20 guys who confessed their love to their straight best friend

20 guys who confessed their love to their straight best friend

It’s simple math, really. There are vastly more straight guys out there than gay folk, and feelings do have a way of taking control of the senses. But what should you do if you fall head over heels for a straight friend?

Be honest and tell them? Honesty and trust are the cornerstones of friendship, but do you really want to risk harming the relationship by making your deeper feelings known?

Keep it a secret? This might seem appealing at first, but keeping secrets can be a painful way to move about life.

Ultimately, it’s probably best to have some sort of dialogue with your friend about your feelings. If he really cares about you, he’ll probably be just fine about it after that initial awkwardness.

Below, 20 guys people share their experience with this situation on Whisper:

I fell in love with my straight, male best friend. When I told him, he ended up having sex with me ... on my roommate's bed. We don't talk anymore, and nobody knows why But I do.

I told my best friend I'm in love with him today... he chuckled and said

I told my straight friend that I liked him. He's okay with it. This is the best feeling in the world.

I have a crush on my straight friend. I told him. He felt bad for me so he sent me his nude pics and was like "Im not going to have sex with you but help yourself to these". Best friend award winner.

Once upon a time, I had a crush on my straight best friend. I told him and he just blushed and smiled, said

So I told my straight best friend I was in love with him tonight.... think it was for the best or a mistake?

Im Gay. I fell in love with my "straight" best friend. Last night I told him how I felt, and this morning Im waking up in his arms. :)

Told my best friend that I'd fallen in love with him... that shit backfired brilliantly!

I told my straight friend I liked him, didn't expect he would like me back... but was still hurt when he confirmed it.

So I told my "straight friend" I like him... He kinda blew it off as if it was nothing. I want to die rn.

I told my straight friend I liked him. We haven't talked since then.

Just told my straight best friend that I'm gay and in love with him over text.. Wtf did I do. ð??«ð??«

I finally told my friend that I am in love with him. My chest feels about 20lbs lighter

I told my straight friend I had a crush on him. And that I like him for his big body. He seemed ok with it and unbothered. I'm surprised, but all I can do now is think of him.

So i told my straight friend (and crush) about my sexual feelings toward him.... He told me that it's completely normal and that I shouldn't feel bad about it. I'm so lucky to have him as a friend.

I'm gay but so in love with my straight friend. I wish he could just let me love him.

A month ago, I told my best friend that I was gay and I had a crush on him. He said that he was straight but would have dated me if he was gay. He just came out to me yesterday.

OMFG... I told my straight friend i had a crush on him since we were younger & he agreed to kiss me. He kissed me.

I'm gay, and I have the biggest crush on my straight friend. (Love straight boys) It's been 9 years, and I just told him this year. We are pretty much best friends now and talk every day.

I'm madly in love with my straight friend. I told him. No response. I don't think I'll ever stop crying.

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Octavia Spencer Bakes a Poop Pie for Jeff Sessions in SNL Cold Open: WATCH

Octavia Spencer Bakes a Poop Pie for Jeff Sessions in SNL Cold Open: WATCH

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Kate McKinnon reprised her role as Jeff Sessions on last night’s SNL cold open, depicting the racist, homophobic, lying Attorney General as Forrest Gump.

In the sketch, Sessions devoured a box of chocolates and discussed his terrible week with a variety of passengers at a bus stop, including Vladimir Putin.

“This meeting never happened.”

“I wasn’t going to remember it anyway.”

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But the scene was stolen by guest host Octavia Spencer, who showed up as her character Minny from The Help, and used the weapon that Minny is known for.

“Are you Jeff Sessions,” asked Minny, “the one Coretta Scott King wrote that letter about?”

Replied Sessions: “Oh wow, well that was 40 years ago, you still remember that?”

“Oh, a lot of people in Alabama remember that, sir. My name’s Minny. You don’t know me. I’m from a different movie. And I have a pie that I baked especially for you.”

And those who have seen The Help know it’s a very special pie, indeed.

Watch:

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Lent Devotional: North Carolina Methodist Bishop Prays for “Things Undone”

Lent Devotional: North Carolina Methodist Bishop Prays for “Things Undone”

This year for the season of Lent, HRC Foundation launched a campaign with the goal of telling the stories of LGBTQ people of faith. The Lenten season marks the days that lead up to Jesus’ crucifixion and subsequent resurrection.

For Christians, the resurrection is both a reminder and celebration of life, yet people continue to suffer, including members of the LGBTQ community.

“A central and inspiring part of my ministry has been working to make sure the institutional church — and religion in general — is affirming and inclusive of LGBTQ persons,” said Reverend Dr. J. Edwin Bacon, author and reverend in the Episcopal Church. “I am a more joyful and faithful priest because of that part of my work.”

We hope the meditations offered every day from Ash Wednesday to Easter on April 16, will bless souls, revive spirits, renew minds and strengthen bodies. These stories will be hosted on the HRC website and on Twitter and Facebook.


Undone

During this holy season of Lent and as we regularly approach the Lord’s Table, we ask God’s forgiveness for the things we have done, and for the things we have left undone.

I am captured anew by the word – undone – in the midst of Lent.  The word describes how we have felt in these post-election days.

