San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus knows how to celebrate the season in more than one way

San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus knows how to celebrate the season in more than one way

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Holiday cheer and peace of mind always go hand in hand. After all, who wants to drink hot cocoa with friends and family when there’s a nagging little voice in your head telling you to get tested?

As the San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus and OraQuick will remind you in the festive carol below, you can have your gingerbread man and eat him, too. While we won’t pretend an oral in-home HIV test is anyone’s idea of holiday fun, there’s no denying it’s a great idea to get screened at least every three months, regardless of the season.

And now, we proudly present the San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus…

Hit it:

 

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Oxford’s All-Male A Cappella Group Is Harnessed Up for Their Holiday Charity Single ‘Sleigh Ride’ – WATCH

Oxford’s All-Male A Cappella Group Is Harnessed Up for Their Holiday Charity Single ‘Sleigh Ride’ – WATCH

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Oxford University has an a cappella group called Out of the Blue and they’re in it to win it this year with a charity single for Helen & Douglas House, the world’s first children’s hospice. The Helen & Douglas House provides palliative, respite, end-of-life and bereavement care to life-limited children and young adults, and their families.

This year they’ve done a cover of the holiday classic “Sleigh Ride” and they are harnessed up and ready to go.

Watch:

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“You gay bastard!” After two men hug, Papa John’s employee starts hurling homophobic insults

“You gay bastard!” After two men hug, Papa John’s employee starts hurling homophobic insults

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A Papa John’s employee in Botwelll Lane, Hayes, Middesex became so enraged at the sight of two gay men hugging inside the pizza restaurant that he began verbally assaulting them, calling one customer a “gay bastard” as they were waiting for their food.

The Mirror reports the men, who don’t want to be named for “fear of reprisals,” managed to videotape the incident (which you can watch below.)

Wearing a Papa John’s T-shirt, the employee also asks one of the men if he wants to “shove his mouth on [the other man’s] c***” while challenging them to a fight.

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The video, shot on a smartphone at around 11:30pm on Saturday, has been sent to Papa John’s head office.

One victim tells Mirror Online that he’s “devastated” and can’t believe he was subjected to this abuse “in 2016.”

“He was quite scary,” he says. “It was really upsetting. I’ve been very anxious since – constantly worried — I haven’t been the subject of abuse before.”

A spokesperson for Papa John confirmed that an employee has been suspended following an investigation into the incident.

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One of the victims explained how the situation unfolded:

My friend told me he had been promoted at work and I gave him a hug, when the (worker) said something along the lines of ‘we don’t want none of that behavior in here’ and ‘you’re too close for my liking’.

“I said ‘don’t speak to me like that’ and the guy said ‘I’ll slap you silly’ – that’s when I started recording.”

The video begins with one of the victims asking, “What do you mean you are ‘going to slap me silly’?”

“Let me tell you something, you gay bastard,” says the employee.

“Hey, that’s enough…” says the second victim.

“Don’t you point that finger at me!” the employee shouts. “Get the hell out of my store!”

The customers ask why, with one asking, “Because I am gay?”

“Get the hell out of my store,” the employee repeats, “or I’ll break that phone and I will make you eat it… This is my store, I own it”.

The two customers are pushed out of the store by the enraged employee and a coworker, and one of the victims asks again, “Why did you call me a gay bastard?”

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The employee is then seen kicking out at the pair.

“Am I a gay bastard?” one of the victims asks again.

“Yeah, you are,” the employee states.

Warned that he could lose his job, the employee says, “I don’t give a shit.” Then he asks one of the men “would you shove his mouth on your c***?”

“Yeah he would,” the victim responds, “and what’s that got to do with you?”

Then the employee challenges them to a fight.

“Take your coat off, let’s do it now,” he says, and then slaps the smartphone out of the man’s hand.

That’s where the video ends.

Fleeing the scene, the men grabbed a taxi and went to a nearby Tesco garage, where they showed a policeman the video.

The cop has since requested a copy of the video to investigate.

A Papa John spokesperson tells The Mirror, “We are disappointed by this incident and have a zero tolerance policy towards any abuse of our customers. We will co-operate with the police in their investigation and will consider any appropriate action when this is complete.”

