Confessions Of Guys Who Are Crushing Hard On Straight Guys

Confessions Of Guys Who Are Crushing Hard On Straight Guys

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If you’ve never had a crush on a guy who turned out to be straight, you’re a rare breed.

And it isn’t some wild phenomenon at play where gay guys are being intoxicated by straight dudes’ pheromones or anything, it’s just simple math.

Most men on this blue marble of ours self-identify as straight. It’s just bound to happen — in high school, college, even later (but really, get it together if it keeps happening post-college age).

Below, we hear from guys on Whisper who are wading waist-deep in a pool of unrequited love with a straight guy.

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The worst part of falling in love with a straight guy is when you see him kiss her

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As a gay guy having a crush on a straight guy, knowing you two will never happen is just too painful in the gut ??

Falling in love with a straight guy is a bad idea..always will be..but he has a part of my heart

I have a crush on my "straight" guy friend and I am sitting here hoping he is in the closet

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Falling in love with a straight guy as a gay guy, is incredibly painful. Especially if you can

Ended up falling for a straight guy when I know it

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I fell in love with a straight guy knowing he will break my delicate heart. I just couldn

The worst feeling being gay is falling for a straight guy.... The best feeling is when they come out

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12 Hilarious Clinton VS Trump GIFs To Get You Through Neverending Campaigns

12 Hilarious Clinton VS Trump GIFs To Get You Through Neverending Campaigns

Are you already feeling a little exhausted by this year’s presidential election? Us, too. And we haven’t even made it to the first debate yet. In fact, we still have another 50 or so days to survive until this circus is finally–finally!–over. How will we ever make it?

Related: 6 Times Hillary Clinton Took Great Risks To Do The Right Thing For LGBTQs

To help you (and ourselves) make it through what is starting to feel like the longest campaign season ever, we’ve done a roundup of some of our favorite Clinton/Trump GIFs in hopes that a dose of levity will help get us through this seemingly neverending story.

Scroll down for some LOLs…

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Queen Elizabeth II’s Cousin Just Became the First Out Gay Member of the Royal Family

Queen Elizabeth II’s Cousin Just Became the First Out Gay Member of the Royal Family

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Lord Ivar Mountbatten, the Queen’s cousin, has come out as gay in an article in the Mail on Sunday and is the first member of the Royal Family to come out of the closet.

It is a decision which has the blessing of his ex-wife and children, his wider family and his life-long friend Prince Edward, to whose eldest child he is a godparent, as both the Earl and Countess of Wessex are to two of his daughters.

‘Being a Mountbatten was never the problem,’ he says, ‘it was the generation into which I was born. When I was growing up, it was known as “the love that dare not speak its name”, but what’s amazing now is how far we have all come in terms of acceptance.

‘”Coming out” is such a funny phrase but it’s what I suppose I did in a rather roundabout way, emerging to a place I’m happy to be. I have struggled with my sexuality and in some ways I still do; it has been a real journey to reach this point.’

RELATED: Prince William Makes History as First Royal to be Photographed for Cover of Gay Magazine: WATCH

Mountbatten, who is the great-great grandson of Queen Victoria, also introduced his partner, James Coyle. The couple met at Verbier, a resort in Switzerland.

If I were 2 marry Lord Ivar Mountbatten I’d only have 2 wait 4 499 to die before bcoming Queen #LGBT @RoyalFamily pic.twitter.com/oUVsxQ4erF

— Sr Iona Dubble-Wyde (@Sisteridw) September 17, 2016

The couple seems a bit stiff. You’re definitely not going to be seeing any PDA:

Both Lord Ivar and James grew up in an age when to be gay was to conform to what they call ‘a John Inman stereotype’, something they are determined to avoid. They have a pact: no public displays of affection unless it’s a hello or goodbye hug, never holding hands and no dancing together at parties. Today there are no endearments or pet names. ‘Soppy? Ugh, no, not us,’ says James.

Read the full story at the Mail.

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NY Governor Cuomo Briefs Reporters on Chelsea Bombing: ‘Obviously an Act of Terrorism’

NY Governor Cuomo Briefs Reporters on Chelsea Bombing: ‘Obviously an Act of Terrorism’

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Governor Andrew Cuomo briefed reporters on Sunday about the explosion which injured 29 people in the Chelsea neighborhood of Manhattan in New York City, telling them that “a bomb exploding in New York is obviously an act of terrorism” but that it did not appear to be an act of international terrorism. The bomb exploded on 23rd street between 6th and 7th Avenues in the middle of a long block in a dumpster in front of residential housing for the blind, a location that holds no special significance thus far in the investigation.

Scenes from Saturday night:

A second explosive device was found nearby on West 27th street, the NYT reports:

As the authorities sought to identify what had caused the explosion, they described the second device as a pressure cooker resembling the one used in the deadly Boston Marathon bombings in 2013, according to a police official, who spoke on the condition of anonymity to discuss a continuing investigation.

Cuomo said that all who were injured have been treated and released from hospitals.

