St. Vincent’s showed the world how to treat people with AIDS with compassion

St. Vincent’s showed the world how to treat people with AIDS with compassion

This is the second in a series of “Then & Now” articles looking at historic places that have made New York the cradle of LGBTQ life from Stonewall to today at Pride 50.

Saint Vincent’s THEN


First established in 1849, St. Vincent’s Hospital lived up to its motto of “Respect, Integrity, Compassion, Excellence” during the height of the AIDS crisis in the late ’80s and early ’90s.

Located in the heart of Greenwich Village, it became known as the epicenter of the city’s (and the world’s) medical response to the epidemic when it opened the East Coast’s first AIDS ward in 1984.

Thousands of the more than 100,000 New Yorkers who came down with the disease were treated here. While AIDS was almost inevitably fatal at the time, the staff worked with enormous compassion and diligence to make the dying’s last days comfortable.  As noted on the New York AIDS Memorial’s original website, “Although there were other important AIDS wards and treatment centers in New York City, none took on the symbolic and cultural significance of St. Vincent’s.”

The hospital figures prominently in both Larry Kramer’s The Normal Heart and Tony Kushner’s Angels in America.

“For years, whenever I found myself passing St. Vincent’s, I’d tense up, walk a little faster, look away,” wrote Andrew Boynton in a 2013 New Yorker piece remembering the hospital. “My final conversations with two close friends took place in rooms in the old hospital, rooms that were now just dust-laden air.”

Saint Vincent’s NOW

After years of financial woes, St. Vincent’s filed for bankruptcy in 2010. The majority of the hospital’s campus was sold to real estate developer Rudin Management, and the main building was demolished in 2013 to be replaced, as is the case with so much of the city these days, with luxury condos.

“Not having the hospital itself there to bear witness to the thousands who died, to be a living reminder of those times, is hard to comprehend,” Boynton wrote in his heartbreaking remembrance. “All these years, averting my eyes as I passed St. Vincent’s, I was in a way judging the hospital to be an accessory in my friends’ deaths. But my memories were safe in those clumsy buildings.”

Across the street from where St. Vincent’s once stood at West 11th Street and Seventh Avenue sits a small, triangular park. St. Vincent’s Triangle is home to the New York City AIDS Memorial, all that’s left of the tragedy that unfolded here decades ago.

The memorial was dedicated “to honor New York City’s 100,000+ men, women, and children who have died from AIDS, and to commemorate and celebrate the efforts of the caregivers and activists.” It is the first major space in New York City dedicated to the epidemic.

The 18-foot steel canopy opened on World AIDS Day in 2016 and today serves as a gateway to the park from its northwest corner. It shelters a small reflecting fountain, and the granite pavement beneath it is engraved with lines from gay poet Walt Whitman’s “Song of Myself,” which begins thusly:

I celebrate myself, and sing myself,
And what I assume you shall assume,
For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you.

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Jake Bain’s self love, Pietro Boselli’s pump, & Jwan Yosef’s day glow

Jake Bain’s self love, Pietro Boselli’s pump, & Jwan Yosef’s day glow

This week Pete Buttigieg revealed whether he thinks the U.S. has had a gay president before, Eugene Lee Yang came out as gay in a music video, Taylor Swift made nice with Katy Perry, and Joe Biden bought everyone at Stonewall a drink. Here’s what happened on Instagram:

Matthew Risch got back to it.

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Back on my shit ?: @rightordoyle

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James Yates picked up a copy of Men’s Fitness.

Derrick Gordon started his day with shadow boxing.

Simon Kassianides stood in the shadows.

Jaboukie Young-White dressed for Pride.

Jake Bain came out as pansexual.

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In the spirit of Pride month, I would like to take this opportunity to take a little of my own advice and share a bit of my true self. I hope that others will do the same who may feel afraid to be themselves because of what others will say. For as long as I can remember, I have always struggled with my sexual orientation. For years, I hid who I truly was and tried to fit into a mold I knew I didn’t belong. Finally, after years of struggling with my sexual orientation, I came to the decision to come out as gay, because I knew I needed to use my voice to show others that it was okay to be themselves and do whatever you set your mind to. But the truth is, my struggles with my sexual orientation did not stop there. Throughout my 20 years of life, I have come to realize that my sexual orientation is truly a spectrum, and the truth is, I have never really known where I fell on that spectrum until just a few months ago. After being labeled the “gay football player,” it made it very challenging for me to decide if I should let everyone falsely label me, or take my own advice and be my true self. After a lot of thought, I’ve decided to share with you all that I am Pansexual. I’ve come to the realization that gender does not effect who I am attracted to. To me, love is something deeper than simply what gender we were given at birth. I decided to sort of “come out” again because I felt like I needed to take some of my own advice for a change and just be myself, and I can’t tell you how good it feels to get that off my chest? Happy Pride!???? #loveislove #pride

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Rome Flynn hit the gym.

