Gay Adult Performer Under Fire After Attending Packed NYC Dance Party in Violation of COVID-19 Guidelines and Posting It on Instagram

Gay Adult Performer Under Fire After Attending Packed NYC Dance Party in Violation of COVID-19 Guidelines and Posting It on Instagram

A gay adult performer is under fire after photos and videos he had posted to his Instagram stories of a packed NYC dance party spread on social media.

The NY Post reports: “Adult performer Ian Frost appeared to have deactivated his Instagram account as of Tuesday, but not before others shared footage they say he posted showing more than a dozen people crammed into an apartment for a raucous bash. The footage shared on social media showed a mostly shirtless crowd dancing together under strobe lights.”

Journalist Yashar Ali posted to Twitter: “In the middle of a pandemic, @IanFrostok thought it would be a good idea to post 51 Instagram stories (yes, 51) of a house party he went to last night and early this morning in NYC. So reckless. The DJ, DJ Alec Brian, has deactivated his Instagram. … This is how the party’s DJ, DJ Alec Brian, responded to a friend of mine. He says he had to take the paying gig to pay his rent (what about the rest of NYC and who paid him?) He added ‘by no means do I condon [Sic] or support social gatherings of this nature.’ This story keeps getting better and better! @IanFrostok did an interview about living in isolation! He certainly wasn’t living in isolation last night and early this morning!”

1. In the middle of a pandemic, @IanFrostok thought it would be a good idea to post 51 Instagram stories (yes, 51) of a house party he went to last night and early this morning in NYC

So recklesst.co/AZ8IoKMk73

The DJ, DJ Alec Brian, has deactivated his Instagram pic.twitter.com/ztCeEx9JRW

— Yashar Ali 🐘 (@yashar) May 5, 2020

3. This story keeps getting better and better! @IanFrostok did an interview about living in isolation!

He certainly wasn’t living in isolation last night and early this morning! t.co/EsHYdVaesg

— Yashar Ali 🐘 (@yashar) May 5, 2020

People are fucking dying left and right and the gays are having full on house parties on a Monday night in NYC. JAIL pic.twitter.com/6f8Q2YzAJf

— Phillip Henry (@MajorPhilebrity) May 5, 2020

Two minutes ago!!!!! Andrew Gillum bout to show up any minute!!!! pic.twitter.com/FLMvr0GUaT

— Phillip Henry (@MajorPhilebrity) May 5, 2020

What is THIS honey pic.twitter.com/UogHXreEwj

— Ira Madison III (@ira) May 5, 2020

The DJ at the party, Alec Brian, wrote that he had done the party to pay his bills.

View this post on Instagram

A post shared by ALEC BRIAN (@dj_alecbrian) on

In early April, Brian had advised people to stay home and have a “dance party for one.”

One Instagram user who had posted videos of the event to his story to scold the participants, commented, “the guy coughing on his HAND and then touching the guy he’s dancing with is the cherry on the corona cake. … a shitty recreation of the opening scene in The Normal Heart.”

dance party

The NY Post adds: “The Big Apple remains under strict lockdown orders with gatherings of any size banned. Residents in New York must also remain six feet apart while in public — and any violations can come up with fines of up to $1,000.”

The post Gay Adult Performer Under Fire After Attending Packed NYC Dance Party in Violation of COVID-19 Guidelines and Posting It on Instagram appeared first on Towleroad Gay News.


Gay Adult Performer Under Fire After Attending Packed NYC Dance Party in Violation of COVID-19 Guidelines and Posting It on Instagram

#AM_Equality: May 6, 2020

#AM_Equality: May 6, 2020

HUMAN RIGHTS CAMPAIGN ENDORSES VICE PRESIDENT JOE BIDEN FOR PRESIDENT: “Vice President Joe Biden is the leader our community and our country need at this moment,” said HRC President Alphonso David (@AlphonsoDavid). “His dedication to advancing LGBTQ equality, even when it was unpopular to do so, has pushed our country and our movement forward. This November, the stakes could not be higher. Far too many LGBTQ people, and particularly those who are most vulnerable, face discrimination, intimidation, and violence simply because of who they are and who they love. But rather than have our backs, Donald Trump and Mike Pence have spent the last three and a half years rolling back and rescinding protections for LGBTQ people. Joe Biden will be a president who stands up for all of us.” More from HRC, Associated Press and CNN.

