Must-See LGBTQ TV: 'Shameless,' 'Eyewitness' season finales; 'Sense8' Christmas special

Must-See LGBTQ TV: 'Shameless,' 'Eyewitness' season finales; 'Sense8' Christmas special

Photo Credit: Sense8 / Courtesy Netflix

Grab the remote, set your DVR or queue up your streaming service of choice! GLAAD is bringing you the highlights in LGBTQ on TV this week. Check back every Sunday for up-to-date coverage in LGBTQ-inclusive programming on TV.

In the Shameless season seven finale, the Gallaghers lose one of their own and try to work through their own mixed feelings. Meanwhile, Lip takes steps to build a better future for himself, Kev and V devise a plan for revenge, and Debbie, Carl, and Liam get roped into Frank’s newest plot. Shameless: Sunday, 9pm on Showtime.

USA’s anthology series Eyewitness wraps its first season on Sunday night. In the finale, Helen learns the identity of the killer and races to find Philip and Lukas who have gone missing. Eyewitness: Sunday, 10pm on USA.

Netflix’s original hit series Sense8 returns for a Christmas special on Friday. The two-hour special special – which also serves as the first episode of the show’s second season – picks up where the finale left off with the eight sensates on the run from Whispers, questioning their identities, and how they’ve come to be able to connect to each other. Sense8 will return with 10 more episodes May 5, 2017. Sense8: A Christmas Special: Friday, on Netflix.

Sunday December 18: Shameless (9pm, Showtime); Eyewitness (10pm, USA)

Monday: America’s Next Top Model (10pm, VH1)

Tuesday: Tony Bennett Celebrates 90: The Best is Yet to Come (9pm, NBC); Billy on the Street (10:30pm, Tru TV)

Wednesday: Code Black (10pm, CBS)

Friday: Sense8 Christmas Special (Netflix)

December 18, 2016
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Upon learning her husband slept with a man in college, wife goes ballistic and seeks separation

Upon learning her husband slept with a man in college, wife goes ballistic and seeks separation

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A heartbroken husband was completely blindsided by his wife’s sudden request for a separation, so he’s seeking advice from Trish Murphy, a psychotherapist who writes for the Irish Times.

“Recently my wife said she wants to separate after eight years of marriage, and has been to a solicitor,” the letter begins. “She doesn’t seem to want to discuss the reasons why she wants to separate, simply saying she doesn’t love me any more.”

Related: Wife To Bi Husband: ‘What Are You Talking About? We Have A Mortgage And A Dog Together!’

Though he’s not 100% sure why she wants to break up, the man has a suspicion. It all started about two years ago when his old college roommate stopped by for a visit.

“This chap, who is openly gay, told my wife about a one-night stand we had when we were students,” the man explains. “At the time my wife was furious and I explained to her the truth as I see it. This was something that happened impulsively, I don’t necessarily have regrets about it, but neither do I identify as gay or bisexual.”

He goes on to say that the reason he mentioned the hookup to his wife before was because it simply didn’t cross his mind.

“I had never really given it much thought,” he says.

Related: “I’m Pretty Sure My Husband Is Gay, But He Insists He Isn’t”

Eventually, he wife got over it. But then six months ago, he went on an innocent business trip with a male colleague who happens to be gay and, he writes, “she started to question my sexuality again.”

“I love my wife and our family life,” the man says. “I don’t want it to end like this. I grew up in a broken home and me and my siblings suffered as a result of our parents break up. I don’t want this for our children.”

He wonders: “How do I persuade her that I love her and have no desire for anyone else, female or male?”

In her response, Trish Murphy says the whole situation can be boiled down to one thing: Trust.

Related: Wife Finds Gay Videos On Husband’s Phone, Suspects He’s Sleeping With His Best Friend… Now What?!

“Trust is created when people are honest with each other and when there is consistency in the relationship,” she says. “You may not even be aware of your dishonesty in terms of not telling your wife as you see some things as unimportant–it is possible you did not speak for fear of conflict or break-up.”

Wait… what? Is Trish honestly suggesting that because this dude didn’t provide his wife with a detailed report of his entire sexual history prior to their meeting, including inconsequential one night stands that happened in college, he’s somehow to blame for her obvious homophobia?

