A superhero mystery, a superhero sorority & the camp of Paul Lynde: What to Watch Halloween edition

A superhero mystery, a superhero sorority & the camp of Paul Lynde: What to Watch Halloween edition

Watchmen

Stepping out on a movie date this weekend? Netflix and chillin? Whatever your entertainment needs, we got your back (and hopefully your mind) with Queerty’s weekly “Culture Club” column with some of the highlights of new releases, streaming shows, classics worth revisiting, and what to drink while you watch.

The Catch: Watchmen

Anyone desiring a bit more gayness with their superheroes—and the moral questions they pose—should make sure to check out HBO’s new series Watchmen. A sequel to the landmark graphic novel, Watchmen picks up 30 years after New York was destroyed in an alien attack. The city of Tulsa has allowed its police force to don masks, essentially creating a vigilante superhero force in the process. The murder of a police chief sets a sinister plot in motion, with only Sister Night (Oscar-winner Regina King) left to unravel the true mystery. King dominates the screen with her tough-as-nails performance, and fellow Oscar alum Jeremy Irons has a ball as the aging gay hero Adrian Veidt. Jean Smart, of Designing Women also gives the performance of her life as the former hero turned FBI agent Laurie Blake. Watchmen has a lot more queerness going for it, though we can’t reveal all the details here. Suffice it to say it’s a groundbreaking series like nothing else out there, and one which dares raise the question: given all the evil in human history, is someone who saves humanity a hero? Or is he a villain?

Airs on HBO Sundays beginning October 20.

The We Know You Wanna: Will & Grace Season 11

Sometimes Halloween comes early. A sudden shifting of the NBC fall schedule bestowed an early gift from the Great Pumpkin on us all: the return of Will & Grace for it’s final final season These last 18 episodes pick up after the wedding of Jack (Sean Hayes) to Estefan Gloria (Brian Jordan Alvarez) and finds Grace (Debra Messing) unexpectedly expecting. Yes, she’s preggo. Karen (Megan Mulally) is also on hand to give Will (Eric McCormick) some lessons in phone sex with his boyfriend McCoy (Matt Bomer). As with old friends, we can’t help but feel comforted sharing in the lives of Will, Grace, et. al. We’ve said goodbye before, and even as we prepare to do it again, can’t help but wonder if we might see them have some new adventures yet again in the future.

Airs on NBC October 24.

The Stream: Gay Chorus Deep South

One of the best—and most inspiring—documentaries this year, Gay Chorus Deep South makes the leap from the film festival circuit to a theatrical release in select cities. The film follows the Gay Men’s Chorus of San Francisco on a tour of the reddest of red states in hopes of bridging the political divide and appealing for queer acceptance. Hate follows the chorus on its journey—though in a twist, it comes from places you might not expect. By turns funny and moving, Gay Chorus Deep South leads by example, reminding viewers that ending division starts with a very simple gesture: making friends.

Opens in LA October 30 and New York November 1. Full theatrical rollout is pending.

The Art House: Frankie

Out-gay director Ira Sachs (Keep the Lights On) returns with another quiet drama, this one featuring an all-star cast that includes Isabelle Huppert, Marissa Tomei, Greg Kinnear, and Brenden Gleeson. Frankie follows the title character (played by Huppert) as she struggles to make peace with her family—including her gay ex-husband–in the last days of her life. Quiet, elegiac and thoughtful, Frankie is not for everybody. That said, audiences that can get on board with a showcase for great actors, or the majestic scenery of the mountains of Portugal, will have found a most peculiar treasure in the film.

In select theatres October 25.

The Binge: Kappa Force

For anyone desiring some queer superheroics in a story not quite as heady as Watchmen, the campfest Kappa Force lands on the streaming service Pluto this week. Set at a major, unnamed university, the series follows freshman Jen (Madeline Weinstein of Alex Strangelove) as she joins forces with a superhero sorority to capture a frat boy supervillain, known only as The Douche. It’s that kind of show.

Streams on Pluto and XUMO October 27.

