Pita Tofua Returns To The Beach, Mykki Blanco Strikes A (Shirtless) Pose And Milo Yiannopoulos Dies

Pita Tofua Returns To The Beach, Mykki Blanco Strikes A (Shirtless) Pose And Milo Yiannopoulos Dies

Just when you thought you were having a bad week, the ACLU slapped Kim Davis with a lawsuit, the gay Bachelor threatened to sue his anonymous online trolls, Troye Sivan’s nudes leaked, and gays started getting into monogamy. Here’s what you might of missed on Instagram:

Orlando Bloom sparred with his shaolin master.

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Spanish actor Daniel Grao (Pedro Almodóvar’s Julieta) crossed “full frontal” off his bucket list.

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Singer and former One Tree Hill star Tyler Hilton woke up in Brooklyn.

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Blake Skjellerup found good lighting at the gym.

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Actor Jaime Cepero showed off his best angle.

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Younger star Nico Tortorella, who is sexually fluid, took his fluids in bed.

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Nick Jonas scored the cover of Wonderland, and posed in his underwear for a feature spread.

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Max Emerson confirmed he is the type of person who walks around New York City shirtless.

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Yanis Marshall took a bath— IN HEELS!

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Finding Prince Charming suitor Chad posed on a boat, which he hated.

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Idris Elba returned to the gym.

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Zachary Quinto was sick but well enough to take a selfie.

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Silver daddy model Garrett Swann pantsed himself on a rooftop.

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American model Landon Falgoust got stuck in the rain.

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Fitness model/Eagle bartender Gregory Nalbone had some yogurt.

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Chef Ronnie Woo showed love for his pups, Taco and Queso.

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Gus Kenworthy went skinny dipping in Telluride.

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Rodiney Santiago did some heavy lifting for the new Rufskin campaign.

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Nick Adams showed off his (lack of) body hair.

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David Beckham stripped to his underwear for the 22 pushup challenge.

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The Warwick Rowers got in bed.

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Peter Adrian and Nico James Greetham had a Power Rangers gym sesh.

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Alexander Ludwig spread out on set.

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Cameron Dallas sizzled in a new Flaunt feature. Thank god they put water on him.

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Ukrainian model and one-time Sean Cody soloist Igor Kolomiyets got comfortable again.

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Queer rapper Mykki Blanco announced a new album.

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Simon Dunn made it back to Wollongong.

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Dutch swimmer Sebastiaan Verschuren blew Olympic rings underwater.

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Charlie King was one with the beach.

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Tongan bae Pita Tofua returned to Brazil.

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And to the delight of Gay Twitter, Milo Yiannopoulos died.

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Cuckolding Is On The Up And Up Among Gay Couples

Cuckolding Is On The Up And Up Among Gay Couples

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Generally speaking, it’s straight people who copy gay people; in this case, it appears to be the other way around.

More and more gay couples are engaging in cuckolding, the act of watching one’s partner have sex with another person, typically someone with larger genitalia. Cuckolding used to be classified as more of a heterosexual activity (in fact, the Merriam-Webster Dictionary still defines it as such), but it appears those rules are being rewritten.

Related: Guy Caught Sleeping With Girlfriend’s Gay Friend: “It Wasn’t Cheating Because It Was With A Guy”

“We might think that no one likes to be cheated on, but the truth is, some do,” Dr. Joe Kort explains in an article about this growing trend among same-sex couples. “And believe it or not, it gets them off!”

He continues, “Gay cuckolding is different than having a three-way. In a three-way everyone is equal, whereas in cuckolding one is intentionally left out and taunted or humiliated for everyone’s arousal in the fantasy.”

Kort argues that while cuckolding has been around for centuries, “cuckolding in the gay male community has not been much acknowledged nor even existed.”

Until now.

An increasing number of Tumblr pages and Reddit threads are being devoted to the phenomenon. And academics are taking note of it, as well. In fact, a study titled “Gay Men’s Cuckolding Fantasies” is currently being conducted by researchers Ball State University. (They’re looking for participants if you want to get involved.)

