Inside The Clandestine World Of Erotic Gay-For-Pay Wrestling

Inside The Clandestine World Of Erotic Gay-For-Pay Wrestling

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Gay erotic wrestling. Yes, it’s a thing. And no, not all the wrestlers are actually gay. In fact, most of them are just straight dudes looking to make a little extra scratch.

So say the folks at BG East Wrestling, an online marketplace for DVDs, VOD and downloadable clips of guy-on-guy wrestling matches intended for male self-pleasuring purposes.

Related: WWE Wrestling Gets A Lot Gayer With Strategically Placed Adult Film Logos

“We bring in wrestlers from all over,” Stephen Driscoll, who helped build the brand with founder Bill George, tells Vocative. “House them, feed them, entertain them. We consider ourselves a sort of fraternity.”

The wrestlers are paid $100 each per video, which run about 10 minutes in length. Most of the videos BG East produces fall into the soft core category, since they don’t actually feature any explicit nudity or sexual acts–just oiled up men in g-strings feverishly rubbing up against one another. Though they do produce some more hard core videos.

Dolph Danner is one of the wrestlers for BG East. The 6’0, 180-pound heterosexual says he really doesn’t mind being viewed as a sex object by gay men.

“It’s not a big deal to me,” he tells Vocative. “It’s gonna happen either way as a professional wrestler. We’re good-looking guys who are in shape, who wear tiny little trunks and roll around with other good-looking guys who are in shape, covered in baby oil.”

Related: WWE Wrestling Legend Pat Patterson Comes Out In Emotional Video

Danner, whose day job is working as a personal trainer, says he’s willing to do pretty much anything for a fee. He regularly receives messages asking if people can buy his stinky socks, soiled underpants and sweaty jockstraps. Though he hasn’t sold any of them yet, he’s open to the idea. “If the price is right? Sure!” he says.

Glenn Scott is a former wrestler for BG East. His fascination with the sport began when he was growing up in the 1970s.

“It kind of just fascinated me, as a kid,” Scott tells Vocative, “because it was kinda like… I knew it was like a… I’ll put it in quotes, ‘a bad thing.’”

He first got involved with BG East back in 2002.

“The guy who owns it, he was just, like, ‘Oh, do you want to do a match?’” Scott tells Vocative. “And I was like, ‘Yeah.’ I jumped right out there and I got three matches that weekend.”

Related: Isn’t Now The Perfect Time For A Wrestling Character To Come Out As Gay?

Working with BG East opened many doors for him, he says, including being introduced to then-Massachusetts Rep. Barney Frank.

“He’s [Driscoll], like, a friend of the guy who owns BG East,” Scott said.

Frank confirmed to Vocative that he was buddies with Driscoll. The two met at a National Stonewall Democrats event several years ago.

“I went to one or two of his tournaments where you do the filming,” Frank says. “And the ones I saw, everybody was clothed.”

Scott credits BG East with giving him self-confidence.

“I wouldn’t have the confidence I have,” he says. “These kind of things have totally given me, like, so much humility and just the drive. I call it a wrestler’s ego. I can get my butt kicked or I can kick butt, but as long as I’m kicking or as long as someone’s kicking it’s given me the drive to do all kinds of stuff.”

And that, he says, has made all the difference.

Related: Were the College Wrestling Porn Stars Stupid? Or Just Naive?

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This Unreal Gay Marriage Proposal Will Make Your Day Better in So Many Ways: WATCH

This Unreal Gay Marriage Proposal Will Make Your Day Better in So Many Ways: WATCH

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Ready to smile? Laugh? Shed a few tears? Remember what life’s really about?

DeAndre Upshaw planned this intricate and moving marriage proposal to his longtime partner Stu and it is going to make your day.

Writes DeAndre:

4 months before this video was filmed, I hatched a plan to propose to my boyfriend of six years, Stu, to celebrate the one year anniversary of the Supreme Court ruling in favor of same sex marriage in Dallas, Texas, where we live. I work in digital marketing and video production, and am also the founder of one of DFW’s most successful improv troupes, so I spent four months using every resource at my disposal to make this an amazing experience for Stu.

