#AM_Equality Tipsheet: October 21, 2019

#AM_Equality Tipsheet: October 21, 2019

BREAKING: HOLLY SPRINGS BECOMES FOURTH MISSISSIPPI CITY TO ENACT COMPREHENSIVE LGBTQ-INCLUSIVE NON-DISCRIMINATION PROTECTIONS: “Holly Springs has sent a clear message that all people are welcome, and all people should be protected from discrimination and bias-driven crimes in this city,” said Rob Hill (@RCH74), HRC Mississippi state director. “With four cities in Mississippi now having passed LGBTQ-inclusive non-discrimination ordinances, it is clear that Mississippians value inclusion, fairness and equality.” More from HRC.

Holly Springs just became the 4th city in Mississippi to enact comprehensive LGBTQ non-discrimination protections. We’re grateful to Mayor Kelvin Buck & the Board of Aldermen for enacting these protections & to all the activists who made this win possible. t.co/d3UrinBwxL

— Alphonso David (@AlphonsoDavid) October 19, 2019

MUST WATCH MONDAY — REMEMBERING THE 10TH ANNIVERSARY OF THE MATTHEW SHEPARD AND JAMES BYRD JR. HATE CRIMES PREVENTION ACT: Cynthia Deitle (@cynthiamdeitle) of the Matthew Shepard Foundation (@MattShepardFDN) read a powerful letter from Dennis & Judy Shepard (@WyoJudyShepard) to Attorney General William Barr. Their son, Matthew, was attacked in an anti-LGBTQ hate crime and died days later. Watch the powerful video here

“Either you believe in equality for all or you don’t.”

Judy and Dennis Shepard, the parents of Matthew Shepard, had strong words for Attorney General William Barr following the Department of Justice’s long string of anti-LGBTQ stances under the Trump-Pence administration. pic.twitter.com/nATd0fsEt0

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) October 19, 2019

TEXAS HOUSE LGBTQ CAUCUS HOLDS FIRST-EVER MEETING: More from KTSM.

MEET RAYCEEN PENDARVIS (@RayceenHRH) — BELOVED DC ACTIVIST AND MOTHER TO DC’S TRANS COMMUNITY: More from The Washingtonian and Tagg Magazine

Each month, @HRC is honored to host @AskRayceen, a live variety program which serves as a safe space for LGBTQ people. Thank you @RayceenHRH for creating a welcoming and unifying space.t.co/wuFZC8XYId

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) October 18, 2019

MORNING MUST READ — “CELEBRATE YOUR KID’S TRANSITION. DON’T GRIEVE IT”: Meredith Talusan (@1demerith) writes beautifully for The New York Times about her own transition, pushing back against the concept of “mourning” when a trans person bravely comes out to live their truth. More from NYT.

ATLANTA MAYOR’S OFFICE LAUNCHES LGBTQ RESOURCE HUB: More from Atlanta Journal-Constitution.

GLOBAL EQUALITY NEWS

HONG KONG COURT UPHOLDS BAN ON MARRIAGE EQUALITY AND CIVIL UNIONS: More from Reuters.

HRC ATTENDS PRIDE CONNECTION MX SUMMIT IN MEXICO CITY: More from HRC

.@HRC is proud to attend the @P_ConnectionMX Summit in Mexico to learn from business leaders working for LGBTQ diversity & inclusion.

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HRC se enorgullece de asistir a la #PCMsummit 2019 en México para escuchar a líderes trabajando por la diversidad e inclusión LGBT. pic.twitter.com/PwIQqrYRTM

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) October 19, 2019

HRC IS ACCEPTING APPLICATIONS FOR THE 2020 GLOBAL INNOVATIVE ADVOCACY SUMMIT: Advocates can apply until Nov. 15 to participate in the April 2020 summit. More from HRC.

READING RAINBOW – Bookmark now to read on your lunch break!