Related: Poorly-Endowed Man Explains Why He Wishes He Were Even Smaller

“Cuckolding is yet one more type of ‘kinkiness’ that has been lurking in the background of many people’s sexual life,” Kort says. “It has elements of power and control. It is on the continuum of domination and submission which can be very sexually arousing.”

But Kort cautions couples to really think it through before engaging in cuckoldry.

“This can be a very hot fantasy to have and to fulfill but needs to be handled with care if a couple decides to make it a reality,” he says. “Despite cuckolding’s popularity in Internet searches, sometimes things are left better as a fantasy.”

He recommends doing the following: Keep the dialogue open, set boundaries, have a safe word in case things don’t go as planned, and talk about it afterwards.

“I must emphasize here that there is nothing pathological or unusual about such fantasies,” he says. “In reality, everyone has one or more “twisted,” non PC fantasies. Variations of sexual turn-ons seem to be infinite. The Internet has just allowed us to upload them from our brains onto websites and give us more access to them.”

Related: Gay Guys Turn To Whisper To Confess Their Cheating Ways

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These Vintage Book Covers Have Been Retitled, And The Results Are All Kinds of Wrong

These Vintage Book Covers Have Been Retitled, And The Results Are All Kinds of Wrong

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Here to brighten up your Facebook feed and life in general, Paperback Paradise finds eerie book covers from the 70s and 80s and gives them fresh new life by stamping them with a filthy new title. Simple premise? Yes, and certifiably hilarious, too.

While we have no idea who’s behind these efforts — they choose to lurk in the shadows  — we’re pretty sure these tweaked book covers could be considered NSFW. Possibly worth getting fired for, though.

Check out Paperback Paradise’s work below:

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How Do We Love Chelsea? Let Us Count The Ways

How Do We Love Chelsea? Let Us Count The Ways

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The hateful events in Chelsea this past week got us to thinking about our beloved ‘hood. While Hell’s Kitchen today may have taken over the mantle as the center of gay social life in New York, Chelsea remains deeply imbedded in our queer DNA and we refuse to relinquish it entirely.

Situated on the West Side of Manhattan, from 14th Street and the Hudson River up to 30th Street (or 34th depending on who you’re talking to) and all the way East to Fifth or Sixth Avenue, it has long been, and continue to be, our bastion of safety and joy. It was where we lived (before it got too expensive), played in the plethora of bars and clubs, and even worked–in shops, gyms, galleries, and office buildings. It’s where many of the seminal gay equality groups have been based, from LGBTQ youth groups to GMHC, an early leader in the fight against AIDS. To this day, travelers from across the globe consider it a must-visit on the worldwide list of queer havens.

So, boys & girls, let’s give the place some much-needed love in a difficult time. Make plans to hit the streets of one of the greatest places in the world to show your support.

Here are seven things we love about the historic ‘hood…

High Line

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Part of the West Side Improvement Project, the High Line is a revitalized piece of New York City’s Past. The linear park, first constructed as an elevated section of the New York Central Railroad and called the West Side Line is a 1.45-mile-long destination that once brought goods in and out of Manhattan’s largest industrial district. The last train ran over the High Line back in 1980 and though the landmark destination once faced demolition it reopened as a park on June 9, 2009. Two additional sections of the High Line have since opened and provided visitors and locals alike a unique perspective on the Manhattan landscape.

Limelight

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Peter Gatien opened the famed Limelight nightclub in November of 1983. Located in the former Episcopal Church of Holy Communion, a Gothic Revival structure completed in 1845, the Limelight was a popular disco and rock club that many of us remember before Michael Alig entered the scene. Countless people shared a “last dance” in the quintessential Club Kid hot spot, including Ru Paul Charles who met his longtime partner on the dance floor. Cops raided the storied church-turned-club throughout Rudy Guiliani’s reign over New York in the nineties over supposed drug infractions. In late 2003, the club reopened under the name “Avalon” and then became a niche marketplace until it was eventually converted into the David Barton Gym.