“It’s ridiculous in 2016 that I can walk into a shop and be subject to abuse and homophobia,” one of the victims says.

“I respect people and I was disrespected. I don’t care whether it is a franchise. That person should not be working there discriminating against my sexuality.”

A spokeswoman for the Met Police told the Mirror: 

Police were on a routine patrol in Hayes Road, Hayes, when they were approached by two men at about 23:00hrs on Saturday, 17 December who reported that they had been assaulted earlier that evening.

The victims said that they were at Papa John’s in Botwell Lane, Hayes, at about 22:45hrs when they were approached by an unknown man who made homophobic comments and assaulted them.

Police attended Papa John’s and arrested a 29-year-old man on suspicion of actual bodily harm at about 00:30hrs on Sunday, 18 December.

He was taken to a west London police station for questioning.

He has been bailed pending further enquiries to return on a date in early February.”

You can watch the video footage here:

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Papa John’s Pizza Worker Assaults Gay Men for Hugging in Restaurant: WATCH

Papa John’s Pizza Worker Assaults Gay Men for Hugging in Restaurant: WATCH

A work at Papa John’s was captured on camera as he assaulted a gay customer after unleashing a tirade of homophobic slurs on the customer and his friend.

This fat munter issues a horrofic homophobic attack at Papa John’s store in Botwell Lane, Hayes, Middlesex. pic.twitter.com/Yoww7Q18aO

— TheSchizoBlake (@ukschizophrenic) December 20, 2016

The worker’s rage was brought on because the two  men hugged inside the restaurant, according to the UK Mirror:

The two men – who do not want to be named for fear of reprisals – videoed the encounter as the abuse unfolded at a branch of the chain in Botwell Lane, Hayes, Middlesex (UK).

The worker – who is wearing a T-shirt emblazoned with the Papa John’s logo – can even be heard asking one of the men if he wants to “shove his mouth on [the other man’s] c***” as he challenges them to a fight in the street.

The shocking video – which has been emailed by one of the victims in a complaint to the Papa John’s head office – was shot on a mobile phone at around 11.30pm on Saturday night.

Said the victim: “My friend told me he had been promoted at work and I gave him a hug when the (worker) said something along the lines of ‘we don’t want none of that behaviour in here’ and ‘you’re too close for my liking’. I said ‘don’t speak to me like that’ and the guy said ‘I’ll slap you silly’ – that’s when I started recording.”

Watch the video, which was posted to YouTube:

The victims later showed police the video. Papa John’s told The Mirror that it has a zero tolerance policy toward customer abuse and is cooperating with the police in an investigation.

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#AM_Equality Tip Sheet: December 20, 2016

#AM_Equality Tip Sheet: December 20, 2016

NORTH CAROLINA GENERAL ASSEMBLY MUST IMMEDIATELY #REPEALHB2: Yesterday, the Charlotte City Council voted to withdraw the city’s non-discrimination ordinance pending the North Carolina General Assembly’s vote to fully repeal the state’s deeply discriminatory HB2. This should not have had to happen.  HB2 should have never been signed into law, and Charlotte did the right thing by passing commonsense non-discrimination protections in the first place — 19 states and more than 100 cities have those protections on the books. But there’s no question that a full and complete repeal of HB2 would allow us all — under the leadership of Governor Cooper, Mayor Roberts and other pro-equality officials across the state — to get on with the business of actually protecting North Carolinians. GOP leaders in Raleigh have had every chance to repeal HB2, and their outrageous power-grabs last week further highlight how little they can be trusted. But now they are telling Governor-elect Cooper that they’ll move to take action. HB2 must be repealed — in its entirety — and Charlotte’s non-discrimination protections must be restored, and ultimately passed across North Carolina. HRC President Chad Griffin (@ChadHGriffin) said, “HB2 is precisely why North Carolinians went to the polls and ousted Governor McCrory last month. It’s time to chart a new course guided by the state’s values of dignity and respect, not discrimination and hate — and to ensure non-discrimination protections exist in cities, towns and across the state of North Carolina. It’s been 272 days since the shameful and archaic HB2 was first passed, and the entire country has witnessed its devastating impact.  It’s time for state lawmakers to repeal HB2 and begin repairing the harm this bill has done to people and the damage it has done to North Carolina’s reputation and economy.” More from HRC and The New York Times.

