Madonna Declares “It Is Every Human’s Duty To Fight, To Advocate” at the 30th Annual GLAAD Media Awards in New York

Madonna Declares “It Is Every Human’s Duty To Fight, To Advocate” at the 30th Annual GLAAD Media Awards in New York

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At the 30th Annual GLAAD Media Awards in New York City last evening, Madonna received the Advocate for Change Award from Anderson Cooper, Mykki Blanco and Rosie O’Donnell. The Advocate for Change Award is awarded to a person who, through their work, changed the game for LGBTQ people around the world.

In his introductory remarks, Anderson Cooper told the crowd: “No single ally has been a better friend or had a bigger impact on acceptance for the LGBTQ community than Madonna.”

Rapper Mykki Blanco followed, highlighting how Madonna has been a trailblazer throughout her career: “Madonna in countless ways has opened doors within this society and industry for queer artists such as myself to shine lighting the way with each of her own personal victories.”

Rosie O’Donnell closed the introductory remarks, sharing powerful words about Madonna’s advocacy for the LGBTQ community: “Madonna has always encouraged every one of us who feels alone to find our tribe. She wants everyone to know, ‘We love you, we’re here for you, and together we all rise.'” 

When Madonna took to the stage to accept her award, she delivered an emotional and inspiring speech about her love for the LGBTQ community. In her closing statement, Madonna stated: “As soon as you really understand what it means to love, you understand what it takes to become a human being, and that it is every human’s duty to fight, to advocate, to do whatever we can and whatever it takes. MADAME X is a FREEDOM FIGHTER.”

Madonna’s support for the LGBTQ community started at the beginning of her career during the HIV/AIDS crisis in the 1980s. She performed at AIDS benefit concerts, created a benefit dance marathon, and spoke out and demanded action at a time when AIDS was too often invisible in the media. Madonna also included a leaflet in her album Like a Prayer entitled “The Facts about AIDS” in which she gave fans crucial information about AIDS. Madonna also wrote a song on her album Erotica called “In This Life” as a tribute to her friends who had passed away from AIDS. In 1991, Madonna’s documentary Truth or Dare showcased her dancers, who were almost all gay and were free to depict themselves authentically on camera, as encouraged by Madonna herself. In 1997, Madonna played a key role in Ellen DeGeneres’ historic coming out, giving DeGeneres words of support and comfort, despite the fact that the two had never met before.

More recently, Madonna has continued to use her platform to support the LGBTQ community, speaking out against anti-LGBTQ laws, policies, and practices. Madonna has spoken out for LGBTQ equality in Romania, Malawi, Russia and more and she continues to advocate for equality in the United States. She has also spoken against bullying of LGBTQ youth and related LGBTQ youth suicide. In 2013, when presenting Anderson Cooper with the Vito Russo Award at the 24th Annual GLAAD Media Awards, she dressed as a Boy Scout in protest of the Boy Scouts of America’s ban on LGBTQ people. This past New Year’s Eve, Madonna gave a surprise performance at the Stonewall Inn, an historic venue for LGBTQ rights, to celebrate its upcoming anniversary and, in her words, “fifty years of revolution.” Madonna has also participated in intersectional advocacy, speaking at the first Women’s March on Washington for women’s equality, and speaking out against Trump’s child detention policy.

When responding to the imprisonment of two men who had been jailed in Malawi for marrying, Madonna released a statement that completely summarizes her commitment and support of the LGBTQ community, writing: “As a matter of principle, I believe in equal rights for all people, no matter what their gender, race, color, religion, or sexual orientation. This week, Malawi took a giant step backward. The world is filled with pain and suffering; therefore, we must support our basic human right to love and be loved.”

“Madonna always has and always will be the LGBTQ community’s greatest ally and it is only fitting to honor and celebrate our biggest advocate at GLAAD’s biggest event ever,” said GLAAD President and CEO Sarah Kate Ellis. “From the HIV crisis to international LGBTQ issues, she fearlessly pushes for a world where LGBTQ people are accepted. Her music and art have been life-saving outlets for LGBTQ people over the years and her affirming words and actions have changed countless hearts and minds.”

GLAAD’s Advocate for Change Award was previously given to President Bill Clinton in 2013 during the 24th Annual GLAAD Media Awards for his advocacy work to overturn the anti-LGBTQ Defense of Marriage Act and advance marriage equality nationwide.

The 30th Annual GLAAD Media Awards in New York were filled with moments of celebration, reflection, and honoring of LGBTQ voices. Andy Cohen accepted the Vito Russo award, presented by Sarah Jessica Parker. Other major winners included the cast of Pose (Outstanding Drama Series), Full Frontal with Samantha Bee (Outstanding Variety or Talk Show), and CNN Tonight with Don Lemon (Outstanding TV Journalism Segment).

The New York City ceremony will air exclusively on Logo on Sunday, May 12 at 8pm ET/PT.