  • The announcement of the endorsement coincides with the eighth anniversary of Biden coming out in favor of marriage equality on “Meet the Press.” Read more in the Washington Blade.
  • On Morning Joe, David announces HRC’s endorsement of Biden for president and why we must pull the emergency break on the hateful anti-LGBTQ agenda of the Trump-Pence administration and elect a Congress that will hold them accountable. More here.

HRC AND TRANS CAN WORK LAUNCH ‘WHO’S HIRING’ WEB SERIES TO SHARE OPPORTUNITIES, RESOURCES WITH TRANS JOB-SEEKERS: As part of HRC’s new Transgender Justice Initiative, the series will offer tips and resources for transgender and non-binary job seekers, who face disproportionate economic impact during COVID-19. “Transgender and non-binary people, particularly those of color, already experience higher unemployment and underemployment rates than their cisgender peers,” said HRC President Alphonso David. “With national unemployment soaring amidst the COVID-19 health crisis, the transgender and non-binary community stands to be further marginalized and cut off from economic security and opportunity.” More from HRC.

HRC MOURNS NINA POP, BLACK TRANS WOMAN KILLED IN MISSOURI: “For the past four weeks, we have seen the deaths of five transgender women of color in this country. We are seeing an epidemic of violence that can no longer be ignored,” said Tori Cooper, HRC Director of Community Engagement for the Transgender Justice Initiative (@MsToriCooper1). Pop’s death is believed to be the at least tenth violent death of a transgender or gender non-conforming person this year in the U.S., and the fifth known violent death in the past month — all transgender women of color. More from HRC.

WHAT WE’RE READING WEDNESDAY — LGBTQ SENIORS IMPACTED BY “TRIPLE WHAMMY” AMIND THE COVID-19 LOCKDOWN ISOLATION: “The two major issues facing LGBTQ elders right now are isolation and food,” said Michael Adams (@Adams_SAGEUSA), SAGE’s chief executive officer. “Older LGBTQ people have been told they are a high-risk group and to shelter in place. Many can’t go shopping or get food to eat. It’s a complete vicious circle, which for many people feels inescapable at this point.” More from The Daily Beast.

DESPITE MASSIVE SHORTAGES, GAY AND BI+ MEDICAL WORKERS ARE STILL BANNED FROM DONATING BLOOD: A report from HRC showed LGBTQ people in the U.S. are disproportionately likely to work in the medical field: 7.5% of all queer and trans people work in hospitals. Even though their labor is essential in responding to a pandemic, large segments of the LGBTQ community remain prevented from full participation. More from Vice.

IN THE STATES

BELFAST SENIOR TO GRADUATE AS MAINE’S FIRST OPENLY TRANSGENDER VALEDICTORIAN: More from Bangor Daily News.

GLOBAL EQUALITY NEWS

TAIWAN REPORTS IMPROVED INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN LGBTQ PEOPLE AND THEIR COLLEAGUES: More from Focus Taiwan.

Have news? Send us your news and tips at [email protected]. Click here to subscribe to #AM_Equality and follow @HRC for all the latest news. Thanks for reading!

www.hrc.org/blog/am-equality-may-6-2020?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss-feed

GLAAD Media Institute Reading Rainbow: XOXY by Kimberly Zeiselman

GLAAD Media Institute Reading Rainbow: XOXY by Kimberly Zeiselman

Kimberly Zieselman

In her newly-published memoir, XOXY, interACT’s Executive Director Kimberly Zeiselman shares her story of growing up intersex, finding community, and becoming the advocate she is today. We caught up with Kimberly to discuss her story, her work, and what’s next for her.

What were your motivations to write the book? Why did you feel it was important to share your story? 

I never planned to write a book, but the opportunity fell into my lap and I took a leap of faith. I’m driven by the mission to stop the harms caused by medically unnecessary surgeries on intersex children and the need to raise awareness – and outrage – using any medium possible. There is an enormous need for more intersex stories. There are very few intersex narratives currently in literature, film, television or other media.  How different my life (and the lives of thousands of others) may have been had I been able to read about, or watch on screen, an intersex person’s struggles and joys in the world. And not felt instead like an isolated freak.   

What was the impact you hoped writing and publishing XOXY would have, especially for intersex people? How has that compared to the actual responses you’ve received?

My hope is that readers will become enlightened by reading my intersex story and develop a sense of empathy for the intersex community and the families who love them. Helping to change hearts and minds, one at a time. I hope readers will takeaway an understanding of what intersex means, and that it is  not something to be afraid of, but instead something to be embraced as beautiful variances in human bodies and experiences. Specifically, for parents and family members of intersex children, I hope they will better understand the realities of invisible harm that may be done to a child, despite their best intentions, and that they will see that having an intersex child is not an emergency or something that needs fixing, but perhaps just a complexity that requires love, support and space for making decisions about their own body and identity. 

