Jack’d Comes for Grindr, Calling Out the App for Allowing Racist Profiles

Hook-up app Jack‘d, which is geared toward gay urban millennials, urged its members this week to be “the generation that ends racism” and came for the biggest competitor in the field: Grindr.

In a new video titled “The Generation That Ends Racism,” Jack’d blasts Grindr for allowing users to post discriminatory and racist preferences like “no fats, no femmes” and “No blacks, no Asians” on its platform.

RELATED: An Asian Man and a White Man Switch Grindr Profiles for a Day: WATCH

Said Alon Rivel, the Director of Global Marketing at Jack’d: “We have a zero tolerance policy for racism on Jack’d. We encourage members being discriminated against or harassed to report it to our customer service department.  If we find the allegations to be true, we  will  immediately delete the profile of the offending member regardless if they are a paid member or not.  Our members’ comfort and safety will always trump making money.”

Apps like Grindr need to take responsibility, added Rivel: “There is a difference between being attracted to certain characteristics of a man and spewing hate and/or attacking others for their religion or the color of their skin. Racism, in both the real and virtual worlds, is not ok.  As gay men, we are all minorities and we need to stand together in accepting and supporting our differences.”

The Advocate spoke with Grindr VP of marketing Peter Sloterdyk, who said “sexual racism is a larger problem within our community and impacts all dating apps, not just Grindr.”

Added Sloterdyk: “[Grindr] prohibits the use of offensive or racist language and encourage our community to report offending profiles through our app’s built-in system.”

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Free Things To Do With Your Kids In London And The UK This November
Free firework displays and traditional Guy Fawkes celebrations

Many of the most lavish firework displays are now ticketed events but, thankfully, there are still a few free and impressive firework shows.

3 November, from 7.30pm

Norwich Big Boom fireworks

The prime spot to watch the fifth Big Boom is in front of City Hall, with fireworks launched from Norwich Castle. The display has been designed to bang and sparkle in time with the beat of the music playing.

4 November, from 5pm

As many as 100,000 people turn up each year, so keep your kids close. This is an all-day Guy Fawkes show, with a funfair from midday, food and drink stalls opening at 5pm and the fireworks kicking off at 8pm.

Alternatively, take an evening picnic and head to the nearest hill with amazing views – Hampstead Heath, Greenwich Park or Primrose Hill. (Don’t bring your own fireworks or Chinese lanterns, as these are now banned.)

4 November, 7pm

Caerphilly Fireworks, South Wales

The historic setting of Caerphilly Castle makes the most spectacular backdrop for this free fireworks display.

Bridgwater Carnival Day, Somerset

During the day, the streets will host jugglers, stilt walkers, street theatre, marching bands and children’s entertainment in the build up to the evening parade. The carnival procession of over 100 different floats will take two hours. The grand finale is the Squibbing display, unique to Bridgwater, in which 150 squibs (large fireworks strapped to a block of wood attached to a pole) are all lit at the same time in two rows down the High Street producing a dramatically long trail of fire.

4 November

Flaming Tar Barrels at Ottery  St Mary, South Devon

Barrels soaked with tar are lit outside each of the town’s pubs and carried through the crowded streets and alleys in this spectacular custom which originated in the 17th century. One of the biggest bonfires in the South West , at over 10 metres high, is lit on the banks of the River Otter.

5 November, from 4pm

River of Light festival in Liverpool and the Wirral

The fireworks display itself, which is taking place from three barges in the middle of the River Mersey, is scheduled to start at 6:30pm, and over 200,000 spectators are expected. Celebrating the city’s Beatles’ heritage, the fireworks will be set to Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band.

Mann Island Atrium is the place to head with families, with lantern making workshops and glitter and UV face painting. There will be performances including drums, pyrotechnics, fire breathers, stilt walkers and acrobatics on The Strand and Princes Parade, followed by a carnival-style lantern parade.