Voters rejected #HB2 by ousting Pat McCrory. Must fully repeal HB2 & restore protections to Charlotte & across the state of North Carolina.

— Chad Griffin (@ChadHGriffin) December 19, 2016

ATTEMPT TO TORPEDO UN’S FIRST LGBTQ RIGHTS WATCHDOG FAILS: Yesterday, an effort to that could have abolished the newly-created United Nations watchdog on LGBTQ rights failed for a second time in a vote by the UN’s full membership. The US was among the 84 countries that voted against the motion, which was similar to one rejected last month by the UN. Seventy-seven countries backed it, while 16 countries abstained from the vote. The vote came about when a number of African countries demanded that the U.N. suspend the appointment of Thai law professor Vitit Muntarbhorn as the independent expert on LGBTQ rights. at the recent LGBTI World Conference in Bangkok, Muntarbhorn called for a global partnership to end anti-LGBTQ violence and discrimination. More from The Washington Blade.

U.S. Ambassador to the United Nations Samantha Power delivered a powerful speech opposing the proposal, saying, “If you believe that people should not be discriminated against, or harassed, or attacked, or killed for who they are and for who they love, please join the United States in voting against this amendment.” Ambassador Power also referenced the Pulse nightclub shooting in Orlando earlier this year that took the lives of 49 LGBTQ people and allies. “Tell me, why would any Member State stand in the way of trying to prevent violence like the attack at the Orlando nightclub?” she said. Read her full remarks here.

TUESDAY TWEET: When Jessica Rodriguez and Chelsea Miller became engaged in Chicago on Saturday, they weren’t the only ones overcome with emotion, The Washington Blade reports. Check out the adorable viral photo shared by Rodriguez’s brother, featuring a bystander who was happily shocked by the engagement.

My sister proposed to her GF today and look at that older woman’s reaction pic.twitter.com/ifFl3mJNAr

— Carlos��Shook (@AreYouShook) December 18, 2016

MERYL STREEP TO BE HONORED WITH HRC’S ALLY FOR EQUALITY AWARD: HRC will honor critically-acclaimed, multi-award-winning actress Meryl Streep with the organization’s Ally for Equality Award at the 2017 HRC Greater New York Gala on February 11, 2017. “Throughout her phenomenal career, Meryl Streep has used her voice to stand up for the LGBTQ community,” said HRC President Chad Griffin. “Whether through her iconic roles that raised the visibility of LGBTQ people, or by boldly speaking out for equality, Meryl Streep embodies the very nature of what it means to be an ally to our community.” The HRC Ally for Equality Award recognizes the outstanding efforts of those who use their voice to publicly stand-up for the LGBTQ community. Streep credits childhood music teachers for helping to open her eyes to LGBTQ acceptance, including her gay piano teacher and his partner, and a transgender music teacher. Streep told Between the Line News that her role in Angels in America — HBO’s 2003 groundbreaking miniseries about the HIV and AIDS crisis — was one of the most important in her career. Streep won one of her eight Golden Globe Awards for that role, and during her acceptance speech in 2004, she also famously spoke out for marriage equality. More from HRC and The Hollywood Reporter.

TEGAN AND SARA LAUNCH FOUNDATION FOR LGBTQ GIRLS AND WOMAN: Canadian indie-pop duo and LGBTQ advcates Tegan and Sarah have launched a foundation for to support the work of organizations fighting for LGBTQ and women’s rights. In their inaugural statement, they say the foundation will “fight against the repressive legislation of the incoming Trump administration” and “against regressive homophobic, transphobic, and misogynistic legislation.” Tegan and Sara are longtime supporters of HRC, joining HRC’s Equality Rocks program in 2013. More from Paper Magazine.

TWO TUNISIAN MEN TO STAND TRIAL AFTER ACCUSATIONS OF BEING LGBTQ: Earlier this month, the men were arrested by police under suspicion of being LGBTQ; they will stand trial on January 6. Same-sex sexual activity is punishable by up to three years in prison in the conservative North African country. More from Erasing 76 Crimes.