After nearly two years in the works, XOXY was finally released… during an international pandemic. With bookstores shuttered and media attention singularly focused on Covid-19, the book launch felt more like a misfire. Having said that, I do think more people are finding the time to read and I have received a number of positive supportive responses and I greatly appreciate each and every one. My fingers are crossed for rescheduled book events later this year.

c/o Kimberly ZeiselmanPhoto Credit: Kimberly Zieselman

“Intersex” and “transgender” are often unfortunately conflated in news and media, such as the coverage of Caster Semenya. How would you describe the differences between these two marginalized communities?

First, I think it is helpful to recognize why intersex belongs under the LGBTQ+ umbrella. Intersex refers to someone born with physical sex characteristics (such as genitals, internal reproductive organs, or chromosomes) that don’t line up with what is typically expected for either a male or female body.  It is not a sexual orientation, nor a gender identity. Intersex people as young as newborns experience discrimination, oppression and harm simply based on being perceived as “different.” In our case, bodily difference. That experience of discrimination based on other people’s fear of difference is a strong common experience that people born with intersex traits share with folks in the broader LGBTQ community. Furthermore, it’s important to respect everyone’s choices, and not all people born with variations of sex characteristics choose to identify as intersex, including Caster Semenya. In fact, many will also not identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community.  

Why is it important to talk about how prevailing attitudes as well as laws like Idaho’s HB 500 impact the intersex community, particularly intersex youth?

Intersex people are increasingly subject to the growing trend of anti-trans legislation being filed across the county. First it was the hateful “bathroom” bills that attempted to regulate use of public restrooms based on binary concepts of male and female bodies.  While aimed at transgender folks, intersex folks are getting swept up into these efforts based on outdated and unscientific notions of sex and gender. Most recently, the passage of Idaho’s HB 500 makes it legal to discriminate against young intersex and transgender athletes who identify as female and play high school or college sports. The new law permits invasive, harmful physical exams, testing and the disqualification from sport based on bodily differences.  Had this law been in effect when I was younger, because of my XY chromosomes and internal reproductive organs, I could have been banned from playing girls lacrosse in high school and college. 

How has the writing process for the book helped you grow as a person, a lawyer, a mother, and/or an advocate?

Writing the book was one of the hardest things I have ever done, but also one of the most rewarding. It allowed me an opportunity to intentionally put the many pieces of my journey together and try to make sense of it. It forced me to open myself up to being vulnerable in a way most never will experience. And I think with that ultimately comes greater self-acceptance and confidence, and ultimately peace. I hope that will only help make me a better person, mother and advocate.

What’s next for Kimberly Zieselman?

After seven years of intersex advocacy and leadership at interACT I am taking a sabbatical this summer. Planning to turn off social media and all things intersex and take a much-needed break. Then come back well rested and continue to advocate along with my amazing team for intersex representation, bodily autonomy and empowerment. There is still much work to do.

Photo Credit: Kimberly Zieselman

The intersex community is often discriminated against from birth and kept silent due to misinformation and shame. As advocates like Kimberly stand up for the visibility, respect, and bodily autonomy of her community, it is up to non-intersex individuals to listen to their stories and join their struggle. For those who want to learn more about Kimberly Zeiselman and better understand her experiences as an intersex individual, learn more about XOXY here.

Kimberly Zieselman is an alumni of the GLAAD Media Institute, which is offering virtual courses and workshops to activists and advocates around the country, and world, in the weeks to come, including a workshop on May 22ndClick here to learn more about how to join a course or workshop and use your voice as a GLAAD Media Institute alum.

May 6, 2020

www.glaad.org/blog/glaad-media-institute-reading-rainbow-xoxy-kimberly-zeiselman

Washington DC loses two of its biggest and longest-running gay venues

Washington DC loses two of its biggest and longest-running gay venues

 

View this post on Instagram

 

A post shared by Secretsdc.com (@ziegfeldssecretsdc) on

In the space of one week, two of the best-known and longest-running gay venues in Washington DC have announced that they are to close: Ziegfelds-Secrets and DC Eagle.

Both venues closed temporarily in mid-March following coronavirus-related orders from local authorities. On Friday, Ziegfelds-Secrets posted a notice to its social media to say it wouldn’t be reopening.