I’ve always been fond of the dramatic, so this proposal includes:

– A grand total of four costume changes on my end
– Marching Band uniforms purchased in bulk on Craigslist
– Shiny rainbow choir robes direct from eBay
– Confetti Cannons
– A dance troupe
– Flag twirlers
– Ribbon Dancing
– And over forty of our closest friends in family

Watch:

Adds DeAndre:

I’d known from the day we met that I was going to spend the rest of my life with Stu, and we knew we were going to get married, but figured that after six years of being together we’d just announce an engagement. Never one to miss an opportunity to do the absolute most, I spent four months secretly colluding with family, friends and college roommates across the country to help make this an amazing, special day.

He thought we were going to a fancy brunch, and as we got closer to the location, I pulled over and told him that I’d actually planned something amazing for him, and put a blindfold on him before taking him to the location.

Texas received record amounts of rain and flooding that weekend (something that wasn’t factored into the equation when I set the date four months earlier), so we had to change venue at the last minute in order to have a backup indoor location just in case we got rained out. It even sprinkled briefly during the shoot, but we persevered!

My favorite part is his laugh (Stu has the most unique, adorable laugh) when he sees his friends and family pop out. Some of them he hasn’t seen in years, and some drove in from Austin and Houston.

I chose the song “Closer” by Tegan and Sara because we’d seen them open for fun. back in 2013 and immediately became hooked on the song. I’m very much a Beyonce man and his musical tastes lean more towards OK GO and Brett Dennen, so discovering an anthem that we both loved was very exciting for us! We have a joint Spotify playlist that we both add music to so we can jam out in the bathroom while we’re brushing our teeth or driving. This is the only song that never got skipped!

Another thing that made this kind of super special was that I’d lost 119 pounds over the course of the last few months, and this was the first time some of my friends and family had seen me since! It was a great time 🙂

Some quick notes:
– We live in Dallas, Texas
– The proposal was originally supposed to be in downtown Dallas, but due to the threat of rain and flooding, we moved it to nearby Plano, where we were able to have access to a backup indoor location in case it rained.
– Stu works as a professional illustrator of children’s books, originally from Flower Mound, Texas. He is 28.
– DeAndre is a digital marketing strategist and cinematographer, originally from Houston, Texas. He is 29.
– For the #filmnerds: We filmed this video with two Panasonic GH4’s, one in the backseat of the car on sticks and one with an operator on a Glidecam outside of the car. Stu’s shot was captured with a GoPro 4 clamped to the hood of the car. We also filmed it in 360 with a Ricoh Theta S. Edited in Premiere and Graded with MBL.
– The only people who had rehearsals were the dancers – everyone else (the driver, family and friends, guys in robes, our families) met an hour before we arrived to rehearse on the spot. I kept them in the loop with a production document, a secret Facebook event page and videos from the rehearsals.
– Each group of people that comes on camera is a huge surprise for Stu – some he hadn’t seen in years
– Right before we got to the place where filming was, I pulled over to the side of the road and told Stu we weren’t going to brunch, and put a blindfold on him and a handkerchief in his hand. He was shocked!
– My mother is known for her hats. I’m sure you can spot her when she makes her entrance 🙂

Huge thanks to everyone who helped make this happen!

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Lea DeLaria: Gay Community Should Replace ‘Divisive’ LGBT Acronym With ‘Queer’ – VIDEO

Lea DeLaria: Gay Community Should Replace ‘Divisive’ LGBT Acronym With ‘Queer’ – VIDEO

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Orange is the New Black star Lea DeLaria wants to replace LGBT with the word ‘queer’ because she says the acronym is divisive.