DOZENS GATHER FOR MONTENEGRO’S LGBTQ PRIDE EVENT: This weekend, the conservative country of Montenegro celebrated an LGBTQ Pride event. More from The Associated Press.

READING RAINBOW

Steven Petrow (@StevenPetrow) gives a refresher in The Washington Post on the best ways to address transgender and gender-expansive people in writing and in person… HRC sits down with Nicole Elinoff, HRC 2016 HIV 360° Fellow, to discuss her vision of an AIDS-free generation… BuzzFeed talks to an ACLU staff attorney about legally changing gender markers on identification documents…

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Exciting LGBTQ-inclusive entertainment to look forward to in 2017!

Exciting LGBTQ-inclusive entertainment to look forward to in 2017!

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With the new year just about knocking on the door, here is a brief sampling of LGBTQ-inclusive films, TV series and comic book offerings to look forward to in 2017.

FILM

Tom of Finland Taschen CoverThe long-awaited biopic of the pioneering Finnish artist Touko Laaksonen, more commonly known as Tom of Finland, is due for release in February.  A gay icon of the late 20th century, Laaksonen’s drawings were known for his depiction of stylized, muscular masculine bodies clad in leather.  In those decades, in the U.S. and abroad, there wasn’t a gay leather bar in major urban cities where his prints and posters were not on display.  Produced by Protagonist and Helsinki Filmi, director Dome Karukoski stated that Laaksonen “lived in a time when the laws and norms of the society tried to deny him the right to be himself.  His story is an indication how a man can change the world with only the artists’ tools as ammunition.”  (Finnish Trailer w/o translation)

 

The 2017 Sundance Film Festival lineup was announced recently for the annual festival in Park City, Utah coming up next month. The festival takes place January 19-29 and tickets are on sale now.  (While these projects are premiering at Sundance, there are no guarantees of post-festival distribution at this time.)

Bayard & Me B&W photo stillBayard & Me / U.S.A. (Director: Matt Wolf) —  A master strategist and tireless activist, Bayard Rustin is best remembered as the organizer of the 1963 March on Washington, one of the largest nonviolent protests ever held in the U.S. He brought Gandhi’s protest techniques to the American civil rights movement, and helped mold Martin Luther King, Jr. into an international symbol of peace and nonviolence.  Bayard was also 30 years older than his boyfriend, Walter Naegle. In the 80’s, Bayard decided to adopt Walter for legal protection.  Walter reflects on the love story that unfolded at a time when gay marriage was inconceivable, and reflects on the little known phenomena of intergenerational gay adoption and its connection to the civil rights movement. 

Gigi GorgeousThis Is Everything: Gigi Gorgeous / U.S.A. (Director: Barbara Kopple) — This world premiere, groundbreaking film portrays the journey of Gigi Lazzarato, a fearless woman who began life as Gregory, posting fashion videos to YouTube from his bedroom, only to later come out as a transgender female. With never-before-seen personal footage, the film spotlights a family’s unwavering love for a child.   This YouTube Red Original film is directed by two-time Oscar® award winner Barbara Kopple and executive produced by SelectNext.

Call Me By Your NameCall Me by Your Name / Italy, France (Director: Luca Guadagnino, Screenwriters: James Ivory, Luca Guadagnino) — The sensitive and cultivated Elio, only child of the American-Italian-French Perlman family, is facing another lazy summer at his parents’ villa in the beautiful and languid Italian countryside and Riviera when Oliver (played by Armie Hammer), an academic who has come to help with Elio’s father’s research, arrives.

TELEVISION

Rosie O'Donnell WHEN WE RISEWhen We Rise, an original 7 part mini-series event set for February on ABC, written and created by Academy Award winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, chronicles the real-life personal and political struggles, set-backs and triumphs of a diverse family of LGBTQ men and women who helped pioneer one of the last legs of the U.S. Civil Rights movement from its turbulent infancy in the 20th century to the once unfathomable successes of today. Starring: Guy Pearce, Whoopi Goldberg, Rosie O’Donnell, Denis O’Hare, Mary-Louis Parker, Rafael de la Fuente, and more.  Creator Dustin Lance Black has shared that:

“It’s been the honor of my life to research and craft these stories of family, diversity and equality over the past three years. To have collaborators of this caliber sign on to help bring these stories to life is a tremendous vote of confidence, and I hope a testament to the relevancy and necessity of our continued march toward justice for all.”

