Congratulations to Estela and Spencer from California!

Congratulations to Estela and Spencer from California!

A bad love experience is no reason to fear a new love experience. Estela made sure of this. She writes: “It only took two unsuccessful dates in order for me to meet my future husband. I was new to Zoosk and didn’t have a lot of experience with online dating. The automatic messages that Zoosk

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Your ability to get aroused affects your productivity and overall happiness

Your ability to get aroused affects your productivity and overall happiness

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A new study found that dudes with erectile dysfunction (ED) also tend to experience lower workplace productivity and overall quality of life. So why are men with ED having trouble getting all these things up? Let’s take a closer look….

Researchers looked at survey data dating from 2015 and 2016 for more than 52,000 men between ages 40 and 70 from Brazil, China, Italy, Spain, France, Germany, the United Kingdom and the United States.

Related: This “nullo” man felt more masculine and had better sex after getting his penis removed

About half of then men (49.7 percent) experienced ED by having trouble “achieving and maintaining an erection over the previous six months.”

Men with ED reported higher rates of absenteeism at work (7.1 percent vs 3.2 percent), working while ill or injured (22.5 percent vs 10.1 percent), impaired work productivity (24.8 percent vs 11.2 percent), impaired overall activity (28.6 percent vs 14.5 percent) and lower overall mental health based on something called the Mental Component Summary.

Looking at this data, one might assume that men with ED just get bummed out and start performing poorly at work and life. But it’s more that ED is often linked to clinically diagnosed anxiety and depression, factors which can make it more difficult to keep an erection and perform well at work.

Previous studies also suggest that many men with ED may suffer from cardiovascular disease, obesity, type II diabetes and lower testosterone levels, all of which tend to correlate with higher depression levels as well.

Put another way: It isn’t just a lack of a boner that lowers your overall functioning and quality of life but rather the presence of other physical and mental health factors which likely contribute.

“The results of the current study further suggest the need for better management and appropriate treatment, especially among those with ED in the work force, as the burden may prove to be a significant, under?recognized concern for patients and employers alike,” researchers wrote.

If this study or ED bums you out, don’t get too (ahem) down because guys who have trouble staying aroused in bed, can still be happy, productive and even have fulfilling sex lives. Erections aren’t everything and some men with ED find success in medication, openly discussing their sexual fears and needs or focusing more on intimacy, closeness and physical sensations.

The study was published in the International Journal of Clinical Practice.

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NJ Mayor Calls Teaching Kids About LGBTQ History ‘an Affront to Almighty God’ — VIDEO

NJ Mayor Calls Teaching Kids About LGBTQ History ‘an Affront to Almighty God’ — VIDEO

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Alfonso Cirulli, the mayor of Barnegat Township, New Jersey, called the LGBTQ movement “an affront to Almighty God” at a township committee meeting this week, reacting to a new law that will require public schools to teach students about LGBTQ history and prominent LGBTQ individuals.

According to CBS Philly/AP, Cirulli said the government “has no right to teach our kids morality.” He added, “we’ve crossed over the line into absurdity” and said “now is the time for the righteous to stand up for their rights.”

Added Cirulli to ABC6: “No group has a right to force others to comply with their beliefs, deprive them of their First Amendment rights, and strip the rights of parents of how to morally raise their children.”

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#AM_Equality Tipsheet: August 9, 2019

#AM_Equality Tipsheet: August 9, 2019

HRC MOURNS PEBBLES LADIME “DIME” DOE, A BLACK TRANS WOMAN KILLED IN SOUTH CAROLINA: Tragically, Doe’s death is 15th known case of deadly violence against the transgender community in 2019, and the second in South Carolina in the last few weeks alone. On July 20, Denali Berries Stuckey, also a Black transgender woman, was killed in North Charleston. More from HRC.

.@HRC is deeply saddened to learn of the death of Pebbles LaDime “Dime” Doe, a Black transgender woman killed in Allendale County, South Carolina.

She is the second known transgender person killed in the Palmetto State in the last few weeks alone. t.co/ov93beJhzZ

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) August 8, 2019

FEEL GOOD FRIDAY — I’M NOT CRYING, YOU’RE CRYING — SAME-SEX COUPLE ADOPTS SIX SIBLINGS AFTER THEY SPENT HALF A DECADE IN FOSTER CARE: “I finally have a real family,” said one of the siblings. More from Georgia Slater (@GeorgiaHSlater) at People.

Gay Dads Adopt 6 Siblings, Ages 7 to 14, After They Spent Half a Decade in Foster Care t.co/ho0phM4PDi

— People (@people) August 7, 2019

KANSAS GOV. LAURA KELLY SUPPORTS LGBTQ KIDS IN FOSTER CARE: Under Kelly’s leadership, the state’s child welfare agency has drafted guidelines urging foster parents to recognize LGBTQ children “by their preferred identity if it differs from their sex assigned at birth.” More from NBC.

NEW JERSEY MAYOR PUSHES BACK ON LAW THAT BRINGS LGBTQ-INCLUSIVE CURRICULUM INTO SCHOOLS: In response, John Oliveira of Garden State Equality (@GSEquality) said: “You cannot opt out of LGBTQ-inclusive curriculum just like you cannot opt out of science or Black history simply because of ill-informed or close-minded personal beliefs. LGBTQ history is a part of American history.” More from Ashbury Park Press and The Washington Post.

