HRC Honors World Suicide Prevention Day 2018

HRC Honors World Suicide Prevention Day 2018

Trigger Warning: This post contains mentions of suicide.

HRC marks World Suicide Prevention Day by reaffirming our commitment to support the well-being of LGBTQ youth who are too often made to feel hopeless and alone simply for being who they are. We pause to remember those in our community who we have lost, including Tyler Clementi, Jamel Myles, Leelah Alcorn, Sergio Urrego and far too many others.

In 2016, suicide was the second-leading cause of death worldwide among all youth ages 15 to 29, according to the World Health Organization.

Many LGBTQ young people experience family rejection, bullying and harassment, or feel unsafe for simply being who they are, all of which can be added risk factors for suicide. These risks are compounded for LGBTQ youth of color at the intersections of racism, transphobia, biphobia and homophobia.

HRC and the University of Connecticut’s 2018 LGBTQ Youth Report found alarming trends among more than 12,000 respondents, ranging in age from 13 to 17:

  • More than 70 percent reported feelings of worthlessness and hopelessness in the past week;
  • Only 26 percent of youth said they always feel safe in their school classrooms — and just 5 percent said that all of their teachers and school staff are supportive of LGBTQ people;
  • Just 31 percent of trans youth surveyed said that they can express themselves in a way that completely reflects their gender identity in school;
  • Only 11 percent of youth of color surveyed believe their racial or ethnic group is regarded positively in the U.S.;
  • 68 percent of bisexual youth report being teased or treated poorly at school because of their sexual orientation.

And, heartbreakingly, the Centers for Disease Control’s most recent Youth Risk Behavior Survey found that LGB youth were four times more likely than non-LGB youth to attempt suicide in the previous year. The reporting on transgender students is expected to be published later this year.

Addressing these startling statistics starts with schools and communities alike working to foster safe and inclusive spaces for LGBTQ young people.

HRC’s Welcoming Schools program provides specific guidance to parents, teachers and the wider community for preventing anti-LGBTQ bullying and aggression in schools. This can be as simple as responding appropriately to anti-LGBTQ comments in the classroom, or encouraging educators to promote inclusivity and diversity in their lesson plans.

Parents and families can start by learning the facts and educating themselves about issues that impact LGBTQ youth. Whether or not families have openly LGBTQ children, it is vital to make home a safe and affirming space for all identities.

We all can play a role in our communities to ensure that LGBTQ youth feel safe and supported.

If you or someone you know may be at risk of suicide, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255. If you’re a young LGBTQ person and need to talk to someone, call The Trevor Project’s 24-hour crisis hotline for youth at 1-866-488-7386. If you are a transgender person of any age, call the Trans Lifeline at 877-565-8860.

To learn more about supporting LGBTQ youth in their homes, schools and communities, visit www.hrc.org/youth.

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Share your pronouns on your OkCupid profile

Share your pronouns on your OkCupid profile

Match over what matters to you

Now your OkCupid profile has a dedicated space where you can share your pronouns with potential matches.

OkCupid is proud to be the first and only leading dating app to create a dedicated space on profiles for LGBTQ daters to share their pronouns. Pronouns now appear right along with the other critical attributes that make you who you are, including your gender and sexual orientation. At OkCupid our goal is to empower daters to match on what matters to them and a dedicated space for your pronouns is an important way to share your authentic self and form meaningful relationships with deep human connections.

At OkCupid, we aim to provide a fun, affirming experience for all members. To ensure this new feature accurately represents and empowers members wanting to share their pronouns, we collaborated with GLAAD, a leader itself in the promotion of LGBTQ acceptance.

“Everyone should be able to express who they are, in their own words, and to have the opportunity to find romance with someone who respects and appreciates them,” said GLAAD Vice President of Programs Zeke Stokes. “By creating a dedicated space for personal pronouns on profiles, OkCupid has taken an important step forward that raises the bar for LGBTQ-inclusion on dating apps.”

If you want to share your pronouns on your OkCupid profile, here’s how:

Now you can add your pronouns to your profile.
  • This feature is available to non-binary people and other members of the LGBTQ community. Make sure you’ve selected your gender(s). You can do this by going to your profile and clicking on profile details (where you also enter your sexual orientation, relationship status, etc).
  • Once you’ve done this, you can update your pronouns on your profile (by the ?) by either selecting a dropdown option (he/him, she/her, they/them) or typing in whatever pronouns you want — you can also remove pronouns here by selecting (leave this blank).
  • If you’ve entered your pronouns, they will show up in your details section for all other members who see your profile.

Match over what matters to you on OkCupid right now.


Share your pronouns on your OkCupid profile was originally published in The OkCupid Blog on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.

