How to Support Diverse Families this Holiday Weekend

How to Support Diverse Families this Holiday Weekend

Post submitted by Charles Girard, Coordinator, HRC Welcoming Schools

This weekend, people across the country will gather with friends and family at barbecues and picnics to celebrate the Fourth of July.

As with any social gathering, children will likely encounter families that look different from theirs. This  may bring up questions such as:

“Why does he have two moms?”

“How come his dad is white but his mom is Asian?”

“How come her skin color is different than her parents’?”

How would you answer these questions? HRC’s Welcoming Schools resource ,“Yes, They Are A Family!” provides answers to these questions and many more. The guide offers sample responses to real-life questions, inquiries and statements about diverse families.

Do the young people in your life have other questions about diversity and LGBTQ people? The Welcoming Schools’ website has plenty of resources to help you answer all kinds of questions like:

“Why does he wear dresses?”

“Can two men get married”

“Why is her hair short? She looks like a boy!”

For all of that and more, check out welcomingschools.org.

HRC Welcoming Schools is a comprehensive approach to creating respectful and supportive elementary schools with resources and professional development to embrace family diversity, create LGBTQ-inclusive schools, prevent bias-based bullying and gender stereotyping, and support transgender and gender-expansive students.

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Antigay Benham Bros Urge Christians To Be Like Chocolate Chips

Antigay Benham Bros Urge Christians To Be Like Chocolate Chips

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Fresh off the heels of their post-Orlando “We love the gays!” vomit-inducing vlog, the antigay Benham Brothers are back. This time, they’re plugging their crappy new book about the how Christians can survive in a “cookie dough of culture” that has been poisoned by liberals, Pagans, atheists and–you guessed it!–gay people.

Related: After Orlando, Benham Brothers Love Gays So Much They Want To Help Them Turn Straight With Jesus

This week, the twinsies sat down with Fox & Friends to talk about their book and that time they were fired from their HBTV reality show for being homophobic.

When introducing the brothers, co-host Ainsley Earhardt told viewers, “HGTV cancelled the Benham Brothers home renovation show before it ever aired because of the brothers’ Christian and pro-life beliefs.”

She left out the part about how they blamed “homosexuality and its agenda” for “attacking the nation” and warned of “demonic ideologies” that are corrupting public schools.

Related: Benham Brothers Fear “Poisonous Vine” Of Gayness Choking And Raping “Every Sphere Of America”

During the interview, David said they wrote the new book “to encourage Christians to stand up and be strong because we have Jesus Christ inside of us, we have the light of the world.”

“People of faith oftentimes want to be silent,” he added, “and now is not the time to be silent when darkness rises, it’s time to turn the light on.”

Then Earhardt asked about the reality show. Without getting into specifics, Jason replied by saying a “media firestorm” was ignited, causing “networks to stay away from us.” Then he cracked a joke about how network execs thought the brothers were “toxic.”

“Oh, you’re soooo toxic,” Earhardt giggled. “You’re teaching love.

Related: Benham Brothers Don’t Want To Live In “Bizarro World” Where Christians Can’t Discriminate Against Gays

But things got especially nutty towards end of the interview, when Jason compared Christians to chocolate chips.

“We’ve got to be the chocolate chips of the cookie dough of culture,” he said. “We mix in. We don’t blend in. And we keep our distinct form. Even when put into a furnace!”

“That means you’re the best part,” Earhardt purred in response.

Watch the interview below. Or don’t.

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12 Groundbreaking Music Videos By Gay Artists

12 Groundbreaking Music Videos By Gay Artists

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Even before the days of MTV, artists have been rocking the needle forward for LGBT visibility with groundbreaking music videos showing the beauty of our lives, loves, and perseverance.

It’s a tradition that continues today, and while we’re thankful to have an army of allies who have used their art to stand with us in solidarity over the years, there is no substitute for the feeling that comes from seeing our stories told by members of our own community.

As we near the end of LGBT Pride month, we’re turning up the volume and celebrating our past, present and future with these 12 landmark videos by gay artists who were unafraid to let their rainbow flag fly high.

1. Village People, “Macho Man” (1978)
This homoerotic-fueled ode to masculinity was a feast for snacking eyes in the seventies. The super-sized serving of sexuality was initially unnoticed by a majority of straight fans while this track was blowing up the charts, but gay men knew exactly what they were seeing.

2. George Michael, “Outside” (1998)
Only a few short months after George Michael was arrested for soliciting sex from an undercover cop in a Beverly Hills bathroom, the pop icon embraced his newly-out status with this satirical music video.

