‘The OA’s’ Ian Alexander is making it safer for trans teens to come out & parents to accept them

‘The OA’s’ Ian Alexander is making it safer for trans teens to come out & parents to accept them

Name: Ian Alexander, 18

Who He Is: Actor

How He’s Contributed: Alexander, assigned female at birth, is the biracial son of a white father and a Vietnamese immigrant mother. Raised in the Mormon faith, he often moved around from city to city as a child due to his father’s military job. Regardless of where he lived at the time, however, Alexander always found solace in theatre and chorus. Alexander would perform in his living room, putting on skits and musical acts for friends and family much to their amusement.

But when he came out as transgender at age 13 in 2014, Alexander ran into tension at home with his religious family.

Alexander found his world forever changed in 2016. That year he answered an open call for transgender actors and landed the role of Buck Vu on the Netflix sci-fi series The OA. Though he’d never acted on screen before, Alexander earned wide praise for his performance as a closeted, transgender teen whose only recourse is to buy hormones from a local drug dealer. Alexander returned for the second season of the show this year, in which he both reprised his role of Buck and took on the role of a cisgender teen. The creators of the show, Zal Batmanglij, and Brit Marling, have acknowledged that Alexander’s authentic performances and life experience helped them create an accurate portrait of a mixed-race transgender character.

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— IAN (@ianaIexander) May 9, 2016

Why We’re Proud: Alexander has used his platform to advocate for trans causes, including a 2016 incident in which he made an epic clap back at a group of transphobes on the UCLA campus that got more than 26,000 likes on Twitter.

Alexander did a very courageous thing by publicly coming out when he took on his first acting role, and his parents eventually came around to support him. His OA role has made Alexander a role model and activist for transgender teens everywhere. As he wrote in a personal essay for The Huffington Post:

It was on “The OA” that I heard my mother refer to me by my correct name and pronouns for the first time, in response to everyone around her doing the same. Before then, she was much more comfortable calling me by my given name, and exclusively used feminine pronouns for me; I remember feeling butterflies of excitement every time she referred to me as “he” while talking to the cast and crew. This was a pivotal moment in my life when I realized that I could be accepted for who I am…

Not only is authentic representation important for actors, but for audiences as well: If I had seen more young trans boys like myself in mainstream media while I was coming to terms with my gender identity, I could have accepted myself for who I was a lot sooner. In fact, I’m proud and humbled to say that since appearing in “The OA,” many people have told me that I gave them the courage to come out as transgender to their family and peers.

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Brighton Pride, London Theater, Scotland’s Kilts. Would you complete a survey?

Brighton Pride, London Theater, Scotland’s Kilts. Would you complete a survey?

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DHv3 is Almost Here – and Here’s More of What You Need To Know!

DHv3 is Almost Here – and Here’s More of What You Need To Know!

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We are launching the next generation of the Daddyhunt App and website on Monday, and here’s more of what you need to know to be prepared. After we migrate to the new servers and launch the new app and website, your newest messages will load first.

If you are a Premium supporter and have an extensive message history, older messages will load into your Message box over a couple of days. All older messages should be in your Message box by Thursday.

For app users, there’s no need to uninstall the current version of the Daddyhunt App. Once the new app is released in the app stores, you simply need to download it and it will automatically log you in on the new environment. If, however, you quit or uninstall the current version, you will need to login using the email and password associated with your account.

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LGBTQ World News Digest: 20 International Stories You Need to Know About

LGBTQ World News Digest: 20 International Stories You Need to Know About

KENYA. High court upholds law making gay sex illegal: ‘Same-sex relations have been banned since the British colonized Kenya in the late 19th century. Kenya’s penal code criminalizes “carnal knowledge against the order of nature.” Anyone found engaging in same-sex relationships could face up to 14 years in prison.The Kenyan High Court declined to decriminalize same-sex relations. The decision was a setback to the LGBTQI moment in Africa, where same-sex relationships are largely seen as taboo.’

ALSO: First Gay Couple Marries in Taiwan as Marriage Equality Comes to Asia: WATCH

Jair Bolsonaro

BRAZIL. Top court votes to protect LGBT people from discrimination: “A majority of the 11-member Supreme Federal Court voted to find it unconstitutional to exclude sexual orientation and gender from Brazil’s anti-discrimination law. After the sixth member voted in favor of the ruling, securing the majority, the court suspended the hearing until June 5. The remaining members are expected to vote then, and the ruling would be issued. It would establish a way for people who experienced discrimination or physical attacks based on their sexual identity or gender orientation to sue.”

