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This Closeted Sailor Was Accidentally Outed, What Happened Next May Surprise You
This Closeted Sailor Was Accidentally Outed, What Happened Next May Surprise You
Conner Curnick, photo via Outsports.
Coming out in the military used to be impossible. The repeal of “Don’t ask, don’t tell” has changed that reality, but it is still a scary prospect for many.
That was certainly the case for Conner Curnick, who worried his Navy buddies would never accept his sexual orientation were the truth to come to light. When it did, he was in tears, and he found acceptance from others as well as within himself.
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Curnick tells his story in a moving personal essay he penned for Outsports. Why Outsports? Becuase he just so happens to be a competitive water polo player and runner, as well.
Curnick competing in a Reebok Spartan Race, via Outsports.
Curnick says he was heading back to his quarters at a naval base in Pensacola, Fla. after spending the night with a guy he was seeing, when he felt his phone begin to buzz.
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It turns out someone had discovered a photograph of him with another guy on the back of his motorcycle. His friends were asking him if he was gay. He decided to tell the truth.
I was alone at the time and in tears, and I decided to come clean — yes, I’m gay, I told them. The reactions started coming in and, to my relief and surprise, they were overwhelmingly positive. While I did lose a few friends, the ones closest to me became even closer, because I no longer had to lie about who I was and for the first time they knew what was really going on in my life.
He reports that his life began to flourish when he started living as an openly gay man, although there was some push back.
This past spring, in combat training before my deployment to Afghanistan, someone found out I was gay, walked up to me and said, “I’m glad I’m not deploying with you, I wouldn’t trust a fag with my life.” This despite the fact I was one of the better marksmen and performers in my class. I use comments like that to fuel my fire to succeed in everything that I do.
He says that homophobic slurs were commonplace while he was enlisted in the Navy Special Warfare Program. Those sentiments kept him in the closet.
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When the truth was revealed, Curnick was surprised at the reactions.
I feared I would be rejected by people I once was friends with, terrified that the leadership above me would look at me as less of a man, or that any accomplishment I have will be attributed to me being gay, and not my merit. I was completely and utterly wrong. In fact, some of the most vocally homophobic people ended up being my biggest supporters.
He says he is now a much happier, productive and successful person and that while he still faces discrimination he is working to fight back against those antiquated ideas.
I am currently working with fellow LGBT sailors to start an organization at my base for LGBT service members to promote understanding and ensure equality in the workplace. I hope that in the future, people won’t have to “come out,” but they can simply say this is my boy/girlfriend and be accepted by everyone.
Read the entire essay at Outsports here.
Related: PHOTOS: Gay Soldiers Ask And Tell In New Portrait Project
This Gay Sanders Delegate Isn’t 100 Percent On Board With Hillary Yet… But Never Say Never
This Gay Sanders Delegate Isn’t 100 Percent On Board With Hillary Yet… But Never Say Never
The Democratic National Convention is moving along, more or less, and now Breitbart has found a gay guy with a goofy hat to talk about why he’s reluctant to support Hillary. Check out the short video interview, which is surprisingly sensible considering who recorded it:
The headline on the video is a little dumb: “Gay Sanders Delegate from CA Explains Why He’s ‘Never Hillary’” but that’s not exactly what the guy says.
In the interview, he points out that even though we have gay marriage now, there are plenty of other issues left to address: “you could be fired from your job, you could lose your housing, you could be denied the right to go to various businesses for services.”
He also emphasizes that Bernie and his supporters aren’t giving up.
“I don’t believe he’s conceded — or at least conceded in terms of this progressive movement, which I will continue to move along with as well as others in this party.”
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Still, he never says that he won’t vote for Hillary, just that she hasn’t done as much as Bernie. And that’s an interesting observation — maybe he’s right, maybe Hillary hasn’t proven herself. All she’s done is declare that “gay rights are human rights” as Secretary of State.
Oh, and she also launched a Global Equality Fund to promote international LGBT equality.
Then there were the times she voted against banning gay marriage, voted for nondiscrimination protection in the workplace, voted against gay adoption bans, and implemented hate crime legislation.
Also, she passed the UN’s first ever LGBT human rights resolution. And made it easier for trans people to get passports. And was the first First Lady ever to march in a Pride parade.