3. Divine, “You Think You’re a Man” (1984)

Long before RuPaul commanded us to “work,” legendary drag diva (and John Waters muse) Divine rocked out with her wig out, and gave men everywhere a timeless lesson in masculinity.

4. Frankie Goes to Hollywood, “Relax” (1984)

The original music video for the synth bands’ safe-sex anthem featured adventures at a BDSM gay bar. However, it was quickly banned by MTV and the BBC. The band was forced to film the SFW version that became a staple of the eighties, but the original continues to live on in internet infamy.

5. Le1f, “Wut” (2014)

From the rhymes (“I’m gettin light in my loafers”) to the unabashed lap dance with a hunk in a Pokémon mask, Le1f’s “Wut” takes a wrecking ball to assumptions that hip hop is a realm reserved for heterosexual artists.

6. Troye Sivan, “Blue Neighbourhood Trilogy” (2015)

A groundbreaking tale of young love unfolds over the course of three music videos from Troye Sivan’s sophomore album Blue Neighborhood, “Wild,” “Fools” and “Talk Me Down.” But it’s the cinematic director’s cut that combines the three music videos into one heartbreaking story that packs an unforgettable punch.

7. Culture Club, “Do You Really Want To Hurt Me?” (1982)

The video for the track Boy George later admitted was about his tortured love affair with fellow band mate (Culture Club drummer Jon Moss) is filled with queer imagery and subtext that seems obvious by today’s standards, but flew under the radar in 1982.

8. RuPaul, “Supermodel (You Better Work)”

The glamazon who turned warring wigs into a television phenomenon first shifted drag into overdrive with this 1993 gem.

9. Years & Years, “Desire” (2016)

Two pop powerhouses team up for a video that celebrates sexuality without limits.

10. Bronski Beat, “Smalltown Boy” (1984)

The gay synth-pop trio’s (not so subtle) music video spotlighting the story of a young man who desires to escape the confines of his homophobic small town was a bold statement in 1984, and one of the many reasons this track has been an LGBT anthem for more than 30 years.

11. Steve Grand, “All-American Boy” (2013)

The singer-songwriter’s first music video went viral moments after it was uploaded to YouTube and proved same-sex love is as American as blue jeans, apple pie, and the 4th of July.

12. Sam Smith, “Lay Me Down” (2015)

Sam Smith kicked down the closet door shortly before his debut album dropped and then went on to shoot this music video which shows the British crooner daydreaming of marrying the man of his dreams.

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Boris Johnson, Zac Efron, Istanbul, Nev Schulman, Barack Obama, Italy, War Whoop: NEWS

Boris Johnson, Zac Efron, Istanbul, Nev Schulman, Barack Obama, Italy, War Whoop: NEWS

POPULISM. Obama rips Donald Trump. “They don’t suddenly become a populist because they say something controversial in order to win votes. That’s not the measure of populism. That’s nativism, or xenophobia, or worse. Or it’s just cynicism….Let’s just be clear: Somebody who labels ‘us versus them’ or engaged in rhetoric about how we’re going to look after ourselves and take it to the other guy — that’s not the definition of populism. Sorry.”

FOUR MORE YEARS. Canadian parliament cheers Obama.

Boris JohnsonBREXIT. Boris Johnson says he’s not running for Prime Minister: “In a speech in London – billed as his campaign launch – Mr Johnson said he did not believe he could provide the leadership or unity needed. It comes after Justice Secretary and fellow Brexit campaigner Michael Gove’s surprise announcement on Thursday morning that he would run for leader. Home Secretary Theresa May is among the candidates.”

DEFEATED. Senator Lee Bright, sponsor of South Carolina’s anti-LGBT ‘bathroom bill’, defeated in primary.

WAR WHOOP. Conservative ‘shock jock’ Howie Carr introduces Trump, mocks Elizabeth Warren’s Native American heritage. “He probably won’t be chastised by the Trump campaign. After all, the candidate himself has referred to Warren as “Pocahontas” and blatantly refused to accept or care that many Native Americans might find that offensive.”

turkeyISTANBUL. Bombers were from Kyrgyzsstan, Uzbekistan, and Russia. “No group has claimed responsibility for Tuesday’s attack. Turkish news media reported that the attackers had rented an apartment in Istanbul’s conservative Fatih district, and neighbors had complained about a suspicious chemical smell coming from the building. At least one man left his passport at the rental property, according to the privately owned Dogan News Agency. The airport reopened on Wednesday morning with additional security measures in place.”

