OP-ED: Inaugural Southern HIV/AIDS Awareness Day launches today, August 20th: Everything you need to know about the day and why it matters to the Southern community

OP-ED: Inaugural Southern HIV/AIDS Awareness Day launches today, August 20th: Everything you need to know about the day and why it matters to the Southern community

Credit: SHAAD

“Freeing yourself was one thing. Claiming ownership of that freed self was another.” (“Beloved,” 1987) – Toni Morrison

While there are many days that seek to raise awareness around HIV/AIDS throughout the year (National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day, National Youth HIV & AIDS Awareness Day, World AIDS Day) for the first time ever, this year the eyes of the HIV/AIDs community will collectively turn to the Southern United States on August 20 as we mark the inaugural Southern HIV/AIDS Awareness Day (SHAAD).

Southern HIV/AIDS Awareness Day (SHAAD) is the first ever day dedicated to looking at the HIV/AIDS epidemic on a local level in the south, and for that reason it is already slated for a strong kick off. Organizers, private industries, government officials, and communities will join together to make their mark in shaping history. While the day will exclusively focus on the South, the awareness day is also an opportunity for people from across the country to join a national movement to raise awareness, erase HIV-related stigma and discrimination, and advocate for new and necessary resources and solutions to stem the tide of HIV/AIDS in the South.

According to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), “the South now experiences the greatest burden of HIV infection, illness, and deaths of any U.S. region, and lags far behind in providing quality HIV prevention and care to its citizens.” Year after year, more people are diagnosed with HIV in the South than the rest of the country combined. It should come as no surprise why organizers and founders of the day decided to take a break from summer to bring much needed attention to their community.

 

So what exactly will this day mean to people living and working in the South? As I was thinking of the best way to share that with the readers of GLAAD, I thought there could be no better way than to hear directly from the people themselves. These are Southern voices who are planning to commemorate the day across their communities they serve from across the region. 

Shanell McGoy, PhD, MPH, Associate Director, Gilead COMPASS Initiative,
Gilead Sciences Inc.

When the rate of HIV infections in the South is one third higher than the national average, we need to think broadly about how we tackle this problem at the intersections. I’ve dedicated my career to addressing the growing HIV epidemic, particularly in the Southern U.S., and #SHAAD2019 is an important step in a nationwide effort to look at this issue holistically. We’ve come so far in this fight together as one community and with a voice louder than ever. We can go further to end the epidemic in our country.

Aquarius Gilmer, M.Div., Director, Government Affairs & Advocacy,
Southern AIDS Coalition
State: Alabama

The inaugural SHAAD means that a new wave of a movement building is taking place that raises the awareness of the HIV crisis in the South. SHAAD centers the unique challenges, needs and possibilities for Southerners as we seek to mount a sustainable response to significantly reduce HIV. SHAAD is an opportunity for local communities to be reinvigorated and double down on our data-driven-advocacy, medical and non-biomedical interventions and stigma reduction efforts.

Jasmine Tasaki, Executive Director, WeCareTN
State: Tennessee

SHAAD means a lot here in Memphis Tennessee. We are consistently in the top five in the country for new HIV diagnoses, so this day means raising awareness to save our community in a major way. The stigma associated with HIV/AIDS needs to be dismantled city by city, and state to state. The lives impacted in our city is large in number, so there should be a large amount of awareness as well. This day is so important to ending the epidemic by 2030. More importantly is the conversations that have to be had on a small scale to serve as a vehicle to move small, rural, or marginalized communities into the mainstream conversation.

Coleen K Cunningham, MD, Professor of Pediatrics, Duke University Medical Center
State: North Carolina

Southern HIV/AIDS Awareness Day provides an opportunity to increase awareness of the HIV epidemic and to educate everyone that people with HIV are not to be feared, avoided, or blamed. The ultimate goal is to decrease the stigma. People who are living with HIV shouldn’t have to deal with taking on the significant stigma that is so common in the Southern US. 

Quintay Knight, Artist, NMAC’s Youth Initiative
State: Florida

Living in the South I’ve witnessed so many wonderful individuals and organizations from all different backgrounds come together in support of this day to form a collective power. There’s nothing like seeing your community and other communities come together in unity to love, support, and bring awareness.

