtown sign up. All drawings and giveaways will be drawn at random from those eligible.

More news to come soon!


Andy Towle

www.towleroad.com/2014/06/provincetown.html

Denmark to allow legal gender changes without sterilization

Denmark to allow legal gender changes without sterilization

trans, transgender flag, gay news, Washington Blade

Danish lawmakers on Wednesday approved a bill that will allow transgender people to legally change their gender without sterilization and surgery. (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

Denmark on Wednesday became the first European country to allow transgender people to legally change their gender without undergoing medical and psychological treatments

Agence France Presse reported the law, which received final approval in the Danish Parliament, will allow Danes who are at least 18 to legally change their gender after stating their desire to “belong to the other sex” and completing what the Danish government describes as a six-month “reflection period.” They had previously been required to undergo sex-reassignment surgery and sterilization before making the request.

The law is slated to take effect on Sept. 1.

“Today we have dropped the requirement of sterilization when transgendered people need a new personal identification number as part of a legal sex change,” said Minister for Economics and the Interior Margrethe Vestager in a statement to Agence France Presse. “It will make life easier and more dignified for the individual.”

Danish LGBT rights advocates applauded the new law.

“We are highly satisfied that the government decided to go with the most progressive solution and that the Parliament provided a majority vote for it,” Søren Laursen, chair of LGBT Danmark, a Danish advocacy group, told the Washington Blade.

“We are very happy that the law regarding legal recognition of gender identity has been updated,” added Sarah Baagøe Petersen, vice chair of Lambda, another Danish LGBT advocacy group, in an e-mail to the Blade. “The fact that transgender people can now freely apply to change their gender — legally — without surgery or a psychological evaluation is a big step in the right direction. The entire LGBT community welcomes this change.”

Argentinian President Cristina Fernández de Kirchner in 2012 signed what is considered the world’s most progressive trans rights law that allows people in the South American country to legally change their gender on official documents without surgery and an affidavit from a doctor or another medical provider. Neighboring Uruguay has adopted a similar statute.

The Dutch Senate late last year approved a bill slated to take effect on July 1 that will allow trans people to legally change their gender without undergoing sterilization and sex-reassignment surgery. They will still need to obtain a statement from an “expert” to fulfill their request.

German parents have been able to designate the gender on their intersex children’s birth certificates as “indeterminate” since last November.

Maryland Gov. Martin O’Malley last month signed a bill that added gender identity and expression to the state’s non-discrimination law. Efforts to prompt a referendum on the law failed after opponents did not collect enough signatures.

Laursen and other European LGBT rights advocates said they hope other countries enact laws that allow trans people to legally change their gender without surgery or sterilization.

“We are very pleased to see the Argentinian model for legal gender recognition being introduced in Europe by Denmark today,” said ILGA-Europe Co-Chair Paulo Côrte-Real. “The benchmark is set high now and we encourage other European countries to follow suit and to remove unnecessary, humiliating and degrading requirements which hinder people across Europe to fully enjoy their lives in preferred gender.”

“We are the first European country to go with this model – in fact, such a solution exists today only in Argentina and Uruguay,” added Laursen. “I am convinced that other European countries will now follow.”

Michael K. Lavers

Denmark to allow legal gender changes without sterilization

Watch 'Capitol Hill' Season 1 Presented by BenDeLaCreme

Watch 'Capitol Hill' Season 1 Presented by BenDeLaCreme
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You know that ever since RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 6 ended, you’ve needed your BenDeLaCreme fix. Here’s your chance to enjoy our Miss Congeniality and the Terminally Delightful star as she presents all ten episodes of Capitol Hill season 1. Starring Waxie Moon and inspired by ’70s and ’80s TV shows, Capitol Hill follows an innocent young girl named Roses Smell, who escapes the terrible backwater hellhole of Portland, Ore., and comes to beautiful Seattle, Wash., in hopes of a better life. But will she find it in the dangerous world filled with nuns, homosexuals, demonic possession and pro-wrestling? Catch up on all the drama, because season 2 is coming and it’s going to be a Monsoon Season.

