Applying Marie Kondo’s “Tidying Up” Rules to Your Dating Life

Applying Marie Kondo’s “Tidying Up” Rules to Your Dating Life

If it doesn’t spark joy…there is no room for it in your life! If you haven’t caught wind of the new, highly binge-worthy Netflix show, “Tidying Up” with Marie Kondo, let me fill you in. The lifestyle guru and consultant, Marie Kondo is helping people everywhere to declutter their homes and live a more joyful […]

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Jussie Smollet attacked by homophobes who tied a noose around his neck and doused him in bleach

Jussie Smollet attacked by homophobes who tied a noose around his neck and doused him in bleach
The assault happened at around 2AM on Tuesday morning, shortly after Smollett arrived in Chicago from New York.

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‘Empire’ Actor Jussie Smollett Hospitalized in Chicago After Violent Racial Homophobic Attack

‘Empire’ Actor Jussie Smollett Hospitalized in Chicago After Violent Racial Homophobic Attack

Empire actor Jussie Smollett was hospitalized and treated at Northwestern Memorial Hospital in Chicago after a violent attack which police are reportedly investigating as a possible hate crime.

TMZ confirmed the attack, which happened around 2 am on Tuesday morning, and reported that law enforcement sources told them the Chicago Police Department is investigating the disturbing incident as a possible hate crime: ‘Sources directly connected to Jussie tell TMZ, the actor arrived in Chicago from New York late Monday, and at around 2 AM he was hungry and went to a Subway. We’re told when he walked out, someone yelled, “Aren’t you that f***ot ‘Empire’ n*****?”  The 2 men — both white and wearing ski masks — viciously attacked Jussie as he fought back, but they beat him badly and fractured a rib. They put a rope around his neck, poured bleach on him and as they left they yelled, “This is MAGA country.”‘

While the MAGA details and the nature of the chemical substance are not confirmed yet by an official report, HuffPost front page editor Philip Lewis and MSNBC producer Michael Del Moro tweeted out a statement from Chicago PD on the incident.

The statement says the attackers poured a “chemical substance on the victim” after yelling out racial and homophobic slurs. They then wrapped a rope around the victim’s neck and fled the scene.

Wow… Absolutely horrific details in this Chicago Police Dept Statement on incident reportedly involving actor Jussie Smollett pic.twitter.com/E4iTWfDule

— Michael Del Moro (@MikeDelMoro) January 29, 2019

Chicago Police Department just sent out this statement re:
Jussie Smollett pic.twitter.com/DxQswZn8xd

— philip lewis (@Phil_Lewis_) January 29, 2019

Audio of the emergency call placed after the attack can be heard HERE.

The website ThatGrapeJuice.net first reported the incident, saying that Smollett received a letter in the mail with a note on it which read “you will die black fag”. The site added that Smollett was attacked “by two men in ski-masks. Both of whom placed a noose around his neck.”

Developing (refresh for updates)….

Source: ThatGrapeJuice.net

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Former WH Aide Cliff Sims Laughs as CNN Host Reads Him Trump Tweet Trashing His Book: WATCH

Former WH Aide Cliff Sims Laughs as CNN Host Reads Him Trump Tweet Trashing His Book: WATCH

Donald Trump just gave Cliff Sims, the former White House aide whose new tell-all Team of Vipers dishes on his 500 days working in for the Trump administration, a huge boost.

Tweeted Trump: ‘A low level staffer that I hardly knew named Cliff Sims wrote yet another boring book based on made up stories and fiction. He pretended to be an insider when in fact he was nothing more than a gofer. He signed a non-disclosure agreement. He is a mess!’

A low level staffer that I hardly knew named Cliff Sims wrote yet another boring book based on made up stories and fiction. He pretended to be an insider when in fact he was nothing more than a gofer. He signed a non-disclosure agreement. He is a mess!