Venita Ray, Deputy Director, Positive Women’s Network – USA
State: Texas

We are pleased to see the first Southern HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and hope that it will bring attention to the unique geographical, political and historical dynamics of the south that are at the heart of why it bears the greatest burden of the US HIV epidemic.  As a resident of the South, I want others to know that we are more than our HIV burden. We invite the rest of the country to work with us in eliminating the socio-economic and racial inequities that make our communities vulnerable to HIV.

Julian Walker, Actor, BET’s Being Mary Jane and Author, A Year Without You
State: Mississippi

Awareness about HIV/AIDS within the South is needed because the conversation tends to still be taboo and rooted in stigma. Growing up in Mississippi, the education we’ve received around testing and sexual health wasn’t enough. We as a community must also learn the importance of prevention options such as Pre-exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP) or Post-exposure Prophylaxis (PEP) and treatment advances like Undetectable = Untransmittable (U=U).

Milan N. Sherry, Lead Organizer & Founder, Nola Trans March of Resilience
State: Louisiana

I am a transgender woman, an organizer, and a Southern girl originating from New Orleans, L.A. I have navigated the care-scene professionally and as someone living with HIV. I am a leader, a mother, a teacher, an activist, and an advocate, who has lead organizations, developed programs and did countless hours of outreach for LGBT communities and for people living with HIV/AIDS. In the South, I have witnessed a comparable difference when navigating care, access, and resourcing professional caregivers who possess knowledge in the Southern region. Awareness days like SHAAD, hopes to create an impact with real aims and are all the more important to our Southern communities. Southern-organized events like the 2nd Annual Nola Trans March of Resilience, happening this November 20th, is a testament to that communal survival and peer-education we need. SHAAD provides the scope and lens that it is important for us in the South find our commonality, through understanding the facts about the issues sweeping our region.

Min. Alphonso Mills, Community Advocate
State: South Carolina

With the impact of the HIV/AIDS epidemic on the South, the inauguration of SHAAD shines a light on the systematic and social issues that perpetuate the stigma and spread of HIV. While medications are improving to help people live longer lives, HIV stigma in religious communities, barriers to accessing adequate healthcare, increasing homelessness amongst LGBTQ youth, and other determinants impact the likelihood of the most impacted communities obtaining the medication and taking it daily.

Living with HIV for 6 years, and contracting HIV in the South, it touches home to have a day to stand boldly in my truth, and show people in my community that it is possible to live with HIV and “Live my best life!” This day could be the catalyst to show the world that while the South has struggled with fighting this epidemic, it is time to bring our layered intersections together and address the real problems we face in the South. We must look at our community as individualized pieces that make up a beautiful mural of resilience and strength tied together in respect for one another.

Kendall Boone, Co-Founder/Marketing Director, He Is Valuable, Inc.
State: Georgia

For my community organization, HIV is a tangible reality, one we don’t have the privilege to live outside of when our younger brothers, cousins, bristas seroconvert on an almost daily basis. For me and my community, SHAAD means an awareness of everyone in the South, from the privileged to the disenfranchised, to wake up and realize the reality of HIV. The beauty of HIV in 2019 is biomedical prevention and treatment empowers everyone, regardless of HIV status, to take control of their HIV status.

Dr. Celeste Watkins-Hayes, Author of Remaking a Life: How Women Living with HIV/AIDS Confront Inequality, Professor of Sociology and African American Studies & Faculty Fellow in the Institute for Policy Research at Northwestern University

SHAAD represents an important call to action to address the HIV epidemic in the South. My book, Remaking a Life: How Women Living with HIV/AIDS Confront Inequality, unequivocally demonstrates that we cannot end the epidemic unless we build a supportive infrastructure that wraps its arms around the community. Access to health care, economic resources, social support, and political voice are vital tools necessary to prevent new infections and to assist people living with HIV.

Remaking a Life is available on Amazon and Indie Bound

To learn more about Southern HIV/AIDS Awareness Day, visit southernsolution.org
Also today show your support and share your stories on social #SHAAD2019

 

August 20, 2019

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Antigay youth pastor busted from sexting teen boy, asking for x-rated pics

Antigay youth pastor busted from sexting teen boy, asking for x-rated pics

Another day, another antigay preacher busted for being a pervert. This time it’s Paxton Singer, a former youth pastor at Harvest Bible Chapel in Aurora, Illinois, who allegedly asked a 16-year-old boy to send him nude pics and sneak away with him for a weekend alone together.

