Trevor Noah Talks with ‘Gender-Chill’ Author Jacob Tobia About Their New Book ‘Sissy’ — WATCH

Trevor Noah Talks with ‘Gender-Chill’ Author Jacob Tobia About Their New Book ‘Sissy’ — WATCH

Trevor Noah sat down with Jacob Tobia, a transgender author whose new book Sissy: A Coming-of-Gender Story tackles trans identity.

“‘Sissy’ was the first name I had to name my difference,” Tobia tells Noah. “I didn’t know the word ‘transgender’ when I was a kid. I didn’t even know the word ‘gay’ as early as I knew that ‘sissies’, people who were gender-different, was a thing. The whole point of this book for me is to really excavate the story of my gender and really not take any part of it for granted. Naming it Sissy is really just reclaiming my childhood for myself and learning to snatch back the power from people who try to be like, ‘you really shouldn’t be like that.’ And you can just be like, ‘if you think you’re gonna tease me with that name it’s the title of my damn book now, so sorry.’

Tobia also explained that they’re “gender-chill.”

“I want to think about, what is the future we want to build for trans folks. What is the future that I want to live in? The future that I want to live in is not some future where there’s no gender and everyone wears gray hoodies and sweatshirts and shaves their head. I want to live in a world where gender is this playful thing – where there’s no patriarchy and no misogyny and none of the things that make gender suck, and only the things that make gender great. I want it to feel like a dress up bin.”

Tobia went on to explain on why they empathize with folks who hate trans people.

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Lenten Devotional: Love and Service

Lenten Devotional: Love and Service

People — including the LGBTQ faithful — look to their faith as a source of guidance and inspiration. Throughout the Lenten season, HRC will share devotionals from faith leaders, LGBTQ people and allies. The campaign seeks to create an environment in which LGBTQ people of faith and their allies can practice the spiritual traditions of their faith in a welcoming, inclusive environment.

The Lenten season marks the days leading up to Jesus’ crucifixion and subsequent resurrection. For Christians, the resurrection is both a celebration of life and a reminder that people continue to suffer, including members of the LGBTQ community.

It is important to note that the season of Lent is observed by many Christian denominations and may not resonate with all readers. With this series, HRC seeks to amplify and honor the voices of LGBTQ-affirming faith leaders in many religious traditions.

Today’s post is a reflection on Romans 8:38, and it comes from Izzy Alvaran, regional organizer with Reconciling Ministries Network.

For more about the Lenten Devotional, visit hrc.im/Lent.


“For I am convinced that neither death nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor power, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

I knew I was gay in fifth grade. I was born and raised in the Philippines, a predominantly Roman Catholic country, where homosexuality continues to carry moral stigma, even if society is becoming generally more accepting of LGBTQ people. Knowing I was different worried me, especially when I decided to respond to the call to ordained ministry, also when I was in fifth grade.

The preacher at my United Methodist Church camp asked, “Who is being called to serve in the church?”

I stood up, making my intentions clear, but had this nagging question. Why would God call me to serve in a church that would not accept me for who I am? It haunted me from childhood to the day of my ordination.

My first appointment after ordination was to the same local church where I was baptized, which was no coincidence. On my first Sunday, I stood behind the pulpit holding the dusty baptismal record book of the church. I pointed to the page with my name on it and declared, “I was baptized in this church.”

At that moment, almost like a ray of light, God’s response to my childhood question was crystal clear. God brought me back to the place where I was baptized to affirm that I am God’s child, called to ministry. God walked me right out of my closet and into ministry in the church.

Often we think God is absent or silent. We long for answers to our lingering questions, sometimes doubting our relationship with God. I am sure Jesus had fears about carrying his cross and dying – even asking God to take this responsibility away from him.

The scripture for us today is clear.  Even in the face of adversity and trials, one thing is certain: there is nothing that can separate us from the love of God.


The Lenten Devotional is a faith-driven resource that compiles meditations written by 47 faith leaders from across the U.S. This project and other public education work with faith leaders in HRC’s Project One America states and HRC’s Religion and Faith Program is made possible in part by the generous support of the E. Rhodes and Leona B. Carpenter Foundation.