The 30th Annual GLAAD Media Awards are supported by Presenting Partners Delta Air Lines, Gilead, Hyundai, Ketel One Family-Made Vodka, and Wells Fargo. GLAAD is also grateful to: Official Partners Bud Light and Google; Titanium Partner AT&T and WEN; Platinum Partners Comcast NBCUniversal-Telemundo, Creative Artists Agency, Disney ABC Television Group, Facebook/Instagram, HBO, Hulu, Kaiser Permanente, MetLife, NBA & WNBA, Netflix, Omnicom Group, PRG, Sheppard Mullin, Turner; Gold Partners CBS/Showtime, Nielsen, PWC, UM, Univision, and VER; and Silver Partners Allstate, Coca-Cola, Morgan Stanley, and Warner Bros.

May 5, 2019

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Madonna Recalls Gay Friends Lost to AIDS and How They Inspired Her in Emotional GLAAD Awards Speech: WATCH

Madonna Recalls Gay Friends Lost to AIDS and How They Inspired Her in Emotional GLAAD Awards Speech: WATCH

Madonna accepted the Advocate for Change Award at the 30th annual GLAAD Media Awards on Saturday night in New York City.

In the heavily edited acceptance speech posted by GLAAD online, she talked about the film Truth or Dare and how it inspired as well as horrified.

Said Madonna: “I had no idea it was going to inspire so many gay men to a, give blow jobs to Evian bottles, or b, just have the courage to come out and be free and take a stand and say this is who I am, like it or not.”

“When I look back and watch that film I am horrified by my brattiness but I’m also proud that it gave so many people hope,” she added. “Fighting for all marginalized people was a duty I could not turn my back on or will I ever.”

Madonna described her first visit to Malawi as the country dealt with an AIDS epidemic, and how it prompted her to make the documentary I Am Because We Are, and helped build schools, orphanages, and a pediatric hospital.

Said Madonna: “I decided to go there and see what I could do, and it was like history repeating itself. hospital wards filled with emaciated dying people, lying in hallways and under beds, abandoned children wandering the streets. Everywhere orphanages overflowing. No medicine, no education about what was happening and no one talking about prevention. … It was here that I met and adopted four of my six most beautiful children.”

Madonna also quoted James Baldwin: “Because only an artist can tell and only an artist have told, since we have heard of man, what it is like for anyone who gets to this planet, to survive it. What it is like to die, or to have somebody die, what it is like to fear death, what is it like to fear, what it is like to love, what it is like to be glad. Hymns don’t do this, churches really cannot do it. The trouble is only the artist can do it, the price that he or she has to pay himself and the price the audience has to pay is willingness to give up everything, because nothing, none of it belongs to you.”

She concluded by referencing her upcoming album, Madame X: “As soon as you really understand what it means to love, you understand what it takes to become a human being and that it is every human’s duty to fight, to advocate, to do whatever we can and whatever it takes. Madame X is a freedom fighter.”

There was much more to the speech, as evidenced by additional clips that showed up online.

Said Madonna: “Why have I always fought for change? That’s a hard question to answer. It’s like trying to explain the importance of reading or the need to love. Growing up I always felt like an outsider, like I didn’t fit in. It wasn’t because I didn’t shave under my armpits, I just didn’t fit in, OK. The first gay man I ever met was named Christopher Flynn. He was my ballet teacher in high school and he was the first person that believed in me, that made me feel special as a dancer, as an artist and as a human being. I know this sounds trivial and superficial, but he was the first man to tell me I was beautiful.”

She spoke about going to her first gay club in Detroit: “For the first time I saw men kissing men, girls dressed like boys, boys wearing hot pants, insane, incredible dancing and a kind of freedom and joy and happiness that I had never seen before. I finally felt like I was not alone, that it was OK to be different and to not be like everybody else. And that after all, I was not a freak. I felt at home, and it gave me hope.”

And she spoke of AIDS and the friends it took from her: “The plague that moved in like a black cloud over New York City and in a blink of an eye, took out all of my friends. After I lost my best friend and roommate Martin Burgoyne and then Keith Haring – happy birthday Keith – I decided to take up the bull horn and really fight back.”

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Other GLAAD awards handed out:

Vito Russo Award: Andy Cohen [presented by Sarah Jessica Parker]

Outstanding Drama Series: Pose (FX) [accepted by: creators Ryan Murphy and Steven Canals, and cast members including Billy Porter, Janet Mock, Mj Rodriguez, Indya Moore, Dominique Jackson, Angelica Ross, Our Lady J, Dyllon Burnside, Hailie Sahar, and Ryan Jamal Swain; presented by Rachel Brosnahan]

Outstanding Variety or Talk Show Episode: “Trans Rights Under Attack” Full Frontal with Samantha Bee (TBS) [accepted by: Samantha Bee; presented by Adam Rippon and Lilly Singh]

Outstanding TV Journalism Segment: “Same Sex Couple Reacts to Supreme Court Ruling” CNN Tonight with Don Lemon (CNN) [accepted by: Don Lemon; presented by Mj Rodriguez, Indya Moore, and Dominique Jackson]

Outstanding Film – Limited Release: Boy Erased (Focus Features)

Outstanding TV Movie or Limited Series: The Assassination of Gianni Versace: American Crime Story (FX)

