Well that’s a first: Broadway show ends in real-life same-sex wedding

Well that’s a first: Broadway show ends in real-life same-sex wedding

The Prom already made history in November when two performers from the show shared the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade’s first same-sex kiss. And on Saturday, August 3, the Tony-winning Broadway musical made history again by hosting Broadway’s first known on-stage wedding, per The Advocate… and a lesbian wedding at that!

The newlyweds? Armelle Kay Harper, a script coordinator for the show, and Jody Kay Smith, an actress and singer who recently worked with the show’s musical director. The guests? The entire cast of The Prom, plus about 1,000 Longacre Theatre audience members who didn’t know they’d be attending a wedding that night, according to The New York Times.

Harper tells the newspaper she had just left a rehearsal in 2017 when she opened Bumble and found Smith’s profile. The lovebirds started chatting, and Smith was taken by Harper’s sense of humor.

“We’re both really witty people, and it’s hard to find someone who can keep up,” Harper adds. “But she really got me, and she made me laugh. Plus those blue eyes. What can you do? Gorgeous.”

Related: Figure skaters Eric Radford and Luis Fenero get hitched in romantic Spanish wedding

They got serious very quickly — so quickly, in fact, that Smith proposed to Harper 19 days after they met. Bob Martin, one of the writers of The Prom, came up with the idea of the wedding. “He said, ‘Well, I’ve married people onstage before, so if you wanted to just get it over with and do it at curtain call, we can do that,’” Smith says.

And the setting was perfect for the couple: The show, which is being adapted for the screen by Ryan Murphy, focuses on a lesbian couple in Indiana who campaign to attend prom together.

Isabelle McCalla (left) and Caitlin Kinnunen star as Alyssa and Emma in The Prom.

“There are so many shows where lesbians are secondary characters or the butt of the joke,” Harper tells the Times. “We all love Fun Home, but it’s a drama. So The Prom is really unique in that it’s a celebration, and it’s funny without being at the expense of lesbians. It’s just so much joy.”

Related: Ryan Murphy and Netflix have a huge queer announcement

Now the couple is getting ready for a larger ceremony in Smith’s hometown next month. Harper says that she grew up in an “incredibly homophobic” environment and that most of her family won’t be attending their ceremony next month.

“Even coming from that background, I’ve never felt a pinch of regret or shame,” she says. “Loving Jody is worth everything. And being myself is worth everything.”

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Birthday Gifts That Won’t Freak Out the Guy You Just Started Dating

Birthday Gifts That Won’t Freak Out the Guy You Just Started Dating

Let’s be honest, shopping for guys is not easy. This is especially true when you have just started dating one and his birthday is coming up. How do you choose a gift that balances the stage in your relationship without getting overly romantic? Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered. Here are several gifts your new […]

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Ryan Murphy has a huge announcement about his next collaborator

Ryan Murphy has a huge announcement about his next collaborator

Queer TV impresario Ryan Murphy has announced his next collaborator: Monica Lewinsky.

Lewinsky will join Murphy to produce the next season of American Crime Story titled American Crime Story: Impeachment. The anthology series will retrace the story of the Lewinsky Affair, as the scandal has become known, and feature actors from Murphy’s usual stock company. Both Sarah Paulson and Annaleigh Ashford, who have worked on previous seasons of ACS, will return to the show as Linda Tripp and Paula Jones, respectively. Queer actress Beanie Feldstein of Booksmart will play the role of Lewinsky.

Related: Ryan Murphy & Netflix have a huge queer announcement

Monica Lewinsky became a household name in the mid-1990s when her friend Linda Tripp leaked news that Lewinsky had engaged in an affair with then-President Bill Clinton while working as a White House intern. Lewinsky, only 22 at the time, endured a firestorm of media scrutiny and crude jokes as she was called before Whitewater prosecutor Ken Starr. The details of the sexual relationship between Lewinsky and Clinton became the subject of The Starr Report and served as grounds for Clinton’s impeachment.

