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Open Question: Should I meet up with this uni acquaintance or not?
I did a 6 month University entrance course this year. I was in a group with some people and I guess got along well with this guy and girl. After the course had ended the guy actually contacted me and said we should catch up some time for coffee. Ever since then he’s asked “what are you doing tonight etc?”. Now his personality is the outgoing, friendly type of personality and I think he genuinely wants to be friends (I almost thought he’s gay). The problem is I’m very shy and quiet person but when I’m around more outgoing people I tend to try and be more talkative so it won’t be so awkward. I worry that if i meet with him the conversation will die out too quickly and he’ll think I’m boring or get wrong impression. It’s partly why I have been dismissing seeing him. I also don’t really like small talk or saying stuff/asking questions just to make up for silence. I know a lot of extroverts do that but I personally find it unnatural.
I feel bad if I don’t follow through with hanging out with him. I am free this weekend and I’m contemplating to let him know, at the same time I’m wondering if I should just let it go? I’m 23 and he’s 20. (I would never date him either).
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