According to prosecutors, 24-year-old Singer “knowingly enticed a person under 17 years of age to remove their clothing for the purpose of sexual arousal or gratification of the defendant or the child.”

He and the teen met at a church event. Afterwards, Singer allegedly sexted the boy for almost a year, between October 2016 and August 2017.

When leaders at Harvest Bible Chapel learned about the relationship in January 2018, they claim Singer was “involuntarily terminated for cause” and that they notified authorities immediately.

“Three incidents related to the former employee in question were all reported to DCFS during the second and third week of January 2018.” Scott Milholland, the senior executive pastor at Harvest Bible Chapel, told the Chicago Tribune. “Further contact between our staff and DCFS beyond that time period were follow-up related and did not involve any new incidents.”

But officials at the Illinois Department of Children and Family Services (DCFS) tell a different story. They say the charges against Singer, which include disorderly conduct and sexual exploitation of a child, didn’t result from the church calling them in January, but instead came after a hotline call placed several months later.

“The DCFS child protection investigation was completed in October 2018, and Paxton Singer was indicated for sexual exploitation,” officials say.

Meanwhile, Newsweek reports:

On Friday, Kane County Circuit Judge Michael Noland ruled that another alleged teen—whose exploitation Singer was not being charged with—could testify about inappropriate texts and Snapchat messages. Noland said the texts to the “uncharged victim” were similar enough that his testimony was relevant. (Another alleged victim is not being allowed to testify, as he was 17 at the time and therefore wasn’t legally considered a child.)

Singer’s trial was originally scheduled to begin in July, but was rescheduled to start September 4.

According to church rules, Harvest Bible Chapel believes that God “is the sole authority in matters of marriage and sexuality for all people, and that marriage involves the sacred joining together of one man and one woman in faithful, permanent union.”

Related: Antigay pastor has breakdown in pulpit, admits to having “affair” with underage boy to entire church

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Everybody on the Floor: Todrick and Ciara Just Dropped a ‘Nails, Hair, Hips, Heels’ Remix: LISTEN

Everybody on the Floor: Todrick and Ciara Just Dropped a ‘Nails, Hair, Hips, Heels’ Remix: LISTEN

Todrick has enlisted Ciara for a tongue-popping remix of his summer anthem “Nails, Hair, Hips, Heels” that should have you shablam-ing through Labor Day.

Said Ciara to Billboard: “Todrick is such a visionary, I have been a fan of his work for some time now. It’s exciting to see what he’s going to create every time he drops something. He reached out to me a while ago to join him on one of his songs, and this was the track that I loved … This is such a fun song that anyone can dance to, especially in the club! I’m so excited that it is finally out!”

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Everybody on the Floor: Todrick and Ciara Just Dropped a ‘Nails, Hair, Hips, Heels’ Remix: LISTEN

Colton Haynes shares heartbreaking photos taken during his addiction to pills

Colton Haynes shares heartbreaking photos taken during his addiction to pills

Colton Haynes is once again opening up about his struggles with addiction in hopes of helping others.

Yesterday, the Arrow star shared several photos with his 6.4 million followers on Instagram that were taken while he was suffering from an addiction to prescription pills.

“I don’t want worrying about if I look hot or not on Instagram to be my legacy,” Haynes writes. “I no longer want to project a curated life.”

Haynes goes on to say that “worrying about what time to post on social media so I can maximize my likes or being mad at myself that I don’t look the same way I did when I was addicted to pills is a complete waste of why I was put on this earth.”

“I’m posting these photos to let y’all in on my truth,” he says. “I’m so grateful to be where I am now ( a year after these photos were taken) but man these times were dark. I’m a human being with flaws just like you. If ur in the middle of the dark times…I promise you it doesn’t have to last forever.”

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Throwback. I don’t want worrying about if I look hot or not on Instagram to be my legacy. I don’t want to skirt around the truth to please other people or to gain economic success. I have far more important things to say than what magazine I just shot for or what tv show I’m a part of (Although I’m very thankful I still get to do what I love). I no longer want to project a curated life. I get immense joy when someone comes up to me & says that my willingness to open up about depression, anxiety, alcoholism, & addiction has helped them in some way. I’ve struggled the past year with trying to find my voice and where I fit in & that has been the most beautiful struggle I’ve ever had to go through. Worrying about what time to post on social media so I can maximize my likes or being mad at myself that I don’t look the same way I did when I was addicted to pills is a complete waste of why I was put on this earth. I’m posting these photos to let y’all in on my truth. I’m so grateful to be where I am now ( a year after these photos were taken) but man these times were dark. I’m a human being with flaws just like you. If ur in the middle of the dark times…I promise you it doesn’t have to last forever. Love y’all ??