— Donald J. Trump (@realDonaldTrump) January 29, 2019

Sims was appearing on CNN’s New Day as Trump tweeted and reacted in real time to the best publicity his book could have received.

Trump has reportedly been pissed off about the book but up until Tuesday morning held his tongue.

Politico reported on Monday: ‘President Donald Trump is “very pissed off” and “really hopping mad” at former aide Cliff Sims’ new book that reveals firsthand the chaos and infighting that is ever present in his White House, according to several current and former White House officials. Trump is asking aides: “Who is this guy? Why is he writing this book? He wasn’t even in meetings,” the sources said. He also dismissively refers to Sims — who served until last May as director of White House message strategy and a special assistant to the president —as “the videographer” because he also helped Trump with the weekly video and radio addresses, according to three current and former White House officials.’

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#AM_Equality Tipsheet: January 29, 2019

#AM_Equality Tipsheet: January 29, 2019

DAVID KACSMARYK , TRUMP-PENCE NOMINEE FOR TEXAS DISTRICT COURT, IS UNFIT TO SERVE ON THE FEDERAL BENCH: Said HRC Government Affairs Director David Stacy (@david_stacy): “David Kacsmaryk has spent his career not only opposing non-discrimination protections on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity but also questioning the very existence of transgender people. It’s clear that this nominee is completely out-of-step with the views of the American people, science, and the proper interpretation of our Constitution and our statutes. He cannot be trusted to adjudicate the civil rights of LGBTQ people with impartiality.” 

“IT’S 2019 – IS THIS REALLY HAPPENING TO US?” — SAME-SEX COUPLE DENIED ACCESS TO TEXAS WEDDING FACILITY: Aaron Lucero and Jeff Cannon were turned away by The Venue north of Dallas a facility open to the general public for rental. “Discrimination is a real and persistent problem for LGBTQ people,” said HRC Spokesperson Stephen Peters (@StephenPeters2). “An overwhelming majority of Americans, leading businesses, and lawmakers on both sides of the aisle all agree that now is the time for Congress to end the patchwork of protections and pass the Equality Act.” More from NBC.

TOMORROW — U.S. REP. KENNEDY AND CONGRESSIONAL TRANS EQUALITY TASK FORCE TO MEET WITH PARENTS OF TRANS YOUTH: The HRC Foundation’s Parents for Transgender Equality Council will hold a public meeting with Rep. Joe Kennedy, III (D-MA), chair of the task force, and other pro-equality members of Congress. The parents will discuss their families’ experiences in the face anti-transgender attacks from the Trump-Pence administration and the urgent need to pass the Equality Act. Interested media must RSVP to [email protected].

TUESDAY TWEET — SUPERGIRL UNVEILS FIRST OPENLY TRANS SUPERHERO PLAYED BY TRANS ACTRESS NICOLE MAINES: More from Deadline.

Last night’s episode was so important not just for Nia’s development into Dreamer, but for trans rep on television. I’m so thankful to be working with people who cared enough to take the time to sit with me and talk about how to write the dialogue… (1/2)

— ����‍♀️Nicole Maines����‍♀️ (@NicoleAMaines) January 28, 2019

CRUCIAL PROTECTIONS FOR VIRGINIA’S LGBTQ COMMUNITY CLEAR RULES COMMITTEE IN STATE HOUSE OF DELEGATES: The two pieces of legislation — which passed the State Senate last week — would prohibit discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity in housing and public employment. More from The Washington Blade.

PORTLAND (ME) PRESS HERALD ED BOARD ON TRUMP’S TRANS TROOPS BAN — IT “DEMEANS TRUE PATRIOTS”: The Editorial Board writes, “Transgender members of the military shouldn’t be objects of fear and derision, and their willingness to serve and sacrifice shouldn’t be demeaned… Their service, and the service of so many others like them, is worthy of our appreciation.” More from The Portland (ME) Press Herald.