 

With a premier date now set for May, Star Trek: Discovery will be the first Trek series since Enterprise ended its run in 2005.  After its premier on the CBS broadcast network, subsequent episodes will stream exclusively in the U.S. on CBS All Access.  Of note is that Discovery’s timeline is set to take place a decade before the original Star Trek series.  And after showrunner Bryan Fuller announced at last summer’s Comic-Con that he wanted to cast a woman of color in the lead role, Sonequa Martin-Green has landed that role, and will continue as a series regular on AMC’s The Walking Dead.

 

Set among a diverse group of students of color as they navigate a predominantly white Ivy League college where racial tensions are often swept under the rug, Netflix’ comedy series Dear White People is a send up of “post-racial” America that also weaves a universal story about forging one’s own unique path.  Based on writer/director/producer Justin Simien’s critically-acclaimed, Sundance award-winning satirical indie film of the same name, the 10-episode, 30-minute series is in production and will premiere on Netflix around the world in 2017.  Brandon P. Bell will reprise his role as Troy Fairbanks, the son of the dean of students and a charming political science major who is campaigning to become Winchester University’s first black student president.   (Take a look at the 2014 original indie smash hit’s trailer.)

 

From the award winning team behind Doctor Who, Class is a BBC America spin-off set in Shoreditch, London. It’s a new term at Coal Hill Academy and students are preparing for their Autumn Prom. But when the school comes under attack, four alienated students must form an unlikely alliance to defeat them. And this incursion is only the beginning!  These four Coal Hill School students have hidden secrets and desires. They’re also facing their own worst fears, navigating a life of friends, parents, school work, sex, sorrow — and possibly the end of existence.

 

In addition to the above television series, there are several returning favorites.  The 2016 GLAAD Media Award recipient for Outstanding Drama Series, Sense8, returns on Netflix with the story of eight strangers from all over the globe who find out they are “sensates” — humans who are mentally and emotionally linked, and can interchange their knowledge of everything from languages to fighting skills.

Hulu has picked up popular series Please Like Me for a fourth season. The Australian comedy focuses on the life experiences of creator and star Josh Thomas, who is openly gay. The series previously aired on Pivot, but that network shut down this fall.  Since then, Hulu has acquired exclusive SVOD (subscription video on demand) rights to the series.

 

COMICS

America ChavezAmerica Chavez, the queer Latina dimension-breaking superhero from Young Avengers, will be receiving her own solo series America from Marvel Comics beginning next year.   Raised by two moms in a woman-only Utopian Parallel universe, this genre-subverting character was a much-needed response to the call for greater diversity in comics, and was first introduced in the 2011 miniseries Vengeance, before writer Kieron Gillen revived her for the 2013 reboot of the Young Avengers, also appearing in Hawkeye, A-Force, and The Ultimates comics. Young adult author Gabby Rivera, who also happens to be queer and Latina, has been tapped to write the comic.

BatwomanTwo additional solo stories are highlighted to appear in 2017. Written by Marguerite Bennett, with art by Steve Epting, the new Batwoman series will spin out of a two-part story in DETECTIVE COMICS.  Batman Group Editor Mark Doyle was quoted as saying that:

“Batwoman is yet another example of the character depth, richness and diversity present in Gotham City. Fans have really responded to her role in DETECTIVE COMICS, and we all love Kate here in the Bat-office, so that made it an easy choice to return her to a solo series.”