On the Liverpool side, people will have a great view from the waterfront running from Alexandra Tower on Princes Parade to past the Arena and Convention Centre. In Wirral, people can view the show along the promenade right the way from New Brighton through to Seacombe and on to Woodside.

5 November, 5 – 9pm

Enjoy food and drink stalls and a funfair before the explosive free finale at Glasgow Green.

4 & 5 November,

Thrills and spills at Skegness Beach Race, Lincolnshire

The Skegness beach race has grown into one the largest off-road motocross events in the UK since the first race in 2010, making a fun spectator event. The circuit includes impressive mounds, jumps, waves, hoops, chicanes and fast natural sandy straights with kids, quads and sidecar (!) races on Saturday and adult solos on Sunday.

5 November, 6am – 4.30pm

Over 400 vintage cars driving from London to Brighton

For early bird Londoners, the annual London to Brighton Veteran Car Run is an unforgettable scene, especially for kids who are car enthusiasts. Cars congregate at Hyde Park from 6.00am with the first car departing at sunrise (7.02am) and the last car leaving by 8.30am. If that’s a little too early for you, check out other places to see the cavalcade en route. In Brighton the first cars cross the finish line at Madeira Drive on the seafront from 10.02am and the event officially closes at 4.30pm.

The world’s longest running motoring celebration, the Run commemorates the Locomotives on the Highway Act of 1896. It was this Act that raised the speed limit for ‘light locomotives’ from 4 mph to 14mph and abolished the requirement for these vehicles to be preceded by a man on foot carrying a red flag. A red flag is still symbolically destroyed at the beginning of the Run.

7 November, 5pm

You know Christmas is coming when Oxford Street is transformed by sparkly, glowing lights. This year, the shopping hub will be home to 1,778 decorations inspired by falling snowflakes. No news yet on which celeb will be pushing the button.  Regent Street’s grand stretch will be lit up from 16 November.

Weston Super Mare Carnival, North Somerset

Up to 140 illuminated floats, fancy dress walkers and marching bands wind their way through the town in this annual three-hour celebration. Each float can be 100ft long and lit by over 25,000 bulbs.

11 November, from 9am

The pageantry of the Lord Mayor’s Show in London.

For over 800 years the newly-elected Lord Mayor of London has made his or her way from the City to distant Westminster to swear loyalty to the Crown. The Lord Mayor’s Show is still the oldest and grandest civic procession in the world.

At 8.30 the Lord Mayor travels up the Thames from Westminster in a grand flotilla led by QRB Gloriana (the one the Queen got drenched in during the Jubilee celebrations).  At 11.02am, after a two minute silence, the Lord Mayor’s Procession sets off from Mansion House. It pauses at the Royal Courts while the Lord Mayor swears allegiance and then returns by the Victoria Embankment at 1pm. The tail of the procession reaches Mansion House just after 2pm.

The best vantage points and liveliest crowd  is from Bank to St Pauls between 11 and 12.30. For a less crowded viewpoint, head between Blackfriars and Mansion House station between 1.15 and 2.30. At 5.15pm there will a magnificent fireworks display over the Thames, between Blackfriars and Waterloo.

Not to be confused with Greater London’s Mayor Sadiq Khan, the Lord Mayor of London is the Mayor of the City of London and head of the Corporation of London and his role is mostly ceremonial and social, not political.

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WATCH: GLAAD President to Georgia Rep. Betty Price: “How about an early retirement like your husband?”

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PHOTOS: Get flashed by the power angels in Zurich
Flash Party is a hugely popular gay dance party hosted by Angels Events in Zurich.

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Julie Taymor Directs Clive Owen in Stylish but Earthbound ‘M. Butterfly’ on Broadway: REVIEW

When David Henry Hwang’s modern riff on Puccini’s Madama Butterfly arrived on Broadway in 1988, it became a sensation. Even once the deception at the heart of M. Butterfly ceased to shock, audiences were fascinated by the true story that inspired it, of a French diplomat who fell in love with a Peking opera singer, not knowing (spoiler alert) that she was truly a man. Julie Taymor’s revival, which opened last night at the Cort Theatre, delivers some of the director’s customary flourish, but the story underneath, significantly revised by Mr. Hwang, feels hollowed out and robbed of its bite — and not because the cat is no longer in the bag.