Ryan Murphy had considered doing a series on Lewinsky as early as 2017 based on Jeffery Toobin’s book A Vast Conspiracy: The Real Story of the Sex Scandal That Nearly Brought Down a President. The Hollywood Reporter also reports that Murphy later reconsidered his decision, telling Lewinsky at a party that he would not do the show without her. “I told her, ‘Nobody should tell your story but you, and it’s kind of gross if they do. If you want to produce it with me, I would love that; but you should be the producer and you should make all the goddamn money,’” Murphy says.

American Crime Story: Impeachment will debut in September 2020, just before the 2020 Presidential election.

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Boycott of Equinox, SoulCycle Gyms Urged After News That Billionaire Owner is Hosting Trump Fundraiser

Boycott of Equinox, SoulCycle Gyms Urged After News That Billionaire Owner is Hosting Trump Fundraiser

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Calls to ‘boycott Equinox’ rang out across social media after news broke that Stephen Ross, the owner of luxury fitness chains Equinox gym, SoulCycle, Blink Fitness and PURE Yoga, is hosting a $250,000 Trump fundraiser in the Hamptons on Friday.

The Washington Post reports: “Money raised at these fundraisers will go toward Trump Victory, a fundraising committee for both the Trump 2020 campaign and the Republican National Committee.”

News of the event has inspired calls to boycott Ross’s brands.

I’ve started this t.co/aykmdJ0O2m petition to voice our outrage, as members, at this betrayal by @Equinox. Please sign it.

Equinox: Demand EQUINOX end its support of DONALD TRUMP – Sign the Petition! t.co/a09GO0FPNU via @Change

— Wilson Cruz (@wcruz73) August 7, 2019

Yikes, @soulcycle too!

— Brian Sims (@BrianSimsPA) August 7, 2019

I literally just cancelled my equinox membership because of this.

— HandsomeBLuckypants (@BLuckypants) August 7, 2019

#boycottequinox – Don’t fund hate. Plus @realDonaldTrump has been boycotting the gym for years, why support him? #WhiteSupremacistInChief

— Cornelius Suttree (@suttree7) August 7, 2019

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This Disney star may have just saved some lives by coming out as bi

This Disney star may have just saved some lives by coming out as bi

Cyrus, Andi Mack, Joshua Rush, bisexual, coming out
(image via The Disney Channel)

Joshua Rush — the 17-year-old actor who played Cyrus Goodman, the first Disney character ever to say the words “I’m gay” — recently came out as bisexual.

You may recall that in October 2017 Rush participated in the Disney Channel’s first-ever coming-out scene when his character in the pre-teen drama series Andi Mack revealed his crush on a boy. Although the show subsequently left Goodman’s sexuality mostly unexplored, in February 2019 his character actually uttered the words “I’m gay” in another groundbreaking first for the channel.

But Rush himself had never publicly declared his own same-sex attraction … until just yesterday.

In a Twitter thread, he wrote:

first! i win! it’s me. i’m bi. And now that I’ve said that, I have a few things to rant about. There are more important things to talk about than me liking a whole bunch of genders, but I do want to share a few things with you guys.

I saw so many of you watch Cyrus come out and said “Hey! I can be me!”

How ironic, isn’t it, that me, playing that character, never had mustered up that courage?

Instead of feeling the courage to tell you today that I am an out and proud bisexual man because of the character I played for four years, I feel that courage thinking of all of you, who felt emboldened by Cyrus to come out.

I had a close friend of mine come out to me in fifth grade. FIFTH GRADE! That was well before I had any clue of my own identity and orientation. I suffered with some level of my own internalized homophobia even while playing the first openly gay character on Disney Channel.

I stuffed the existential crisis of talking about my sexual orientation into a box in my mind for years. Today, I release it into the world.

Being bi isn’t all of my identity, nor is it the most important part of my identity. Bi erasure and issues like it are important, but trans women of color still have a life expectancy of THIRTY FIVE YEARS and that is absolutely unacceptable …

Thank you to you for giving me the courage to know who I am and tell you this today. Happy 20biteen!

