In the Face of Trump’s Divisive Comments, We Remain United Against Hate

In the Face of Trump’s Divisive Comments, We Remain United Against Hate

On Sunday, Trump tweeted that four congresswomen of color (Reps. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, D-NY; Ilhan Omar, D-MN.); Ayanna Pressley (D-MA); and Rashida Tlaib, (D-MI)) should “go back” to where they came from.

For many immigrants, children of immigrants, refugees and children of refugees, Trump’s callous comments unearth our own personal journey and experiences as Americans. Many of us are all too familiar with the line “go back to your country,” a hateful and xenophobic catchphrase throughout American history.

I still painfully remember my own experiences with being told that I’m not American enough.

“You should speak English. This is America. If you want to speak your language, you should go back to your country.”

“Why don’t you change your name to something more American?”

“If you have so much to say and criticize about this country, maybe you should go back to your own country?”

I’m shocked, confused and saddened because the U.S. has been and always will be my home. Many have made sacrifices on our journey to the U.S. And here, we tirelessly fight to ensure our families and communities are afforded the best opportunities to succeed.

I believe that it’s possible to love this country and acknowledge that there is still work to do for it to become a place where everyone can succeed and thrive. I criticize my country because I love it and I believe that it can be better — and the president’s comments are anything but American.

At the end of the day, we must call what Donald Trump’s comments and actions are: racist and un-American.

His administration continuously attacks the rights of immigrants, asylum seekers and refugees — many of whom are LGBTQ and people of color.

LGBTQ people who are fleeing violence in their home countries have been denied entry or been made to wait in Mexico or U.S. detention facilities. Horrifically, children and adults are mistreated and dying — including at least two transgender asylum seekers — as a result of unlivable conditions in detention centers created by the Trump-Pence administration.

And now, Trump’s unconscionable comment of “go back to your country” aims to divide us further.

For decades, immigrants and refugees have been a part of the beautiful fabric of this country, and throughout history immigrants have enriched the foundation and culture of the U.S. with our resilient narratives, colorful traditions and innovative contributions.

Yet, Trump is blind to the reality that our nation’s  is what makes us stronger and more connected. Our country has always represented more than the person who sits in the Oval Office. It represents the sacrifices, the dreams, hopes and opportunities of those who were born here and those who were not.

This is my country. This is my home, and it is your home, too. We aren’t going anywhere, not now, not ever.

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The Live-Action ‘CATS’ Trailer Has Arrived: WATCH

The Live-Action ‘CATS’ Trailer Has Arrived: WATCH

The CATS trailer has arrived early, following a behind-the-scenes tease we posted this morning.

Jennifer Hudson, Taylor Swift, Jason Derulo, Judi Dench, Rebel Wilson, James Corden, Francesca Hayward, Idris Elba, Les Twins, and Ian McKellen are among the stars enlisted for the live action version of Andrew Lloyd Webber’s CATS film adaptation directed by Tom Hooper.

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The Live-Action ‘CATS’ Trailer Has Arrived: WATCH

Rainbow wi-fi shirt and artistic background

Rainbow wi-fi shirt and artistic background

Allison-M posted a photo:

Rainbow wi-fi shirt and artistic background

Here’s yours truly last month while enjoying dinner on the town with my support group. The shirt was found at Ragstock, and with most items from Ragstock it was love at first sight, right down to the heart.

Oh, the background? I’ve never set out to become a Picasso or anything, but I like to be a little creative at times. I’m trying out a new photo app on my phone (no, not the one that ages you in an instant, thank goodness), but one that gives photos some artistic creativity. Here, I’m standing out in vivid reality thanks to my surroundings turning… uh, a little bit sketchy. *wink* *grin*

Rainbow wi-fi shirt and artistic background

Single and Looking for Adventure? 7 Tips for Living a Happier and More Fulfilled Life

Single and Looking for Adventure? 7 Tips for Living a Happier and More Fulfilled Life

Many people sometimes feel as though they may be missing out in life, if they haven’t found “The One” yet; but this shouldn’t be the case. You need to view not having a partner or a family yet as a path to reaching personal goals and making yourself happy first. I have compiled a few […]

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WATCH: The trailer for ‘Cats’ is here, and you’ve never seen anything like it

WATCH: The trailer for ‘Cats’ is here, and you’ve never seen anything like it

Judi Dench

Did Judi Dench get a haircut? Jennifer Hudson must be working with a new stylist. And what’s that glow Idris Elba is giving off?

What is it about these beloved performers that looks so… different?

Ahh now we see it! They’re cats.

Related: Lights, camera, action! Six queer musical bio pics we’re dying to see made

The trailer for the much-anticipated cinematic take on Andrew Lloyd Webber’s classic 1981 Broadway musical Cats is here, and it’s going to be quite the production.

With star talent that also includes Taylor Swift, James Corden, Ian McKellen, Rebel Wilson and Jason Derulo, this film is sure to be one of the holiday season’s most-discussed.

Fancy feast your eyes on this brave new world:

Cats premiered in theaters on December 20.

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Cape Cod Sharks, ‘Send Her Back’, Pete Buttigieg, Instagram Likes, Portland Gay Bar, Snoopy: HOT LINKS

Cape Cod Sharks, ‘Send Her Back’, Pete Buttigieg, Instagram Likes, Portland Gay Bar, Snoopy: HOT LINKS

SEND HER BACK. Donald Trump insists he tried to stop the “send her back” chants even though the tape shows he paused for 13 seconds while the chants grew.

I asked the President why he didn’t stop the “send her back” chants from his supporters last night.

“I think i did,” he answered. “I started speaking quickly. I disagree with it by the way.”