Pietro Boselli put in work.

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Weekend!

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David McIntosh took a bath.

Nat Sakdatorn pulled the ropes.

Matt Doyle listened to records.

Nolan Gould did some pull ups.

Simon Dunn found some street art.

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Quiet night in….

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Maluma became a menswear icon.

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Eres muy bonita pa’ llorar por el… ?

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Jwan Yosef had a weekend glow.

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Hello weekend glow ?

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And Sam Asghari took a trip.

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Adam Eli taps the power of social media to foster “queer global consciousness”

Adam Eli taps the power of social media to foster “queer global consciousness”

Name: Adam Eli, 28

Who he is: Queer activist, writer

What he’s accomplished: Eli co-cofounded the New York-based activist group Voices 4, utilizing social media as a tool to affect change. The group’s mission is simple: “Global LGBTQIA+ liberation.” The group uses Instagram to connect with like-minded folks who want to take an active hand in reshaping the world. It functions as a hub for sharing ideas, planning marches and direct action, and organizing meetings.

His own personal Instagram account has an impressive 54.7K followers, and nobody is hanging around waiting for thirst traps. His page does a few things: It helps educate followers on important queer news of the world and how to get involved with upcoming rallies; it also explores issues around queer identity — everything from dating (yes, that sometimes includes Grindr stories) to body image to you name it.

Eli recently teamed up with fashion giant Gucci to edit its first-ever zine called ChimeChime features art, essays, and other LGBTQ media with the goal of expanding awareness of queer issues and gender inequality.

In April of this year, Eli helped organize a series of protests against a violent and homophobic new law in Brunei, staging demonstrations at a number of US hotels owned by the royal family. Brunei eventually backed down from enforcing the death penalty for sodomy by stoning due to pressure from the international community but the law is still on the books.

Why we’re proud: Optimism is a practice and not an easy one at that. While young people are more digitally connected than ever, the temptation to succumb to apathy and isolate from the messy realities of the world can close us off from exercising our power.

Eli found a way to harness the best attributes of social media in order to bring queer people together in the real world, to unite around taking action to better society, and to find a voice.

“I love that being queer means you’re part of something bigger and greater than yourself and therefore being queer means you’re never alone,” he told Dazed, and his public presence has helped other queer people tap into that feeling.

It may not have gotten Hillary elected in 2016, but we really are stronger together, and Eli opens people up to discovering and harnessing that strength.

Where Adam sees the world at Pride 100:

I hope the LGBTQ+ community will see themselves as a nationhood that is genuinely interested in each others’ well being and that they live by the principle of “you mess with one queer, you mess with us all.” So if someone in Chechnya or Egypt is harassing or murdering gay people, that we here in America feel that is our personal responsibility.

So my hope is that we can create a queer global consciousness.

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Special Prosecutor Appointed to Investigate Why Charges Were Dropped in Jussie Smollett Case

Special Prosecutor Appointed to Investigate Why Charges Were Dropped in Jussie Smollett Case

Cook county judge Michael Toomin appointed a special prosecutor on Friday to investigate why charges were dropped in the Jussie Smollett case.

Smollett was indicted on 16 felony counts of disorderly conduct on March 6 for falsifying reports that he was the victim of a hate crime. Those charges were abruptly dropped on March 26 and the case sealed with no new evidence that materially changed the facts presented in the case.

The Guardian reports: ‘Toomin suggested that the county’s state’s attorney, Kim Foxx, mishandled the Smollett case by appointing a top aide to oversee it after she recused herself. … In his ruling, Toomin said he had no problem with Foxx’s recusal, but that she had no right to select someone from her office to handle the prosecution, saying what she did amounted to naming her own special prosecutor. … Foxx defended her handling of the case and said she would welcome an independent investigation.”

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Florida Woman Speaks Out After Being Ordered to Take Down Her LGBTQ Pride Flag: WATCH

Florida Woman Speaks Out After Being Ordered to Take Down Her LGBTQ Pride Flag: WATCH

Robin Chipman, a resident of the Waterside at Coquina Key condominium association (FB), (Twitter) in St. Petersburg, Florida, has been ordered to remove her LGBTQ Pride flag because some neighbor doesn’t like it, so she is speaking out to local news outlets.

Said Chipman to WFLA: “I have friends and neighbors that are in the community. And I want to show my support. And it’s only the biggest celebration in the state of Florida and most of the country. Bigger than New York and its probably comparable to San Francisco. So, no it’s not a small deal.”

Chipman was told she has until Sunday to remove the flag. The condo association’s contact info is at the links above.

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