Was Mariah Carey’s disasterous NYE performance sabotaged for good TV ratings?

Was Mariah Carey’s disasterous NYE performance sabotaged for good TV ratings?

The fact that we can even have this debate is so indicative of where we are as a culture — have television producers sunk even lower by intentionally messing with Mimi’s performance setup, thereby ensuring the ratings gold mine of a star falling, once again, from her perch in the heavens?

That’s certainly the story Mariah Carey’s camp is going with, after her performance on “New Year’s Rockin’ Eve” left something large to the imagination (like singing). Her mic pac seemed to be of no use as background tracks for hits like “Emotions” and “We Belong Together” attempted to guide the stream, and yet the camera just stayed plastered on the singer, waiting for her to act.

Related: WATCH: Mariah Carey gives Meryl Streep a run for her money in “Keys of Christmas”

Ms. Carey’s manager, Stella Bulochnikov, believes the show’s producers were fully aware of the technical problems but chose to leave them broken — and then decided to continue recording Ms. Carey’s messy performance “to get ratings.”

“I will never know the truth, but I do know that we told them three times that her mike pack was not working and it was a disastrous production,” Ms. Bulochnikov told Us Weekly on Sunday. “I’m certainly not calling the F.B.I. to investigate. It is what it is: New Year’s Eve in Times Square. Mariah did them a favor. She was the biggest star there, and they did not have their” act together.

Dick Clark Productions, of course, clapped back that any such accusations are “defamatory, outrageous and frankly absurd.”

You can watch train depart guard rail below:

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Transgender Teen’s Gender Reassignment Surgery Documented in Moving Video Diary: WATCH

Transgender Teen’s Gender Reassignment Surgery Documented in Moving Video Diary: WATCH

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Trans teen Emmie Smith (above, with mom Kate) allowed National Geographic to film an intimate and moving video diary of her gender reassignment surgery process.

17-year-old Emmie invited National Geographic photographer Lynn Johnson as she underwent surgery in order to “demystify the procedure by documenting it, close-up and unflinching.”

Emmie came out on Facebook 18 months before the surgery, a process she had not previously considered.

RELATED: Georgia Transgender Teen Elected to School’s Homecoming Court

Emmie’s family, including identical twin Caleb and mother Kate, an Episcopal reverend, were entirely supportive of Emmie.

Following the surgery, Emmie said she did not feel any immediate relief. It wasn’t until months later she knew she’d made the right choice. “If you’re not living freely that’s time wasted, and I felt my time was wasted pretending to be a boy,” she says. “It was the best decision in my life.”

National Geographic reports:

Her mother, Reverend Kate Malin, is a prominent figure in their Massachusetts town, and her identical twin sons Caleb and Walker were familiar fixtures at her Episcopal church. A month after Walker came out as Emmie, Malin stepped out from behind her pulpit and walked into the aisle. Halfway through her sermon she decided it was time to address the change in her family.

“As most of you know, Bruce and I have three children,” she began. “Caleb and Walker, who are 17, and 13-year-old Owen. Walker’s new name is Emerson, and she prefers Emmie or Em. She’s wearing feminine clothing and makeup and will likely continue to move in the direction of a more feminized body.”

Kate nervously revealed her struggle to the attentive New England crowd. “I feel broken much of the time,” she confessed. “I’ve wanted to run away, and I’ve prayed for this child that I would gladly die for, guilty for how much I miss the person I thought was Walker and everything I thought might be.”

After the sermon, the congregation engulfed her in a hug. Then they moved to offer words of support to the sandy-haired 17-year-old sitting in the pews. In the first of many awkward mistakes the family would later laugh about, it was Caleb—Emmie’s identical twin.

Watch the National Geographic video below (graphic):

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Robert Ziegler: Pauschalisierung stinkt: Auch zu den Wahlen im Jahr 2017

Robert Ziegler: Pauschalisierung stinkt: Auch zu den Wahlen im Jahr 2017
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Help! I’m a kind, gentle, open-minded straight guy, but my girlfriend’s a total homophobe

Help! I’m a kind, gentle, open-minded straight guy, but my girlfriend’s a total homophobe

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Here’s a narrative you don’t hear every day. A straight man is struggling with how to handle his girlfriend’s homophobia, so he’s asking Dear Abby for help.

“I have been dating a wonderful girl for about seven months,” his letter begins. “She’s sweet, kind, extraordinarily talented, and we treat each other wonderfully. Everything has been great, with the occasional disagreement.”

Related: Double Ouch: His Girlfriend Cheated On Him — Because She Thinks He’s Gay.

There’s just one problem.

“I’m starting to notice that she seems to be homophobic,” the man says. He explains that he was raised in a “liberal, open-minded home” but his girlfriend’s was “much more conservative.”