Added Cuomo:

“We have no reason to believe at this time that there is any further immediate threat. But just to err on the side of caution, we will be deploying close to 1,000 state police and National Guard people to police the bus terminals, airports, and subway stations”

“Whoever placed these bombs, we will find and they will be brought to justice.”

Watch Cuomo’s press conference:

On Sunday morning, many streets in the neighborhood were still closed:

NEW: NYPD issues following traffic alert on current street closures in NYC in response to Manhattan explosion: pic.twitter.com/ILCMzY1jtR

— Good Morning America (@GMA) September 18, 2016

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HRC Mourns The Passing of Crystal Edmonds

HRC Mourns The Passing of Crystal Edmonds

On Friday, Baltimore police announced that 32-year old Crystal Edmonds, a transgender woman, died after being fatally shot early Friday morning. At the time of writing, no arrests have been made and authorities are requesting that anyone with information regarding Crystal’s death call the Baltimore police.

Few details are currently available about Crystal, her life, passions, and friends, but what is already clear is that her’s was a life lost far too early: Crystal is at least the 19th transgender person – nearly all transgender women of color – to be killed in 2016.  

On Thursday in Washington, D.C., police arrested a man in connection to the murder of Deeniquia “Dee Dee” Dobbs.  Dee Dee was shot in D.C. in July and was described by those who knew her as someone who “loved to make you laugh. Loved to make you smile.”

The recent passing of Crystal Edmonds serves as a reminder of the urgent crisis of violence facing many transgender people.

To learn more about the realities that conspire to put transgender people — especially transgender women of color — at risk of fatal violence, read HRC’s 2015 Addressing Anti-Transgender Violence report, released in partnership with the Trans People of Color Coalition (TPOCC). The report also details solutions that can be pursued by policymakers, advocates and public and private sector leaders to address this national crisis.

To learn more about HRC’s work to promote safety and well-being for transgender people, visit www.hrc.org/transgender.

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Must-See LGBT TV: 68th Primetime Emmys, brand new series 'Strut,' and the return of 'Transparent'

Must-See LGBT TV: 68th Primetime Emmys, brand new series 'Strut,' and the return of 'Transparent'

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Grab the remote, set your DVR or queue up your streaming service of choice! GLAAD is bringing you the highlights in LGBT on TV this week. Check back every Sunday for up-to-date coverage in LGBT-inclusive programming on TV.

The 68th Primetime Emmys air live on ABC Sunday night with the red carpet beginning at 7 and the show kicking off at 8pm. Several LGBTQ creators, actors, and inclusive series picked up nominations, check out the full list here.Orange is the New Black and Doubt star Laverne Cox will also be one of the evening’s presenters. 68th Primetime Emmys: Sunday, 8pm on ABC.

The new reality series Strut, executive produced by Whoopi Goldberg, premieres Tuesday night on Oxygen. The series follows transgender models Laith De La Cruz, Dominique Jackson, Isis King, Ren Spriggs and Arisce Wanzer as they try to make it in the business. The models are all signed to Slay Model Management, the first exclusively trans modeling agency. Strut: Tuesday, 9pm on Oxygen.

Amazon’s hit original series Transparent returns with all episodes of the third season premiering Friday. In the third season, Maura commits to a relationship with Vicki and takes a job fielding calls to a suicide prevention phone line at an LGBTQ center, Ali and Leslie navigate their new relationship, and Sarah finds a new path to spirituality. Transparent: all episodes Friday on Amazon Prime.

Sunday September 18: 68th Primetime Emmys (8pm, ABC); Power (8pm, Starz); Fear the Walking Dead (9pm, AMC)

Monday: Gotham (8pm, FOX); Mary + Jane (10pm, MTV); Major Crimes (10pm, TNT); Loosely Exactly Nicole (10:30pm, MTV)

Tuesday: Brooklyn Nine-Nine (8pm, FOX); Strut (9pm, Oxygen)

Wednesday: Hollywood Medium (8pm, E!); Modern Family (9pm, ABC); Empire (9pm, FOX); Mr. Robot (10pm, USA); Gaycation (10:30pm, Viceland)

Thursday: Superstore (8pm, NBC); Grey’s Anatomy (8pm, ABC); Rosewood (8pm, FOX); How to Get Away with Murder (10pm, ABC)

Friday: Transparent (Amazon)

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Servicing Hunks In Need, ‘Fifty Shades’ Derobes, ‘Scream Queens’ Gets Spooky And Studly

Servicing Hunks In Need, ‘Fifty Shades’ Derobes, ‘Scream Queens’ Gets Spooky And Studly

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Coming to Netfix this month: Lipglossy fashion mannequins clickety-clack in heels in Bratz: The Movie, bro; Kevin Bacon teaches a small-minded community there’s nothing wrong with dancing to Deniece Williams in Footloose; and Queen Latifah and Dolly Parton teach a megachurch’s choir how it’s done in Joyful Noise.

Puns and double entendres go into overdrive in a sketch that dares to ask, “What happens when a gay guy comes to the aid of two straight bohunks?”