The Throwback: The Paul Lynde Halloween Special

With Halloween coming up this week, a gay spooktacular seems in order. It doesn’t get much gayer than The Paul Lynde Halloween Special, a campy and weird (and we mean weird) celebration starring the titular staple of Hollywood Squares. Lynde’s co-stars on this oh-so-70s hot mess: none other than Margret Hamilton, reprising her role as the Witch from The Wizard of Oz, Betty White as a Halloween beauty queen and Billie Hayes of H.R. Puffinstuff. It must be seen to be believed: the special is truly bizarre, wacky hilarious and gayer than gay Halloween…which says something.

Streams on Amazon.

The Read: Full Disclosure

On a note far more serious, author Camryn Garrett makes her debut this week with a novel unlike any other. Full Disclosure follows the life of Simone, an African-American teenager who arrives in high school with a secret: she’s HIV+. When a note appears in her locker threatening to expose her secret, Simone works to discover her mysterious blackmailer…and must confront the stigma against HIV. Garrett wrote Full Disclosure as a teenager herself. Now 19, it marks her debut as a promising young author, and brings the history of the disease—and prejudice against it—to a new generation.

Available in bookstores October 29.

The Sip: Witch’s Brew

 

For a bit of sippage this Halloween–especially necessary if braving The Paul Lynde Halloween Special–sip on this fruity martini. No doubt the treat will have you ready to trick

  • 2 1/2 oz Midori melon liqueur
  • 2 1/2 oz lemon lime soda 
  • 2 1/2 oz orange juice

Shake ingredients over ice in a martini shaker. Serve.

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Pete Buttigieg Moves Up to Second Place in New Iowa Poll

Pete Buttigieg Moves Up to Second Place in New Iowa Poll

Pete Buttigieg has moved to second place in a new Iowa State University poll. The poll follows another earlier this week from Suffolk University/USA TODAY which showed Buttigieg surging to third place.

Iowa State University reports: “Of likely caucus-goers, 20% said Buttigieg is their top choice among the field of Democratic presidential candidates. That moves him to second in the poll – up from fourth in September – just behind Sen. Elizabeth Warren who maintained her lead at 28%. The Iowa State University/Civiqs poll surveys the same pool of voters each month leading up to the Iowa Caucuses to understand how voter preferences are shifting. Dave Peterson, a professor and Whitaker Lindgren faculty fellow in political science who organized the poll, says Buttigieg’s ground game in Iowa is paying off.”

ISU adds: “Former Vice President Joe Biden and Sen. Bernie Sanders were tied for second in the September poll. Sanders is now third with 18% and Biden is fourth at 12%. The online poll of 598 likely caucus-goers also asked voters to list the candidate they do not want to win the nomination. Biden and Sanders topped this list. Peterson says Tulsi Gabbard was third, moving from nearly 7% in September to 17%.”

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The awkward moment a gay broadcaster is accidentally outed on live TV

The awkward moment a gay broadcaster is accidentally outed on live TV

Ryan Bridge
Ryan Bridge was outed on this morning’s The AM Show (Photo: Three)

A stand-in broadcaster on a popular New Zealand morning TV show was accidentally outed this morning during a live broadcast.

Watching the footage of the show (also broadcast on radio), it’s impossible not to feel sympathy for him that his decision when to publicly come out was taken out of his hands.

The incident happened on broadcaster Three’s The AM Show. Ryan Bridge was filling in for regular host Duncan Garner. Bridge was talking on-air with sports reporter Mark Richardson and news anchor Amanda Gillies.

The topic was collectors items, and the hosts invited viewers to let them know if they collected anything unusual.

The AM Show’s Mark Richardson and Amanda Gillies (Photo: Three)

Richardson and Gillies asked Bridge if he collected anything. When he didn’t come up with anything, Richardson quipped, “ex-boyfriends?”

Bridge is visibly taken back by the ‘joke’. You can watch the whole exchange via Stuff.

Related: Outed Iranian singer faces execution for being gay

After struggling to come up with a response, an uncomfortable-looking Bridge says, “Yes, it’s true, I’m gay. There we go, it’s out there.”

Shortly later, Bridge again addressed what had happened.

“If you caught what was said before on the show … it’s not something I’ve tried to hide. It’s something all my friends and family have known about for a very long time. The reason I haven’t chosen to share it with you at home, with listeners on my radio show, it’s just that, I don’t know, it’s not that interesting really, is it?

“And it’s my private business and my life and not something I have necessarily tried to hide, but it’s not something I’ve really bothered or cared to share with the world.”

