Jason Momoa, Timothée Chalamet, Lin-Manuel Miranda, Michael Urie, And An HIV Testing App: HOT LINKS

Jason Momoa, Timothée Chalamet, Lin-Manuel Miranda, Michael Urie, And An HIV Testing App: HOT LINKS

REAL MEN WEAR PIG TAILS. Jason Momoa is spotted wearing gender bender pig tails (Aquaman opens tomorrow!)

#TBT: Remember when Kenny got a cute boyfriend on The Real O’Neals and did a Sia mashup of Oh Holy Night?

 

IT’S RAINING PLAYS. With numerous shows closing due to lackluster ticket sales actor Michael Urie asks if we aren’t eating our own in How Many Gay Plays Can Broadway Sustain?

JUST SAY NO!  Super Cutie Timothée Chalamet says the message of Beautiful Boy is to say no to drugs.

THIS MOVIE COST HOW MUCH?! Check out the amazing promo pictures for this community theater production of Aladdin–Oh wait...

MUST SEE! The Many Hats of Ralph Arnold: Art, Identity & Politics showcases the Black, gay artist’s 1970s photocollages, which commented upon mass media portrayals of sexuality and race.

TESTIMONY ICE Defends Treatment Of Trans Detainee

GET SMART A new app called HIVSmart! lets people test themselves for HIV, connects them to care quickly, and could be adapted for many at-risk populations, according to a new study.

WHO’S #1Who will be crowned the RuPaul’s Drag Race All-Stars 4 winner?

NEXT! Lin-Manuel Miranda talks about his future.

THURSDAY THOTTIES blackmensoswag

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Zach Stafford Will Be The First Black Editor-in-Chief Of ‘The Advocate’

Zach Stafford Will Be The First Black Editor-in-Chief Of ‘The Advocate’

In a tweet Into Editor-in-Chief Zach Stafford announced that he would be taking the reigns over at legacy LGBTQ news magazine The Advocate.

NEWS

I have been named the new Editor-in-Chief of The Advocate.

I am beyond thrilled to join a magazine that has been so vital to our community for over 50 years. Tomorrow I will be sharing a final editor’s note on INTO with more details. t.co/I04o6kuRvI

— Zach Stafford (@ZachStafford) December 21, 2018

It’s an interesting decision coming on the heels of Teen Vogue’s wunderkind Phillip Picardi taking over the reigns at Out magazine.

The 28-year-old Stafford would be the first Editor-in-Chief of color at the 50 year old magazine.

“Zach is a tenacious and talented risk taker, journalist and editorial leader who will help lead The Advocate to become the undisputed leader in the LGBTQ community for breaking news and in-depth reporting on the communities we serve” Nathan Coyle, CEO of Pride Media, owner of The Advocate, told NBC News in an emailed statement.

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What’s the Secret to Love in 2019? 15 Dating Goals Singles NEED to Follow

What’s the Secret to Love in 2019? 15 Dating Goals Singles NEED to Follow

As another year comes to an end, it’s a good time to reflect on the last 12 months and set some committed goals for the future! Your dating life may have taken a back seat in 2018, but you’d like to drastically change that come the new year. I’m not telling you to attempt all […]

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‘Fitness Photographer’ with ‘Straight Guy Fetish’ Gets 16 Years for Drugging, Raping Male Models

‘Fitness Photographer’ with ‘Straight Guy Fetish’ Gets 16 Years for Drugging, Raping Male Models

Nigel Wilkinson, a British man with a ‘straight guy fetish’ who lured straight men to his home by offering them fashion shoots and then drugged and sexually assaulted them, was given 16 years and 6 months in prison.

The BBC reported: ‘Wilkinson, who failed to appear at court for sentencing, was found guilty on Tuesday of drugging five men, voyeurism offences against three and the rape of one. The court heard Wilkinson advertised on Facebook and Instagram to lure men to his home where he had set up a makeshift studio.He would then ply them with drinks laced with sedatives, allowing him to sexually assault them, and in some cases take photos of them they did not consent to.’

Wilkinson could “barely use a camera and was still having trouble using photoshop even into 2016” according to one photographer who was reached by the defendant for advice. He also told prospective models he was an international “jetsetting” photographer named Simon.

“Wilkinson is a gay man who preferred to have sex with straight men without their being aware of it,” the prosecutor told the jury.

The prosecution presented evidence of a Skype conversation between Wilkinson (“Straightboylover”) and another Skype user in which Wilkinson spoke of having a “fetish” for “straight boys”.