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#AM_Equality Tipsheet: March 25, 2019

#AM_Equality Tipsheet: March 25, 2019

HRC ENDORSES ERIC GENRICH FOR GREEN BAY, WI MAYOR: “Eric Genrich has spent his career in service to Wisconsin,” said HRC Wisconsin State Director Wendy Strout. “With a proven commitment to equality, Genrich will work to ensure that Green Bay is an inclusive and welcoming place for everyone.” More from HRC.

VICTORY — MICHIGAN REQUIRES ALL STATE-CONTRACTED CHILD WELFARE AGENCIES TO COMPLY WITH NON-DISCRIMINATION LAW &  ACCEPT ALL QUALIFIED FAMILIES: The decision was made following a settlement in a case brought by two same-sex couples, represented by the ACLU of Michigan, who were turned away by child welfare agencies who objected to working with LGBTQ people. More from ACLU of Michigan.

Congrats @ACLU! As other state legislatures weigh laws similar to this one struck down by a court in Michigan, lawmakers should consider whether they think that these unnecessary bills are worth their costly, harmful effects. #LTDICWS t.co/lTFD7Qbivi

— Kate Oakley (@CthrynOkly) March 22, 2019

HRC CELEBRATES 9 YEARS OF THE AFFORDABLE CARE ACT: More here.

1/ Today marks 9 years since @BarackObama signed the Affordable Care Act into law. The ACA has been vital to the #LGBTQ community and we can’t let @realDonaldTrump turn back the clock on our care. #ProtectOurCare

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) March 23, 2019

MUST WATCH MONDAY — NEW HRC VIDEO FEATURES U.S. REP. DAVID CICILLINE (D-RI) ON THE NEED TO PASS THE EQUALITY ACT NOW:

.@LGBTEqCaucus Co-Chair @RepCicilline speaks on why we can no longer wait to pass the #EquailtyAct. We must ensure LGBTQ people have access to the same rights and protections as all other Americans.

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— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) March 22, 2019

DESPITE TRUMP-PENCE ADMIN’S ANTI-LGBTQ & ANTI-IMMIGRANT POLICIES, MIGRANTS STILL HOPE FOR A BETTER LIFE IN THE U.S.: “People are going to leave because they are dying of hunger. There are no employment opportunities here,” said Kendra Stefani Jordany, a Honduran transgender activist. “I have heard testimony from women who left the country because their children were killed. They are afraid to live.” More from The Washington Blade.

STATEHOUSE ROUND-UP

  • A Nevada bill could prohibit use of the “panic” defense that allows those accused of violent crimes to use the victim’s sexual orientation or gender identity as a defense. More from NewNowNext.
  • Ohio lawmakers have reintroduced the Fairness Act, which would add sexual orientation and gender identity to the state’s non-discrimination laws. More from Fox 28.

There’s a new push to add sexual orientation and gender identity to Ohio’s anti-discrimination laws t.co/FwjgsLWOEh #LGBT pic.twitter.com/9MxUd5Ngoo

— WTTE FOX 28 (@fox28columbus) March 22, 2019

MONTANA TRANSGENDER WOMAN ALLEGEDLY FIRED FOR GENDER IDENTITY: More from Newsweek.

TRANS BOY FORCED INTO PROM QUEEN CATEGORY AFTER BEING NOMINATED BY CLASSMATES FOR PROM KING: Dex Frier of Gainesville, Georgia, alleges school officials told him he must compete under the “queen” category or give up his nomination. More from BuzzFeed.

 GLOBAL EQUALITY NEWS

KENYAN COURT OF APPEALS RULES LGBTQ ORGANIZATION MUST BE ALLOWED TO REGISTER WITH GOVERNMENT: This move comes as the nation waits for its high court to release a decision regarding decriminalizing consensual same-sex relationships. More, including analysis from HRC Global Innovator Njeri Gateru (@njerigateru), at The Star.

COSTA RICAN PRESIDENT CARLOS ALVARADO VOWS TO LEGALIZE MARRIAGE EQUALITY BEFORE MAY 2020: More from Gay Star News.