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Earlier this year, Haynes spoke with Attitude about his struggles with drugs and alcohol.

“In 10 years, there were maybe 25 days I didn’t drink,” he said. “I used to blame it on my anxiety or depression issues, but really the root of all my problems was the alcohol and drugs.”

He continued, “Once I went to treatment, I found this amazing amount of true love for myself, and started figuring out who I am without those vices, and recognizing the people in my life who lifted me up instead of tearing me down.”

“I’m always going to be in recovery. There are so many people struggling out there, but not a lot of them talk about it. Life is much more beautiful than I could have imagined. It’s just a different life now.”

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Harry Styles Strips Down for ‘Rolling Stone’

Harry Styles Strips Down for ‘Rolling Stone’

The world looks likely to see a new album soon from One Direction’s Harry Styles as we’re seeing a publicity blitz kicked off with a shirtless Rolling Stone cover, photographed by Ryan McGinley.

On newsstands September 3rd@RollingStone
: Ryan McGinley pic.twitter.com/XJ0jRSwddU

— HSHQ (@HSHQ) August 20, 2019

Styles finished his solo world tour a little more than a year ago at The Forum in Los Angeles.

During the concert he reacted to a gay fan who was holding up a sign for the singer.

Said Styles after approaching the fan: “Can I read [the sign]? It says ‘I’m gay and I love you.’”

“I love you as well,” Styles replied. “Thank you for coming. I mean, we’re all a little bit gay.”

RELATED: Harry Styles Wants to ‘Make America Gay Again’ – WATCH

Styles showed support for the LGBTQ community throughout the tour. He sold tour merchandise – rainbow t-shirts with the phrase “Treat People With Kindness” – that benefited GLSEN. He held up a rainbow flag that said “Make America Gay Again”.

Styles sent fans into a frenzy on social media in March 2018 after performing his track “Medicine” at a gig in Basel, Switzerland. Some suggested the lyrics meant he was coming out as bisexual.

Styles was tight-lipped when asked about his sexuality in a 2017 interview with UK tabloid The Sun.

“It’s weird for me — everyone should just be who they want to be,” said Styles. “It’s tough to justify somebody having to answer to someone else about stuff like that.”

RELATED: ‘Billboard’ Takes a Deep Dive into the Voyeuristic ‘Femme’ Gender Signals in Harry Styles’s Cover Art

When asked if he gives his sexual orientation a label, Styles said: “No, I’ve never felt the need to really. No.”

But he praised artists like Miley Cyrus, who do discuss it: “Being in a creative field, it’s important to be ­progressive. People doing stuff like that is great.”

ALSO: Harry Styles Asks Niall Horan if He Can Sit on His Face

Styles also told a French talk show that he sees LGBT equality as something that’s “fundamental” and not political.

In 2014, Styles told One Direction bandmate Niall Horan “Hey, don’t knock it ’til you try it,” when Horan was asked about dating men.

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Colton Haynes Shares Photos of ‘Dark Times’ During Addiction to Pills

Colton Haynes Shares Photos of ‘Dark Times’ During Addiction to Pills

Arrow actor Colton Haynes shared several photos on Monday taken during his addiction to pills in an effort to be more transparent about his life and help others struggling with the same issues.

View this post on Instagram

Throwback. I don’t want worrying about if I look hot or not on Instagram to be my legacy. I don’t want to skirt around the truth to please other people or to gain economic success. I have far more important things to say than what magazine I just shot for or what tv show I’m a part of (Although I’m very thankful I still get to do what I love). I no longer want to project a curated life. I get immense joy when someone comes up to me & says that my willingness to open up about depression, anxiety, alcoholism, & addiction has helped them in some way. I’ve struggled the past year with trying to find my voice and where I fit in & that has been the most beautiful struggle I’ve ever had to go through. Worrying about what time to post on social media so I can maximize my likes or being mad at myself that I don’t look the same way I did when I was addicted to pills is a complete waste of why I was put on this earth. I’m posting these photos to let y’all in on my truth. I’m so grateful to be where I am now ( a year after these photos were taken) but man these times were dark. I’m a human being with flaws just like you. If ur in the middle of the dark times…I promise you it doesn’t have to last forever. Love y’all

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Wrote Haynes: “I don’t want worrying about if I look hot or not on Instagram to be my legacy. I don’t want to skirt around the truth to please other people or to gain economic success. I have far more important things to say than what magazine I just shot for or what tv show I’m a part of (Although I’m very thankful I still get to do what I love).”