Joe Jonas treats us to a preview of “your new favorite band” DNCE and the debut album on which he figured prominently (released November 18th):

This advert for Fifty Shades Darker just surpassed the record for most views online by a trailer in its first 24 hours, but do you think it’s even remotely sexy? Masquerade masks? FIREWORKS SYMBOLIZING SEX…!?!?

Here’s a new trailer for season 2 of Scream Queens, for those who like to meld their spooky with some studly.

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Be Very Afraid: 7 Ways Donald Trump Could Become Our Next President

Be Very Afraid: 7 Ways Donald Trump Could Become Our Next President

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The idea of someone like Donald Trump becoming the most powerful man in the world would  normally seem delusional. Unfortunately, we live in delusional times. Over the past week, it’s become increasingly clear that Trump has a fair chance of capturing the White House. Despite the fact that Trump is a policy ignoramus, a compulsive liar, a dealer in fraud, a white supremacist enabler, and an all-around creep, he has been inching up in the polls as Hillary Clinton‘s lead shrinks. And this would be very bad news indeed for all things LGBTQ.

Related: Donald Trump Thinks Anderson Cooper Is Temperamentally Unfit To Moderate Debate

In large part, that’s because of Clinton’s disastrous week: the news of her (mild) pneumonia coming out only after she appeared unstable in public, her comment that half of Trump’s supporters were a “basket of deplorables.” (Which, by the way is a classic gaffe: it’s undeniably true, but political civility forbids such comments–at least by Democrats.)

The odds still favor Clinton, but if the trend continues, that won’t last for long.

Scary as it is to consider, here are seven ways that Trump could actually become our next president.

1. Wavering Republicans make their peace with Trump

One of Trump’s main problems is that, compared to past GOP nominees, he is under-performing among key voting blocs, especially suburban women and college-educated professionals. If those voters decide that they would rather risk a Trump presidency, with all its unknowns, than a Clinton presidency, with its predictable agenda, Trump could start making up some lost ground.

2. Trump continues to temper his language

The shifting polls aren’t just because Clinton is doing worse as a candidate. It’s also because Trump is doing better. Up until last Friday, when he reverted back to his Big Lie strategy, Trump has been relatively calm, at least by Trump standards. No attacking Gold Star parents or federal judges. Intentionally muddying the water on his anti-immigration rhetoric. A benumbed press actually treated the candidate as if he were normal. If Trump can keep that up, the numbness may extend to voters who are uncomfortable with Clinton and want a change, no matter what.

3. Clinton has another health scare

 The last thing you want as a presidential candidate is footage of you looking like  you’re about to keel over, particularly when you haven’t told people you are sick. That’s the kind of thing that sows doubt in people’s minds. It also feeds another lie from Trump surrogates that Clinton is suffering from something more serious, like Parkinson’s or Alzheimer’s, which, of course, she is not. She’s healthier than he is, according to medical experts.

4. An October surprise frightens the country

If there is a terrorist attack, particularly if it’s large scale and on American soil, Trump will voice the visceral response, which is kill them all and let God sort them out. His rhetoric of retribution and demand for a policy change (guaranteed to be unspecified or nonsensical) will make him look like the strong candidate. Clinton is plenty hawkish, but Trump will blame Obama and by extension her for whatever happened. Voters may be scared and prefer the extreme response, not a measured one.

5. Clinton’s supporters end up concentrated in just a few states

It’s entirely possible that we could see a replay of 2000: the candidate who wins the popular votes loses the election. Clinton could rack up large margins in her strongholds, like California and New York, but if she loses by even a razor-thin margin in the swing states that matter–Ohio, Florida, Pennsylvania, chief among them–it won’t matter. Trump could lose by millions of votes nationwide, but if he wins the Electoral College, that’s the only thing that counts.

6. Third-party candidates siphon votes from Clinton

At present, at least, the two third-party candidates–Libertarian Gary Johnson and Green Party nominee Jill Stein–are polling far better than past third-party candidates. And their success comes at Clinton’s expense, especially with younger voters. (Bernie Sanders did not help Clinton in this regard.) If young voters decide that they want to send a message, their protest votes could siphon enough from Clinton to clear the way for Trump to win.

7. The mainstream media keep insisting on false equivalency

Judging from the volume of coverage in the press, you might think that the candidate whose foundation failed to deliver on State Department access to its big donors was just as bad as the candidate who routinely stiffs people working for him and rakes in money from scams. The mainstream media keeps replaying Clinton’s decisions, like her e-mail server, because there’s smoke there (and Clinton’s defensive crouch doesn’t help her). But there’s never any fire. Meanwhile, Trump is a towering inferno of unethical and possibly illegal practices. Yet the press doesn’t treat the two differently. The media shouldn’t pull it’s punches on Clinton, but right now it’s signalling voters that they are facing two equally bad choices.

Just in case you’ve been asleep for the past year, here’s a bulletin: Trump is a lot worse than Clinton.

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