Wilkinson’s M.O. was similar in several cases, Bristol Post added: ‘All described how he plied them with alcohol as soon as they arrived being very “pushy” and telling them the alcohol would bring out the veins in their arms and make them appear more muscular. He would almost always arrange for them to stay and for them to go for food and drinks afterward. With the men describing not being able to remember past a certain point in the night later waking up in Wilkinson’s bed or on his sofa with a bad head and different states of dress. When police would later show them pictures of themselves that were found in Wilkinson’s possessions all would insist they had never agreed to full nude and intimate pictures and had no recollection of them being taken. Miss Regan said: “He stupefied and overpowered his victims in order to sexually assault them.”’

One model told police he woke up in a stupefied naked state to find Wilkinson behind him: “I am definitely sure he was doing stuff to me. He was trying to have sex with me.”

Six other models who gave evidence described similar experiences.

The paper added: “In total, 39 men had their photographs taken by Nigel Wilkinson, 28 of those men had stayed the night at his home. A further 69 men in were contacted by Wilkinson but some of them did not reply or if they did they rejected his offer. Police were able to contact 51 of the men to check on their welfare but many of these did not want to engage with the force.”

The case is similar to that of a Miami man, Bryan Deneumostier, arrested in July for posing as a housewife and promising men sex before luring them to his home, filming them without their knowledge, and putting those films on a pay website called Straightboyz. Deneumostier was recently sentenced to three years in prison.

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BREAKING: New Report Documents Horrific Anti-LGBTQ Crimes Against Humanity in Chechnya

BREAKING: New Report Documents Horrific Anti-LGBTQ Crimes Against Humanity in Chechnya

Today, the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) — America’s largest lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) civil rights organization — responded to a new report released by the Organization for Security and Cooperation in Europe (OSCE) documenting horrific anti-LGBTQ crimes against humanity in the Russian republic of Chechnya that first made headlines in April 2017. Refuting denials from Chechen and Russian authorities, the report details the systematic torture, abuse and murder of LGBTQ people.

The report was authorized by 16 OSCE countries last month in order to investigate the human rights abuses and the Russian government’s failure to respond. It clearly states that there is “overwhelming evidence that there have been grave violations of the rights of LGBTI persons in the Chechen Republic,” while also citing gruesome personal stories from victims of the Chechen regime’s cruelty. The report also calls on Russia to establish a special investigative committee to “undertake an effective, impartial and transparent investigation of the allegations” and “bring to justice the alleged perpetrators.”

“The Russian government can no longer deny the existence of these barbaric anti-LGBTQ crimes against humanity in Chechnya,” said HRC Global Director Ty Cobb. “World leaders, including the Trump-Pence administration, must take action to hold Russia and those responsible for the crimes accountable and to ensure these atrocious crimes have been stopped and never happen again. It’s crucial that Russia follow the report’s recommendations and launch a serious investigation, and that the world community — and especially the United States — welcome refugees escaping these gross human rights abuses.”

The report also contained a number of recommendations for the Chechen government, including shutting down all unofficial detention facilities in the republic — where many LGBTQ victims were held and tortured for weeks — as well as ending the “climate of impunity by holding to account all perpetrators of human rights violations, including members of the police and other security forces.”

There are also a number of recommendations for other OSCE nations, including the United States. In particular, it calls on those countries to welcome LGBTI refugees from the Chechen republic and take into account the “special security needs” of these refugees by providing them with safe housing as well as medical and psychological support.

Since news of the atrocities first broke more than 18 months ago, HRC has worked to shine a spotlight on the dire situation unfolding in Chechnya through the organization’s #EyesOnChechnya campaign. In that time, the Trump-Pence White House has refused to publicly condemn the anti-LGBTQ attacks, even as Vladimir Putin licensed the violence to continue. While the U.S. Treasury Department did place sanctions on certain Chechen officials in response to their human rights violations, and U.S. diplomats supported the OSCE fact-finding mission, President Trump, Vice President Pence, and Secretary Pompeo have never once spoken out publicly against what has taken place there. In July, on the eve of the Trump-Putin summit in Helsinki, HRC projected an enormous message on the Presidential Palace demanding that Trump and Putin immediately condemn and investigate the ongoing anti-LGBTQ crimes against humanity occurring in Chechnya.

On April 1, 2017, Novaya Gazeta, a Russian independent media outlet, first broke the news that Chechen authorities had rounded up and detained in secret prisons more than 100 men who were suspected of being gay or bisexual. Chechen leaders have denied these accusations, going so far as to deny the very existence of LGBTQ people in Chechnya — a claim the Russian government astonishingly repeated.

Chechen officials have also reportedly encouraged families to murder relatives they suspect might be gay or bisexual. While the initial detentions and attacks targeted men suspected of being gay or bisexual, the campaign has also brought about a surge in lesbian women sharing stories about humiliation, abuse, and threats they have faced from male relatives or from others. Transgender Chechens have also fled violence.