The Center

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The Center has been a cultural and resource hub since opening in 1983. Queer revolutionaries like Larry Kramer charter the vision for equality at West 13th Street. In this location the Quilt Workshop took shape in effort to crate panels for the NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt, and Keith Haring himself painted a sex-positive, sexually-explicit mural in the second floor bathroom that was utilized as a meeting area for Center events from 2001-2012. Today the LGBT Center is the cornerstone of New York City, featuring HIV Services, Arts & Cultural opportunities like the BGSQD bookstore and the Village Playwrights ongoing reading series.

Hotel Chelsea

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Rumor mills have always churned about the guests and residents of the Hotel Chelsea. Built between 1884 and 1885 the historic property was home (or temporary home) to legendary figures like Alan Ginsberg, Mark Twain, Tennessee Williams, Bob Dylan, Charles Bukowski, Dylan Thomas, Stanley Kubrick, Elaine Stritch, Ethan Hawke, Iggy Pop and Jimi Hendrix. Andy Warhol’s film “Chelsea Girls” was inspired by the hotel, Arthur Miller took escape from the headlines of his divorce from Marilyn Monroe to write After the Fall on site, and Sid Vicious brutally murdered Nancy Spungen on the “junkies” floor of the hotel. Though the hotel is currently closed for renovations,  many of their tenants are still in residency at 222 West 23rd Street.

Chelsea Market

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It’s no surprise that in just fifteen short years of operation with over thirty-five vendors Chelsea Market has grown into one of the greatest indoor food halls of the world. Hundreds of years ago Algonquin Indians traded game and crops on the banks of the Hudson in this prime location which now draws over six million tourists annually. With restaurants like “Iron Chef” Masaharu Morimoto’s signature Morimoto culinary destination and shops like Chelsea Wine Vault, Fat Witch, Artists & Fleas and Amy’s Bread the former National Biscuit Company factory (where the Oreo was invented) has never seen better days. Nearby top notch restaurants like Del Posto, Cookshop, Collichio & Sons, Scarpetta, Toro, Salinas, TAO Downtown and Buddakan rival the best of Manhattan.

The Chelsea Art Galleries

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There are big name museums but art aficionados know Chelsea art galleries are the ultimate source for an afternoon culture fix: Gagosian, David Zwirner, Pace Gallery, Milk Studios and Hauser & Wirth (located in the old Roxy) draw stars of the scene but up-and-comers also can be spotted at any one of the first rate exhibitions. On the hunt for something specific? The handy Chelsea Gallery Map holds the most up to date list on what’s up, what’s closing and what’s just around the corner. For slightly more mainstream and headlining attractions, the Whitney Museum of American Art holds court just south of the High Line. Pop in to check out their full range of twentieth-century and contemporary American Art, especially when their popular Biennial is on exhibition.

(Local’s Tip: The Biennial is open until 10PM on Fridays and Saturdays, the perfect spot for a neutral first or second date.)

Nightlife

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While the closing of big clubs like Roxy and Splash, and a variety of neighborhood haunts like the old View Bar, and more recent after-work favorite XES bar might have prompted many to consider nightlife in Manhattan was on the way to extinction many local favorites have continued to thrive. Barracuda celebrated its twentieth year of operation, G Lounge is still turning out fruity cocktails, eye candy, and even a fun “Drink and Draw” theme night, Boxers NYC is packed. Leather-themed Eagle is open every night of the week. Looking for something a little more upscale? The Top of the Standard (formerly called the Boom Boom Room) is definitely the spot for a high end cocktail.

Great shops like Buffalo Exchange, Malin+Goetz, and Nasty Pig and favorite restaurants like the classic Elmo, East of Eighth and Cafeteria will always be a draw. Health gurus can satiate their fitness needs at Chelsea Piers, Barry’s Bootcamp and the David Barton Gym in the old Limelight while arts fanatics can make a b-line to the old McKittrick Hotel for Sleep No More, take in a dance performance at the Joyce, or laugh their asses off at the Upright Citizen’s Brigade.

Sure, there are plenty of boy bars up town but Chelsea is still very much alive and kicking.

Have a favorite spot in Chelsea? Let us know in the comments section below.

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