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Transgender Contestant Defends Robbie Williams After X-Factor Host Gets Slammed for ‘Deadnaming’ Him: WATCH

Transgender Contestant Defends Robbie Williams After X-Factor Host Gets Slammed for ‘Deadnaming’ Him: WATCH

X-Factor UK judge and pop star Robbie Williams was slammed on social media after asking Felix Shepherd, a transgender contestant, his birth name before his audition this week. Asking a transgender person their birth, or “dead name”, is considered offensive because it is seen as invalidating their gender identity.

Hey @robbiewilliams I must say I felt it was offending from you to ask Felix’s deadname… I’m sure there was no bad intentions Behind the question but Felix’s name is Felix. He changed it because the other one didn’t fit and I don’t think it was relevant to bring it up? #Xfactor

— céline (@quidditchfranta) September 8, 2018

Can’t believe @robbiewilliams just asked Felix Shepard his Deadname so Ignorant #XFactorUK

— Rae Smyth (@RaeOfSunshine58) September 8, 2018

@robbiewilliams made an honest mistake. It’s not his fault that he wasn’t educated on trans issues ect, it’s important to educate people! Education is important! Let’s learn from this and stop using #deadname

— Katrina Marie Scanlan (@Katrina_Scanlan) September 9, 2018

@robbiewilliams a trans person’s name is what they tell you. Asking them for their deadname is in no way appropriate, especially not on national TV. Don’t be a dick next time maybe

— Apollo (@apollinares) September 9, 2018

But Shepherd, who earned a standing ovation from the audience, defended Williams in later remarks: “I was in no way offended by Robbie’s question and he did ask me if it was okay beforehand but they didn’t show that on the episode. He was extremely sensitive about it and said ‘do you mind me asking?’ It’s a shame viewers didn’t get to see that. After my audition he even came backstage and shook my hand and said another well done. He was very much on a level with me. It’s just not a common every day thing to hear about on Saturday night TV and it’s not something people have pocket knowledge about; it isn’t always in daylight for people to see. I don’t take it personally; I just know people don’t have a great understanding of it.””

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#AM_Equality Tipsheet: September 10, 2018

#AM_Equality Tipsheet: September 10, 2018

KAVANAUGH COULD DESTROY BALANCE OF THE SUPREME COURT FOR DECADES: In an oped for The Hill, HRC Legal Director Sarah Warbelow writes: “The Supreme Court could soon take cases that would determine critical issues for the LGBTQ community including whether our nation’s nondiscrimination laws include protections for LGBTQ people; whether individuals, organizations, and businesses have a license to discriminate against LGBTQ people; and whether qualified transgender people can be excluded from serving in the military, simply because of who they are… If confirmed, [Kavanaugh] could be a part of the majority that votes to dismantle all of the progress we’ve made. It’s time for our senators to answer: Do the rights of your LGBTQ constituents matter to you?” More from The Hill.

  • Judy Shepard, mother of Matthew Shepard, and Louvon Harris, sister of James Byrd took over HRC’s Twitter to discuss how Kavanaugh’s nomination potentially threatens hate crimes protections nationwide. More here.

16/ We — the families of Matthew & James — demand answers. With reported hate crimes on the rise, we need to know that the HCPA will continue to protect countless Americans. – @WyoJudyShepard & Louvon #HRCTwitterTakeover t.co/K5nT1yIGM2

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) September 7, 2018

MONDAY MUST READS — HRC’S SARAH MCBRIDE, WE MUST ADDRESS THE EPIDEMIC OF VIOLENCE AGAINST BLACK TRANSGENDER WOMEN: The recent deaths Shantee Tucker in Philadelphia, Dejanay Stanton in Chicago and Vontashia Bell in Louisiana — all Black transgender women — underscore the urgent need to address this epidemic of violence. Said McBride: “There is a growing epidemic of violence targeting transgender people, particularly Black transgender women. This is an urgent crisis that is a by-product of the toxic and violent combination of transphobia, misogyny, and racism. As a society, our policymakers and lawmakers must do more to combat this violence.” More from Pink News and Philly.com.

ICYMI — PENCE, HELLER AND LAXALT BRING DANGEROUS ANTI-LGBTQ ATTACKS TO NEVADA: HRC exposed the records of anti-LGBTQ U.S. Senate candidate Sen. Dean Heller and Nevada gubernatorial candidate Adam Laxalt, campaigned with Mike Pence in Las Vegas on Friday. More from HRC.

EMMYS HONOR LGBTQ CREATERS AND CONTENT: Among the winners were the casts and crew of Queer Eye and RuPaul’s Drag Race. Check out the full list of winners from Vulture.

MELROSE, MASS., BOARD OF ALDERMAN UNANIMOUSLY APPROVES RESOLUTION TO PROTECT TRANS CITIZENS IN FACE OF STATEWIDE BALLOT MEASURE: More from Melrose Patch.