Fact: the chant went on for 13 seconds before he started speaking again.

— Jonathan Karl (@jonkarl) July 18, 2019

DESTROY. USDA suppresses plan to address climate change: “Staff members across several USDA agencies drafted the multiyear plan that outlines how the department should help agriculture understand, adapt to and minimize the effects of climate change. Top officials, however, decided not to release the plan and told staff members to keep it for internal use only, the employee told POLITICO. The person spoke on the condition of anonymity out of fear of retribution.”

AND… Lower regulations for nuclear plants. ‘A new report by staff members of the Nuclear Regulatory Commission, which oversees the safety of the nation’s 59 aging nuclear power plants, recommends that the commissioners significantly weaken or reduce safety inspections of the plants.’

POPULARITY CONTEST. Instagram begins removing “Likes”.

PORTLAND, MAINE. 28 years after vandals smashed its glass, the city’s last gay bar has windows again. “The new, full-length front windows at Blackstones are both of symbol of the city’s bigoted past and how far it has come in accepting all its residents.”

JAPAN. Arsonist kills 33 at anime studio in Kyoto: ‘Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe tweeted that the apparently deliberate act is “too appalling for words.” According to local media, a man reportedly burst into Kyoto Animation’s building and shouted “die” as he poured out a flammable liquid. At the time, there were reportedly about 70 people in the building. A suspect in his 40s has been taken into custody and was being treated at a local hospital, NHK reported.’

IMPRESSION OF THE DAY. Colbert does Eric Trump.

COURT DOCS. Newly-unsealed documents show that FBI suspected Trump talked to Michael Cohen and Hope Hicks about “need” to stop Stormy Daniels story.

HOPE HICKS. Trump aide may have lied under oath that she wasn’t there when Trump and Michael Cohen discussed Stormy Daniels.

MAYOR PETE. Buttigieg adds former DNC CEO Jess O’Connell as senior adviser and Sonal Shah as national policy director. ‘The hirings are the most high-profile additions the campaign has made since it announced raising $24.9 million in the second fundraising quarter of 2019, the highest total in the Democratic field. Buttigieg’s campaign is planning to expand rapidly in the third quarter using that windfall.’

NYT. Pete Buttigieg is still figuring it out. “Amid the attention paid to Buttigieg’s eclecticisms — his frequent literary references, his ability to speak eight languages, his classical piano training and Radiohead fandom — it’s easy to overlook the fact that he is, at heart, a fairly conventional political animal. Buttigieg is steeped in campaign life, having worked for John Kerry in 2004 and Obama in 2008, and he tends to talk, more than most candidates, like an operative.”

MADISON, WISCONSIN. Boxes vending LGBT publications are vandalized

NO BAIL. Jeffrey Epstein denied bail, must remain behind bars until trial. ‘U.S. District Judge Richard M. Berman said prosecutors showed “clear and convincing evidence” that Epstein was a flight risk.’

MORE EPSTEIN. Questions abound about Epstein’s fortune and significant connections.

COMIC-CON 2019. Full list of TV show and movie panels.

IOWA. Taxpayers could foot $6 million bill for anti-discrimination lawsuit against Governor Terry Branstad. ‘Godfrey’s lead attorney, Roxanne Conlin, said Wednesday said she intends to request reimbursement for more than $2.6 million in attorneys’ fees. That’s the approximate tab her team racked up before the six-week trial started, she said. The private defense attorneys Branstad hired have received more than $1.2 million from the state so far, and Conlin predicted the defense’s total bill will top $2 million.’

TEASER OF THE DAY. Snoopy in Space.

CAPE COD SHARK SIGHTING OF THE DAY. Experts take you on a tagging mission.

THIRSTY THURSDAY. Wicomeva.

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Racine Joins Five Other Wisconsin Municipalities in Protecting LGBTQ Youth from “Conversion Therapy”

Racine Joins Five Other Wisconsin Municipalities in Protecting LGBTQ Youth from “Conversion Therapy”

Racine City Council passed an ordinance to protect LGBTQ youth from the dangerous and debunked practice of so-called “conversion therapy” on Tuesday, July 16. 

Racine marks the sixth city in Wisconsin to pass a law to protect LGBTQ youth from the harmful practice of “conversion therapy.” Last month, the Village of Shorewood joined Milwaukee, Madison, Eau Claire and Cadahy in passing similar legislation.

Across the country, a growing number of municipalities have also enacted these vital protections, including more than 50 cities and counties across not only Wisconsin but also Arizona, Florida, Georgia, New York, Ohio, Pennsylvania and Washington. 

The Badger State does not have statewide anti-conversion therapy protections, however, there is an effort to move legislation forward. Wisconsin state senators and representatives introduced a bill to address this harmful practice in March. 

“This is about saving lives and that is not a partisan issue,” said bill co-sponsor HRC-backed Sen. Tim Carpenter.

California, Connecticut, Colorado, Delaware, Hawaii, Illinois, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, New Jersey, New Hampshire, New Mexico, New York, Nevada, Oregon, Rhode Island, Vermont, Washington, the District of Columbia and Puerto Rico all currently have laws or regulations protecting youth from this harmful practice.

According to a recent report by the Williams Institute at UCLA School of Law, an estimated 20,000 LGBTQ minors in states without protections will be subjected to “conversion therapy” by a licensed health care professional if state officials fail to act. Last year, national organizations representing millions of licensed medical and mental health care professionals, educators and child welfare advocates declared their support for legislative protections against this debunked practice.

HRC has partnered with the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR), the Trevor Project and local advocates in support of these vital protections. More information on the lies and dangers of efforts to change sexual orientation or gender identity can be found here.

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