He revealed he’d already received messages of support from viewers. He went on to say his co-host didn’t intend any malice.

“Mark didn’t do this on purpose. It wasn’t like he was being mean or he was trying to get me to say something I didn’t want to say. That was an innocent, honest mistake.”

Related: Politician could face prison time after being outed by an explicit gay video

Co-host Richardson then apologized.

“In three years of doing this job, this is as bad as I’ve ever felt. I say a lot of stuff on this show, and I mean it, and some of it walks the line. I just want to say I’m sorry.

“It’s because obviously, I love you so much as a person. Just me being a smartass and trying to poke fun at you for a comedic moment on the show has led to this, and I’m dreadfully sorry.”

Bridge concludes by saying his co-host has nothing to apologize over: “These things happen. It’s live television.”

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5 Tips for Surviving in an Increasingly Uncertain World

5 Tips for Surviving in an Increasingly Uncertain World

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A recent study showed that North Americans are becoming less tolerant of uncertainty.

The U.S. presidential impeachment inquiry has added another layer of uncertainty to an already unstable situation that includes political polarization and the effects of climate change.

As a clinical psychologist in the Washington, D.C. area, I hear people report being stressed, anxious, worried, depressed and angry. Indeed, an American Psychological Association 2017 survey found that 63% of Americans were stressed by “the future of our nation,” and 57% by the “current political climate.”

Humans dislike uncertainty in most situations, but some deal with it better than others. Numerous studies link high intolerance of uncertainty to anxiety and anxiety disorders, obsessive-compulsive disorder, depression, PTSD and eating disorders.

While no one person can reduce the uncertainty of the current political situation, you can learn to decrease intolerance of uncertainty by implementing these scientifically sound strategies.

1. Commit to gradually facing uncertainty

Even though humans encounter uncertain situations every day, we often avoid feeling the discomfort of facing the uncertainty.

When unsure how to best proceed with a work assignment, you might either immediately seek help, over-research or procrastinate. As you prepare for the day, uncertainty about the weather or traffic is quickly short-circuited by checking a phone. Similarly, inquiries about family or friends’ whereabouts or emotions can be instantly gratified by texting or checking social media.

All this avoidance of uncertainty leads to relief in the short run, but lessens your ability to tolerate anything short of complete certainty in the long run.

Tolerance for uncertainty is like a muscle that weakens if not used. So, work that muscle next time you face uncertainty.

Start gradually: Resist the urge to reflexively check your GPS the next time you are lost and aren’t pressured for time. Or go to a concert without Googling the band beforehand. Next, try to sit with the feelings of uncertainty for a while before you pepper your teenager with texts when he is running late. Over time, the discomfort will diminish.

2. Connect to a bigger purpose

Rita Levi-Montalcini.
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Rita Levi-Montalcini was a promising young Jewish scientist when fascists came to power in Italy and she had to go into hiding. As World War II was raging, she set up a secret lab in her parents’ bedroom, studying cell growth. She would later say that the meaning that she derived from her work helped her to deal with the evil outside and with the ultimate uncertainty of whether she would be discovered.

What gives your life meaning? Finding or rediscovering your life purpose can help you deal with uncertainty and the stress and anxiety related to it.

Focusing on what can transcend finite human existence – whether it is religion, spirituality or dedication to a cause – can decrease uncertainty-driven worry and depression.

3. Don’t underestimate your coping ability

You might hate uncertainty because you fear how you would fare if things went badly. And you might distrust your ability to cope with the negative events that life throws your way.

Most people overestimate how bad they will feel when something bad happens. They also tend to underestimate their coping abilities.

It turns out that humans are generally resilient, even in the face of very stressful or traumatic events. If a feared outcome materializes, chances are you will deal with it better than you could now imagine. Remember that the next time uncertainty rears its head.

4. Bolster resilience by increasing self-care

You have probably heard it many times by now: Sleep well, exercise and prioritize social connections if you want to have a long and happy life.

What you might not know is that the quantity and quality of sleep is also related to your ability to deal with uncertainty. Exercise, especially of the cardio variety, can increase your capacity to cope with uncertain situations and lower your stress, anxiety and depression. A new review study suggests that regular exercise may even be able to prevent the onset of anxiety and anxiety disorders.