EPISODE 1

EPISODE 2

EPISODE 3

EPISODE 4

EPISODE 5

EPISODE 6

EPISODE 7

EPISODE 8

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EPISODE 10

Don’t forget to follow the show on Facebook and Twitter

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On The Eve Of Gay Pride, Homophobic Mississippi Governor Phil Bryant Plans On Giving Speech In NYC

On The Eve Of Gay Pride, Homophobic Mississippi Governor Phil Bryant Plans On Giving Speech In NYC

This is almost as ironic as Aaron Schock appearing on a box of Wheaties. On Saturday, the New York-Mississippi Society will hold its annual picnic in Central Park. 5,000 people are expected to attend, including Mississippi Governor Phil Bryant, who plans on traveling Northward from the Bible belt to encourage liberal New Yorkers to vacation in (and even move to!) Mississippi.

So where’s the irony?

Well, Governor Phil Bryant is extremely conservative, especially when it comes to gay rights. And he’ll been giving his speech less than two weeks before the kickoff of New York’s Gay Pride festivities and the 45th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots of 1969.

In April, Bryant signed the Mississippi Religious Freedom Restoration Act, which becomes law July 1. It’s basically Mississippi’s version of Arizona’s draconian SB1062 bill. The Mississippi Religious Freedom Restoration Act permits state-sanctioned discrimination against gays and lesbians by allowing businesses to refuse to serve them on the basis of religion.

But some folks aren’t having it.

photoGay rights activists from Get EQUAL Mississippi, PFLAG of Jackson, and two welcoming congregations are making a pilgrimage from Mississippi to New York, where they plan on staging a protest and passing out stickers that proclaim support for the LGBT community and for all the people in Mississippi who have been marginalized by Bryant and this hateful legislation. Their motto for the protest is “Ya’ll Means Ya’ll.”

Martin Todd Allen is one of the people spearheading the protest. 

5000 people are expected to attend this Mississippi-New York picnic in Central Park,” he tells Queerty in an e-mail. “And the few of us cannot do this without the help New York friends and LGBTQ allies.”

Allen is asking any one in New York who may be free to help distribute stickers to join them at the picnicon on June 14th from noon to 6 p.m.

We can’t help but wonder what Cher, who will be performing in NYC at the end of the summer, thinks about Governor Phil Bryant bringing his hate show to the Big Apple…

Graham Gremore

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Tourist Captures Video of Louisiana Man Feeding Marshmallows to Alligators with His Mouth: VIDEO

Tourist Captures Video of Louisiana Man Feeding Marshmallows to Alligators with His Mouth: VIDEO

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Local and state wildlife officials are investigating after a tourist from Oregon captured video of a man in a swamp in Lafitte, Louisiana frolicking with alligators and feeding marshmallows to them with his mouth.

Watch the insane video, AFTER THE JUMP


Andy Towle

www.towleroad.com/2014/06/gators.html

‘Card’ tricks

‘Card’ tricks

Beau Willimon, gay news, Washington Blade

Beau Willimon on the set of ‘House of Cards’ with actress Robin Wright. (Photo courtesy Netflix)

‘An Evening With Beau Willimon’

Smithsonian Associates

A discussion with David Carr of the New York Times

National Museum of Natural History

10th and Constitution, N.W.

$30 ($25 for Associates members)

Thursday at 6:45 p.m.

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Beau Willimon, the creator/writer/executive producer behind the hit Netflix series “House of Cards” will be in Washington — the show’s setting — next week for an appearance with the New York Times’ David Carr at the Smithsonian National Museum of Natural History.

On location in Baltimore where he and the crew are gearing up to film the third season, Willimon took a few minutes to talk about his characters, how far ahead he plans the show and why issues like sexual orientation probably don’t cross the minds of his lead characters, President Francis “Frank” Underwood (Kevin Spacey) and First Lady Claire Underwood (Robin Wright). His comments have been slightly edited for length.