JUSTICE MINISTRY OF JAPAN GRANTS PERMISSION FOR TAIWANESE MAN TO STAY IN JAPAN WITH HIS PARTNER: More from Gay Star News.

READING RAINBOW – Bookmark now to read on your lunch break!

Advocate reviews a new documentary on San Diego’s LGBTQ bar history; OutSports shares a heartwarming story of two openly gay high school athletes attending prom together; HRC joined the National Queer Asian Pacific Islander Alliance Community Catalyst Awards on Sunday night

.@HRC was thrilled to join the @NQAPIA Catalyst Awards tonight and recognize our #LGBTQ #API community! pic.twitter.com/aysCk1bvQJ

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) March 25, 2019

Have news? Send us your news and tips at [email protected]. Click here to subscribe to #AM_Equality and follow @HRC for all the latest news. Thanks for reading!

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11 Gay Moments Were Cut from China’s ‘Bohemian Rhapsody’ and Many Scenes ‘Didn’t Make Sense At All’ According to One Viewer

11 Gay Moments Were Cut from China’s ‘Bohemian Rhapsody’ and Many Scenes ‘Didn’t Make Sense At All’ According to One Viewer

In February we reported that the Chinese release of Bohemian Rhapsody, the Oscar-winning Freddie Mercury/Queen biopic, was to be de-gayed by Chinese censors. The Chinese version has been released and those cuts, which are said to be more than two minutes, are very evident, according to viewers.

Feili Xie, a 28-year-old gay man from Beijing told ABC Australia that because the scene where Mercury comes out to his girlfriend as liking men was cut, the audience suddenly realizes they have broken up without knowing why: “It is seriously and obviously out of context, where many scenes in the film didn’t make any sense at all.”

According to various reports, Chinese censors also cut a close-up of Mercury’s gyrating crotch; a kiss between Mercury and his manager Paul Prenter; a moment in which Roger Taylor (Ben Hardy) calls Mercury’s haircut “gay”; the first encounter between Mercury and his future partner Jim Hutton in which Mercury grabs his crotch, and a later kiss between Mercury and Jim; a moment in which Mercury kisses a man’s cheek at a party before slapping a woman on the ass; the entire scene containing the”I Want To Break Free” video when Mercury and band members are dressed in women’s clothing; the word “sexuality” is changed to “sex life” in a scene in which Mercury has a press conference; Mercury never says “I got it” to his bandmates, referring to AIDS, as censors cut the audio; censors also removed the real-life photo of Mercury and Jim Hutton in the end credits, which said they enjoyed “a loving relationship for the remainder of Freddie’s life.”

CNN adds that a few moments did make the cut: ‘During a press conference scene, even though Mercury was asked directly about his sexual orientation, the term used by the reporter was translated as “sex life” in the Chinese subtitle — changing the question’s meaning entirely.Despite the cuts and mistranslation, the average Chinese viewer can still infer Mercury’s sexuality. Scenes that made the final version include Mercury coming out to his parents by holding the hand of his partner Jim Hutton.’

Chinese broadcasters also censored the words “gay man” from actor Rami Malek’s Oscar acceptance speech, replacing them with “special group.”

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11 Gay Moments Were Cut from China’s ‘Bohemian Rhapsody’ and Many Scenes ‘Didn’t Make Sense At All’ According to One Viewer

Are You a Fool for Beauty?

Are You a Fool for Beauty?

Julie Bracken posted a photo:

Are You a Fool for Beauty?

You are too beautiful, my dear, to be true
And I am a fool for beauty
Fooled by a feeling that because I have found you
I could have bound you too

You are too beautiful for one man alone
For one lucky fool to be with
When there are other men
With eyes of their own to see with
Love does not stand sharing
Not if one cares

Have you been comparing
My every kiss with theirs
If, on the other hand, I’m faithful to you
It’s not through a sense of duty
You are too beautiful
And I am a fool for beauty
~The Platters videolink

Makeup and styling by the talented Kelayla of www.transvista.co.uk/

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