Open Question: What should I say to this boy?
Hi, so I’m 18, gay and have recently been talking to this boy quite a lot who’s 21. We’ve only met once but he’s saying that he really likes me etc. On our first date he wanted to have sex but I refused and instead we went for food. I’m seeing him again tonight and he said he’s taking me for a meal and keeps telling me how much he likes me. However, I’m worried. Is he just after sex and is putting effort in because he sees an end result? Also, I’ve been completely honest with him apart from one thing. In numerous occasions when he’s asked about a relationship I’ve told him that I’m ready, however I feel far from ready as I’m just 18 and still want to have some fun – I think I mainly told him I want a relationship so he wouldn’t try to go into sex too fast, however now I’m stuck. Should I tell him my true feelings? I’m not sure whether he’s being honest or not when he says he likes me so I really don’t want to hurt him, but at the same time I feel so guilty telling someone I see myself with them for a ‘long time’ if I really no interest in him.
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