We sing with the heart of God envisioned in Isaiah 5:4, “What more was there to do for my vineyard that I have not done in it?” (5:4)

Pressing toward God’s vision for beloved community embracing all people, we have carried hope.  The dismantling of protections is frightening and disillusioning and deeply painful.  We observe and mourn the regression that is hurtful to LGBTQ persons and their allies.

So let us, in Lenten perseverance, pray.

In prayer, let us hold before God all that we called progress, now in danger of being undone. May good seed yet germinate in good soil. In prayer, let us hold before God all yet to be realized and pray, Thy will be done. In prayer, let us hold before God LGBTQI persons who are diminished, dismissed and othered.

And, in Lenten observance, let us act.

Acting with courage, let us name God’s call to inclusion of all LGBTQ persons in God’s beloved community. Acting with conviction, let us live as Jesus lived among us, offering vigilant and expansive welcome in our homes and our churches and our judicatories. Acting with faithfulness, let us continue our efforts toward full inclusion, confident that the Holy Spirit is at work among us.

We have felt undone in these days.  Lent is, for us, a time of weeping, of mourning all that is stalled, unfinished, resisted.

Therefore, we remember Psalm 126, praying for the present terrors to be overwhelmed with God’s dream that is sure to come.

Do great things for us, Powerful and Loving God.  Bring comfort and strength and peace to your people who seek to receive, live and share your dream.  Help us live the way of Jesus, offering mercy and grace and love with humility and power.  Fill this world with your Holy Spirit, bringing assurance to LGBTQ persons while invading closed spaces to change the hearts of the powerful.

Through the Triune God, we pray.  Amen.

Bishop Hope Morgan Ward
Bishop of the North Carolina Conference of the United Methodist Church

Raleigh, NC


The Lenten Devotional is a faith-filled resource that compiles meditations written by 47 faith leaders from across the United States. This project and other public education work with faith leaders in HRC Alabama, HRC Arkansas and HRC Mississippi is made possible in part by the generous support of the  E. Rhodes and Leona B. Carpenter Foundation.

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Russia May Ban ‘Beauty and the Beast’ for Violating ‘Gay Propaganda’ Law

Russia May Ban ‘Beauty and the Beast’ for Violating ‘Gay Propaganda’ Law

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The latest numbnuts to be up in arms about a “gay moment” in Disney’s Beauty and the Beast are Russia’s anti-gay lawmakers, MP Vitaly Milonov, who authored the country’s law banning “gay propaganda”, and Culture Minister Vladimir Medinsky.

Earlier this week news broke that Disney’s first-ever “exclusively gay moment” was set to make history in the upcoming live-action film and that it would come from Josh Gad’s character LeFou.

The film is set to open in Russia on March 16.

The BBC reports:

Vitaly Milonov, an MP of the governing United Russia party, urged the culture minister to hold a screening of the film before it is released to see if it complies with the law and to “take measures to totally ban” it if he found “elements of propaganda of homosexuality”.

His colleague Alexander Sholokhov said that if the scenes violated the law, the film should be banned from cinemas.

“As soon as we get a copy of the film with relevant paperwork for distribution, we will consider it according to the law,” Culture Minister Vladimir Medinsky said.

“I will not take my kid to this movie,” Russian actor Pavel Derevyanko told state-run TV Russia 24.

Yesterday, evangelical preacher Franklin Graham called for a Christian boycott of the film in a Facebook post that has gone viral.

A theater in Alabama announced this week that it was dropping Beauty and the Beast from its screening schedule because, said its owner, “If I can’t sit through a movie with God or Jesus sitting by me then we have no business showing it.”

And the AFA’s subgroup One Million Moms also clutched its pearls and shrieked at the thought of gay people in movies, calling for Disney to stop depicting reality.

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American Singer-Songwriter Daya Joins HRC’s Equality Rocks Campaign

American Singer-Songwriter Daya Joins HRC’s Equality Rocks Campaign

American Singer-Songwriter Daya, 18, is quickly on the rise since the release of her self-titled album in 2015 and the release of her first debut album, “Sit Still, Look Pretty,” in 2016. That same year, the Obama Administration invited her to the White House to perform at the annual Easter Egg Roll. Daya was just awarded the 2017 Grammy Award for Best Dance Recording for the song “Don’t Let Me Down” recorded with the Chainsmokers.

On a stop in Washington, D.C. as part of her current North American tour, Daya declared her support for HRC in our fight for LGBTQ equality. At a young age, Daya has used her platform to speak out about issues facing our society, including performing at LA Pride in June, 2016 and also attended the Women’s March in Los Angeles in January 2017.

One of Daya’s most popular singles “Sit Still, Look Pretty”, is meant to send a message about female empowerment.

“I grew up with four sisters—four very talented and intelligent sisters—and two parents that were very supportive of whatever we wanted to do. So I took that message, and wanted to tell it to my younger audience, especially girls who feel like they’re put into a box or a mold by society saying you have to look or act a certain way to please people,” Daya told TIME. “But really, girls can do anything that guys can.”

The Equality Rocks campaign is sparking a conversation about love, fairness and equality around the globe. To join, visit www.hrc.org/EqualityRocks.

To tune into the artists who rock for equality, including the Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Florence and the Machine, Phoenix, Sara Bareilles, Tegan and Sara, Sleater-Kinney, and Animal Collective, follow HRC on Spotify now.

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