Trish continues: “She may not trust that you are fully engaged in your intimacy. It might also be true that you are not willing to fully explain this as you do not really understand it yourself.”

Related: Her Husband No Longer Wants To Have Sex So He’s Gotta Be Gay–Right?!

Hmmm. Apparently Trish missed the part of the letter where the guy said the whole hookup was a one-time thing that “happened impulsively” more than a decade ago, that he doesn’t regret it, but that he also doesn’t “identify as gay or bisexual.” Sometimes people experiment.

Trish concludes by telling the guy it would be “worthwhile for you to take responsibility” and to “demonstrate that you are self-aware enough to do your part in creating changes that might make the marriage worth saving.”

What do you think of Trish’s advice? Sound off in the comments section below…

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‘Surreal’ is Merriam-Webster’s Completely Apt ‘Word of the Year’ for 2016

‘Surreal’ is Merriam-Webster’s Completely Apt ‘Word of the Year’ for 2016

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“Surreal” is Merriam-Webster’s Word of the Year for 2016, the publisher announced on Monday. Surreal is defined as “marked by the intense irrational reality of a dream.”

Surreal is Merriam-Webster’s Word of the Year because it was looked up significantly more frequently by users in 2016 than it was in previous years, and because there were multiple occasions on which this word was the one clearly driving people to their dictionary.

There are essentially two kinds of high-volume lookups that we track: perennial words that are looked up day-in and day-out, and words that spike because of news events, politics, pop culture, or sports. By analyzing these spikes, we can get a sense as to what significant events sent people to the dictionary, and sometimes, what people think about those events.

Surreal had three major spikes in interest that were higher in volume and were sustained for longer periods of time than in past years. In March, the word was used in coverage of the Brussels terror attacks. Then, in July, we saw the word spike again: it was used in descriptions of the coup attempt in Turkey and in coverage of the terrorist attack in Nice. Finally, we saw the largest spike in lookups for surreal following the U.S. election in November.

1) ‘Surreal’ is one of the most common lookups following a tragedy
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— Merriam-Webster (@MerriamWebster) December 19, 2016

The publisher also offered nine more “notable” words people looked up this year:

Revenant
Icon
In Omnia Paratus
Bigly
Deplorable
Irregardless
Assumpsit
Faute de Mieux
Feckless

What do you think was the most surreal moment of 2016?

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‘Surreal’ is Merriam-Webster’s Completely Apt ‘Word of the Year’ for 2016

#AM_Equality Tipsheet: December 19, 2016

#AM_Equality Tipsheet: December 19, 2016

TRUMP ALLIES CALLS FOR INCOMING ADMINISTRATION TO PURGE STATE DEPT OF PRO-LGBTQ EMPLOYEES: On Friday, Family Research Council (FRC) President Tony Perkins — who campaigned with Trump — called on the incoming administration to have pro-LGBTQ employees “ferreted out” and “replaced by conservatives.” HRC President Chad Griffin blasted the remarks, saying, “Tony Perkins’ proposal to purge pro-LGBTQ employees from the State Department is beyond the pale. Perkins is hatefully suggesting pro-equality, career civil servants be rounded up and sent packing for doing their jobs.” Griffin called on the Trump-Pence administration to “immediately denounce” the request, making clear the vital role the State Department plays for LGBTQ people across the world and noting that in “countries with hostile anti-LGBTQ regimes — like Russia, Syria and Egypt — lives are literally at risk.” A Trump transition team spokesperson responded to concerns: “To think that discrimination of any kind will be condoned or tolerated in a Trump Administration is simply absurd.” Perkins’ organization is known for virulent rhetoric that has earned them designation as a hate group by the Southern Poverty Law Center. More from HRC.