“Ziegfelds/Secrets regrettably has been forced to close our doors. We all have been honored to bring you the best in entertainment for 40 years, regrettably the option to stay and even have a closing event has been taken from us during this crisis.

“To the many dancers, drag queen, bartenders, DJs, and support staff over the years thank you for making us one of DC’s best venues. Stay safe and healthy. Til next time….”

Ziegfelds-Secrets claimed to be DC’s biggest LGBTQ venue, with 25,000 sq foot of space over two separate rooms: the drag show oriented Ziegfelds and the more club-focused Secrets with its male dancers. It launched in 1980 in premises at Half St. SE, but relocated 11 years ago to its current home at 1824 Half St. SW.

In 2016, it was revealed the venue was living on borrowed time. The Washington Blade reported the building was being sold to a property developer who would likely force the business out in “two or three years.”

That deadline kept getting extended. This week, part-owner and General Manager Steven Delurba told the Blade the new owners wanted the business out sooner than had been expected. They plan to demolish the site to build a new block of apartments.

It’s understood that Delurba and the principal owner, Alan Carroll, are looking into the possibility of moving to a new location, but at the moment, that’s far from certain.

Related: This US city is about to lose half its gay venues

The closure of Ziegfelds-Secrets was followed yesterday by the news that the DC Eagle bar would also not be reopening. Again, there had been recent speculation over the future of the business. Three months ago, the Washington Informer said there were plans to turn the building – a four-story former warehouse at 3701 Benning Road, NE – into a 300-bed prison halfway house.

Launched in 1971, the DC Eagle was the oldest gay bar in DC. Employees were informed of the decision not to reopen on Monday night during an online Zoom meeting.

Although it began life as a leather and denim cruise bar, in recent years, DC Eagle had become a more inclusive-space, easing its dress code and hosting regular drag shows and community fundraisers.

Eagle manager Miguel Ayala says he was informed during the meeting that the new owners of the building wanted the business out by September at the latest. He says DC attorney Glen Ackerman, representing part-owner Peter Lloyd, said that Lloyd and principal owner Ted Clements had decided to dissolve the business rather than seek new premises.

The news comes after the February closure of Washington DC’s last remaining bathhouse, Crew Club. Other gay bars to close in the district include Town Danceboutique in 2018 and Cobalt in 2019.

Related: Washington DC’s last remaining gay bathhouse to close this week 

www.queerty.com/washington-dc-loses-two-biggest-longest-running-gay-venues-20200506?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+queerty2+%28Queerty%29

Barbra Streisand Releases Tribute Video for COVID-19 Frontline Workers: WATCH

Barbra Streisand Releases Tribute Video for COVID-19 Frontline Workers: WATCH

Barbra Streisand released a new video for her track “You’ll Never Walk Alone” as a tribute to frontline healthcare workers on Tuesday. Streisand also encouraged listeners to donate to the nonprofit DirectRelief, which is providing aid during the COVID-19 crisis.

Writes Rolling Stone: “The song, written for the Rodgers and Hammerstein musical Carousel in 1945, was first recorded by Streisand in 1997, but her most famous rendition of the tune was at a surprise appearance at the close of the 2001 Emmy Awards. As Streisand notes at the beginning of the new clip, she sang “You’ll Never Walk Alone” at that time, nearly 20 years ago, to honor victims and first responders of the September 11 terrorist attacks. Since the worldwide COVID-19 outbreak, it has once again become an anthem for medical staff and essential workers.”

The post Barbra Streisand Releases Tribute Video for COVID-19 Frontline Workers: WATCH appeared first on Towleroad Gay News.


Barbra Streisand Releases Tribute Video for COVID-19 Frontline Workers: WATCH

Human Rights Campaign Endorses Vice President Joe Biden for President

Human Rights Campaign Endorses Vice President Joe Biden for President

Today, HRC announced its endorsement of Joe Biden for President. HRC’s Board of Directors, comprised of 26 community leaders from across the nation, unanimously and enthusiastically voted to endorse former Vice President Joe Biden for President of the United States. The endorsement comes on the 8th Anniversary of Biden’s endorsement of marriage equality in an interview on Meet the Press

“Vice President Joe Biden is the leader our community and our country need at this moment,” said HRC President Alphonso David. “His dedication to advancing LGBTQ equality, even when it was unpopular to do so, has pushed our country and our movement forward. This November, the stakes could not be higher.  Far too many LGBTQ people, and particularly those who are most vulnerable, face discrimination, intimidation, and violence simply because of who they are and who they love. But rather than have our backs, Donald Trump and Mike Pence have spent the last three and a half years rolling back and rescinding protections for LGBTQ people. Joe Biden will be a president who stands up for all of us.  HRC and our more than three million members and supporters will work day and night to ensure he is the next President of the United States.”