CHILE. Gay couple attacked by three men in their own store: “Those affected are Sergio Acosta (25) and José Luis Campos (33), the first being beaten, while the second one was largely detained by one of the victimizers so that he could not defend his partner. The events occurred after one of the three subjects regretted buying a product and requested a change for a lower value, but refusing to return the first ballot that had been delivered. Three men attack gay couple in their own store: Although the couple reported the incident to Carabineros and reported the homophobic insults, when they were transferred to detention, the subjects were released and with only a 1UTM fine.”

FRANCE. Catholic university students attacked International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia and Transphobia event in La Roche-sur-Yon, vandalizing decorations, and yelling homophbic slurs.

CHINA. Novelist known for gay content sentenced for “illegal publishing.” ‘China’s burgeoning “danmei” novels have hit an obstacle. An author of the genre, which features homoerotic love stories between two men aimed at a young female audience online, has been sentenced to prison for “illegal publishing.” The author, who writes under the name “Mr. Deep Sea,” was sentenced to a prison term of four years and fined 120,000 yuan ($17,350) for printing and selling copies of her online novels without the legally-required official book number, price and publisher’s name. She was first detained in December 2017 while signing copies of her latest self-published novel, “The Caged Emperor.”’

HONG KONG. Airport and subway authorities reverse ban on Cathay Pacific’s groundbreaking same-sex ad: ‘The reversals came in the face of heated criticism of the ban, and less than 24 hours after the Post revealed that both the railway giant and Hong Kong International Airport had banned the advert because of its same-sex content.’

ALSO: U.S. Sanctions Chechen Officials Responsible for Torture and Detention of Gay Men

MACEDONIA. First Gay Pride march is on next month: ‘The North Macedonian capital is set to host on June 29 what activists have described as the Balkan country’s first gay-pride parade. The event will be “a form of protest for affirmation, support, and protection of human rights” of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community, Antonio Mihajlov of the National Network Against Homophobia and Transphobia (NNHT) told a press conference in Skopje on May 20.’

NORTHERN IRELAND. Thousands rally in support of marriage equality: “Attempts to legislate for same-sex marriage have been blocked by the Democratic Unionist Party, a key ally of British Prime Minister Theresa May, despite opinion polls in recent years showing most in the region are in favor. Sara Canning, the partner of journalist and LGBTQ rights campaigner Lyra McKee who was murdered in April, led the march alongside a number of gay and lesbian couples. Canning said that she and McKee had been planning to marry.”

Partner of Lyra McKee makes public plea for same-sex marriage as thousands gather in Belfastt.co/Repzi07XMe pic.twitter.com/mQPjU5qS41

— Belfast Telegraph (@BelTel) May 18, 2019

TUNISIA. LGBTQ rights group to push for gay sex to be decriminalized: ‘The government went to court to block Shams when the advocacy group registered in 2015, saying that the correct process had not been followed. A 2016 ruling in Shams’ favor was upheld by the Court of Appeal on Monday. Shams’ director Mounir Baatour said the court victory would help its campaign to legalize same-sex relations, which are punishable with three years imprisonment under Article 230 of the North African country’s penal code.’

RUSSIA. 1 in 3 Russians would disown a gay friend, according to study: “The Levada Centre study, published on Thursday, indicated that more than half the population still had a negative opinion on LGBT+. Nearly a third said they would disown a friend if they found out they were gay, while only three percent suggested they had a favourable opinion. On a positive note, the polls showed nearly half (47%) believed LGBT+ people should be treated equally in front of the law. This was the highest number since 2005 (51%), when polling on the question began.”

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PHILIPPINES. Congress launches online poll on same-sex unions. ‘The poll, posted on the chamber’s website, asked whether the respondents are in favor, against, or undecided about the proposal on the legalization of same-sex unions as civil partnership in the country. … The survey comes ahead of the celebration of “Pride Month” in June and days after same-sex marriage was legalized in Taiwan. A petition seeking to allow same-sex marriage in the Philippines filed by gay lawyer Jesus Falcis is pending before the Supreme Court. An oral argument on the proposal was held in June last year.’

Head on to the Congress’ website and vote YES for #Equality!

