These Guys’ Sex Lives May Leave You Puzzled. Are They On To Something?

These Guys’ Sex Lives May Leave You Puzzled. Are They On To Something?

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Self love is a uniting characteristic of peaceful, happy people, but it’s also one that is sorely lacking in many corners of the LGBTQ community. So many of our brothers and sisters are told from an early age that they aren’t good enough and never will be, and even though we seek out friends, lovers and acquaintances that insist otherwise, the damage often sticks around in our psychic crevices.

Reclaiming love for yourself can be a powerful step towards happiness, but it doesn’t happen over night and it can take on many forms.

For some, removing the cycle of sexual conquest can help get there. We’d never suggest this is the only course to take, or that it’s the right one for everyone, but taking a temporary break from lust can certainly help clear the mind.

Here’s what guys are saying about the process on Whisper:

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I am a gay guy. I deleted all the "dating" apps off my phone & have been celibate for the past 5 months. Fuck this hookup culture. I deserve better.

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As a gay guy, I am perfectly happy being celibate. I don

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Every other gay man thinks me being celibate is sooo boring. There is more to life. Let

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I recently decided to become celibate because I think it will be a positive change for me. No, I don

I have gained a bit of weight so I decided to be celibate for awhile. If I can

A friend of mine was diagnosed with HIV so I decided to become celibate because I

I feel like I used to be a sex addict and now that I

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Why We Really Really Really Really Really Really Like Carly Rae Jepsen: Gay Iconography

Why We Really Really Really Really Really Really Like Carly Rae Jepsen: Gay Iconography

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Even among the most beloved pop stars in modern memory, few have been embraced as quickly or fervently as Canadian bubblegum-pop princess Carly Rae Jepsen. A brief four-year stint in the public eye and only 2.5 (excellent) albums is typically tough to qualify as iconic, but there is a unique devotion Jepsen has inspired in her gay fans.

Part of the appeal lies in her perfectly-crafted earworms, unabashedly bathed in joy and unconcerned with the EDM and hip-hop stylings permeating the pop landscape. It’s pop music at its purest, and it is irresistible. The cost of eschewing a lot of what’s driving popular music today has also made Jepsen something of an underdog across the pop landscape — an attribute that only endears her more to her gay fans. (One of our favorite examples is the gay guy who got tackled off his bicycle for accidentally riding into Pres. Obama’s motorcade on his way to a hookup while blasting “Call Me Maybe” in his headphones.)

And the feeling is mutual. Jepsen’s been an stalwart supporter of the LGBTQ community since appearing on the scene. She’s been vocal on social media, performed at Pride celebrations and even canceled a 2013 performance with the Boy Scouts of America, tweeting “As an artist who believes in equality for all people, I will not be participating in the Boy Scouts of America Jamboree this summer.”

“In Canada, I had tons of friends who I grew up with who are gay or lesbian,” she told PrideSource in a 2015 interview. “I had one friend in particular, and I saw just how hard it was for him when his family found out he was gay – they shunned him, actually. He thought he was gonna have to make it on his own and move out – it was heartbreaking for all of us. We didn’t really understand it, and that’s probably when I began to really get angry about the pain that was caused for what I thought was no reason. Moving to the U.S. and seeing how big of an issue it is made me want to help and bring awareness to the subject.”

Surrender yourself to CRJ’s pop perfection with a few of our favorite clips below.

Before she topped the charts with “Call Me Maybe,” Carly Rae Jepsen was a top-three finalist on Canadian Idol. She wowed the judges with an audition of an original song, and she competed with performances of “Torn,” “Come to My Window” and Queen’s “Killer Queen.”

Of course, you can’t talk about CRJ without talking about her worldwide smash “Call Me Maybe.” The infectious tune that launched 1,000 lip dubs was propelled into the collective consciousness when Justin Bieber tweeted about it to his millions of rabid social media followers. The ensuing buzz rocketed the track to the top of the charts. The song’s video included a cheeky twist wherein the object of Jepsen’s innocent crush turns out to be gay, seeding an early relationship with her gay fans. “When we shot the ‘Call Me Maybe’ video, we weren’t even thinking the ending was not normal,” she told TIME Magazine during the peak “Call Me Maybe” mania in 2012. “I have so many gay friends that I love. It’s a regular thing. And if my video is encouraging that mind frame with other children and other people — well, it’s about time, I guess!”

Although the full-length album rushed out to capitalize on the success of “Call Me Maybe,” Kiss was full of stellar tracks that further proved her pop mastery, yet it struggled commercially. Jepsen took time away from the pop music machine for a stint on Broadway playing the titular Cinderella opposite Fran Drescher. She described the experience to Elle Canada: “Being around people who not only didn’t care if you were in the pop world but actually preferred if you weren’t took my head out of that game in a really healthy way. Suddenly, it wasn’t about sitting down and writing a song but having an idea while walking through New York City and thinking ‘Where’s my phone?’” Jepsen would revisit musical theater with an appearance in Fox’s Grease Live in 2016.