  • Must-read: The AP’s David Crary (@CraryAP) interviews trans service members and veterans about SCOTUS’ recent decision to allow Trump’s trans troops ban to go in effect. More from Military Times

OPENLY GAY NYC COUNCIL SPEAKER COREY JOHNSON TO RUN FOR MAYOR: More from Pink News.

FOR YOUR CALENDAR — HRC TO HOST NATIONAL DAY OF READING ON FEB 28: Thousands of parents, educators and allies will welcome and support transgender and non-binary youth by hosting readings of affirming children’s’ books as part of the fourth annual Jazz & Friends National Day of School and Community Readings. More from HRC.

When a national hate group targeted a young transgender child, her rural community rallied behind her using a book co-authored by trans trailblazer @JazzJennings__.

On Feb 28, you and your community can be a part of that beautiful story. #JazzAndFriendst.co/3ZE1chXpMA pic.twitter.com/I3TMh9UKX6

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) January 28, 2019

NEW REPORT FROM HUMAN RIGHTS WATCH DETAILS ALARMING HIV RATES AMONG TRANSGENDER WOMEN IN SOUTH FLORIDA: More from Instinct Magazine.

TRANS ACTOR TO APPEAR IN UPCOMING SPIDER MAN FILM: Zach Barack is believed to be the first openly transgender actor to be cast in a big budget superhero film, reports NBC.

TODAY — PARENT-ACTIVIST & HRC FOUNDATION BOARD MEMBER JODIE PATTERSON RELEASES NEW BOOK, THE BOLD WORLD“Jodie Patterson, draws on the different parts of herself — the student, the activist, the family loyalist — to respond with heart, commitment, and all the fierceness required to protect her transgender child,” said HRC President Chad Griffin (@ChadHGriffin). “Beautifully written, The Bold World is activism at its most pure level.” More here

We’re so proud of Jodie Patterson (@Jodie_GeorgiaNY), a longtime @HRC supporter and and member of our Parents for Trans Equality National Council — on the release of her new book, ������ �������� ����������: �� ������������ ���� ������������ ������ ����������������������������. t.co/vrLfi95K8u

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) January 29, 2019

 GLOBAL EQUALITY NEWS

SAME-SEX COUPLE BELIEVED TO BE FIRST IN BRITAIN TO BE OFFERED IN VITRO FERTILIZATION (IVF) TREATMENT BY NHS: The National Health Service (NHS) until recently had banned the use of surrogate mothers. More from Daily Mail.

READING RAINBOW – Bookmark now to read on your lunch break!

Out Magazine higlights 10 LGBTQ stories that should be made into film
Have news? Send us your news and tips at [email protected]Click here to subscribe to #AM_Equality and follow @HRC for all the latest news. Thanks for reading!

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Howard Schultz Heckled at Book Event for Planning 2020 Run as Independent: ‘Don’t Help Elect Trump You Egotistical Billionaire A**hole’ – WATCH

Howard Schultz Heckled at Book Event for Planning 2020 Run as Independent: ‘Don’t Help Elect Trump You Egotistical Billionaire A**hole’ – WATCH

Former Starbucks CEO Howard Schultz was heckled at a book event on Monday night a day after announcing he was planning a run for president as a centrist independent, angering many who warned he would be siphoning votes from the Democratic Party.

Shouted the heckler: “Don’t help elect Trump, you egotistical, billionaire a**hole. Go back to getting ratioed on Twitter. Go back to Davos with the other billionaire elite who think they know how to run the world. That’s not what democracy needs.”

Replied Schultz to the heckler: “I recognize there is a lot of concern and perhaps misunderstanding and I hope that this conversation will be quite illuminating and people will understand why I feel so strongly about the direction of the country and how profoundly concerned I am about where we all stand…”

On Monday, Donald Trump revealed that he apparently feels Schultz would take votes away from Democrats as well, taunting the former Starbucks chief to get in the race on Twitter.