ITALYEuropean Court of Human Rights says country violated rights of gay couple: “The European Court of Human Rights said Monday that Italy violated the rights of gay couple for refusing to grant a residence permit to a New Zealander who wanted to live with his Italian partner in Italy. The court ordered Rome to pay damages of 20,000 euros. The ruling will become definitive in three months if none of the parties appeal.”

CATFISH DADDY. Nev Schulman’s going to be a father.

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DELUSIONAL HARLEM HATE PASTOR. James David Manning says he’s thinking of buying the Mellon Bank: “The Bank Of New York Mellon, which has $28 trillion in custodial assets and has a market value of $42 billion, is the holder for the federal tax lien against Harlem’s infamous hate church.”

 

BEProud. Zac Efron wears shirt for Orlando victims.

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THIRSTY THURSDAY. Rionsrkm.

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A Whopping 80% of Voters in This Arkansas City Endorsed Anti-LGBT Discrimination on Tuesday

A Whopping 80% of Voters in This Arkansas City Endorsed Anti-LGBT Discrimination on Tuesday

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Texarkana, Arkansas, on Tuesday became the latest US city where LGBT rights have fallen victim to the transgender bathroom myth.

Voters repealed the city’s nondiscrimination law, Ordinance No. M-130, by a whopping 3,409 to 881, or 80 percent to 20 percent, which is among the largest margins of defeat for any pro-LGBT measure in history.

The ordinance, which was approved unanimously by Texarkana’s Board of Directors in January, prohibited the city and its contractors from discriminating based on sexual orientation and gender identity. However, opponents focused on the fact that it allowed trans people to use the restrooms of their choice, which they called indecent and a danger to women and children, according to The Texarkana Gazette:

At a celebration Tuesday night in downtown’s Omega Building, Richard Wagnon, leader of the anti-ordinance group the Repeal 130 Committee, expressed gratitude to voters.

“I’m very humbled and appreciative of the people of Texarkana, Ark.,” he said. “This says that we the people get to decide for ourselves what our community standards are.”

Dennis Young, a former Arkansas-side ward director and former Texarkana House representative who was active in the pro-ordinance group Keep M-130, conceded defeat but expressed hope for change.

“What else can you say except that we got whipped?” he said. “Unfortunately, Texarkana, Ark., is the loser in the long run, as in the manner of how we will be viewed by others. Thanks to those who wanted our city to be viewed as a progressive, tolerant city, the fight for equality for all will continue.”

More from the Human Rights Campaign:

The ordinance, which had passed the Texarkana Board of Directors by a unanimous vote early this year with broad-based support from citizens and the business community, was targeted by an onslaught of negative, deceptive rhetoric from extremists with no ties to Texarkana, and who have targeted similar protections across the state.

“The Board of Directors of Texarkana unanimously passed a non-discrimination ordinance earlier this year, after local residents and groups spent months pushing for its passage,” said Kendra R. Johnson, state director of HRC Arkansas. “This ordinance was repealed only because anti-equality individuals came into Texarkana and created a campaign of fear that distorts the reality of the ordinance. We remain committed to ensuring that every LGBTQ Arkansan has full legal protections, with no exceptions.”

When sponsoring the bill, City Director Tim Johnson said the “sole intent” of the ordinance was to put Texarkana in the best position to attract new industry and business. The ordinance protects city employees, vendors, and contractors from discrimination based on sexual orientation or gender identity, and prohibits discrimination against recipients of city services based on the same characteristics. Since its passage, outside groups and lawyers opposing the measure have distorted the intent and purpose of the law, and used harmful anti-transgender language and scare tactics.

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The LGBT Community Needs Both ‘Bread and Roses’

The LGBT Community Needs Both ‘Bread and Roses’

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This clip was taken from the hit independent movie Pride about the LGBT community in Great Britain joining with the miners to support their strike during Margaret Thatcher’s reign of repression against unions.

“Bread and Roses” has been an anthem for working people, especially women, for over a hundred years. The lyrics come from a poem written by James Oppenheim in 1911 which in turn was inspired by a speech given by labor organizer Rose Schneiderman. The concept was simple that not only must working people have decent working conditions they also have an inalienable right to a life of dignity and beauty. In one important sense, the song was a response to Henry Ford and William Jennings Bryan’s “guns and butter’ push to stop America from entering World War I.

The LGBT community must remember the lyrics of “Bread and Roses” as the massacre in Orlando echoes and re-echoes in our mind.