Some three decades after its premiere, the threads running through Hwang’s play — gender identity, sexuality, racial geopolitics, and most prominently in the original text, misogyny — exist in a very different context. We argue incessantly about them on Twitter, pausing only to march over them in the streets and occasionally to breathe into a paper bag. Perhaps now would not be the best time to meet the OG Rene Gallimard, who’s fear of women subsides only when he feels full domination over them. That Gallimard would have belly-flopped onto Broadway only to realize the pool is empty. With these headlines? Has he no shame?

Well, yes and no. The emperor has new clothes, or rather, a different sort of wool pulled over his eyes. Instead of being a closet cad, shy about his true desire to subjugate women but no less turned on by it, this Gallimard seems more explicitly a closet case, and quite a gentleman at that, especially as embodied by a charming Clive Owen. He’s gone from a man who occasionally indulged in a little locker room talk, to one you might find trying not to peer over at your towel. Vulgar attitudes toward women, such as they are here, are entirely relegated to Gallimard’s best friend and foil Marc (Looking’s Murray Bartlett, sans mustache).

All this makes for a more palatable, but far less provocative and cohesive M. Butterfly.

Addressing us from a cell on the outskirts of Paris where he’s been imprisoned for treason, Gallimard takes us back to his diplomatic post in 1964, to recall how he met the “Perfect Woman” in Peking who caused his downfall. Song, embodied with nimble grace by Jin Ha, at times interjects with her side of events that he’d rather push aside, like her meetings with a communist agent to pass on intelligence she learned from her Western beau. The new revision grants Song a bit more agency and one hell of a different backstory, one that makes Gallimard’s delusion to her true sex all the more wild to wrap our heads around.

But the real dissonance comes at the moment of reckoning. There’s a certain easy parallel between the racial and sexual politics in the original text — Gallimard believed Song was a woman because his desire fed so gluttonously on the submission of an Eastern woman to his Western male dominance. It’s what Song ultimately describes as the West’s “international rape mentality towards the East.” But with those themes largely stripped from the preceding story, such that their relationship largely consists of exchanges in romantic cliches worthy of Miss Saigon, one hardly knows what to make of it all in the end.     

Returning to Broadway for the first time since the debacle of Spider-Man: Turn off the Dark, from which she was fired in part for hemorrhaging money into an overly elaborate production, Taymor takes a downright modest approach to physical staging. It’s possible to argue that scenic designer Paul Steinberg’s folding mobile panels are meant to evoke the frailty of illusion; it’s also not inaccurate to describe them as flimsy. Still, Taymor’s direction is fluid and often quite beautiful, particularly during scenes in the Chinese opera (choreography is by Ma Cong).

In teasing queer desire to the fore, Hwang has necessarily tidied up the play’s frank and insightful look at dark underpinnings of straight male sexuality. But uncomfortable though they may be to interrogate, doing so could hardly be more urgent.   

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What Is It About Guys In Masks? (85 Photos)

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Trump’s First Openly Gay Ambassador Narrowly Approved by Senate Foreign Relations Committee in 11-10 Vote

The first openly gay ambassador pick during Donald Trump’s tenure was narrowly appointed to be the U.S. envoy to Germany on Thursday. On an 11-10 vote, the Foreign Relations Committee recommended that the full Senate consider Richard Grenell to be the U.S. ambassador in Berlin, according to the Associated Press. Grenell is not a stranger to…

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Trump’s First Openly Gay Ambassador Narrowly Approved by Senate Foreign Relations Committee in 11-10 Vote

X Factor’s Holly Tandy Admits Acts Are Already In Competition Over Song Choices
‘X Factor’ singer Holly Tandy has revealed things are already getting cut-throat between this year’s contestants, and live shows haven’t even started yet.