 

WASHINGTON BLADE: You’ve said before the show (entire seasons of which are delivered at one time) works equally as well if somebody wants to “binge watch” or watch an episode at a time. Watching old serials like “Dallas” or “Dynasty” now on DVD, it’s so obvious the producers got a lot of mileage out of making the audience squirm and wait. What impact does the removal of that factor have on the show?

BEAU WILLIMON: The times they are a changing, for sure. But this began quite some time ago. As soon as box sets, DVR and On Demand came out, people began experiencing shows in binge-like fashion even if that term hadn’t yet been coined. I remember watching several seasons of “The Sopranos” and “Deadwood” like that. Even shows that were released week to week, a lot of people like myself and others experienced them several seasons at a time or you might watch a whole season over the course of days instead of weeks. I think those shows absolutely work if you watch them on a binge and Netflix has given people an opportunity to choose for themselves. There’s no requirement to watch them in a binge and a lot of people don’t. It’s just putting the experience in the hand of the viewer from day one.

 

BLADE: But does the fact that that’s even a possibility affect your pacing?

WILLIMON: No, because it has to be able to work both ways. A good story is a good story. We always thought of the first season as a 13-hour movie more than anything else. We had specific episodes that had a beginning, middle and end, but it’s really more like chapters of a book. If you’re reading a book, nobody tells you how much you should read in any given sitting. So we took that approach and I think it works.

 

BLADE: How has D.C. been to work with when you need establishing shots and that sort of thing?

WILLIMON: Great. Everyone in the film and television commission in Washington goes out of their way to help us out. There are a lot of security restrictions and rightly so since 9-11. It’s not as easy to film in D.C. as it may have been 20 years ago, but that’s the world we live in.

 

BLADE: “Mad Men” creator Matthew Weiner told Rolling Stone recently that he had a 10-minute conversation with Jon Hamm before they started shooting and told him the whole story of Don Draper, how it ends and everything. I’m not asking for specifics, but do you have “House of Cards” that planned out? Do you know how it ends?

WILLIMON: I don’t know if the conversation between Jon and Matthew encapsulated the entire series. Maybe it did. If that’s the case, Matthew had a very grand vision in mind. I always knew where the second season would end and I knew a lot of the big things that would happen along the way. I had conversations with Kevin and Robin and a number of the cast about where their characters were heading and the general direction of the story and where they would end up by the end of season two. I think it’s a good idea to give the actors as much information as possible. And I often made changes to the story based on what I was seeing in front of the camera and due to the fact that sometimes better ideas bubble forth in your head midway through the season. I also rely a lot on the discussions I have with the actors who, at a certain point, start to know the characters as well as the writer does. That dialogue feeds into the scripts we’re working on. Makes them richer, deeper, more complex. So I encourage that sort of collaboration.

 

BLADE: What would be an ideal number of seasons for you?

WILLIMON: I’m just tackling one season at a time. We’re at a day and age in television where people have come to expect a satisfying conclusion to a series and we definitely will aim for that with “House of Cards.” But as to the exact number of seasons, I don’t know yet.

 

BLADE: If backed into a corner, do you think Frank or Claire might push each other under the bus? They have an interesting marriage but it seems like self-preservation might trump all.

WILLIMON: You’re very sneaky in trying to get me to talk about upcoming seasons (laughs). One of the first things I established was that I wanted the show to be about marriage as much as anything else. Their marriage is certainly very unconventional. It doesn’t abide by a lot of the rules that a more traditional marriage does, but it works for them and they make each other stronger in the process. They do have their conflicts and they rub each other the wrong way and sometimes they’re a liability to each other, but so far they’ve always found a way around that and come out stronger in the process. As to how it will evolve, there’s only one way to find out.

 

BLADE: Their three-way with Meechum has generated a lot of fan discussion. What kind of dramatic purpose did it serve that they had a three-way with a man as opposed to a woman?