Outstanding Music Artist: Janelle Monáe, Dirty Computer (Bad Boy Records)

Outstanding TV Journalism – Newsmagazine: “Conversion Therapy: God Only Knows” CBS Sunday Morning (CBS)

Outstanding Newspaper Article: “He Took a Drug to Prevent AIDS. Then He Couldn’t Get Disability Insurance.” by Donald G. McNeil Jr. (The New York Times)

Outstanding Digital Journalism Article: “Bermuda Same-sex Marriage Ban Means Trouble for Tourism and Cruise Ships” by Ryan Ruggiero (CNBC.com)

Outstanding Digital Journalism – Video or Multimedia: “March for Our Lives and LGBT activism. ‘They’re definitely linked for me,’ says Emma González” by Beth Greenfield (Yahoo! Lifestyle)

Outstanding Blog: Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents

Outstanding Scripted Television Series (Spanish-Language): Elite (Netflix) and Mi marido tiene más familia (Univision) [TIE]

Outstanding TV Journalism Segment (Spanish-Language): “Primera Pareja Gay en Casarse en un Consulado Mexicano” Noticias Telemundo Mediodía (Telemundo

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Celebrating Ramadan Inclusively

Celebrating Ramadan Inclusively

To Urooj Arshad, an openly queer Muslim woman, the holy month of Ramadan is about navigating the intersection of the Muslim and LGBTQ community.

“Ramadan means having community and being able to celebrate in community with each other and finding ways to be together as LGBTQ Muslims,” Arshad, an LGBTQ Muslim expert and the director of international LGBTQ youth health and rights programs at Advocates for Youth, told HRC. “I had to figure out how to connect to LGBTQ Muslim identities in an authentic way myself…  I wish that what folks would have told me when I was younger is that it is a process and that reconciliation not just around your own sense of who you are in your faith is a long term process and also reconciliation in your family is a long term process.”

Ramadan is the ninth and most sacred month on the Islamic calendar. For healthy, able-bodied Muslims, fasting — abstaining from eating, drinking and other activities — from sunset to sundown is one of the biggest aspects that teaches compassion and patience toward those in need. For those that can’t or don’t fast, donating money and services, feeding and helping those in need is another way to help communities in need during Ramadan.

Many Muslims, especially LGBTQ Muslims, struggle to find their place within the Muslim community. Creating an inclusive space for LGBTQ Muslims has been at the heart of Arshad’s work. She encourages LGBTQ Muslims to find their space — whether on campus, through gender-neutral prayer spaces or online.

“I think that if folks are lucky enough to be in community with other LGBTQ Muslims… to find and use that as a resource to connect with other LGBTQ Muslims as much as possible because that can really lift the burden off the sense of isolation,” she said. 

Urooj Arshad

Photo: Urooj Arshad 

That space also comes in the form of representation through entertainment. This is something openly gay actor Haaz Sleiman knows too well. When LGBTQ Muslims see themselves represented on TV, it makes a difference.

“I played a gay Muslim man on ‘Nurse Jackie,’ and honestly I thought I was going to get backlash but, no. I got a lot of love…Back in the day, like 2009, it has never been done before, and I only got love, which was really exciting,” Sleiman, who is also playing an LGBTQ Muslim lead in the upcoming movie, “Breaking Fast,” which takes place during Ramadan, told HRC.  

To Sleiman, Ramadan is about tradition, community and family.

“It’s the same that it has always meant to me since I was growing up as a kid,” he said. “It is something so engraved in my makeup because it’s a cultural thing, it’s an Islamic thing… No matter what happens, no matter how old I get, no matter where I live, no matter how successful I get as an actor, [Ramadan] is a part of where you come from.”

Sleiman’s coming out story is an inspiration to many who are unable to be out safely and rely on representation to see people like them on the big screen.

“I just wanted to be of myself, it is that simple,” Sleiman said. “I feel like most of my life that I disrespected myself, and that just weighs down on you over time… I really think everyone’s journey is different.” 

Haaz Sleiman

Photo: Haaz Sleiman 

Coming out for many Muslims can be difficult and experiences vary. As Arshad notes, especially within the Muslim LGBTQ community, various LGBTQ Muslim experiences are valid, regardless of whether someone is fully “out” to the world or celebrating their LGBTQ pride more privately.

“One thing I will say is that coming out is not always an option, and we certainly want to prioritize that you don’t have to be out to be ‘authentic.’ You can find other ways to make sure you’re safe, and the most important thing is safety, and there are other ways to live ‘authentically’ than just being out,” Arshad said.

While there is a growing movement of American Muslims who have come to support the full inclusion of LGBTQ people, many LGBTQ Muslims are wondering if they might finally be open in the Muslim community. That’s why HRC Foundation’s “Coming Home to Islam and to Self” guide aims to help LGBTQ American Muslims who are on the journey toward living fully in their sexual orientation, gender identity and expression, and in their faith and its traditions.

HRC wishes the Muslim community a Ramadan Mubarak and will continue to show solidarity with the Muslim community and condemn Islamophobic policies and actions.  

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