Bi Guy Has Too Many Feelings, Isn’t Sure How To Cope

Bi Guy Has Too Many Feelings, Isn’t Sure How To Cope

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“If I go on a date with a girl and tell her I’m bi, she just thinks I’m gay. But if I go on a date with a guy and tell him I’m bi, he just thinks I’m definitely gay.”

This is just one of many largely unspoken dilemmas bisexual men face on daily basis. At least according to an episode of the new web series The Feels, created by Tim Manley.

Related: Bisexuals Answer Stupid Questions Commonly Asked By Gay People

The quirky and heartfelt series, which launched earlier this month and has quickly become our new favorite thing, is about a bisexual dude named Charlie who has “too many feelings.” The episodes are super-short, with a new one being released every day for the month of September.

Check out the episode “Visibility” below, and see more on the show’s YouTube channel

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Tim Kaine’s Bishop: The Catholic Church Isn’t Going to Change Its Position on Same-Sex Marriage

Tim Kaine’s Bishop: The Catholic Church Isn’t Going to Change Its Position on Same-Sex Marriage

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The bishop who presides over Democratic Vice Presidential nominee Tim Kaine’s diocese has responded to comments Kaine made on the campaign trail about gay marriage.

Kaine spoke at a Human Rights Campaign gala over the weekend, saying he believed the Catholic Church will eventually come out in favor of same-sex marriage.

Said Kaine,

“And I think [the church’s opposition to same-sex marriage is] going to change because my church also teaches me about a creator in the first chapter of Genesis, who surveyed the entire world, including mankind, and said, ‘It is very good. It is very good.’”

In a statement released on Tuesday, Bishop Francis X. DiLorenzo of the Diocese of Richmond said,

“More than a year after the U.S. Supreme Court’s ruling on marriage, and despite recent statements from the campaign trail, the Catholic Church’s 2000-year-old teaching to the truth about what constitutes marriage remains unchanged and resolute.”

He added, “Our understanding of marriage, however, is a matter of justice and fidelity to our Creator’s original design.”

DiLorenzo also called same-sex marriage a redefinition of marriage. “Redefining marriage furthers no one’s rights, least of all those of children, who should not purposely be deprived of the right to be nurtured and loved by a mother and a father,” he said.

CNN reports:

Kaine’s commitment to the Catholic Church often comes at odds with his progressive politics. Abortion rights activists have often been skeptical of Kaine because he describes himself as personally opposed to abortion like his church but believes in a woman’s right to choose like his party.

Kaine’s Catholic faith and specifically his home church on Richmond’s Northside play prominently in his narrative as a candidate. He even mentioned his church in his first speech after Clinton announced she had selected him as her running mate and attended Mass there the following Sunday.

Like Clinton, Kaine has only relatively recently become an ardent supporter of same-sex marriage. He did not announce that he officially supported the legal rights of gay couples who wanted to marry until 2013.

You can read Bishop DiLorenzo’s full statement, here.

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NEW MUSIC: Porches, SubRosa, Angel Olsen, Teenage Fanclub, Of Montreal, La Femme

NEW MUSIC: Porches, SubRosa, Angel Olsen, Teenage Fanclub, Of Montreal, La Femme

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This week in New Music: Porches (above) release a set of demos from recent album Pool, dystopian doom metal on album number four from SubRosaAngle Olsen sounds immaculate on My Woman and some albums you may have missed from Of MontrealLa Femme and Teenage Fanclub.


Porches – Water

PorchesWater by Porches collects six demos from the band’s recent album Pool along with two new tracks.

A collection of demos is something you’d usually expect from repackaged albums from long forgotten acts so what’s going on here? A vanity project of sorts, Water would appear to be Aaron Maine showing off his new production skills of which he was waxed lyrical. From that perspective the album is interesting for fans as it shows how songs are developed from their early stages to sad synth pop on display on Pool.

For non fans, Water in fact stands alone as an album. If you hadn’t come across Porches before you could listen to Water as a straight continuation of previous albums. Pool is better overall but some songs on Water – “Glow” in particular – reveal a depth not evident on the original release.


SubRosa – For This We Fought the Battle of Ages

subrosaOn their fourth full-length album, doom rock act SubRosa apparently used the 1924 novel We by Russian author Yevgeny Zamyatin as a starting point. We is generally recognized as a major influence on George Orwell’s 1984 and SubRosa are masters of dread so it makes sense that For This We Fought the Battle of Ages is the very embodiment of dystopian paranoia.