Iceman #1#1” height=”220″ width=”143″ src=”http://www.glaad.org/sites/default/files/styles/medium/public/images/2016-12/Iceman.jpeg?itok=qbTqdDpF”>Iceman, aka Bobby Drake, is one of the longest-running, most popular X-Men in the Marvel series. Thanks to time travel, there are technically two Bobby Drakes running around the present comics. An adult, very powerful Iceman, and a teen Iceman from the past, who was brought to the current timeline alongside several other teen mutants by Beast.  Now, one of them (presumably adult Iceman) is getting a solo series.  Iceman came out as gay earlier in the series when he was confronted by his younger self and Jean Grey about his sexuality.  Fans look forward to Iceman’s journey through the world Marvel creates for him.

Legend of KorraFinally, a three-part Legend of Korra original graphic novel series will reunite Korra, Asami and Republic City in “Turf Wars” from Dark Horse Comics.  According to co-creator Michael DiMartino, it will focus on “Korra and Asami’s relationship [revealed in the show’s final episode] as a new threat emerges.  It’s kind of like the aftermath, dealing with the new portal in the city, and all the evacuees coming back to find their homes wiped out cause of the portal.”  The first graphic novel in the Legend of Korra: Turf War series is due to hit comic shops in June.

December 20, 2016

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5 reasons ‘HIV undetectable’ must now mean ‘uninfectious’

5 reasons ‘HIV undetectable’ must now mean ‘uninfectious’

prepWe are not dirty, we are not a threat, and we are not disease vectors. In fact, we are the solution. People living with HIV who achieve viral suppression, who become undetectable, are the solution to the end of new HIV infections in the United States… When we look back 20 years from now we’re going to judge ourselves in terms of how well we responded to this opportunity.

— Dr. Rich Wolitski, person living with HIV and Acting Director for the Office for HIV/AIDS and Infectious Disease Policy at the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services

When Dr. Wolitski delivered that speech at the closing plenary of the 2016 United States Conference on AIDS (USCA), he received a standing ovation. He was referring to this year’s newest findings of HPTN 052 and the PARTNER study, which showed that people living with HIV who are undetectable are not transmitting the virus to their negative partners.

How wonderful that something many of us have assumed for years has been proven to be true. So now we can spread the news and encourage people with HIV to seek treatment and stick with it. And hey, there’s nothing like a little intercourse au naturel with your partner to reward yourself for being undetectable, right?

Not so fast. There is some strong resistance to a message that equates undetectable to untransmittable, and it’s not coming from where you might think.

Here are five reasons why this breakthrough message matters.

1. The science is solid

The PARTNER Study recorded 58,000 acts of penetrative sex without condoms between 1,000 positive/negative couples, in which the HIV positive partner had an undetectable viral load. There were no infections between the couples. Not a single one. The same results were reported in the HPTN 052 study and the empirical evidence to date. As Dr. Wolitiski said in his USCA speech, “this is a game-changing moment in the history of the HIV epidemic.”

Resistance to the conclusion that undetectable people pose no risk of infection has been either a matter of scientific data scrutiny or a fear that people may not actually be undetectable when they think they are. Let’s break that down.

A review of the argument against saying “zero risk” is enough to make you cross-eyed. It is based on the premise that nothing, really, is without risk. Detractors of the non-infectious message will calmly explain the perils of placing any risk at zero and then hypnotize you with statistical origami. Suffice it to say that proving zero risk is statistically impossible. You risked electrocution by turning on your device to read this article.

There will always be somebody who claims a terminally unique HIV infection, even if the precise circumstances of their claim may be murky. Weird things happen. People who drink alcohol sometimes spontaneously combust. It happens a couple times a year. But you don’t see warning labels about it slapped on every bottle of Wild Turkey by overzealous worrywarts.

And yes, there is the possibility that someone might develop a viral load if they are not adherent to treatment and then transmit the virus. But the message here is that people who are undetectable cannot transmit HIV. If you stay on treatment and are undetectable you will not transmit HIV. Can we please celebrate this simple fact without remote qualifiers?

It is also important to note that a Canadian consensus statement concluded that any “viral blips” or sexually transmitted infections (STIs) were “not significant” to HIV transmission when someone is undetectable.

2. Major health experts are on board (but not all community leaders).

Public health leaders, from the New York Department of Health to the National Institutes of Health (NIH), have embraced these findings and its meaning to people with HIV, while community advocates and organizations have been reluctant to get on board, citing a theoretical risk of infection. Or maybe they consider changing their fact sheets and web sites an enormous bother.