But whatever. Bernie would probably have been a good president for LGBTQs as well. But he’s not running anymore, so oh well! At this point there are two ways the election can go. One on your choices has done stuff for gays, and the other hasn’t. Tough choice!
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Hillary Clinton Makes History as First Woman Nominated for President by Major Political Party: WATCH
Hillary Clinton Makes History as First Woman Nominated for President by Major Political Party: WATCH
Hillary Clinton has officially become the Democratic Party’s nominee for president of the United States, the first woman to ever be nominated by a major political party for that office.
Clinton secured the requisite number of delegates to secure the nomination during a roll call vote that took place during the second day of the Democratic National Convention in Philadelphia. There had been some discussion as to whether the roll call vote would take place or whether Bernie Sanders would nominate her by acclamation as Clinton did for Barack Obama in 2008. A roll call vote went forward after those close to Sanders suggested it was important for his delegates to publicly cast their votes for him.
In the end, however, it was Sanders who stepped up the mic after every state had weighed in and called for the convention to name Clinton as the party’s nominee by acclamation.
The chair accepted that motion and a thunderous chorus of “ayes” declared themselves in favor of that motion, making Clinton the nominee.
In a culmination of days’ worth of efforts to unify the party, Sanders himself moved at the conclusion of the lengthy state-by-state roll call vote – after Clinton had won a majority of delegates but before her formal nomination was announced to the thousands gathered in the Wells Fargo Center — to nominate Clinton by acclimation.
“I move that all votes cast by delegates be reflected in the official record, and I move that Hillary Clinton be selected as the nominee of the Democratic Party for president of the United States,” he announced from the convention floor as delegates roared their approval.
Clinton celebrated the nomination with a tweet that included the photo at top with the simple caption, “History.”
Watch Sanders nominate Clinton by acclamation, below.
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Larry Sanders, Slaves, Miss Cleo, VMAs, Justin Bieber, DNC: NEWS
Larry Sanders, Slaves, Miss Cleo, VMAs, Justin Bieber, DNC: NEWS
ROLL CALL. Larry Sanders casts votes for his brother Bernie in emotional moment during the DNC’s roll call vote.
Powerful. (full clip: t.co/EOyaskeRP6)#DemsInPhilly t.co/qM2rG7Itu1
— Maddow Blog (@MaddowBlog) July 26, 2016
FASHION. This style goddess won the DNC best dressed award. And we’re barely into day 2.
MUSIC. Lyric video for Tinashe’s “Superlove.”
FACTS THAT SHOULDN’T REQUIRE CLARIFICATION. Yes, slaves built The White House.
Michelle Obama is right – the White House was indeed built by slaves starting in 1792. t.co/qRjgMaad2Z pic.twitter.com/9FUXt5KPQx
— World News Tonight (@ABCWorldNews) July 26, 2016
FEUDS. Demi Lovato and Perez Hilton are having it out on Twitter.
DASVIDANIYA. More evidence to suggest Russia tied to hacking of DNC: “The noose is tightening around Russia.”
HATE-MONGERING. Hillary Clinton slams Donald Trump for ambiguous yet tacit support for KKK leaders.
RIP. Miss Cleo has passed away at 53: “A rep for Miss Cleo — whose real name was Youree Harris — tells us she died Tuesday morning in Palm Beach County, FL. We’re told she was recently hospitalized, but was discharged last week to a hospice center. We’re told Cleo was originally diagnosed with colon cancer … but it spread to her liver and lungs.”
AUTOPSY. Cause of death finally determined in death of Tobias M. Strebel, who became famous for having plastic surgery to look like Justin Bieber: “a lethal mix of pain killers, alcohol and anti-anxiety medicine [killed Strebel], authorities say…Lab tests showed Xanax, Valium, and Ativan in his liver, along with codeine and morphine.”
JUSTIN BIEBER. In unrelated Bieber news, Justin Bieber doesn’t want to do a gay sex scene in an upcoming movie about a pop star: “He won’t take the part unless the sex scene with him and one of the male backup dancers is taken out of the final script.”
DNC. Bernie Sanders’ former press secretary unleashes Tweetstorm disabusing Sanders’ supporters of the notion that the election was stolen from them.
But let me be clear – NO ONE STOLE THIS ELECTION! Team Sanders we did AMAZING WORK. But we lost. It’s a hard reality for some.