Howard Schultz doesn’t have the “guts” to run for President! Watched him on @60Minutes last night and I agree with him that he is not the “smartest person.” Besides, America already has that! I only hope that Starbucks is still paying me their rent in Trump Tower!

— Donald J. Trump (@realDonaldTrump) January 28, 2019

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‘Chemsex First AID’ Book Is A Harm Reduction Approach To Treating Addiction

‘Chemsex First AID’ Book Is A Harm Reduction Approach To Treating Addiction

The harm reduction book is meant to give plain advice for those that “party and play” to help prevent HIV.

Chemsex — or the use of GHB, methamphetamine or mephedrone in sexual settings in the queer and trans community — provides a means for many to experience intimacy that is otherwise hindered by shame and stigma. But chemsex encounters bear risks and potential harms, exacerbated by this stigma, which are most often addressed — if at all —with a focus on prevention.

That’s why two London sexual health professionals wrote Chemsex First Aid, a booklet that spells out “how to react when things go wrong in a chemsex session,” according to one of its authors, Ignacio Labayen de Inza. Along with co-author David Stuart—who also provides ChemSex support services in London and who first coined the term “chemsex” in the early 2000s — de Inza identified a need for Chemsex First Aid because many chemsex-related care providers knew “what to do to prevent problems, but there was practically nothing until now about what to do when things are already going wrong.”

The booklet takes the harm reduction approach of recognizing that queer men practice chemsex, and will continue to do so. Three in 10 HIV-positive UK men who have sex with men (MSM), for example, engage in chemsex activities. Many who engage in chemsex find it a means to cope with the conflicts queerness poses for “toxic masculinity” and some “religious or cultural attitudes,” says de Inza. “Getting high on the right drugs can seem a great ‘solution’ to these problems. Chems provide a great disinhibition from these issues.”

The guide has four sections, respectively addressing: GHB/GBL-related emergencies; methamphetamine- and mephedrone-related emergencies; other emergencies that occur in chemsex environments; and a summary of first aid situations.

Many of the interventions proposed for chemsex drugs are similar to those suggested for opioids. For example, the booklet advises bystanders to look for problematic breathing and “firmly squeez[e] their trapezius muscle,” when assessing whether someone has fallen into “G-sleep,” a state of unconsciousness that could lead to death—similar to “nodding” in a potential opioid overdose. Working at “a sexual health clinic that has thousands of gay men who engage in chemsex every month coming through its doors,” de Inza has seen “hundreds who overdose monthly” from chemsex drugs.

The guide also considers withdrawal, particularly from GHB/GBL, and the risks of intravenous drug use, such as intravenous infection, HIV infection or introducing a large amount of air into a vein.

But chemsex also features unique risks and harms. Consent during a meth/meph high can be problematic, because of the drugs’ tendency to null inhibitions and ability to calculate risk. Additionally, meth and meph carry the risk of drug-induced psychosis. The guidelines advise that both issues require active support, and a negotiation between an individual’s agency and the harms caused to themselves or others.

Other chemsex situations potentially requiring first aid interventions include “lodged objects” in the anus, HIV infection, priapism (long-lasting, painful erections), and allergic reactions to substances cut into drugs.  

For de Inza, Chemsex First Aid is a part of queer men’s “long history of activism… of sharing information and stories, and of looking out for each other.” The booklet joins a harm reduction ecosystem of both institutional resources and the “word-of-mouth amongst guys that engage in chemsex.” De Inza aimed “to highlight the best tips and advice for the most extreme of circumstances, the most potential[ly] fatal.”

“This was the inspiration behind this resource,” de Inza continues. “There are some seriously complicated judgement calls to be made in dangerous chemsexenvironments, that many health organizations struggle to get right. We had to create this resource for our communities.”

Check out the guide here. 

This article was originally published by Filter, a magazine covering drug use, drug policy and human rights. Follow Filter on Facebook or Twitter.

Written by By Sessi Kuwabara Blanchard

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