“WE tells the story of the minutely organized United State, where all citizens are not individuals but only he-Numbers and she-Numbers existing in identical glass apartments with every action regulated by the ‘Table of Hours.’ It is a community dedicated to the proposition that freedom and happiness are incompatible; that most men believe their freedom to be more than a fair exchange for a high level of materialistic happiness.”

More than one hour of this overwhelming darkness over six tracks will not be everyone’s cup of tea but if you’re searching for a sequel to Deafheaven’s Sunbather, search no further.


Angel Olsen – My Woman

angel-olsen-my-woman-albumThere has been a pleasing number of new releases this year from female artists – stand up Haley Bonar, Tanita Tikaram and Emmy the Great – and to that impressive list we can add Angel Olsen’s third album My Woman.

If like me you find that there is just so much new music these days so freely available, there’s a tendency to go for instant satisfaction. If it doesn’t hit in the first minute or so it’s time to move on. Not so with My Woman which opens with the beautiful, immaculate “Intern.” Followed by the 60s swing of “Never Be Mine” and the brilliant Tanya Donnelly-worthy “Shut Up and Kiss Me.” The loungey “Those Were the Days” is reminiscent of early Joan as Policewoman. Rounded off with the lovely “Pops,” Olsen is plainly paying homage to some of the recent greats (in this case Amanda Palmer?)

Ultimately there’s a lot to explore on this album.


Other Recent Releases of Note

Of Montreal – Innocence Reaches

La Femme – Mystère

Teenage Fanclub – Here

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North Carolina loses Atlantic Coast Conference championships because of HB2

North Carolina loses Atlantic Coast Conference championships because of HB2

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Following a Change.org petition, the Atlantic Coast Conference (ACC) announced that it will move out of North Carolina in response to the discriminatory law, HB2.

The author, South Carolinian Jim Prater, worked with GLAAD and Change.org to call on the ACC to follow in the footsteps of other organizations and businesses that have moved from North Carolina, comparing this situation to one from the ACC’s past. Prater, a graduate of Clemson University in the Palmetto State, wrote in the petition:

As a South Carolina resident, a Clemson University graduate, and a long time ACC supporter, I remember when the ACC moved its tournament out of South Carolina due to the Confederate Flag that flew on our State House grounds. Now, I am calling on the ACC to send a similarly strong signal of its support to all North Carolinians – just as it has done before – and take this tournament to another state, where all citizens are treated fairly and equally under the law.

In response, leadership from the ACC issued three statements to announce that it will be moving championship games and tournaments to “neutral locations.”

The ACC Council of Presidents issued a statement that said:

As members of the Atlantic Coast Conference, the ACC Council of Presidents reaffirmed our collective commitment to uphold the values of equality, diversity, inclusion and non-discrimination. Every one of our 15 universities is strongly committed to these values and therefore, we will continue to host ACC Championships at campus sites. We believe North Carolina House Bill 2 is inconsistent with these values, and as a result, we will relocate all neutral site championships for the 2016-17 academic year. All locations will be announced in the future from the conference office.

President James P. Clements, the president of Prater’s alma mater, Clemson University, and chair of the ACC Council of Presidents also issued a statement:

The ACC presidents engaged in a constructive, wide-ranging and vigorous discussion of this complex issue over the past two days. The decision to move the neutral site championships out of North Carolina while HB 2 remains the law was not an easy one but it is consistent with the shared values of inclusion and non-discrimination at all of our institutions.

ACC Commissioner John Swofford also spoke out:

The ACC Council of Presidents made it clear that the core values of this league are of the utmost importance, and the opposition to any form of discrimination is paramount. Today’s decision is one of principle, and while this decision is the right one, we recognize there will be individuals and communities that are supportive of our values as well as our championship sites that will be negatively affected. Hopefully, there will be opportunities beyond 2016-17 for North Carolina neutral sites to be awarded championships.

The announcement will affect Women’s Soccer, Football, Men’s and Women’s Swimming and Diving, Women’s Basketball, Men’s and Women’s Tennis, Women’s Golf, Men’s Golf, and Baseball. ACC schools include Boston College, Georgia Tech, NC State, Virginia, Clemson, Louisville, Notre Dame, Virginia Tech, Duke, Miami, Pitt, Wake Forest, Florida State, North Carolina, and Syracuse.

North Carolina’s HB-2 has been actively opposed by businesses, performers, advocates, and organizations because of its discriminatory nature. HB-2 asserts that state law overrides local nondiscrimination ordinances for LGBT people, and forces people to use the bathroom of the sex listed on their birth certificate rather than their actual gender identity, along with overriding all local ordinances addressing employment, wages, or public accommodations.