He then encouraged his followers to donate to The Trevor Project and GLAAD and to read GLAAD’s page on bisexuality.

Rush’s coming out and education on bi issues are great for other bi people, for visibility’s sake and to help reduce biphobia.

In a 2018 profile of Dr. Brian Dodge, a lead researcher on bisexuality and the health disparities they face, Dodge said “the vast majority” of biphobia he faces comes from gay and lesbian people.

A 2013 Pew survey found that bisexual people come out at rates three times less often than gay men, have four times fewer LGBTQ-identified friends than gay men and report higher levels of societal mistrust than gay men. This is because of “monosexism” — prejudice against those who are attracted to more than one gender —and negative stereotypes that cast bi people as confused, deceitful, ultra-slutty or trying to benefit from “straight/passing privilege.”

As a result, research suggests that bi people stay closeted because of the discrimination they face from other queer people and face more health disparities and mental illness than gay people.

By education people on bi issues, Rush is doing his part to help reduce anti-bi stigma while possibly saving a few queer youngsters’ lives in the process.

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Tom Brady Was Upset His Son Didn’t Want to Do ‘Boy Things’ Like Play Sports

Tom Brady Was Upset His Son Didn’t Want to Do ‘Boy Things’ Like Play Sports

New England Patriots quarterback Tom Brady told Men’s Health that he was upset when one of his sons decided that he didn’t want to play sports like his dad. And now he’s learned his lesson.

Said Brady of his two sons: “Jack loves sports. He wants to try hard, and he never wants to disappoint his dad. That was me. I’d wake up early on weekends to do stuff with my dad. That’s why I didn’t party a lot. If Dad wanted to golf, I wanted to be there with him. And if I ever missed those things, it would crush me. When Benny came along, I thought he would be just like Jack. So I was like, ‘C’mon, let’s do this.’ And he was like, ‘Nope.’ And I was like, ‘What? No, do this!’ And Gisele kept saying to me, ‘Would you effing understand that your son is different?’ It was hard for me. I was like, ‘What do you mean? He’s a boy; he should just do all these things that I do.’ The reality is that Benny just likes different things. And it’s great because now I just have to go do what he wants to do. When we do that, we have the best time. He’s like, ‘OMG, Dad, you’re so funny.’ He loves joking, and I joke back.”

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#AM_Equality Tipsheet: August 7, 2019

#AM_Equality Tipsheet: August 7, 2019

TODAY — HRC WELCOMES NEW PRESIDENT ALPHONSO DAVID: David, a civil rights lawyer and longtime LGBTQ advocate, is the first civil rights lawyer and the first person of color to serve as HRC president in the organization’s nearly 40-year history. He previously made history as the first openly gay counsel to the governor of New York and the state’s first deputy secretary and counsel for civil rights. This fierce, compassionate and strategic leader takes HRC’s helm at a critical time, when LGBTQ people, women, people of color, immigrants and refugees and others are being confronted with daily attacks on our most basic rights. Read more about David, whose appointment was announced in late June, in the Associated Press, Advocate, Washington Blade and HRC.

  • AN ELOQUENT FAREWELL FROM OUTGOING PRESIDENT CHAD GRIFFIN:

Leading @HRC the past seven years has been the honor of my life. Some final thoughts of gratitude as I wrap up my last day in the office. pic.twitter.com/xjOSvMcD4t

— Chad Griffin (@ChadHGriffin) August 6, 2019

HRC MARKS ANNIVERSARY OF THE VOTING RIGHTS ACT, RENEWS CALL FOR CONGRESS TO PASS H.R. 4: “The right to vote is a central principle and a bedrock of our democracy,” said HRC Government Affairs Director David Stacy (@david_stacy). “Full equality will not be achieved until we halt the systematic efforts to restrict access to the ballot box, disenfranchise voters and undermine our democracy.” More from HRC

On #VRA54, @HRC renews its call to Congress to #RestoreTheVote and pass the Voting Rights Advancement Act — critically important civil rights legislation that would ensure fair access to the ballot for all Americans is protected. #HR4 t.co/GeSK9f1yKa

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) August 6, 2019

CIVIL RIGHTS ORGANIZATIONS,  ADVOCATES DEMAND WHITE HOUSE AND U.S. SENATE TAKE ACTION AGAINST GUN VIOLENCE: More from Ramsey Touchberry (@ramsberry1) in Newsweek.