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Bruce Richman, Prevention Access Campaign

The Prevention Action Campaign and their seminal message #UequalsU (undetectable equals untransmittable) was founded on the energetic efforts of a man named Bruce Richman. He entered the HIV advocacy scene a few years ago, seemingly out of nowhere, carrying aloft the banner of undetectability. Richman gathered signatures of health experts the world over for a consensus statement about the research, while cajoling every U.S. HIV organization in sight to adopt language that removes the stigma of infectiousness from people who are undetectable.

This skepticism from our own community reduces people with HIV, again, to a problem that must be managed. It suggests that those of us who have achieved undetectability don’t have the judgment to keep taking our medications or to see our physician regularly to be sure our treatment plan is still effective. It keeps us in the role of untrustworthy victims unable to make decisions that will keep the rest of you safe from us. What infuriating, stigmatizing nonsense.

3. This is about HIV. Only HIV

Auxiliary issues often creep into this debate that may be well-meaning but only muddy the waters, such as the fear that promoting the message of non-infectiousness will lead to more sexually transmitted infections (STIs) because of the freedom it allows (see also: critics of PrEP, the birth control pill, and any other vehicle that might lead to unbridled sexual pleasure).

Rates of STIs — which were on the rise before the advent of PrEP or news from the PARTNER Study — are deeply concerning but ultimately tangential. We are in desperate need of comprehensive sexual health programs, to be sure, but in this instance I feel compelled to “kill the alligator closest to the boat.” This is about being HIV undetectable, not syphilis impermeable. Being undetectable will not prevent other infections or address promiscuity or remove stubborn stains.

Advocates are also sensitive to the continued compartmentalization of our community, between those who are positive or not, who is on PrEP or not, and now, between those with HIV who are able to achieve viral suppression and those who cannot, despite their best efforts. I sympathize with this new divide among HIV positive people but believe the greater good – removing shame and stigma from those who are not capable of transmitting – shouldn’t be downplayed. All HIV positive people of good will can and should celebrate this development, regardless of their own viral load.

4. This is a major victory for HIV criminalization reform

Terribly important work is being done to repeal and reform HIV criminalization laws that prosecute people with HIV for not disclosing their status to a sexual partner. Our defense is often led by all of this growing science showing that the defendant never posed a risk to their partner in the first place, due to their use of protection or the fact the defendant was undetectable and therefore rendered harmless.

Continued assertions that undetectable people might pose a risk to others could be used in the courtroom against people with HIV.  Imagine the glee with which prosecutors might explain to a jury that “zero risk” is impossible and defendant Joe Positive posed a threat, however small, to his sexual partner and should be jailed for it. Put obscure doubts into the heads of a jury, and another person with HIV gets a 30-year sentence for daring to have sex at all.

5. This profoundly changes how people with HIV view themselves.

Internalizing the fact that I cannot transmit HIV to anyone has had an effect on me that is difficult to describe. I can only liken it to the day the Supreme Court voted for marriage equality. Intellectually, I knew I was a gay man and a worthy human being. But on the day of the court’s decision I walked through the streets of my neighborhood with my head held higher. Something had changed. I felt whole.

In my thirty-five years living with HIV, I have never felt exactly that way. I deserve to. And so do millions of other people with HIV.

Of all the arguments to adopt the message that undetectable people cannot transmit HIV, that enhanced feeling of self-worth may be the most important reason of them all.

Mark S. King, founder of My Fabulous Disease, is Queerty’s HIV/AIDS writer

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Families of Pulse Orlando Victims are Suing Facebook, Google, and Twitter

Families of Pulse Orlando Victims are Suing Facebook, Google, and Twitter

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The families of three victims of the Orlando massacre are suing Google, Twitter and Facebook for providing “material support” for the radicalization of ISIS-inspired shooter Omar Mateen.

On June 12, Mateen killed 49 people and wounded another 53 in an attack on gay nightclub Pulse.

tevin-crosbyThe suit, filed on Monday by the families of Tevin Crosby (right), Juan Ramon Guerrero and Javier Jorge-Reyes, alleges that all three companies “knowingly and recklessly” allowed for accounts associated with ISIS to exist and allowed the extremist group “to use its social networks as a tool for spreading extremist propaganda, raising funds, and attracting new recruits,” according to reports.