ALARMING — HOUSE FREEDOM CAUCUS DEMANDS ROLLBACK OF LGBTQ PROTECTIONS: On Friday, the House Freedom Caucus’ unveiled efforts to end two crucially important protections for LGBTQ people at the federal level. As part of a document outlining more than 200 rules, regulations and executive orders they want revoked, the caucus targeted federal guidance on the fair and equal treatment of transgender students from the Department of Education, as well as non-discrimination protections in the Affordable Care Act. “In a ridiculous hit list of policies they want revoked, the House Freedom Caucus is shamefully demanding a rollback of protections from discrimination for LGBTQ people — protections the majority of Americans support. These guidelines ensure Americans aren’t denied health care simply because of who they are or whom they love and ensure transgender students have the same opportunities as their peers to thrive in a classroom. They are crucially important protections that absolutely must remain in place. Lives depend on them,” said JoDee Winterhof, HRC Senior Vice President for Policy and Political Affairs. “Congressman Mark Meadows’ and the House Freedom Caucus’ efforts must be stopped. It’s time for folks to stand up, speak out, and demand lawmakers keep these fundamental protections for LGBTQ people in place.” More from HRC.

MUST WATCH MONDAY: Over the weekend, BuzzFeed interviewed Laura Jane Grace, the lead singer of the band “Against Me!” and a transgender advocate who famously burned her birth certificate on stage at a show in North Carolina to protest the state’s anti-LGBTQ HB2 law. The video explores how she is bringing transgender visibility to the punk music scene, and talks to her LGBTQ fans who benefit from her advocacy. More from BuzzFeed.

US V. WINDSOR LAWYER FILES  BRIEF IN MISS. HB 1523 APPEAL CASE: In July, U.S. District Judge Carlton Reeves blocked the implementation of Mississippi’s discriminatory and harmful HB 1523, calling it “a vehicle for state sanctioned discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity.” The case was litigated by Roberta Kaplan, the civil rights lawyer who argued in front of the Supreme Court of the United States in the landmark case United States v. Windsor. Now, the state is appealing that decision to the U.S. Court of Appeals for the 5th Circuit. Kaplan has filed a brief in the case on behalf of her clients, arguing that the discriminatory law favors some religions over others, thus violating the U.S. Constitution. More from Slate.

YET ANOTHER ANTI-LGBTQ OFFICIAL IN TRUMP’S WHITE HOUSE: Over the weekend, President-Elect Donald Trump named Rep. Mick Mulvaney (R-SC) as his budget director. Mulvaney received a “zero” on HRC’s Congressional Scorecard for all three of his terms as a U.S. congressman. As a state representative, Mulvaney cosponsored legislation in the South Carolina House of Representatives to amend the state constitution to prohibit marriage for same-sex couples. Since his election, Donald Trump has been assembling a group of anti-LGBTQ officials as his top picks for his administration. All cabinet members are subject to Congressional approval, and every single appointee deserves to be thoroughly vetted. More from The New York Times.

INSPIRATIONAL VOICES OF 2016: As 2016 comes to a close, there is no doubt that this year was difficult for many in the LGBTQ and allied community. After a year of such celebration and momentous progress in 2015, 2016 was a shocking wake-up call to many about the realities that LGBTQ people face. From the rise in anti-LGBTQ legislation to the horrific shooting at Pulse, from the incidents of anti-transgender violence to the election of a presidential ticket that threatens to undermine equality and justice, we know that our job is more important now than ever before. However, through these difficult times, we witnessed countless moments of inspiration. Throughout the year, time and time again, we saw people stand up and do what was right. Whether they were celebrities, politicians, a friend or just an acquaintance, we saw people stand up for equality and inspire us all. Their stories made us cry, gave us hope and reminded us that love will conquer hate. Follow HRC’s blog for more. Below are two highlights.

  • On March 23, North Carolina Governor Pat McCrory signed HB2 — an outrageous and unprecedented anti-LGBTQ law. While the North Carolina House and Senate rammed through  the law in one day, backlash to the discriminatory measure continued for months, leading to McCrory’s defeat on Election Day. With the legislation rammed through the legislature in a special, single day session with little opportunity for debate, transgender North Carolinians immediately took action against the hateful law.  Madeline Goss, Candis Cox and Tina Madison White spoke at rallys and events and testified against this dangerous law. More from HRC.
  • Throughout 2016, civil rights icon Congressman John Lewis used his voice to reiterate his support and dedication for full LGBTQ equality. In the wake of the horrific tragedy at Pulse nightclub in Orlando — the nation’s deadliest mass shooting — Lewis staged a sit-in on the House floor to try to force a vote on common-sense gun violence prevention policies. More from HRC.