In an interview with Pride Source, in which DeLaria also discusses the upcoming fourth series of Orange is the New Black, the reason she has turned down many lesbian roles, and being the first out gay comedian on TV, she says:

“This is the biggest issue we have in the queer community to date and will continue to be the biggest issue until we learn to accept our differences, and that’s the issue. And part of me believes that this inclusivity of calling us the LGBTQQTY-whatever-LMNOP tends to stress our differences. And that’s why I refuse to do it. I say queer. Queer is everybody.”

On her history-making appearance as the first openly gay comic to perform on American TV on The Arsenio Hall Show in 1993, DeLaria added:

“The lawyers called Arsenio in and said, ‘We don’t think you should let this go out.’ They were trying to pull it and Arsenio – again this is the lesser story that people don’t know – had a fit and said, ‘She’s a dyke. If she wants to call herself a dyke then it’s none of your f**king business.’ He fought for it and got me on the air. The lawyers at Fox were saying, ‘Noooo. It was a big deal at the time; now it’s ho-hum. But back then it was huge. You gotta remember, Ellen (DeGeneres) wasn’t out yet. Rosie (O’Donnell) wasn’t out yet. None of these guys were out yet.”

Series four of Orange is the New Black premieres on June 17th.

Watch a trailer below.

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President Obama Previews Sanders Meeting, Offers Thoughts on Trump to Jimmy Fallon

President Obama Previews Sanders Meeting, Offers Thoughts on Trump to Jimmy Fallon

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President Obama is set to appear on The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon tonight. The episode was taped yesterday, and Don Lemon was offered a clip to preview on CNN.

Said Obama when asked if Bernie Sanders plans to endorse Hillary Clinton:

“I’m sure they’re going to have a conversation,” adding, “The main role I’m going to be playing in this process, is to remind the American people that this is a serious job. This is not reality TV.”

When asked by Fallon if he thinks Republicans are happy with their choice of Trump, Obama responds, “We are.”

Added Obama: “That was too easy. Actually, I am worried about the Republican party, and I know that sounds….uh…you know what that sounds like.

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Sanders is set to meet with Obama today. CNN reports:

Sanders will meet with President Barack Obama in their second White House sitdown this primary season and the fourth time they’ve spoken in the last month. Aides said Obama would work to move Sanders toward an acceptance of Clinton as the nominee.

An aide to Joe Biden says the vice president “plans on speaking to both (Clinton and Sanders) in the near future,” but Biden will not be at the Sanders-Obama meeting. He also won’t offer any endorsement before those conversations, the aide said.

In their meeting, Obama won’t directly ask Sanders to exit the race, and senior Democrats say it’s unlikely Obama will make any joint appearances with Clinton before next week’s primary, the final nominating contest this year. However, a formal Obama endorsement could come earlier — perhaps as early as Thursday — though not before Obama sits down with Sanders.

While it’s unlikely that Sanders emerges in full support of Clinton, White House officials hope Obama can prod the Vermont senator toward eventually acting as a unifying figure for the Democratic Party.

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Five Ways Donald Trump Would Roll Back LGBTQ Equality as President

Five Ways Donald Trump Would Roll Back LGBTQ Equality as President

Hillary Clinton Tuesday night made history as the first woman to secure the nomination of a major political party, shattering barriers and marking a new milestone for equality. With five months until the election, the choice between Clinton and Donald Trump is clear — for pro-equality voters, everything we have gained under President Obama would be at risk under Donald Trump.

Clinton’s agenda and record of achievement starkly contrasts against Trump, who has vowed to roll back LGBTQ equality at every turn. Here are five ways Donald Trump has already pledged to roll back LGBTQ equality if he succeeds in his quest to become president.

1.) Trump Vows to Roll Back Nationwide Marriage Equality

Donald Trump has long opposed nationwide marriage equality, calling himself a “traditional” guy, even waffling on whether he supports civil unions. Heading into the South Carolina Primary, Trump tripled down on his opposition to nationwide marriage equality.

In late January, Trump told Fox News Sunday he would appoint justices to the Supreme Court who would reverse nationwide marriage equality and when asked to clarify by ABC’s George Stephanopoulos a week later, Trump again doubled down.