NO SURPRISE HERE — PENCE MEETS WITH HATE GROUP AND SAYS “THERE IS NO PLACE IN AMERICA” FOR HATE: His confab with the Alliance Defending Freedom (ADF), which has called for the criminalization of same-sex relationships, marked the third time in five days Pence has appeared with anti-LGBTQ extremists. More from ShareBlue and the New Civil Rights Movement.

WHAT WE’RE READING WEDNESDAY — THERE IS NO ROOM FOR DISCRIMINATION IN HEALTH CARE: “The truth is, no one has to accept being turned away by a health care provider or insurer because of their sexual orientation or gender identity,” writes Julianna S. Gonen (@JulieGonen) of the National Center for Lesbian Rights. More from Advocate

  • Connecticut insurance commissioner opposes Trump-Pence rollbacks on protections for transgender people. More from Hartford Courant.

HOW BLACK PRESS PAVED THE ROAD FOR LGBTQ EQUALITY: “[The Chicago Defender] provided extensive coverage of Black queer life in Chicago, and in the 1970s…it reported sympathetically on the city’s nascent movement for LGBTQ equality,” writes Timothy Stewart-Winter (@timothysw), an associate professor at Rutgers University-Newark. The Chicago Defender, which was founded in 1905 to serve the city’s Black community, has moved to an online format, ceasing print publication entirely. More from The Washington Post.

NO HATE IN THE STACKS — “TO ME, LIBRARIES ARE FOR ALL OF US”:  “They are moldable space where you take what you want and you can leave what you don’t, where you are challenged and you are comforted, but above all, they are a place where you are welcomed,” writes the Des Moines Register’s Iowa columnist Courtney Crowder (@courtneycare) about Paul Robert Dorr, who was fined for burning LGBTQ-themed books he’d checked out from the Orange City Library. More from Des Moines Register.

WE CANNOT NORMALIZE HATE — THE LATINX COMMUNITY STANDS UNITED: “The violence in El Paso is not about immigration policy. It is about promoting the hate, fear and division sown by President Trump,” writes Janet Murguía (@JMurguia_Unidos), president of the UnidosUS, in the NYT oped. “Violence is a terrifying but not unexpected outcome when our nation’s leader tries to normalize hate.” More from The New York Times.

GLOBAL EQUALITY NEWS

���� ���� HRC’S JAY GILLIAM HIGHLIGHTS LGBTQ ISSUES IN THE U.S. AND CHINA: In an interview with the National Committee on U.S. – China Relations (@NCUSCR), Gilliam explains the differences between HRC and Zhitong Guangzhou LGBT Center’s programming, including HRC Global Fellow Program, how health care and LGBTQ issues intersect and social attitudes toward the LGBTQ community in both countries. Watch more on YouTube.

WORK SHOULD BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL LGBTQ PEOPLE — COMING OUT AS TRANS AT WORK IN THE UK: “[T]ransitioning at work has given me a voice where I never had a voice before,” says trans rights advocate Aoife Martin (@aoifemrtn). More from HuffPost.

READING RAINBOW – Bookmark now to read on your lunch break!

Medium features a powerful profile of  HRC Foundation Board Co-Chair, author and activist Jodie Paterson (@jodie_GeorgiaNY); NewNowNext shares that Andi Mack actor Joshua Rush (@JoshuaRush) came out as bisexual.

Thank you for sharing your truth, @JoshuaRush, no doubt inspiring other bisexual people along their journeys to living authentically.

This #thread is a powerful reminder of the importance of telling LGBTQ stories and sharing our experiences. ������ t.co/6i9wml9n4X

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) August 6, 2019

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