GREY’S ANATOMY TO INTRODUCE FIRST GAY MALE SURGEON CHARACTER: Actor Alex Landi will play Dr. Nico Kim. More from Entertainment Tonight.

NATIONAL LGBT CANCER NETWORK RECEIVES $2.5M FROM CDC TO EXPAND RESOURCES: More from Gay RVA.

UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS FACULTY GROUP RECOMMENDS NEW SYLLABI ON PRONOUN USE: more from The Daily Texan.

MAJOR SCHOOLS IN HRC RISING STATES NAMED TO CAMPUS PRIDE INDEX AS “BEST OF THE BEST” FOR LGBTQ POLICIES AND PRACTICES: Among those named are Lehigh University; The Ohio State University; The Pennsylvania State University; University of Pennsylvania; University of Wisconsin – Eau Claire; University of Wisconsin – Green Bay; and University of Wisconsin – Milwaukee. More from Campus Pride.

 GLOBAL EQUALITY NEWS

NOTORIOUS EXPORTER OF ANTI-LGBTQ HATE TURNS UP IN TAIWAN TO CAMPAIGN AGAINST MARRIAGE EQUALITY: Brian Brown – who has unsuccessfully worked to undermine marriage equality in the U. S. for at least 11 years — is now peddling his hatred in Taiwan. More from HRC.

POWERFUL QUOTES FROM INDIAN SUPREME COURT DECISION STRIKING COLONIAL-ERA LAW CRIMINALIZING SAME-SEX RELATIONS: Chief Justice Dipak Misra wrote in the decision: “The ideals and objectives enshrined in our benevolent Constitution can be achieved only when each and every individual is empowered and enabled to participate in the social mainstream and in the journey towards achieving equality in all spheres, equality of opportunities in all walks of life, equal freedoms and rights and, above all, equitable justice.” More from Quartz.

  • The Indian Supreme Court’s decision is already galvanizing decriminalization efforts in other British Commonwealth countries. A veteran Singapore diplomat is calling for similar change in his country because of this historic decision. More from Reuters.

HORRIFYING — TRANS WOMAN BURNED ALIVE IN PAKISTAN: The woman, misgendered in media reports, was attacked by four men. Local activist group Trans Action Pakistan is working to identify the woman. More from Pink News.

READING RAINBOW – Bookmark now to read on your lunch break!

HRC interviews 2018 HRC Foundation Youth Ambassador Miles Sanchez; Refinery29 profiles Angela Ponce, Miss Universe’s first openly transgender contestant; into shares the power of the trans community and why cis LGBQ people should address their biases; Outsmart Magazine reviews a new local theatre production with LGBTQ themes

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German ‘Pop Idol’ and Reality TV Star Missing After Falling from Balcony of Cruise Ship

German ‘Pop Idol’ and Reality TV Star Missing After Falling from Balcony of Cruise Ship
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Daniel Küblböck, a gay German pop musician and reality star who came in third in Germany’s American Idol cousin, Pop Idol, and later competed on Big Brother and Let’s Dance, went missing from an AIDA cruise ship from Hamburg to New York and was reported by an eyewitness to have leapt from a fifth floor balcony while off the coast of Newfoundland.

Deutsche Welle reports: “Aida Cruises spokesman Hansjoerg Kunze, told Germany’s DPA news agency that the ship had returned to where the incident was thought to have occurred while Canadian coast guard airplanes and helicopters took part in an intensive search for the German. Küblböck was on holiday cruise aboard the Aidaluna ship from Hamburg to New York, according to Bild. The incident occurred about 100 nautical miles (about 185 kilometers) north of the city of St. John’s on the island of Newfoundland, off the coast of Canada.”

The Sun reported that Küblböck has left a “haunting” message on his Facebook fan page last month about enduring “months of bullying” that shook him “deeply in [his] soul” as a student in school, though its not been connected in any way to the incident aboard the cruise ship. Wrote the singer: “Dear fans. Unfortunately, I still do not feel better mentally and physically. I have yet to cope with this pain of the past months.”

The cruise ship company AIDA confirmed the incident as coast guard searches were underway: “The cruise ship AIDAluna was on the sea route to Newfoundland when a person jumped overboard in the early hours of September 9 2018. The captain and crew of AIDAluna have immediately taken all necessary rescue measures, in close coordination with the local competent authorities. A cabin check was performed, which confirmed that a male guest was missing. The missing person is Daniel Kaiser-Küblböck. The ship was stopped as a precautionary measure and returned to the spot where the incident was accepted. The search continues. AIDA Cruises fully cooperates with the authorities and works hard to find the missing person. As soon as further information is available, we will make it available.”

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