Trump also told CBN’s David Brody that evangelical voters can “trust me” to oppose marriage equality, saying:

“I think they can trust me. They can trust me on traditional marriage. I was very much in favor of having the court rule that it goes to states and let the states decide. And that was a shocking decision for you and for me and for a lot of other people. But I was very much in favor of letting the states decide….”

2.) Trump to Sign a Law Sanctioning Kim Davis-style Discrimination

Donald Trump supports the so-called “First Amendment Defense Act,” (FADA), a bill to enable Kim Davis-style discrimination against LGBTQ people nationwide. FADA would undermine the rule of law and promote taxpayer-funded discrimination against same-sex couples. In a letter to the far-right organization the American Principles Project, Trump wrote in December, If Congress considers the First Amendment Defense Act a priority, then I will do all I can to make sure it comes to my desk for signatures and enactment.”

FADA would allow organizations and businesses contracting with the federal government to circumvent critical federal protections designed to protect same-sex couples and their families from harmful discrimination. It would also enable federal employees to refuse to fully perform their duties if they believe they conflict with their objection to same-sex marriage. For example, an employee at the Department of Veterans Affairs could refuse to process a claim for survivor benefits for the same-sex spouse of a servicemember.

This is not the first time that Donald Trump has vowed to support sham religious refusal bills designed to enable discrimination against LGBTQ people. In a March debate, Trump said he agreed with Cruz’s answer on religious liberty and agreed that when it comes to opposing nationwide marriage equality and the right of same-sex couples to adopt,“I would certainly have rather left it to the states.”

And last fall at the Iowa Faith and Family Coalition, Trump said he would make the passage of legislation creating such broad loopholes to discriminate a priority. According to Breitbart, referencing Christians and religious liberty, Trump told the audience he would support such laws because “…We’re not being protected.” Breitbart reported, “He said his first priority if elected President of the United States would be to ‘preserve and protect our religious liberty.’ ‘We’ll be fighting as part [of a] common core, and we’re going to protect totally the First Amendment.’ ”

3.) Trump Would Let Anti-LGBTQ Governors Write Discrimination Into State Law

In one spectacular display of Trump’s brazen efforts to ‘have it both ways,’ he made nearly simultaneous statements speaking out of both sides of his mouth on North Carolina’s HB2. Almost immediately after Trump appeared on NBC and pledged his opposition to HB2, noting how unnecessary and damaging it has been to the state of North Carolina — he went on FOX later the very same day to assure conservatives he would do nothing to address it as president.

In an interview with The Today Show in April, Donald Trump opposed North Carolina’s HB 2 — saying:

“North Carolina, what they’re going through, with all of the business that’s leaving and all of the strife — and that’s on both sides — you leave it the way it is. There have been very few complaints the way it is. People go, they use the bathroom that they feel is appropriate. There has been so little trouble. And the problem with what happened in North Carolina is the strife and the economic, I mean, the economic punishment that they’re taking. So I would say that’s probably the best way.

But later that day, Trump told Sean Hannity on FOX News that ‘he would leave it up to states’ and do nothing to intervene as president. Trump doubled down in May.

The Charlotte Observer reported, “Although Kimmel pressed him five times, Trump refused to explain his personal stance on North Carolina’s law that requires people in government buildings to use bathrooms matching their birth certificates. ‘What I support is let the states decide, and I think the states will do hopefully the right thing,’ Trump said.”

Essentially, he’s suggesting that if a state wants to go through with a law that puts LGBTQ people at risk for discrimination and harassment, he will stand by and hope for the best — in a year when 201 anti-LGBTQ bills were introduced in 34 states. As far as Trump is concerned, however, states should be free to violate federal laws — such as Title IX — and deny LGBTQ people equal treatment under the law.