RHODE ISLAND GOV. GINA RAIMONDO PLANS TO ADD NON-BINARY OPTION FOR PERSONAL IDENTIFICATION DOCUMENTS: More from the Providence Journal.

HOMEWOOD, ALABAMA, MAN FACING CHARGE OVER LEAVING THREATENING NOTE ABOUT LGBTQ PRIDE FLAG: More from WVTM13.

NEW YALE STUDY SHOWS THAT DOCTORS’ ATTITUDES TOWARD LGBTQ PATIENTS CHANGE AFTER TRAINING: Researchers found that the more contact and positive interactions non-LGBTQ docs have with LGBTQ patients, the less bias they hold. More from WSHU.

GLOBAL EQUALITY NEWS

CRICKET AUSTRALIA ANNOUNCES INCLUSIVE POLICY FOR TRANSGENDER AND GENDER-EXPANSIVE PLAYERS: “Discrimination of any sort has no place in the game,” said Cricket Australia (@CricketAus) CEO Kevin Roberts. More from The Guardian.

FOUR CARIBBEAN COUNTRIES TO CHALLENGE COLONIAL-ERA LAW CRIMINALIZING SAME-SEX RELATIONS: More from Washington Blade.

READING RAINBOW – Bookmark now to read on your lunch break!

Out spotlights author and queer activist Charlene Carruthers’ (@CharleneCac) powerful eulogy to the late author and writer Toni Morrison; Austin Chronicle dives into the history of the LGBTQ movement in Austin; Vogue profiles LGBTQ advocate and ally Taylor Swift (@taylorswift13).

From calling out Marsha Blackburn’s anti-LGBTQ agenda, to helping defeat Tennessee’s Slate of Hate, to supporting the #EqualityAct, Taylor Swift (@taylorswift13) has become a formidable ally to the LGBTQ community. t.co/38iwke9fwI

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) August 8, 2019

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Animated Inclusion: New Series Showcases Diverse Families

Animated Inclusion: New Series Showcases Diverse Families

This article first appeared in Equality magazine. Read the most recent issue at hrc.org/magazine.

When actor T. R. Knight was growing up, he didn’t have many shows that featured positive representations of LGBTQ people. 

Today, in “The Bravest Knight,” Hulu’s animated children’s series about a child who discovers their bravery, Knight is the voice of one of her two loving dads.

“I think being a part of something that shares a message of love and inclusion… I think anyone would’ve accepted that opportunity,” Knight told Equality.

“The Bravest Knight,” based on Daniel Errico’s children’s book of the same name, spotlights a two-dad family and highlights the intersections of being same-sex parents of a multicultural family formed through adoption. Ellen Kahn, HRC’s senior director of programs and partnerships, said this type of representation is important to children with different family structures and backgrounds.

“It’s a very affirming story for kids who were adopted by parents of a different race or ethnicity. The greater the diversity of families and people we see as we grow up, the more possibilities we see for ourselves,” Kahn told Equality.

HRC Foundation’s Welcoming Schools program worked with the show’s creators to develop the characters and help them navigate a variety of topics about their family structure and the adoption theme.

“The folks behind the creation of ‘The Bravest Knight’ are very committed to diversity and inclusion, and that’s why they choose projects such as this show,” Kahn said. “They were very committed to telling this story in the right way, so we helped them shape a language that strikes the right chord with regard to family diversity.”

Like Knight, many of the characters are voiced by people who are part of the HRC family, and the broader LGBTQ community.They include former HRC Foundation youth ambassador Jazz Jennings, Latinx actor Wilson Cruz, Wanda Sykes, RuPaul and more.

For Knight, working on a series such as this has been a dream of his. The project is even more meaningful, he says, because he understands the importance of normalizing representations of LGBTQ people on TV — especially for LGBTQ youth who may be struggling with a lack of acceptance within their own families.

“There are a lot of steps forward to make up for all of the sins in the past, and in every part of the country, it’s still rough… [it depends on who runs each] household, and whether they have closed hearts which are full of fear and not accepting, and that’s death for a child,” Knight said.

Ensuring that LGBTQ youth are included, supported and encouraged to thrive is why HRC Foundation’s Welcoming Schools program uses books and lesson plans, and highlights other mediums — including programs like “The Bravest Knight” — to help schools embrace diverse families, create LGBTQ- and gender-inclusive schools, prevent bias-based bullying and support transgender and non-binary students.

Kahn encourages families to watch “The Bravest Knight” together and have conversations about it, and to let teachers and other educators know about it as well.

“If kids are only exposed to a limited slice of who we are, whether it’s about our gender, race, ethnicity or cultural and religious backgrounds… If kids are not really exposed to broad diversity, they won’t necessarily be as equipped when they go out to the world to navigate schools, workplaces or even the overall community once they get older,” Kahn said.

A show such as “The Bravest Knight” is a way for the younger generation to see what might be possible, whether you’re a part of the LGBTQ community or not.

“It’s a very simple story, and yeah, it looks different from what we’re used to seeing,” Knight said. “I hope that people are open to receive that.”

To learn more about supporting LGBTQ youth in their homes, schools and communities, visit WelcomingSchools.org. 

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