September 14, 2016

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Twitter Reacts To NC GOP’s Insane Response To NCAA Pulling Championship Games

Twitter Reacts To NC GOP’s Insane Response To NCAA Pulling Championship Games

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In case you missed it, the North Carolina Republicans doubled down on their long-term stay in crazy town with a statement about the NCAA moving championship games out of the state due to HB2 that should both get spokesperson Kami Mueller fired, and go down in the history books as a perfect example of how to dig a hole even deeper.

Mueller, taking the initiative to speak in the first person, says she looks forward to the NCAA merging men’s and women’s teams together.

Related: LGBTQ Rights Groups Ask Big 12 Not To Include BYU Over Discriminatory Policies

It only gets nuttier from there, asking how you can have men’s and women’s teams if you don’t have men’s and women’s locker rooms, despite the fact that no one is arguing for doing away with gendered bathrooms.

She also conveniently ignores the fact that the NCAA has progressive policies for transgender athletes in place, allowing trans men to participate in men’s sports and allowing trans women to participate in women’s provided they have been undergoing hormone replacement therapy for at least one year.

They do not require athletes to change the gender on their birth certificates in order to be considered legitimate, unlike in North Carolina as it relates to trans people using the bathrooms and locker rooms in government owned buildings.

Mueller then attempts to paint the NCAA as not concerned about the Baylor rape scandal, even though independent investigators placed the blame solely on the Christian university.

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The statement has been given a thorough line by line analysis by Slate, as well as Charlotte Magazine. Both are well worth reading.

Related: NCAA College Star Derrick Gordon Says NBA Didn’t Give Him A Shot Because He’s Gay

Slate calls it “deranged,” and Charlotte Magazine says it is a “statement for the ages,” but not in a good way.

Twitter has chimed in as well, and they are giving the NCGOP and Mueller, who just so happens to have a history of making jokes comparing trans people to animals, an earful.

Here are some of the best Tweets on the topic:

If the @NCGOP is so concerned about campus sexual assault, why did they kill my bill (HB815) on the issue last year? t.co/CH7woRXksl

— Rep. Graig Meyer (@GraigMeyer) September 13, 2016

bye-bye NCCA tourney hoops games, and bye-bye NBA All-Star game. GOP is doing wonders for NC t.co/kbGQwH3mQz

— Eric Boehlert (@EricBoehlert) September 13, 2016

.@NCGOP has declared war on @NCAA basketball… Seems like a winning NC political strategy. #hb2 #ncpol

— Chris Sgro (@cristoferosgro) September 13, 2016

Reading @kamimueller‘s #HB2 statement like pic.twitter.com/em5TQlYRtL

— Clay Pittman (@claypittman) September 13, 2016

I’m going to go out on a limb here & say that @kamimueller doesn’t seem to understand North Carolina’s bathroom law. t.co/qoiE8SnwlT

— Ben Spielberg (@BenSpielberg) September 13, 2016

GOP: How dare you call us deplorable!?

WORLD: Ok, maybe that was a bit hars—

NCGOP: [vomits transphobia, misogyny, awfulness in statement]

— Parker Molloy (@ParkerMolloy) September 13, 2016

Love me some #deplorables! @MicheleNixNCGOP @BillPeriman @TeamTrumpNC @blove65 @mitchellvii @JoeDanMedia @NCGOP pic.twitter.com/jhwIg5OH2U

— Deplorable Diana (@fancygap1) September 13, 2016

The last month for the @ncgop:
1. Surgical precision discrimination
2. Instruct local BOEs to suppress voting
3. HB2/Baylor rape comparison

— Doc Kennedy (@DocHeelfire) September 13, 2016

and apparently for writing incredibly sexist, offensive @NCGOP releases, too, @kamimueller t.co/9l4JYINlFD pic.twitter.com/y2enJEPjQs

— Laura Keeley (@laurakeeley) September 13, 2016

.@kamimueller Making North Carolina look drunk with every flick of the pen. #HB2 Seriously, go read her NCAA press statement– @TheOnion

— Nick Bankhead (@Nick314) September 14, 2016

Newly minted @NCGOP spox @kamimueller (used to b spox 4 various hate groups) has had way too much wine. #Hb2 #NCpol pic.twitter.com/9bl1Y7mLJi

— Montel Williams (@Montel_Williams) September 13, 2016

While Drafting @ncgop response to the @PatMcCroryNC statement on the #ncaa, @kamimueller searches for inspiration pic.twitter.com/ry0tLcdN5H