From his advocacy for strengthening hate crime laws in the late 1980s to championing landmark non-discrimination legislation such as the Equality Act, Joe Biden’s decades-long record supporting LGBTQ people is both strong and multifaceted. Few other national politicians have such a long record of acting on behalf of LGBTQ equality.

Throughout his campaign, Biden has committed to advancing LGBTQ equality as President. In 2019, just weeks after announcing his candidacy, Biden committed to passing the Equality Act as President at the 36th Human Rights Campaign Columbus Dinner. His campaign’s LGBTQ platform is the most comprehensive LGBTQ equality plan by a presumptive presidential nominee in our nation’s history.

As a Member of Congress over 36 years, Biden championed dozens of pieces of legislation providing greater protections for LGBTQ people. His support of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) advocated for our dignity in the workplace. And his courage to do what’s right, even though it may be unpopular, twice stopped two constitutional amendments enshrining marriage discrimination as the law of the land. Biden’s early support for HIV/AIDS resources helped establish the Ryan White HIV/AIDS Program. While as chairman of the Senate Foreign Relations Committee, Senator Biden helped secure the reauthorization of PEPFAR, which significantly expanded the funding and targets for treatment, care, and prevention of HIV/AIDS and repealed a statutory ban on visas for people who were HIV-positive. 

As Vice President, Biden continued his decades-long fight for LGBTQ hate crime prevention playing an integral role in passing the landmark Matthew Shepard and James Byrd Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act. He played a leading role in repealing Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell and opening service for transgender people giving LGBTQ service members the visibility and respect they deserve. In 2012, his support for the freedom to marry marked a major turning point for the marriage equality movement, contributing to a sea change in public opinion that ultimately culminated in a Supreme Court decision in Obergefell v. Hodges that made marriage equality the law of the land.

Throughout his career, Biden has been ahead of the curve on expanding protections and rights for transgender Americans. In 2012, he called transgender rights the “civil rights issue of our time” articulating a truth that many — even in his own party at the time — left unaddressed. He reiterated that statement when launching his LGBTQ platform earlier this year. He worked with President Obama to install transgender Americans throughout the administration including to positions within the White House. Throughout his campaign, Biden has elevated the need to address the epidemic of violence facing the transgender community — especially transgender women of color — and articulated a strong plan to empower transgender Americans in the workforce to help combat conditions that lead to that disporportionate violence.

In 2020, our engagement and mobilization efforts will only deepen. HRC has elevated Texas to a top-tier target state, growing our top targets to seven states: Arizona, Michigan, Nevada, Ohio, Pennsylvania Texas and Wisconsin. Across our 7 target states, HRC has identified 3.4 million Equality Voters at risk of not turning out — these voters will serve as our central focus in the months ahead of Election Day. HRC will have at least 45 full-time staff in these seven priority states and an additional 20 staff focused on a second tier of states and districts. 

In 2017,  HRC began the largest grassroots expansion in the organization’s four decade long history.  As part of that initiative, HRC has mobilized pro-equality voters nationwide to resist the Trump Administration’s attacks on LGBTQ people, immigrants, communities of color, and other marginalized communities.. To that end, more than three years ago, HRC placed full-time staff in six battleground states: Arizona, Michigan, Nevada, Ohio, Pennsylvania and Wisconsin to help mobilize our 3.3 million members and 57 million Equality Voters — voters who prioritize LGBTQ equality at the ballot box including LGBTQ people and our allies. HRC boosted turnout amongst Equality Voters from 36% in 2014 to 56% in 2018. In the 2018 midterms, HRC registered more than 32,000 voters and recruited more than 4,200 volunteers, who worked over 9,400 shifts and clocked more than 30,000 volunteer hours. In the critical final four days of the campaign, HRC staff and volunteers in get-out-the-vote efforts alone knocked on more than 80,000 doors, and held 36,400 conversations with voters at their doors and by phone on behalf of our endorsed candidates. That engagement led to an 81% win rate for HRC’s 480 endorsed candidates allowing us to pull the emergency brake on the hateful anti-LGBTQ agenda of the Trump-Pence administration and elect a Congress that would hold them accountable.

Paid for by Human Rights Campaign PAC. Not authorized by any candidate or candidate’s agent or committee.

www.hrc.org/blog/hrc-endorses-vice-president-joe-biden-for-president?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss-feed