“I no longer want to project a curated life,” he added. “I get immense joy when someone comes up to me & says that my willingness to open up about depression, anxiety, alcoholism, & addiction has helped them in some way. I’ve struggled the past year with trying to find my voice and where I fit in & that has been the most beautiful struggle I’ve ever had to go through.”

“Worrying about what time to post on social media so I can maximize my likes or being mad at myself that I don’t look the same way I did when I was addicted to pills is a complete waste of why I was put on this earth,” he continued. “I’m posting these photos to let y’all in on my truth. I’m so grateful to be where I am now ( a year after these photos were taken) but man these times were dark. I’m a human being with flaws just like you. If ur in the middle of the dark times…I promise you it doesn’t have to last forever. Love y’all ”

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#AM_Equality Tipsheet: August 20, 2019

#AM_Equality Tipsheet: August 20, 2019

TRANSGENDER IMMIGRANTS AND ASYLUM SEEKERS FACE ABUSE, NEGLECT AND HARASSMENT IN U.S. DETENTION FACILITIES: “I was placed where everyone can see me,” said Ishalaa Ortega (@Ishalaa), a transgender woman from Tijuana, Mexico. “My makeup was destroyed, facial hair was growing, and they could laugh at me. Even the police officers were laughing at me.” Read more from Alexia Puente at the Texas Observer.

THIS BACK TO SCHOOL SEASON, LEARN MORE ABOUT HRC FOUNDATION’S HBCU PROGRAM: The HBCU Program empowers LGBTQ young people to lead effectively at the intersections of race, religion, gender identity, class and sexual orientation on their campuses and in their communities: Learn more here.

This #BackToSchool season learn more about @HRC Foundation’s #HBCU Program, which empowers LGBTQ young people to lead effectively at the intersections of race, religion, gender identity, class and sexual orientation on their campuses and in their communities. #HBCUatHRC pic.twitter.com/pWuOvkkIf1

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TUESDAY TWEET — KARAMO BROWN SHOWS HIS SUPPORT FOR TRANS & NON-BINARY PEOPLE AFTER TRUMP-PENCE EFFORTS TO ABANDON PROTECTIONS FOR TRANSGENDER EMPLOYEES: More here.

#HeyFriends, our Trans & Non Binary loved one are under attack! The Trump Administration’s Department of Justice has asked the Supreme Court to rule that federal law that prohibits employment discrimination NOT protect transgender people. #ThisIsNotOkay pic.twitter.com/xkYIDssneh

— Karamo Brown (@Karamo) August 19, 2019

HOW NON-BINARY IDENTITY IS RESHAPING FASHION: More from The New York Times.

THE GUARDIAN SPORTS WRITER NICKY BANDINI (@NickyBandini) COMES OUT AS TRANSGENDER: More from The Guardian.

Some personal news…t.co/6DhG9cor9G pic.twitter.com/MxVPRpwMnH

— Nicky Bandini (@NickyBandini) August 16, 2019

GLOBAL EQUALITY NEWS

LEADER OF CONSERVATIVE RULING PARTY IN POLAND CONDEMNS LGBTQ PRIDE MARCHES: More from Openly.

PALESTINIAN AUTHORITY POLICE BAN PALESTINIAN LGBTQ ORG FROM HOLDING ACTIVITIES IN THE WEST BANK: More from The New York Times.

BERLIN MEMORIAL TO LGBTQ PEOPLE KILLED IN HOLOCAUST VANDALIZED: More from Associated Press.

READING RAINBOW – Bookmark now to read on your lunch break!

Outsports interviews openly bisexual track and field athlete Kaitlyn Long (@kaitlynlong34); Los Angeles Blade reports on disturbing reports of anti-Semitic and anti-LGBTQ actions in Southern California.

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