4.) Trump Would Repeal President Obama’s Executive Orders

Trump says he looks forward to repealing President Obama’s executive orders, meaning the executive order protecting LGBTQ employees working for federal contractors is at risk. That means under a Trump White House, a company doing business with the government and receiving taxpayer dollars could say “you’re fired” to LGBTQ employees just because of who they are. And if there’s any doubt as to urgency with which Trump would approach this, The Washington Post reports, “If he’s elected president, Trump said that within an hour of taking the oath of office — but possibly within two minutes — he would undo many of Obama’s executive orders.”

The loss of these protections is not just a hypothetical danger. Just recently the House Armed Services Committee added an amendment to the defense authorization that would undermine President Obama’s executive order banning discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity for federal contractors — an executive order that covers 20 percent of the workforce. And Trump has made clear he’s not going to fight these types of efforts.

Separate from the issue of executive orders, Trump said in an interview with the Washington Post that would rescind important guidance from the Obama administration that is intended to ensure transgender students have access to restrooms consistent with their gender identity.

5.) LGBTQ people, Women, Immigrants, Latinos/as: Donald Trump Puts us all at Risk

Throughout his campaign, Donald Trump attacked, belittled and maligned anyone and everyone he considers different. The LGBTQ community is as diverse as our nation, and includes women, immigrants, Muslims, people of color, people living with disabilities, asylum seekers and others Trump has attacked for political gain.

Consider his attacks on immigrants, whom he has called “in many cases, criminals, drug dealers, rapists, etc.” About 30 percent of LGBTQ immigrants — some 267,000 people — are undocumented adults, according to a 2013 study from the UCLA’s Williams Institute. Donald Trump would forcibly remove these people and deport them, breaking up LGBTQ families and doing massive damage to our economy in the process.

Trump has also called women “pigs” and other offensive terms; when FOX News anchor Megyn Kelly called Trump on it, he dismissively joked that he was ‘referring to Rosie O’Donnell.’

Equally troubling, last week, Donald Trump attacked U.S. District Judge Gonzalo Curiel, claiming he had an “absolute conflict” in a case solely because of his “Mexican heritage” and his membership in a Latino lawyers association. Trump not only refused to apologize over his racist remarks about Curiel, who was born and attended law school in Indiana, he reportedly doubled down and urged campaign surrogates to continue attacking the judge for his heritage.

Unfortunately, we’ve seen the same attacks lobbed against LGBTQ judges. When Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals Judge Vaughn Walker ruled that Prop 8 was unconstitutional, anti-LGBTQ activists in California sought to have his decision vacated. As Philip Klein, a columnist for the conservative Washington Examiner, wrote last week, similar attacks from Donald Trump should be viewed as an attack on all minority communities. “As an American Jew, I’m certainly familiar with the age old dual-loyalty smear… Trump could just as easily be arguing that a Jewish judge is against him because he refuses to be beholden to Jewish donors. Or an American Asian judge is against him because he wants to get tough on China. Or an Irish Catholic judge is against him because of his attacks on Pope Francis. Effectively, anybody who isn’t a white Protestant of European ancestry can be a target of Trump’s ethnic and racial attacks.”

Donald Trump’s attacks on Judge Curiel are not only an attack on the estimated 1.4 million Latino/a LGBTQ adults but a dangerous signal to all minority communities — including LGBTQ people — that they might be next.

In sum: Trump has vowed time and again to oppose LGBTQ equality and roll back our progress. His policy positions are extreme and dangerous — and he has attempted to obfuscate his views because he knows they are out of step with the vast majority of voters who’ll go to the polls in November.

In fact, support for LGBTQ equality has hit a record high in the last year. Nearly 80 percent of Americans support federal non-discrimination protections for LGBTQ people and a 55 percent majority say they would be less likely to vote for a candidate opposed to marriage equality. No matter how you look at it, Trump remains dangerously out of step with the majority of fair-minded Americans who believe that LGBTQ people should be treated equally under the law. 

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LGBT Groups Excluded from UN Conference on AIDS Hold Own Meeting in Protest: WATCH

LGBT Groups Excluded from UN Conference on AIDS Hold Own Meeting in Protest: WATCH

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LGBT groups barred from a United Nations conference devoted to ending the AIDS epidemic by 2030 held their own event on Wednesday, outside UN headquarters.