While former Secretary of State Rex Tillerson did reportedly write a private letter to Russian Foreign Minister Sergei Lavrov raising the human rights abuses, that letter was never released publicly nor was it accompanied by any public statement on Chechnya. In October 2017, HRC filed a Freedom of Information Act (FOIA) request with the U.S. Department of State for all records regarding that letter — a request that has yet to be fulfilled. While the White House has remained silent, both the U.S. House of Representatives and the U.S. Senate have passed bipartisan resolutions condemning the atrocities.

In March, HRC also released a letter from HRC President Chad Griffin to Trump calling on him to end his deafening silence and publicly condemn the attacks as crimes against humanity. In June, a gay Chechen refugee joined HRC in Washington for a series of meetings with U.S. government officials, where he shared how he had been brutally tortured in Chechnya and managed to flee to safety in Canada with the help of the organization Rainbow Railroad. HRC also shared the first-hand story of one of the Chechen survivors on World Refugee Day.

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Anti-Gay Baker Jack Phillips in Court Again, This Time for Refusing Transgender Woman

Anti-Gay Baker Jack Phillips in Court Again, This Time for Refusing Transgender Woman

Anti-gay baker Jack Phillips, owner of Masterpiece Cakeshop.

Jack Phillips, the anti-gay baker at the center of the Masterpiece Cakeshop Supreme Court case, was back in court this week, facing another complaint of anti-LGBTQ discrimination.

USA Today reports: ‘Autumn Scardina, a transgender woman who is also a Denver attorney, said Phillips’ bakery refused to make a cake for her in June 2017 to celebrate her transition from male to female. The request, which came weeks after the Supreme Court case involving Charlie Craig and David Mullins, was for a birthday cake colored pink on the inside and blue on the outside. Phillips’ lawyers from the Alliance Defending Freedom say Colorado is engaged in “unconstitutional bullying,” The Gazette reports, and they are suing governor of Colorado John Hickenlooper’s administration, the Division of Civil Rights and the Colorado Civil Rights Commission.’

After the SCOTUS ruling in his favor Phillips and his lawyer, whose remarks were straight out of the fundamentalist playbook, tried to paint him as a kind-hearted non-bigot in an appearance on the TODAY show.

Said Phillips: “I was thrilled. SCOTUS has decided that we can try to enter the wedding business again, and I serve everybody. I don’t create cakes for every occasion that people ask me to create…I don’t discriminate against anybody…I serve everybody that comes in my shop…I told these two men who came in the store ‘I’ll sell you cookies, brownies, birthday cakes…a wedding is an inherently religious event…and the cake is definitely a specific message.”

As a reminder, The Colorado Civil Rights Commission’s decision noted evidence in the record that Phillips had expressed willingness to take a cake order for the “marriage” of two dogs, but not for the commitment ceremony of two women, and that he would not make a cake for a same-sex couple’s wedding celebration “just as he would not be willing to make a pedophile cake.”

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2018 in Review: Ten HRC Resources for Moving LGBTQ Equality Forward

2018 in Review: Ten HRC Resources for Moving LGBTQ Equality Forward

2018 has been a long, hard-fought year for our community. From this administration’s continued attacks on asylum seekers, inclusive health care access, its attempts to erase transgender people to the obstacles LGBTQ people still face in their everyday lives, it has at times felt like an endless battle.

But this year has also seen stories of amazing resilience and progress — including a historic victory for transgender equality in Massachusetts and a growing number of legislators, advocates and allies speaking out to protect LGBTQ youth from dangerous and debunked “conversion therapy.” Transgender trailblazers like the cast and crew of Pose and Supergirl’s Nicole Maines bring important stories and visibility into homes around the world.

As we look back and reflect on the highs and lows of this year and celebrate the pro-equality majority that will soon be sworn into the House of Representatives, here are ten of HRC’s 2018 resources to guide the work ahead:

1. A National Epidemic: Fatal Anti-Transgender Violence in America in 2018

A National Epidemic, Fatal Anti-Transgender Violence, Transgender, TDOR

In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, HRC Foundation released a heartbreaking report honoring the more than 20 transgender and gender-expansive people killed in 2018 (at the time of publication). It also details the contributing and motivating factors that lead to this tragic violence, and outlines how we all can take concrete steps to end this crisis. In life, each of the individuals memorialized in this report went to extraordinary lengths to live authentically as who they were. In death, we must honor their truth with bravery and action.

2. 2018 U.S. LGBTQ Paid Leave Survey

US LGBTQ Paid Leave Survey

In conjunction with the 25th anniversary of the Family and Medical Leave Act, HRC Foundation released a groundbreaking report detailing the results of its nationwide survey of LGBTQ people that reveals an urgent need for inclusive paid family and medical leave. More than 5,400 LGBTQ people from all 50 states responded to HRC’s 2018 U.S. LGBTQ Paid Leave Survey, the largest and most comprehensive ever of its kind. HRC Foundation also released two subsequent breakout reports from this survey highlighting the unique needs of transgender and non-binary workers and LGBTQ working people of color.