Possibly the best tool for coping with uncertainty is making sure that you have an active and meaningful social life. Loneliness fundamentally undermines a person’s sense of safety
and makes it very hard to deal with the unpredictable nature of life.

Having even a few close family members or friends imparts a feeling that “we are in this all together,” which can protect you from psychological and physical problems.

5. Appreciate that absolute certainty is impossible

Nothing is certain in life. The sooner you start thinking about that fact, the easier it will be to face it.

Moreover, repeated attempts at predicting and controlling everything in life can backfire, leading to psychological problems like OCD.

In spite of civilization’s great progress, the fantasy of humankind’s absolute control over its environment and fate is still just that – a fantasy. So, I say to embrace the reality of uncertainty and enjoy the ride.

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Jelena Kecmanovic, Adjunct Professor of Psychology, Georgetown University

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#AM_Equality Tipsheet: October 24, 2019

#AM_Equality Tipsheet: October 24, 2019

HRC’S ROBIN MARIL WRITES FOR THE ADVOCATE ON THE DANGERS OF ANTI-LGBTQ JUDICIAL NOM STEVEN MENASHI: “Menashi has never shied away from embracing and promoting anti-LGBTQ rhetoric and has consistently used whatever platform he’s handed… to undermine our community’s fight for equality,” writes Maril, associate legal director at HRC. “Menashi is not neutral, nor fit to be an arbiter, and he has no place deciding the fates of people whose very personhood he will not protect.” Read the full op-ed at The Advocate.

A judge must have a demonstrated commitment to fairness & equality. Menashi falls dangerously short of this basic threshold & he has no place deciding the fates of people whose very personhood he will not protect. @HRC‘s Robin Maril in @TheAdvocateMag:
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— Alphonso David (@AlphonsoDavid) October 23, 2019

THANKFUL THURSDAY — HRC YOUTH AMBASSADOR SETH OWEN TALKS LEARNING TO LIVE AS HIS AUTHENTIC SELF AND CREATING THE SCHOLARSHIP FUND “UNBROKEN HORIZONS”: More from ABC 10.

UCLA’S WILLIAMS INSTITUTE RELEASES NEW REPORT ON LGBTQ PEOPLE WHO EXPERIENCE POVERTY: The report found that LGBTQ people across 35 states are 15% more likely to experience poverty than straight, cisgender people, with cisgender, bisexual women and transgender and gender non-conforming people experiencing the highest rates of poverty, at 29.4%. Read more here

MAN WHO ATTACKED TWO GAY MEN OUTSIDE A PORTLAND, ORE. BAKERY HAS BEEN CONVICTED UNDER OREGON’S BIAS CRIME LAW: Don Kirchhoff will face jail time and three years’ probation. More from KPTV.

LGBTQ AND HOMELESS YOUTH IN ATLANTA ARE MORE VULNERABLE TO TRAFFICKING, NEW GEORGIA STATE UNIVERSITY REPORT SHOWS: Read the full report here, and more from Youth Today and PinkNews

UNIVERSITY OF MISSISSIPPI MEDICAL CENTER HAS OPENED THE STATE’S FIRST LGBTQ HEALTH CLINIC: More from The Daily Mississippian

GLOBAL EQUALITY NEWS

NEW SHORT DOCUMENTARY LANDLINE FEATURES STORIES OF GAY & BISEXUAL FARMERS IN THE U.K.: More from The Atlantic

FIVE QUESTIONS ABOUT THE STATE DEPARTMENT’S NEW “COMMISSION ON UNALIENABLE RIGHTS”: More from HRC.

HRC WELCOMES 2019 GLOBAL FELLOW SIDITA ZAJA TO D.C.: Zaja (@siditazaja) is the executive director of United Pro LGBT, a nonprofit working to amplify the voices of LGBTQ people in Albania. More from HRC

.@HRC is proud to welcome Albanian LGBTQ advocate @siditazaja to Washington, D.C., to work alongside HRC staff as a 2019 HRC Global Fellow. ������️‍�� t.co/R6oZAq3t97

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) October 24, 2019

READING RAINBOW – Bookmark now to read on your lunch break!

Vice remembers Carol Stone, who was the first openly trans vicar in the U.K. 

Have news? Send us your news and tips at [email protected]. Click here to subscribe to #AM_Equality and follow @HRC for all the latest news. Thanks for reading!

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