When Jepsen was ready to release her follow-up to Kiss, she had more than 200 songs from which to whittle down the final tracklist. The final batch of ‘80s-synth inspired gems featured contributions from queer artists like Dev Hynes (aka Blood Orange), Vampire Weekend’s Rostam Batmanglij and Sia. Despite a tepid commercial response, the album cemented Jepsen as a critical darling. Check out the relentlessly charming video for E•MO•TION’s lead single “I Really Like You” above. Last month, Jepsen released another eight tracks from the E•MO•TION sessions as a special B-side album, once again drawing praise from critics.

Queer aesthetics are in full display in Jepsen’s “Boy Problems” video. The subtext of the song’s lyrics — about caring more about a relationship with a close female friend than a break-up with a boyfriend — already led to Jezebel calling it “A Beautiful Gay Song of Discovery.” The video has tiaras, slumber parties, coffin selfies, glitter, sequins, dance parties; it’s a 2016 Lisa Frank dark, twisted fantasy. It also prominently features trans model Torraine Futurum.

What’s your favorite Carly Rae Jepsen song?

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Hillary Clinton Emerges ‘Feeling Much Better’ Following ‘Overheated’ Exit from 9/11 Event: VIDEO

Hillary Clinton Emerges ‘Feeling Much Better’ Following ‘Overheated’ Exit from 9/11 Event: VIDEO

Hillary Clinton abruptly left a September 11th Commemoration Ceremony at the 9/11 Memorial after just an hour and a half. Aides reported that Clinton was feeling “overheated”. Clinton was taken by van to her daughter Chelsea’s apartment in NYC’s Gramercy neighborhood.

Clinton emerged late Sunday morning from the apartment smiling at reporters and saying she was “feeling much better.”

Video: @HillaryClinton departs Chelsea Clinton’s NYC apartment: t.co/JvxjpKBz9O

— Frank Thorp V (@frankthorp) September 11, 2016

The Washington Post reported on the earlier event:

Just before noon, it was 82 degrees and humid at Ground Zero, though it was probably a bit cooler when Clinton left two hours earlier. Reporters traveling with Clinton could not see her directly, but the politicians around her were all standing and packed tightly together. It was not clear if she was standing in direct sunlight, but there was not much shade anywhere at the service.

Rep. Joe Crowley (D-N.Y.) told MSNBC that Clinton seemed “perfectly normal” when he encountered her earlier at the ceremony. He noted that it “was incredibly stifling” at the event and several people were sweating through their clothes.

A video allegedly taken as she was leaving the 9/11 memorial shows Clinton being assisted on to her van by aides. NBC New York reported that “the NYPD was sent to pick up a shoe that fell off her foot.”

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— Zdenek Gazda (@zgazda66) September 11, 2016

EARLIER:

On Saturday, Clinton said she regretted remarks she made on Friday night which pointed out that the Trump campaign uses hate speech to draw supporters, characterizing half of Trump’s supporters as a”racist, sexist, homophobic xenophobic, Islamaphobic” “basket of deplorables.”

Said Clinton in the remarks:

I know there are only 60 days left to make our case–and don’t get complacent, don’t see the latest outrageous, offensive, inappropriate comment and think well he’s done now. We are living in a volatile political environment.

You know, just to be grossly generalistic, you could put half of Trump’s supporters into what I call the basket of deplorables. They’re racist, sexist, homophobic, xenophobic, Islamaphobic — you name it. And unfortunately there are people like that. And he has lifted them up. He has given voice to their websites that used to only have 11,000 people – now have 11 million. He tweets and retweets their offensive, hateful, mean-spirited rhetoric.

Now some of these folks, they are irredeemable, but thankfully they are not America.

But the other basket–and I know this because I see friends from all over America here–I see friends from Florida and Georgia and South Carolina and Texas–as well as, you know, New York and California–but that other basket of people are people who feel that the government has let them down, the economy has let them down, nobody cares about them, nobody worries about what happens to their lives and their futures, and they’re just desperate for change. It doesn’t really even matter where it comes from. They don’t buy everything he says, but he seems to hold out some hope that their lives will be different. They won’t wake up and see their jobs disappear, lose a kid to heroin, feel like they’re in a dead end. Those are people we have to understand and empathize with as well.

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Clinton on Saturday expressed “regret” over the remarks but it was not an apology:

“I won’t stop calling out bigotry and racist rhetoric in this campaign.” —Hillary pic.twitter.com/C3Z7GybJ53

— Hillary Clinton (@HillaryClinton) September 10, 2016

Trump released a statement on Saturday defending his hateful, racist, and bigoted campaign:

“Isn’t it disgraceful that Hillary Clinton makes the worst mistake of the political season and instead of owning up to this grotesque attack on American voters, she tries to turn it around with a pathetic rehash of the words and insults used in her failing campaign?” Trump said in a statement. “For the first time in a long while, her true feelings came out, showing bigotry and hatred for millions of Americans.”

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“Showgirls” Remade With Bears, New Celine Dion, And Natalie Portman as Jackie O.

“Showgirls” Remade With Bears, New Celine Dion, And Natalie Portman as Jackie O.