Glassdoor offers resources for employees who come out as transgender; Out Magazine reflects on the historic same-sex kiss on Dawson’s Creek

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Netflix’s Rhythm + Flow is Now Streaming: Meet Black & Queer contestant Cakes Da Killa and Catch Episodes 1-7 Now

Netflix’s Rhythm + Flow is Now Streaming: Meet Black & Queer contestant Cakes Da Killa and Catch Episodes 1-7 Now

Photo Credit: Adam Rose/Netflix

Global superstars Tip “T.I.” Harris, Chance the Rapper, and Cardi B, search for the next hip hop sensation in Netflix’s Rhythm + Flow, the streaming platform’s first music competition show. The series brings together industry legends across a multi-city search in hip hop epicenters Los Angeles, New York, Atlanta and Chicago, to find raw talent and help undiscovered artists pursue their come up.

Rhythm + Flow is a standout music competition show due to its various contestants and the trio of judges. The world already knows Cardi, Chance, and T.I., but it’s their unlikely teaming up that brings the show a new level of freshness. Additionally, finding local talent in each of their hometowns, Chicago, New York, and Atlanta, to journey to Los Angeles to start a music career proves quite the challenge and thrill. While most music competition shows focus on voice and singing ability, Rhythm + Flow delivers in the areas of cadence, pace, fun, and personality.

Photo Credit: Adam Rose/Netflix

I got a chance to chat with Rhythm + Flow contestant, Cakes Da Killa, to discuss his experience in the competition and what it meant to be an out queer artist in Hip Hop.

Photo Credit: Atsushi Nishijima/Netflix

DaShawn Usher (DU): Hey Cakes. I definitely have heard your work and have followed your journey in music. You’ve been rapping for a while and have done the festival circuits. How did you hear about the show and what made you decide to audition for the show?

Cakes Da Killa (Cakes): I was sent the casting call from a friend who thought I’d be perfect for the show. I was kind of hesitant to audition as a reality show wasn’t on my to-do list. I’ve been asked before for other shows, but it wasn’t my vibe at that time. What made me decide to take it seriously was that it was going to be centered around the personalities and people’s background. So I figured I’d give it a shot. Also, I’m not getting any younger so the time is now.

DU: Can you describe your experience knowing that you would be performing in front of Cardi B? Did you get nervous once you found out who the other guest judges were?

Cakes: Initially, I knew I’d be performing in front of Cardi B. So I wasn’t really nervous about that. It actually was the other people I had to perform in front of that I wasn’t aware of when joining the show. So walking in, I was really guarded and already had my armor up for the judges and contestants. However, it was more comforting than I expected. Everyone was really nice. I didn’t get nervous performing because I’ve been doing this for about eight years. I just knew I didn’t want to be prejudged due to my sexual orientation. I knew I had more to offer than that. I was willing to make the sacrifice though. Especially if it meant that it would be good for visibility to showcase being a Black queer artist for the people coming after me.

Photo Credit: Atsushi Nishijima/Netflix

DU: What did it feel like when you got the greenlight from Jadakiss and Fat Joe?

Cakes: For me to get the green light was an accumulation of all the work that I’ve built up to this point. Being Black, gay, and effeminate, I always had to fight an uphill battle. But it also meant that I had to face that. So getting the green light meant that I was willing to be the face for that community. Also, I knew that regardless of what happened that I was facing my obstacles by just being there in that moment.

DU: The show definitely has a classic hip-hop feel. It seems like we are in an era of authenticity. What would be your advice for any up and coming queer artist that is interested in hip-hop?

Cakes: My advice is to just do you. The landscape of music has changed drastically. It’s honestly now more about working on your craft. People are more focused on clout and viral, but that is not going to get you far. The talent is what you have to focus on and continue to work towards.

Photo Credit: Netflix

DU: How has it been working with the other contestants? Has there been any challenging moments with personalities?

Cakes: So, we started walking in I was the most guarded one. There were about 30 to 40 people waiting to audition in New York. It basically was the rap version of FAME. If you could picture everyone just trying to get their stuff together, that’s what it felt like. So I had my little drink ready just in case anyone tried it. People had their areas they were focused on so no one was clashing. Everyone was just trying to do their best.