TRANS YOUTH INVITED TO WATCH ‘ROGUE ONE’ AT WHITE HOUSE: This weekend, two families on HRC’s Parents for Transgender Equality Council, the Briggles and the Neals, were invited to the White House by the Obama Administration for a viewing of the new Star Wars film. More on the Briggles from the Denton Record-Chronicle and more on the Neals from HRC.

SRI LANKA SIMPLIFIES PROCESS FOR LEGAL GENDER CHANGES ON OFFICIALS DOCUMENTS: Sri Lanka’s Ministry of Health, Nutrition and Indigenous Medicine recently created a simplified and streamlined process for anyone seeking a legal gender change on government documents. The Zimbabwe Star interviewed those benefiting from this process. More here.

READING RAINBOW

First Coast News interviews the first openly transgender woman to finish the Jacksonville, Fla., marathon… Pink News shares a heartwarming letter a bisexual man wrote to his accepting partner… Gay News Network cover the first same-sex marriage in Gibraltar…

Have news? Send us your news and tips at [email protected]. Click here to subscribe to A.M. Equality and follow @HRC for all the latest news. Thanks for reading!

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HIV 360° Fellow Spotlight: Nicole Elinoff

HIV 360° Fellow Spotlight: Nicole Elinoff

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Earlier this year, HRC Foundation announced the inaugural class of the 2016 HIV 360° Fellowship Program. Made possible with generous support from the Elton John AIDS Foundation, HIV 360° is a capacity-building fellowship program for young, non-profit leaders ready to take HIV-inclusive organizations and initiatives to the next level.

The HRC blog recently sat down with each of the fellows to discuss the program, their work, and their vision of an AIDS-free generation.

Nicole Elinoff, 25, graduated in 2013 with a Bachelor of Science in psychology and women’s studies from the University of Central Florida. After losing a close family member to AIDS-related complications, Nicole became an HIV tester and counselor in 2014. She currently serves as the Sexual Minority Health Coordinator for the Florida Department of Health in Orange County conducting HIV prevention work in the LGBTQ community. Nicole strives to build collaboration, fight stigma and be an agent of change in her community.

How did you first get involved with the movement to end the HIV and AIDS epidemic? How, if at all, did that inspire you to become an HIV 360° Fellow?

It has been four years since my uncle passed away from AIDS-related complications and I decided to become an agent of change to fight the HIV epidemic. I signed up to become a volunteer HIV tester/counselor and have been in the field ever since. When I saw the opportunity to be part of the fellowship program, I was immediately interested. I loved the idea of getting to meet other youth leaders who are all extremely passionate about this work and eager to make a change. This fellowship has led to some amazing, lifelong friendships and opportunities to help expand the work I am so passionate about.

Each fellow has been asked to design, implement, and evaluate a community service project to combat HIV transmission rates in their respective communities. Tell us about yours and what you hope to accomplish with it.

In January, a new support group will launch for Latino men living with HIV, called Latidos (heartbeat). According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), rates of HIV diagnoses among Latino men who have sex with men (MSM) have risen by about 25 percent since 2004. Central Florida has a large population of Hispanic and Latino identifying individuals, yet there is no culturally and linguistically competent social support group for Latino men living with HIV. My project seeks to break down stigma, create meaningful relationships between participants and provide support.

What is one key lesson you’ve gained from the fellowship program? What have you enjoyed the most about it?

I’ve learned so many lessons throughout the program, including self-care, project evaluation, and project management. I also appreciate the relationships and deep connections I’ve developed over the past few months. I’ve met national executive directors, expert researchers and I’ve cultivated lifelong friendships with the other members of my cohort. It is so encouraging to know I can always call one of the other fellows if I have a question about a project or an idea I want to talk through. I know these relationships will remain in tact well after the fellowship program is over.

How can people learn more about your organization and support the work you are doing?

I’ve been working with a wonderful organization named Miracle of Love on my community service project. Miracle of Love is an AIDS service organization in the Orlando area and their mission is to provide comprehensive, multicultural HIV and AIDS care, education and prevention services that are effective and responsive to Central Florida’s communities. To find out more about the group, Latidos, please visit latidosorlando.com.

To learn more about the HIV 360° fellowship program itself, click here. Also, check out:

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