Showgirls becomes Showbears. That is all.

Belted by Celine Dion and written by Pink, the brand-new ballad “Recovering” is more drama than a nun on fire.

When businessmen in heels collide with toe-tappin’ construction workers, you know you’re into something good.

If that did nothing for you, we’ll raise you the most outrageous choreography to Michael Sembello’s “Maniac” you can possibly imagine. It’s ketamine on legs.

A sneak peak at Jackie, in which Natalie Portman alchemically transforms into Jackie Kennedy:

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Roger Ailes Is A Big, Fat Idiot

Roger Ailes Is A Big, Fat Idiot

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Until he was forced to resign last month in the wake of sexual harassment allegations (which Ailes denied but Fox just settled for 20 million big ones), Roger Ailes was the head–some would say dictator–at Fox News. Ailes had the insight 20 years ago to build a news empire based on fanning the fears of his conservative (and older) audience. He created an outlet for every loony right-wing trope and a home for every spittle-flecked commentator.

But every account, Ailes was Fox News: his ideas and prejudices became the network’s content.

The result wasn’t just the highest-rated news channel. Fox News contributes 20 percent of total profits to its corporate parents and generates twice the profit of politically centrist competitor CNN. It’s also a venue for the most reliably homophobic arguments and talking heads, giving both a degree of visibility that they would never have otherwise had. It made the fringe mainstream.

That’s bad enough. But the real problem is the control Fox News has over the Republican party. What started out as a propaganda arm for the GOP changed over the years. Now it sets the agenda for the party. By feeding its viewers a constant diet of outrage and pushing the debate ever further to the right, the Republican party is now hostage to what Ailes created.

Which means even if the GOP wanted to change it’s views on gay rights, it couldn’t. Because one man–Roger Ailes–was hostile to change, and he was using a highly successful news outlet to tell the party base what it should think. And when it came to gay issues, the message was vicious because Ailes is personally deeply homophobic.

Multiple stories attest to how much Ailes despised us. He tossed gay slurs around with abandon. He called David Brock, a former right-wing hit man turned liberal, a “faggot.” (Brock happens to be gay.) But no one was spared Ailes’ disdain, not even the billionaire boss’s son. Watching James Murdoch on a security camera outside Fox headquarters, Ailes remarked to a colleague, “Tell me that mouth hasn’t sucked a cock.” He even advised George H. W. Bush not to wear short-sleeved shirts while campaigning for president in 1988 because “you’ll look like a fucking faggot.”

And it wasn’t just hatred. It was paranoia. Ailes wanted “bombproof glass” (which doesn’t exist) installed in his executive suite because  “homosexual activists are going to be down there every day protesting. … And who knows what the hell they’d do.”

Is it any wonder that Fox News became the kind of place where a reporter “investigates” gay pride parades, hosts trash a trans teen, and an “expert” links being gay to “serious psychological impediments”?

For a while it looked like there were glimmers of glasnost in the gulag, with the elevation of Megyn Kelly. But that hope was short lived. One clear sign was the story that Fox News anchor Shepard Smith wanted to come out as gay, only to have Ailes squash the request and demote Smith.

And that’s just within the organization. For the Republican party, the situation is much, much worse. The party is in complete disarray, saddled with an unqualified presidential nominee and stuck with stances that it knows have to change. (It’s no surprise that Trump started spreading his conspiracy theories about President Obama during appearances on Fox last year.) The party’s post-mortem after the 2012 election acknowledged its stand on gay issues (among many others) had to go.

But after being told for years about how nefarious the gay agenda is, Fox News viewers aren’t about to let the party change. If anything, they are turning on Fox for not being sufficiently homophobic. When Shepard Smith criticized Kim Davis with the line “haters are going to hate,” the right-wing went ballistic. Never mind that erstwhile Fox News contributor Mike Huckabee was virtually glued to the Kentucky clerk throughout her self-imposed ordeal.

Long-time critics of Fox News are probably feeling pretty good about the disarray that the channel is currently in. But any pleasure from Ailes’ fall should be short-lived. For one thing, the network he created is still out there, churning out ridiculous and false stories, such as the one’s questioning Hillary Clinton’s health. 

More to the point, Ailes is now advising Donald Trump on his campaign. Ailes has plenty of campaign experience, of course. He started his political career by advising Richard Nixon on his 1968 campaign, to which we can date the ugly turn in American politics. We all know how that ultimately turned out.

And that should give all of us plenty of cause to worry.

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PHOTOS: Perk Up With Hot Coffee, Hotter Guys

PHOTOS: Perk Up With Hot Coffee, Hotter Guys

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The smell of freshly roasted beans; the sound of the grindr grinder; the bitter taste of the first sip. Is there any routine as dependably satisfying as that morning cup of joe?

Well, perhaps the one that soon follows — a prolonged trip to the restroom while scrolling through Instagram. Come on, you know you do it. We all do.

Now you can scratch both itches at the same time with the magic of Men and Coffee, an Insta feed that combines two of our most favorite things in the universe — caffeine and half-naked guys.

It’s going to be a good day:

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