DU: Finish the sentence: “My best moment on Rhythm and Flow was ______.”

Cakes: Getting the confirmation email.

Photo Credit: Greg Gayne/Netflix

DU: What can fans, both your original and new ones, expect from you next? Do you have any upcoming shows?

Cakes: I’m actually preparing a single as we speak and have some live shows coming up. I recently relocated to Georgia. So to keep up with my music and future shows people can follow Cakes Da Killa on all social media platforms.

We definitely will be watching and following along with Cakes Da Killa and all the other contestants as they pursue their dream of becoming Hip Hop’s next superstar. Catch Hustle + Flow on Netflix now. Episodes 1 – 7 are now live with the finale episodes (8-10) rolling out on Wednesday, October 23rd. Additional guest talent that appears on Hustle + Flow includes Snoop Dogg, Quavo, Fat Joe, Anderson .Paak, Royce da 5’9,” Nipsey Hussle, Big Boi, Killer Mike, Twista, Lupe Fiasco, Jadakiss, Ebro, Miguel, Teyana Taylor, Jhené Aiko, Tory Lanez, Ty Dolla $ign, DJ Khaled, Smack, King Los, Sounwave, Hit-Boy, London on da Track, Tay Keith, Denaro Love, Off-the-Wall, Kal Banx, G-Dav, John Legend, DJ Hed, DJ Oreo, DJ Scratch, DJ Holiday, Charm La’Donna, and Adam Blackstone.

October 20, 2019

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Azealia Banks slams those taking PrEP and blasts “dumbass” Frank Ocean

Azealia Banks slams those taking PrEP and blasts “dumbass” Frank Ocean

Azealia Banks (Photo: @azealiabanks | Instagram)

Azealia Banks found herself the center of controversy (again) over the weekend after she criticized Frank Ocean for launching a queer club night entitled PrEP+.

Singer and rapper Ocean launched the club at short notice last Thursday in New York City. Announcing news of the event, GayLetter said: “The night is named PrEP+ as an homage to what could have been of the 1980s’ NYC club scene if the drug PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) – which can be taken daily to prevent HIV/AIDs for those who are not infected but are at high risk – had been invented in that era.”

Related: Frank Ocean kicks off his own queer club night: PrEP+ 

In an Instagram story, Azealia Banks took exception to the name and voiced criticisms of the medication – which is taken by users to prevent them from acquiring HIV. She questioned the drug’s potential side effects and people allowing others to cum inside them.

Azealia Banks has made some points AGAIN! Gays stay off that prep shit because the white media is plotting on y’all & you’re making it too damn easy for them pic.twitter.com/nN47VTiPGY

— ?????? (@lavishxjustin) October 19, 2019

“There’s no reason you need to have a fucking pill so you can just fuck whoever you wanna fuck,” she said.

“The boys are still getting HIV. The girls are getting fucking renal failure. They’re getting liver fucking failure, they’re getting anal warts, they’re getting anal cancer, OK? That’s a fucking death trap.”

“And for that dumbass n*gga Frank Ocean to sit up there and fucking promote that to y’all gays like that’s something that y’all need? It’s evil. And he’s probably getting paid.

“Y’all stay off that fucking PrEP.”

She suggested that anyone taking PrEP may have a “sex addiction” and should seek help from a psychiatrist, before imploring people not to allow “everybody” to cum inside them and, “be responsible!”

Related: Azealia Banks takes aim at Troye Sivan in series of Tweets 

One of those to criticize Banks’ comments was Olly Alexander of the band Years and Years. Alexander is currently filming a Russell T Davies drama set in London in the 1980s, exploring the impact of AIDS on the gay community.

Pls don’t listen to azealia banks talk about prep if you want some information i highly recommend @TeamPrepster and this page here t.co/yeWE7c4O2r

— olly ? (@alexander_olly) October 19, 2019

“Pls don’t listen to Azealia banks talk about prep if you want some information I highly recommend @TeamPrepster and this page here prepster.info/prep-faqs/,” said the gay singer on Twitter.