Although many social media companies have shut down any pro-ISIS activity, the suit claims that such activities continue. It pinpoints Google as being primarily involved because YouTube is sometimes used by ISIS to post videos.

“Without Defendants Twitter, Facebook, and Google (YouTube),” it states, “the explosive growth of ISIS over the last few years into the most feared terrorist group in the world would not have been possible.”

RELATED: The Politics of ISIS: Why We Must Think Differently Now

Mashable reports that in June, Twitter, Facebook and Google were also sued by the family of 23-year-old Nohemi Gonzalez who was killed in the Paris terrorist attacks.

(Tevin Crosby image via Twitter)

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HRC to Honor Meryl Streep at the 2017 HRC Greater New York Gala

HRC to Honor Meryl Streep at the 2017 HRC Greater New York Gala

Today, HRC announced it will honor critically-acclaimed, multi-award-winning actress Meryl Streep with the organization’s Ally for Equality Award at the 2017 HRC Greater New York Gala on Saturday, February 11, 2017, at the Waldorf Astoria in New York City.

“Throughout her phenomenal career, Meryl Streep has used her voice to stand up for the LGBTQ community,” said HRC President Chad Griffin. “Whether through her iconic roles that raised the visibility of LGBTQ people, or by boldly speaking out for equality, Meryl Streep embodies the very nature of what it means to be an ally to our community. We are thrilled to welcome Meryl Streep to the 2017 HRC Greater New York Gala and look forward to honoring her with the HRC Ally for Equality Award.”

The HRC Ally for Equality Award recognizes the outstanding efforts of those who use their voice and publicly stand-up for the LGBTQ community. These individuals dedicate their time, energy, spirit and whole-hearted commitment to better the lives of LGBTQ people. The award is given to allies outside of the LGBTQ community who stand up on behalf of equality for all Americans.

For almost 40 years, Meryl Streep has portrayed an astonishing array of characters in a career that has cut its own unique path from the theater through film and television. An outspoken advocate for LGBTQ equality, Streep credits childhood music teachers for helping to open her eyes to LGBTQ acceptance, including her gay piano teacher and his partner, and another transgender music teacher. “I just can’t remember when LGBT people were not in my life,” Streep said an in interview.

An icon to many in the LGBTQ community, Streep has starred in numerous roles helping to raise awareness of the unique challenges LGBTQ people face. Streep told Between the Line News that her role in Angels in America — HBO’s 2003 groundbreaking miniseries about the HIV and AIDS crisis — was one of the most important in her career. Streep won one of her eight Golden Globe Awards for that role, and during her acceptance speech in 2004, she also famously spoke out for marriage equality.

Streep has won three Academy Awards, and in 2015, in a record that is unsurpassed, she earned a 19th Academy Award nomination. She is a member of the American Academy of Arts and Letters, and has been accorded a Commandeur de L’Ordre des Arts et des Lettres by the French Government and an honorary César. She received the Lifetime Achievement Award from the American Film Institute, a 2008 honor from the Film Society of Lincoln Center, and the 2010 National Medal of Arts from President Obama. In 2011, Streep received a Kennedy Center Honor, and in 2014 the Presidential Medal of Freedom. Most recently, Streep has been nominated for her 30th Golden Globe Award, and in January of 2017, she will be honored with the Cecil B. deMille Award of the 74th Golden Globes.

As previously announced, HRC will also honor PepsiCo with the HRC Corporate Equality Award. The award recognizes PepsiCo’s exceptional commitment to advancing workplace equality for the LGBTQ community.

The Greater New York Gala is one of HRC’s most prestigious events of the year, attracting more than 1,000 of the organization’s most active leaders, supporters, and members. The event regularly draws political officials from federal, state, and local governments, as well as celebrity entertainers and leaders in the business community. To purchase tickets for the #HRCGreaterNY gala, learn more about the event, ways to volunteer, and more, please visit www.HRCGreaterNY.org

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