— Michelle Ferlauto (@MsFerlauto) September 14, 2016

Worst part is @kamimueller & @NCGOP think this way even when sober. They live in a very bizarre world. #ncpol #HB2 pic.twitter.com/sLTrIvBSuT

#ReadyForRoy (@ReadyForRoy) September 13, 2016

 

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Antigay Lawmaker Commits Suicide Ahead Of Fraud Trial, Still Wins Election

Antigay Lawmaker Commits Suicide Ahead Of Fraud Trial, Still Wins Election

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Antigay Republican lawmaker Bill Nojay, who was mired in legal troubles, died by suicide Friday morning, yet still won a primary race in in Western New York‘s  133rd Assembly district against challenger Rick Milne.

Nojay shot himself near his family plot in Rochester’s Riverside Cemetery.

Related: Antigay Politician Confronted By Gay Brother On Live TV (Video)

He was facing charges of fraud in Cambodia related to a $1 million investment in a proposed rice exporting operation gone bust and had been scheduled to appear in federal court Friday on fraud charges related to a $1.8 million trust fund he managed for a longtime client and friend, according to sources familiar with the case, the Democrat & Chronicle reports.

The Republican Party now has ten days to find a replacement candidate to run against Democratic challenger Barbara Baer. The Conservative, Independence and Reform parties all face the same situation, since they also nominated Nojay. Milne, who stopped campaigning when he learned of Nojay’s death, has informed Republican Party chairmen that he wishes to be the nominee.

Nojay was an early supporter of Donald Trump, encouraging him to run for governor of New York in 2013. He served as the co-chairman of Trump’s New York campaign committee.

He was a conservative, representing a conservative district, and had an antigay voting record, twice voting in favor of conversion therapy.

Related: Colin Powell In Hacked Emails: Trump ‘A Racist,’ ‘National Disgrace’

Milne had pitched himself as a less conservative alternative, saying he was in favor of gay marriage while appearing on a local radio show.

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Pulse Survivor Dies Mysteriously at House Party Just 3 Months After Orlando Massacre – VIDEO

Pulse Survivor Dies Mysteriously at House Party Just 3 Months After Orlando Massacre – VIDEO

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A young man who survived the Pulse massacre in Orlando on June 12 has died of unknown causes while attending a party in Tampa.

Chris Brodman was only 34 when he passed away unexpectedly while visiting friends.

The Orlando Sentinel reports:

Paramedics found him in the backyard and unsuccessfully attempted lifesaving measures. He died at the home.

Detectives didn’t find any evidence of trauma or violence, officials said. An autopsy was completed, but the cause of death won’t be determined until the results of toxicology tests are available.

Brodman had posted on social media and talked with local news outlets about how he survived the June 12 shooting in Orlando that left 49 people dead and more than 50 others injured.

More from Tampa Bay Times:

“I’ll never, ever understand this,” said his friend Ramses Tinoco, who was with Brodman the night of the Pulse shooting. “He was so young and he could have achieved his dreams and taken the second opportunity God had given us of living to another level. He had so much potential.”

Friends say Brodman, an outgoing redhead from Orlando, was at a party at the $1.2 million home at 12224 Garden Lake Circle in the Keystone area of Hillsborough County when he passed away. Investigators have not determined what caused his death.

Brodman had become one of the public faces of the Pulse massacre after he spoke with local news reporters about the harrowing night and his decision to get a tattoo to honor the victims who didn’t make it out of Pulse alive.

On the night of the shooting, he posted on Facebook that he had gone to Pulse to celebrate his birthday.

In the wake of the massacre, he would later write, “I look back and what stands out the most for me is how much support and love has been shown both here in Orlando and around the world.”

14232420_10154103900923821_2946973637809829465_nBrodman’s boyfriend has set up a GoFundMe page to help pay for Broadman’s funeral. He writes, 

My name is Cord Cedeno and Chris Brodman was the love of my life. We went to a birthday party out of town and he was killed and the circumstances of how he died is still unknown and being investigated. The funds raised will be used to cover funeral costs including services at the funeral home, burial, and installation of a headstone. No one deserved to die like he did and making sure his memory lives on is my main goal I won’t let whoever did this take away what an amazing person he was and the memories we made together. He deserves justice. Our families are working together to make sure he is laid to rest in peace and remembered for the kind and good man he was.  WE LOVE YOU CHRIS

[Top photo via Facebook; h/t Instinct]

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