Yes, of course, we must stand with every other decent American against the slaughter brought to our streets because of hundreds of millions of guns in our country. There is no question that our long struggle with HIV/AIDS and for our freedom has given us a gift of knowledge on how to organize, raise money and fight against insurmountable odds. That is the gift we bring to America as it struggles to find its best self and its soul. We know how to love amidst hate and we know how to organize with love and still obtain victory.

However, bread without the roses would be a serious mistake.

While we join the ever growing coalition fighting the scourge of guns, LGBT Americans cannot in any way let up in our fight for freedom. Not only did Orlando remind us of the horror of guns but it also was a vivid reminder that our long march toward liberty and liberation is far from over in America. The Supreme Court ruling for marriage equality put good law into the books but did not erase homophobia in our society. Currently there are over 200, read that again, there are over 200 proposed laws that wouldn’t just block our continued progress but actually move us backwards. Their proponents have encased these hateful laws in the Trojan Horse of religious freedom.

Some of them are as odious as many of the worst passages in our national history.

They would make it legal to deny us service in restaurants, hotels, stores, businesses and other public accommodations if the owners of such establishments say it violates their religious beliefs. To some Americans it may seem reasonable that someone should not be forced to violate their religion by serving the LGBT community. After all, why can’t LGBT Americans go eat where they are wanted? Sometimes bigotry coated in sugar and sprinkles really doesn’t look all that bad.

As a veteran of the civil rights movement, the words sound too familiar in my head. Back in the 1960s the rationalization wasn’t called freedom of religion but freedom of association. Why should whites be forced to serve blacks? After all, shouldn’t an American have the right to associate with whomever they please?

In the epic poem “Easter Sunday, 1916”, William Butler Years wrote that in the horror of the Irish being massacred fighting for their freedom, “a terrible beauty was born.”

For the LGBT community, Orlando is a wake up call to shake off any misguided notion that the battle is won and all that’s left to do is go to PTA meetings or plan beautiful wedding ceremonies. There is much to be done. We must always be vigilant and always ready to respond anywhere and anytime to bigots and their attempts to devalue and discriminate against us. The dishonor roll of shame among states becomes longer as others seek to join North Carolina, Kansas and Mississippi in establishing new regimes of oppression. Georgia shows us that we can win such battles but that winning depends on unbending commitment, brilliant organizing and yes, even a song and poem.

One of the most effective organizations working at the local level to counter anti-LGBT legislation and seeking to pass vital new protections is Freedom for All Americans. It is structured on the spectacularly successful Freedom to Marry model created by one of our movement’s great heroes, Evan Wolfson.

Freedom for All Americans now has a presence in every state with first-rate organizing tools and expertise. The organization is headed by Matt McTighe who is an extraordinary organizer. Their efforts deserve our unstinting support.

The LGBT community needs both ‘bread and roses’. We need solidarity with millions of others as we demand and march, lobby and vote for not just gun control but also against climate change, poverty and hunger in America.

However, our community’s capacity to contribute to these common causes depends on the span and strength of our own freedom. The fuller our freedom is, the greater the difference we can make for America. So give your all for gun control. And as you do, never forget our unfinished struggle for justice and equality. We can pursue both and we have to remember to do both and even more. Our roses will be our own freedom. And the freer we are, the more bread we can offer our country and the world. Don’t forget that – now or ever.

 

All opinions expressed are those of the author.

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HRC Alabama to Host Free Storytelling Workshop

HRC Alabama to Host Free Storytelling Workshop

Submitted by HRC Alabama state manager, Eva Kendrick

Join Story District and HRC Alabama on Saturday, July 16, for a free storytelling workshop, coaching and casting information for our “Out/Spoken” show coming to Birmingham this November.

In partnership with HRC, with support from the National Endowment for the Arts, Story District is bringing its signature Pride show — “Out/Spoken” — to Birmingham on November 12.* “Out/Spoken” is an original show, six years running in Washington, D.C., that features eight hilarious and heartfelt true stories from a range of LGBTQ perspectives.

Dubbed “the gold standard in storytelling” by The Washington Post, Story District is one of the best places to learn storytelling with exceptional teachers, comprehensive classes and customized trainings.

The Birmingham show will feature seasoned storytellers from Story District and new storytellers from the Birmingham area. Therefore, HRC Alabama is looking for some great stories from Alabama’s LGBTQ community. Everyone – no matter your experience – is encouraged to pitch a story for the show.

To watch a sample story or to get tips on pitching your story, visit: storydistrict.org/shows/pitch-your-story

To attend the event, simply fill out this form to RSVP today:

*Show date is tentative; back-up date is November 5.

If you have any questions about the July event, contact HRC Alabama field organizer, Tori Wolfe-Sisson at [email protected]

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