WILLIMON: Well yeah, sure. I think we should go back to the episode in season one where Frank says it best — I’m paraphrasing — but he essentially says that when he’s attracted to someone or something, he goes for it. He has a large appetite and he isn’t one to traffic in labels. He finds them limiting. A lot of people have asked me if Francis is gay, is he bi, is he pansexual? Is he any number of terms? And I don’t think Francis himself would have much patience for that conversation. His appetite is vast and we see him in all sorts of relationships. Some are purely transactional, some are based on love and respect as his marriage proves, and others are somewhere in between. In terms of the threesome between Claire, Francis and Meechum, what we were going after there was seeing a side of Francis and Claire that we don’t often get to see. They are human begins after all. They have desires and whims just like anyone else and they aren’t just always pure political calculations. Sometimes they have a few drinks and the circumstances might align in a way that the impulses take over. … I don’t think they’d ever be sloppy about it, but because they feel safe with him, that opens up possibilities. And one of the things I’m most proud of is that they don’t make much of a big deal out of it. The next day it’s back to business as usual. … That night was different than other nights, but it doesn’t mean the world was turned upside down and that’s fine. If we had made a big deal out of it, I think it would have been untrue to their characters and trying to place an accent on a syllable that didn’t deserve it.

 

BLADE: Are you straight?

WILLIMON: Yes. I mean if you’re going to use labels, I guess I would identify as straight.

 

BLADE: I’m intrigued that with all the technology available, you block out seasons with grids on dry erase boards. That’s so wonderfully old school.

WILLIMON: Well, we use Google docs and stuff like that too, but there’s still something to be said for having a big board in front of everyone on a wall where we can all see it. Throw something up, erase it. I guess you could do that with some sort of massive touch screen, but we do just fine with a dry erase board, some markers and a cork board with index cards. It all ends up in our Google docs and digital formats at some point.

 

BLADE: Tell us a little about the documentary you’re planning on Westerly Windina, the transgender Australian woman formerly known as pro surfer Peter Drouyn.

WILLIMON: I have a small production company called Westwood Productions with my producing partner, Jordan Tappis. He was a former pro world surfer so he’s very looped into the surfing community. He’s tight with a journalist named Jamie Brisick who has been writing about surfing for years. And Jamie got wind of Westerly’s story. Peter Drouyn was a hero to so many in surfing in the ‘60s and ‘70s, a true iconoclast. … He sort of fell off the face of the earth and Jamie wondered whatever happened to Peter Drouyn. And what he discovered was that Peter had fully realized herself as Westerly Windina and, of course, his curiosity took over. He began to interview her, to write about her and they eventually wrote a book. He approached Jordan and said, “I think we should do a documentary.” … It’s been quite a journey. Since we began filming, she did her operation and is fully a woman now physically. And the journey continues.

 

BLADE: With President Obama — and no disrespect meant to his work ethic or what he’s accomplished — but it felt to me like there was an inevitability to his presidency. That the planets had aligned in such a way for that to happen exactly when it did. Frank and Claire on “House of Cards” operate with an m.o. that for them to rise, others must go down. Is that an ethos you think works in the real world?

WILLIMON: Yes and no. Frank and Claire are an extreme version of power in Washington. They have no discernible ideology. Maybe Claire does on some issues a bit more than Frank does, but at the end of the day, they’re pursuing power for powers’ sake. I think most people who get into politics get into it for the right reasons. They want to serve their country, they want to make the world a better place. And yet the higher up the ladder you get and the more power you yield, you’re faced with all sorts of ethical choices and you have to make compromises for the sake of political expediency that might contradict deeply held beliefs. These ethical choices and contradictions erode your beliefs. In Francis and Claire, we have people who believe they’ve liberated themselves from such beliefs. They see ideology as quicksand that gives you no opportunity to navigate, to be flexible, to adapt. To a certain degree, I think that makes political sense. When you see, whether it’s the far right or the far left, people who are completely intransigent, then all you get is gridlock. The nature of politics is compromise.

Beau Willimon, gay news, Washington Blade

Beau Willimon is slated for an appearance next week at the Museum of Natural History. (Photo courtesy PMK-BNC)

Joey DiGuglielmo

‘Card’ tricks