“She never met a homosexual until college,” he writes. “She has talked about feeling uncomfortable with two men kissing or talking about being intimate. … When I tell her that I support marriage equality and the LGBTQ community, she gets very quiet and uneasy.”

“I don’t know if I can be with someone who’s this uncomfortable about homosexuality,” he says. “What do you think I should do?”

Related: Help! My Girlfriend Is Convinced I’m Gay After I Made This Request In Bed

Well, Abby isn’t having any of this girlfriend’s homophobic foolishness.

“She may be a wonderful girl,” she responds, “but whether you are wonderful for each other is open to question.”

“Try to project ahead,” she continues. “If the two of you were to marry and she was unable to overcome her aversion to gay people, to what extent would it limit your ability to interact with them? Or their ability to have a relationship with you?”

Ultimately, Abby says, “if she’s able to evolve with more exposure. If she’s not, then she may not be the one for you.”

Related: Straight Man Upset His Girlfriend Won’t Explore His Back Door, Seeks Help From Others

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Say Something Loving: Listen to the New Track from ‘The xx’

Say Something Loving: Listen to the New Track from ‘The xx’

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British band The xx released a new promotional single on January 1 called “Say Something Loving” which is a sentiment all of us could use more of these days.

Rolling Stone reports:

The track samples the Alessi Brothers’ 1978 track “Do You Feel It?” and spotlights the vocal interplay of singers Oliver Sim and Romy Madley Croft, as well as Croft’s sparse yet trademark guitar playing.

“You say something loving / It’s so overwhelming, the thrill of affection / Feels so unfamiliar / You say something loving,” the singers exclaim on the infectious chorus. “Without hesitation it hits me, hits me / It feels so unfamiliar.”

Listen:

A few weeks ago the band was in Tokyo and had a bit of karaoke fun:

A few weeks ago we were in Tokyo and filmed ourselves doing karaoke to our new song ‘Say Something Loving’, we had a lot of fun! xx The xx pic.twitter.com/zctL2funtL

— The xx (@The_xx) January 1, 2017

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20 gay relationships testing the age gap

20 gay relationships testing the age gap

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If you’re of a certain age — let’s say you were alive when Star Wars was first released in theaters — you’ve probably been deep in a spirited pop culture-related conversation only to have some whippersnapper ask something like “Who’s Gena Rowlands?” or “What’s Rosemary’s Baby?” or, most criminal of all, “Who is John Waters?”

But love is love, and these guys on Whisper are proving that the divide can be conquered:

I'm gay, and my boyfriend is older than me. People think he's my dad in public and I don't correct them because I don't want to deal with the judgement.

I love dating older men. Gay guys who are my age are never mature. They only want to party... give me a silver fox any day

My boyfriend is 18 years older than me. We're two men in a committed relationship, why should age matter?

I'm gay. My boyfriend is many years older than me. I used to date guys my age, and it was awful. This is the best relationship I've ever been in.

As a gay man with an older boyfriend I can't help but imagine what will happen when he ages and I'm the one taking care of him

I'm in my first gay relationship with a man 15 years my senior. All my friends think I'm insane but all I feel is happy ð??

I came out to my parents and they want to meet my boyfriend.. they weren't completely fine with me being gay, so I don't know how to introduce them to my older boyfriend

I'm gay and I have my first boyfriend... I'm more worried about the sex than telling my parents. I don't know what I'm doing and my boyfriend is older and more experienced

I told my parents I'm gay and they want to meet my boyfriend, but he's older than me and I don't think they'll accept it

I'm scared to tell my parents I'm gay because my boyfriend is a lot older than me and I know they won't like him

Being a younger guy dating a much older guy comes with so much stigma. No, I'm not after his money. He's genuinely the sweetest man I've ever met.

I am gay and my bf is a decade older. He wants to get married but I still feel too young. I don't want to hold him back though

I'm gay and in a relationship with two much older men, have been for 4 years. My parents keep asking to meet my "boyfriend" and I'm getting tired of having to deflect their questions.

I'm 22, gay and my boyfriend is 47 but looks so damn hot for his age. I like older men, something about their experience and looks.

When I told my parents I was gay and they asked to meet my boyfriend, they flipped out when they found out they worked with the guy. Cons of dating older guys :/

I'm gay and my boyfriend is 11 years older than me and I am perfectly fine with that!!!

I'm 23 and gay. My boyfriend is 51... I love older guys! ð??

My parents think I'm lying about being gay for attention because my boyfriend is a lot older than I am

My boyfriend of 4 years, his family or kids doesn't know he's gay. I love him with all my heart and he's 10 years older... He just got me a ring!! Btw, he's divorced and she doesn't know about me...

Athough I have an older bf, I find myself crawling gay apps to find the older guy that I want. I love the attention but can't tell him that he just doesn't have what I need. I won't make him change.

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