Yes to Civil Partnerships! t.co/tSZJdn4Bs7 pic.twitter.com/nQn1kSACzH

— Side B Philippines (@SideBPh) May 21, 2019

CUBA. Havana police shut down gay rights march.

MEXICO. A gay couple was denied entry to a restaurant in Monterrey, Nueva León … for holding hands. Video of the incident was posted to social media.

A unos chicos gays en Monterrey, Nuevo León que entraron de la mano al restaurante: Pozole y tacos La regia, les negaron el servicio.

Esto pasó cuando confrontaron al dueño. “Si vienen puteando o de la manita NO les voy a entender”.
¡Brava amigays por no dejarse! pic.twitter.com/7kYuFXP47W

— Escándala (@escandalamx) May 2, 2019

POLAND. Gay couple returns painting stolen by Nazis to Warsaw. “The two men, Craig Gilmore and David Crocker, were recently back in Poland using the connections they gained with their goodwill gesture to reach out to the local LGBT community, offering financial donations and messages of solidarity to a group that faces misunderstanding and discrimination….In early April, with cameras rolling, Gilmore, an opera singer, dropped to one knee in a Warsaw park and proposed to Crocker, an artist, who said yes.”

¡Qué comience la batalla! #PorEspaña pic.twitter.com/TVgdcP1Kw5

— VOX (@vox_es) April 28, 2019

SPAIN. A gay ghost named Gaysper has become a viral star after a tweet by Spain’s far-right Vox party (above): ‘A few hours after the polls opened in Spain’s general election last Sunday, the far-right Vox party attempted to recruit author JRR Tolkien’s fighter to its cause, tweeting an image of the character Aragorn in Peter Jackson’s 2003 film The Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King with the caption, “Let the battle begin!” Having slapped the party’s logo on the warrior’s cloak, Vox lined Aragorn up against the jumbled ranks of its own many and varied enemies: communists; anarchists; Catalan pro-independence campaigners; the liberal media; women’s groups and, last but by no means least, a small, rainbow-hued ghost intended to represent LGBTQ people.’

Gracias @vox_es por hacernos más fuertes. #gaysperpic.twitter.com/W2jWl8TLmX

— Guillem Clua (@guillemclua) April 29, 2019

MOROCCO. How gays are being persecuted just 20 miles from the Spanish border: “Like many others, Youssef is afraid of Article 489 of the Moroccan criminal code, which punishes sexual relations between people of the same sex. Punishments range from six months to three years behind bars and a fine of up to 1,000 dirhams, which is around €100. The judge can decide on the severity of the sentence, taking into account the seriousness of whatever act has been committed and the personal circumstances of the accused. But there are no established mitigating circumstances. The defendants are at the mercy of the judge. According to the Procurator’s 2018 Report, 197 people were arrested for being homosexual in Morocco in 2017. When the report was published last June, there were still 137 cases open.”

TUNISIA. Queer film festival creates sanctuary for LGBTQ in country where it is illegal: ‘Mawjoudin Queer Film Festival, in its second year, differs significantly from other film festivals: some participants wear badges that read “No Photos;” attendees were invited through a private Facebook page and were told not to geo-tag locations on social media; venues were revealed only in the final days before the festival.’

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Seth Rogen Regrets Homophobic Jokes in Early Films

Seth Rogen Regrets Homophobic Jokes in Early Films

Actor Seth Rogen says he regrets the homophobic jokes that colored some of his earlier films, in a cover story interview with GQ.

Presenting GQ’s June/July cover star: @Sethrogen t.co/0W1nvvKUGt pic.twitter.com/J1MRMv5QME

— GQ Magazine (@GQMagazine) May 21, 2019

Said Rogen: “We do not want people to feel bad when they’re watching our movies. I’ve had people come up to me and be like, ‘That made me feel like sh*t when I was in the movie theater and everyone was laughing about that.’ Like the ‘How I know you’re gay’ thing [from The 40-Year-Old Virgin], it’s something people have been like, ‘It’s not fun to be in the theater when people are laughing at that, knowing what they’re probably actually laughing at.’ And I don’t want anyone to have that experience watching our movies.”

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Congratulations to Bill and Laura from New Jersey!

Congratulations to Bill and Laura from New Jersey!

Love is… that spark of electricity between two people. Bill felt it when he met Laura. He writes: “I had been on Zoosk for a month. After some procrastination, I got around to writing my story. Laura and I were each other’s SmartPicks. She reached out to me saying that she liked my story. I wrote back, and shortly

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