3. 2018 LGBTQ Youth Report

LGBTQ Youth Report 2018

HRC Foundation partnered with the University of Connecticut to conduct an innovative survey of more than 12,000 LGBTQ youth, ranging in age from 13 to 17, and from all 50 states and Washington D.C. The largest-of-its-kind survey revealed in distressing detail the persistent challenges so many of them face going about their daily lives. It found that these teenagers are not only experiencing heartbreaking levels of stress, anxiety and rejection, but also overwhelmingly feel unsafe in their own school classrooms. Survey participants also made it crystal clear that supportive families and inclusive schools are key to their success and well-being. HRC Foundation released two sub-reports later in the year, highlighting the unique issues facing both Latinx LGBTQ youth as well as gender-expansive youth respondents, with additional breakouts of the data to come in 2019.

4. All Children – All Families Program resources

All Children - All Families, HRC Foundation

In June, HRC Foundation’s All Children – All Families program unveiled groundbreaking new resources to guide child welfare agencies in better serving the more than 430,000 children and young people in foster care. The resources include assessment tools and a comprehensive webinar series on how best to serve LGBTQ youth. With these tools, agencies can assess their policies and practices around working with young people and prospective parents.

5. Coming Home to Evangelicalism and to Self

Coming Home to Evangelicalism and to Self

This guide, latest in HRC Foundation’s ‘Coming Home’ series, is aimed at LGBTQ Evangelicals who are on the journey toward living fully in their sexual orientation, gender identity and expression and in their faith and its traditions. The guide offers general, overarching insights and suggestions that draw on a wide variety of evangelical voices. The hope is always to spark new ideas, new dialogue and new courage.

6. Coming Out: Living Authentically as LGBTQ API Americans

Coming Out, Living Authentically as API Americans,

In partnership with the National Queer Asian Pacific Islander Alliance, HRC Foundation released a coming out resource for Asian and Pacific Islander (API) Americans, a valuable conversation starter for LGBTQ APIs, their families and their communities. Although, there is no universal coming out experience, this resource aims to offer support and guidance for members of this diverse community. For instance, Some LGBTQ API Americans raised in religious communities must reconcile themselves with traditions and teachings that may condemn LGBTQ identities. Language differences can also make it difficult to identify relevant or relatable resources, support and role models.

7. Coming Out: Living Authentically as LGBTQ Latinx Americans

Coming Out, Living Authentically as Latinx LGBTQ Americans

HRC Foundation, in partnership with the Hispanic Federation, League of United Latin American Citizens and UnidosUS, released Coming Out: Living Authentically as LGBTQ Latinx Americans to aid LGBTQ Latinx Americans in navigating the intersectional challenges when coming out. This resource offers support for those finding their way across multiple languages, cultures, religious affiliation, ethnicity, nationality and LGBTQ identities.

8. HIV 101: a Guide to HIV Prevention, Treatment, and Care on College and University Campuses

HIV 101, Campus Guide

This comprehensive guide outlines many of the critical steps higher educational institutions can take to improve student health and wellbeing. As a group, college students experience heightened risk factors that can lead to contracting HIV, including engaging in high-risk sexual behavior and experimenting with drugs or alcohol. This resource details ways in which administrators, staff and even students themselves can foster a campus environment to support those living with HIV and help mitigate this national public health crisis.

9. Making HIV History + A Pragmatic Guide to Confronting HIV at HBCUs

Making HIV History, HBCU Guide

Despite declining HIV infection rates in the U.S., college-aged and Black Americans continue to be at a higher risk of acquiring HIV than the general population. In 2015, youth and young adults ages 13- to 24-years-old represented more than one in five new HIV diagnoses in America. Eighty percent of those diagnoses occurred in people ages 20- to 24-years-old. Among youth diagnosed with HIV in 2015, 55 percent were gay or bisexual Black men. This comprehensive guide for HBCU administrators, staff and students outlines many of the critical steps higher educational institutions can take to help achieve an HIV-free generation.

10. Play to Win: Improving the Lives of LGBTQ Youth Through Sport

Play to Win, LGBTQ youth and sports

For millions of Americans, sport embodies our ideals of equality, fairness, perseverance, discipline and integrity. But in too many places, sports are not always a safe or affirming space for aspiring LGBTQ athletes. HRC’s “Play to Win”, “Equality in the Stands” and “Be a CHAMPION” resources aim to empower LGBTQ people and allies on the field, court or track, in the ring, on the ice or in the stands.

To view more resources HRC published in the past year, visit hrc.org/resources.

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