— Symone D. Sanders (@SymoneDSanders) July 25, 2016
MISOGYNY. ‘Hillary Clinton’s entire career has been set to a soundtrack of shouting.’
MUSIC VIDEOS. MTV announces 2016 VMA nominees. Beyoncé and Adele lead the pack. Notable ‘snubs’ include Taylor Swift and Nick Jonas.
CARPOOL KARAOKE. Apple TV buys Late Late Show segment, promises new episodes weekly via Apple Music.
TOO HOT FOR TUESDAY. Dee Jaxon.
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Introducing Trump, N.C. Governor Pat McCrory Reminds Us He's Still a 'Potty Prefect'
Introducing Trump, N.C. Governor Pat McCrory Reminds Us He's Still a 'Potty Prefect'
Meanwhile, reporters at right-wing media outlets are filming Democratic convention attendees using the all-gender restroom in Philadelphia.
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Young Gay Republican Explains Why He’s Okay with GOP’s Homophobic Platform: WATCH
Young Gay Republican Explains Why He’s Okay with GOP’s Homophobic Platform: WATCH
After the GOP stunned the political world with its most anti-LGBT platform in the party’s 162-year history with provisions supporting gay conversion therapy, endorsing anti-trans bathroom bills, and even denying marriage rights for LGBT couples, it became noticeably harder for gay Republicans to stand by their party.
Rachel Hoff, the first openly gay Republican on the party’s platform committee considered leaving the Republican Party for the first time in her life.
Log Cabin Republicans’ president Gregory T. Angelo couldn’t hide his disappointment and wrote on a fundraising email: “There’s no way to sugar-coat this: I’m mad as hell — and I know you are, too.”
But that didn’t stop Colton L. Buckley, a young gay Republican from Texas, from showing his love and support for a party which doesn’t exactly love and support him the same way.
In full Texan gear, complete with a cowboy hat, a Texas pin and a red bow tie, Buckley explained to Slate why he’s still a GOP supporter: “I’d rather deal with a Republican who’ll say ‘I don’t necessarily agree with you,’ than deal with someone who aligns themselves with Hillary Clinton and the Democrats,” he said adding that “the Clinton Foundation has taken tens of millions of dollars from Saudi Arabia nations, [sic] where if I live there as a gay man, I’d be publicly executed.”
Buckley is a “practicing Baptist” who is “found in church every Sunday morning.” He came out of the closet two days after the Orlando tragedy and said that he got “lots of support from federal, state and local officials, party activists, etc.”
He feels embraced by the party “for the most part,” except for that “slim, quarter-page of the platform,” referring to what The New York Times called the most extreme Republican platform in memory.
But the small detail in the platform that states that “our laws and our government’s regulations should recognize marriage as the union of one man and one woman,” doesn’t bother Buckley too much. The self described “fiscally conservative and socially awesome” young Republican is not a big fan of equality, anyway. “I may be one of the most conservative gay Republicans here because of the fact that I don’t believe in same-sex marriage,” he said.
“Marriage is a religious term between a man and a woman,” he concluded.
Watch the full video below:
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This Is What It’s Like To Have Your Gay Sex Tape Posted Online – WATCH
This Is What It’s Like To Have Your Gay Sex Tape Posted Online – WATCH
A gay Singaporean man is opening up about having a sex tape he made posted online and shared without his consent.
Lokies Khan spoke with YouTube channel “Dear Straight People” about how the experience felt like a violation. “The main reason why [the incident] affected me so much was because this is not something I want people to see,” Khan says.
While Khan is no stranger to showing off his body on his Instagram account, he says the key difference between posting a sexy selfie and having his sex tape leaked was that he didn’t get to make the decision about posting the sex tape. He had no control.
Khan explains, “Things that I post on Instagram are things that are within my control, are things I want people to see, [that] I’m comfortable with people to look at. But these gifs of me on Tumblr are not within my control. I did not give consent. I did not know it was there.”
Khan also calls out “backstabbing, slandering, gossiping, shaming” and “judgment’” in the gay community.
Of ‘revenge porn’, Khan drives home how dangerous it can be: “There are people out there who wouldn’t have the mental capacity to cope with this. These are things that are potentially lethal. It could destroy someone’s life.”
For others that have been victimized, Khan says, “You are not alone. I get what you’re feeling. There is nothing to be ashamed of.”
Watch, below.
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