In April, a letter from Egypt on behalf of 51 countries in the Organization of Islamic Cooperation requested the United Nations to block 11 LGBT groups from attending the three-day conference.

Today, 200 activists from the excluded groups attended the parallel event and called it “The Impact of Civil Society Exclusion on Ending the AIDS Epidemic by 2030” forum. They protested against countries that have caved to “right-­wingers like Russia, Iran and the Gulf States [by] remaining silent.”

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The AP reports:

Nearly two dozen civil society organizations from five continents that provide services for LGBT communities, intravenous drug users and others have been denied access to the three-day General Assembly meeting starting Wednesday at the request of Russia, Cameroon, Tanzania and 51 Muslim countries…

…In a letter to assembly President Mogens Lykketoft last month responding to the blacklisting of 11 organizations, U.S. Ambassador Samantha Power said the groups appeared to have been chosen for their involvement with gay and transgender issues.

The letter asked that all groups that requested participation be allowed to attend and noted that transgender people are 49 times more likely to be living with HIV than the general population. Their exclusion from the meeting, she said, would only slow progress in combatting HIV/AIDS.

But the assembly’s decision was not reversed.

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protestAmirah Sequeira
, from the Health Global Access Project, a New York-based advocacy group expressed her anger and frustration on a Facebook post:  “22 NGOs serving key populations most at risk of HIV (sex workers, people who inject drugs, transgender people, prisoners, gay men and other men who have sex with men) were denied accreditation to attend. Civil society advocates argue that the latest version of the HLM Political Declaration falls significantly short by not including critical language on respecting, protecting and fulfilling the human rights of men who have sex with men, people who use drugs, sex workers, and transgender people; and to ending marginalization and criminalization of these groups.”

She posted a dramatic video of the protest:

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Photos: Healthgap’s Facebook page

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Colgate Airs Mexico’s First Ad To Feature A Gay Couple: WATCH

Colgate Airs Mexico’s First Ad To Feature A Gay Couple: WATCH

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Colgate has aired the first ad in Mexico to feature a gay couple.

The #SmileWithPride campaign comes just weeks before Pride celebrations in Mexico are due to start.

#COLGATE SE UNE AL #PRIDE2016 CON SU APUESTA DE PUBLICIDAD INCLUYENTE #SMILEWITHPRIDE EN MEMORIA DE #GINOLUCERO pic.twitter.com/7vKTCpRLC4

— Sebastian Rausch (@Seba_Argentina) June 8, 2016

Zocaldo reports:

“In the spot, a grandfather and his grandson decide to help their new neighbors, a gay couple, to move a chair [into their new home]. ‘Sometimes you just need a smile,’ says the commercial, while showing the two new neighbors hold hands and stand in their new home.”

RELATED: Mexican Supreme Court Rules Gay Adoption Ban Unconstitutional

Last month, Mexican President Enrique Peña Nieto called for the legalization of gay marriage nationwide. However, last week Mormon church leaders issued a directive that members in Mexico should oppose any efforts to legalize same-sex marriage.

@Colgate Awesome to see a commercial that just wants my husband and I to be happy @DavidJBaumann #SmileWithPride pic.twitter.com/w4QsZo2guA

— Lee Tyler Baumann (@LeeTylerBaumann) June 9, 2016

#SmileWithPride is a huge step in the right direction, props to @SonrisaColgate for making this #BeProud #Pride2016

— Agustín (@XSageNAX) June 8, 2016

El spot viral de Colgate #SmileWithPride #FelizMiercoles #LoveWins SonrisaColgate pic.twitter.com/HTXlCO5PuT

— Arturo Conache (@Arturoconache) June 9, 2016

Just saw @Colgate‘s #smilewithpride commercial and I love it! #pride #lovewins

— Ricky B. (@rickybaeza91) June 8, 2016

 

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