“We absolutely won’t be listening to any mis-information or shaming of people taking prep!

“There are lots of reasons why somebody might choose to take prep. we want people to have access to health care and to feel empowered to make the choices right for them.

“This issue is extremely complex and touches on our collective history as queer people and our relationship to HIV.

“I ask for people to be a little thoughtful before they start labeling people on prep as – in Azealia’s case, just whores who want it raw. It’s homophobic and actually it does not concern you in the slightest.”

Frank Ocean has not responded specifically to Banks’ comments, although he posted a Tumblr post in response to some of the criticism of his club night. He started by clarifying that the event was in no way sponsored by Gilead, the manufacturer of Truvada.

Ocean went on to say he wanted to pay tribute to the 80s and 90s club scene, but also acknowledge how that scene was impacted by HIV and AIDS.

“Now in 2019, there’s a pill you can take every day that will at a better than 90% chance prevent you from contracting HIV. This pill was approved by the FDA in 2012. The pricing strategy behind it is malicious in my opinion and so it’s public perception is marred and rightfully so.

“But the fact remains that despite price being a very real barrier to this potentially life saving drug for some, the other very real barrier is awareness.

“I decided to name, what was otherwise going to be a night of lights and music inspired by an era of clubbing that I loved PrEP+ because while designing the club … I started to imagine in an era where so many lives were lost and so much promise was lost forever along with them, what would it have been like if something, anything had existed that in all probability would’ve saved thousands and thousands of lives.”

Related: You thought the Azealia Banks / RuPaul drama was all played out? Think again.

Banks, who is bisexual, is no stranger to controversy. The “212” singer has previously blasted drag culture and RuPaul, and called Perez Hilton and Zayn Malik “faggots.”

At the time, she defended her use of the word “faggot” by saying she believed it similar to gay men using the word “bitch’ to refer to women, but later said she would stop using it when she realized that it was not worth the hurt it caused to people.

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André Aciman Speaks Out About ‘Call Me By Your Name’ Sequel: ‘I Think This Ends the Tale of Elio and Oliver’

André Aciman Speaks Out About ‘Call Me By Your Name’ Sequel: ‘I Think This Ends the Tale of Elio and Oliver’

Call Me By Your Name author André Aciman is speaking out about Find Me, his sequel to the first novel, which follows the characters of Elio and Oliver in adulthood and arrives on October 29 (SPOILERS AHEAD).

Aciman told British Vogue that for the first time, we hear from Elio’s father Sami as the book opens with a section from his perspective. The name “Sami” is something Aciman said he “stole” from the film.

Aciman said that the characters tell their stories at 10, 15, and 20 year intervals following the timeframe of the first novel. Elio’s father becomes involved with a younger woman while Elio becomes involved with an older man named Michel.

The book leads to a “long-awaited, inevitable reunion” between Elio, and Oliver, who “is in an unhappy marriage, ruminating over his love affair with Elio,” according to The Guardian, which calls the book an “unashamedly romantic and philosophical novel.”

Added Aciman: “They are clearly more mature now and know how fragile life can be. They have both had other relationships, they know that they have to be careful and that a separation, should it occur again, would be devastating. Find Me gave me a sense of closure and finality. Of course, life is full of surprises and no road is without bumps or wrong turns. But I think this ends the tale of Elio and Oliver.”

The plot, released previously by Farrar, Straus and Giroux: “In Find Me, Aciman shows us Elio’s father Samuel, now divorced, on a trip from Florence to Rome to visit Elio, who has become a gifted classical pianist. A chance encounter on the train leads to a relationship that changes Sami’s life definitively. Elio soon moves to Paris where he too has a consequential affair, while Oliver, now a professor in northern New England with sons who are nearly grown, suddenly finds himself contemplating a return visit to Europe.”

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André Aciman Speaks Out About Imminent ‘Call Me By Your Name’ Sequel: ‘I Think This Ends the Tale of Elio and Oliver’