This time around, in a change of pace for the show, there will be no themed weeks during the live shows, which Holly claims has led to a bit of competition between the acts in terms of which songs they’ll be performing.

Speaking to The Sun, the teenager confessed: “I’ll tell you what’s competitive: song choice.

In what we’re sure is a move that had always been planned rather than a last-ditch attempt to drum up interest in a show fewer than people than ever before are actually watching, Simon Cowell has once again tinkered with the format of this year’s live shows, resulting in something we’re still struggling to get our heads around.

This year, the weekend’s live shows will contain one elimination in each episode, with the performances spread out over two nights, depending on what category the acts are performing in.

The traditional sing-off has also been replaced by a simple elimination for the act who receives the least amount of public votes, while the top two will reportedly battle it out for a “money can’t buy” prize.

See how Holly and her fellow competitors get on when the ‘X Factor’ live shows kick off on Saturday (28 October) at 8.20pm on ITV.

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Taming the Beast of Queer Shame

Filmmaker Jonathan Wysocki unpacks how the fears of sharks masked deeper fears of being gay.

www.advocate.com/commentary/2017/10/27/taming-beast-queer-shame

I Am Delivering 406,108 Abortion Permission Slips To Amber Rudd Today
The government’s mistrust of women in the UK is real and measurable. The repercussions of it weigh heavy across all of our lives. And the physical weight of it amounts to precisely one hundred and forty-three stone in paperwork every year.

I know this because that’s how much a year’s worth of abortion permission slips weighs, and I’m delivering that amount – all 406,108 of them – to the Home Secretary Amber Rudd today, with permission from people across the UK who have joined our campaign to scrap the existing abortion law.

It’s hard to tell which is more shocking: that women can be sent to prison for having an abortion if they don’t secure written consent from two doctors – or that many people in the UK are still unaware of this fact despite its very real repercussions: In 2015 Natalie Towers was sent to prison for two years and six months for buying pills online to procure a miscarriage.

Women in this country are still governed by a law written in 1861 – before women had the right to vote – that criminalises abortion. Campaigners in 1967 fought hard to create a loophole act, the 50th Anniversary of which we mark today, which enabled women in England, Scotland and Wales to have an abortion so long as they understood this was a special measure, requiring the permission of two doctors.

This measure was seen as a temporary fix, not a solution. The law did not legalise abortion: it merely forced women to prove twice over that their pregnancy would cause greater mental or physical harm to them than continuing it. And it did nothing for women in Northern Ireland whose rights are so restricted that abortions are near impossible to access: rape, incest and fatal foetal abnormalities are not considered sufficient grounds. (Though we hold out hope for the current Supreme Court case.)

Furthermore, since the 1967 Act was introduced, there have been 60 abortion bills put to the House in an attempt to restrict access to abortion. Only one has tried to expand it.

So long as our rights are subject to the whim of doctors, to technological development, to decisions made in parliaments where men’s voices drown out women’s – well, they are not rights at all.

Every time that a woman has to ask for permission, every time that a woman from Northern Ireland or Scotland – where women are being turned away from having abortions after 18 weeks because of resistance from their doctors – has to travel, every time that term limits are debated – our essential human rights are questioned.

Women can never have control of their lives until they have control of their bodies. The Women’s Equality Party has said from day one that WE see any attempt to restrict our reproductive rights as an act of violence against us, and WE will not rest until there is full decriminalisation of abortion in every part of the UK. No exceptions, no qualifications, no conditions.

WE are not interested in gaming the system, in Parliamentary power plays and piecemeal negotiations; in fiddling at the edges of legislation. WE believe that abortion should not exist at all in criminal law but be moved into healthcare, where it belongs.

And as the only political party for women’s equality, WE are taking these demands into the political space, to use the political will of the electorate, and the political voice of feminism, to demonstrate to other parties the need for change.

So that the choice of every woman can be realised. And in that choice, her liberty too.

Join our campaign to give Amber Rudd permission to change the law on abortion. Click here to sign a permission slip. It’s #TimeItsNotACrime

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