Reflecting On 35 Years Since First Reports Of AIDS

Reflecting On 35 Years Since First Reports Of AIDS

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We’re coming up on a grim anniversary–35 years since the first reported cases of what we would come to know as AIDS. To mark the occasion, the Bay Area Reporter has interviewed some high profile survivors about their experiences, their memories and what might lie ahead. It’s required reading for anyone who’s been touched by the crisis–which is everyone.

Related: “How to Survive a Plague” Explores The Passion And Progress Of Early AIDS Activists

One of the most important milestones of the last 35 years was the introduction of cocktails in the mid-90s. Following that innovation, death rates–which had been skyrocketing year after year– immediately took a nosedive.

That followed a decade of experimental treatments, many of which had no effect or actually made suffering worse. But there was virtually no knowledge about how the disease worked, and it was spreading so fast that doctors were desperate for any form of treatment. What’s more, officials in the Reagan administration did as little as they could to address the crisis.

Activist Cleve Jones recalls bringing the AIDS quilt to Washington in the mid-90s, when the Clinton administration was finally starting to take action to save lives.

“I talked to President Clinton on how my friends were now thriving and asking him to make sure these drugs would be available to everybody,” he tells the Bay Area Reporter.

In 1994, he suffered an infection that he expected to take his life, but the cocktails saved him.

Related: WATCH: Elizabeth Taylor’s Fight To Raise AIDS Awareness Changed History

Gabriel Quinto talks about being an early test subject. He also expected to die, and sold all of his belongings in preparation for the end. The drugs that he took saved him, but also had devastating side effects.

“These drugs were not tested for people of color and the side effects could make you feel worse than the disease itself,” he explains. “Many of my friends could not take these drugs and gave up. … The current medications have not raised my number of T cells above 150, so consequently I have good days and bad days when I need to rest.”

Terry Beswick, who runs the GLBT Historical Society, holds regular events and organizes exhibits to reflect on the last three decades. He cites the crisis as having taught the LGBTQ community a hard lesson about organizing and establishing leadership, one that ultimately helped the fight for civil rights but at an unbearable cost.

“We need to meet people where they are at and base public health policy on science rather than morality,” he says. “My big goal is to build a bigger LGBT museum (than the one in the Castro), complete with an educational and cultural center so we can tell the story of AIDS more effectively and learn not to make the same mistakes we made 20, 30 years ago.”

Related: Six Pioneering Gay Writers Who Helped Bring HIV/AIDS To The American Forefront

“I think marriage equality came out of our struggle with AIDS. For my generation of radical activists, marriage was not on any of our priority lists,” Jones says. But when partners died and there were no legal protections, “suddenly that little piece of paper became critically important. And that’s why working class gays and lesbians lined up when Mayor Gavin Newsom opened up City Hall in 2004 so they could get married, despite flack from the political establishment.”

Gavin Newsom, it’s worth pointing out, recently sent out an email to supporters about that time. Back in 2004, when he issued marriage licenses, most of the Democratic Party abandoned him.

There was only one high-profile politician willing to work with him during that time: Hillary Clinton.

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This Mississippi Teen Is A High Schooler By Day And A Drag Queen At Night

This Mississippi Teen Is A High Schooler By Day And A Drag Queen At Night

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By day, Trevor Ladner is your typical Mississippi high-schooler. But by night, he’s high-fashion drag queen Annie Thang.

Ladner was struggling to fit into typical concepts of masculinity and femininity, but drag opened up a new way of thinking about it… and dealing with it.

Related: Nine Queens Who Turned Their Drag Careers Into Some Serious Coin

The Sun Herald brings you his story in a fabulous video piece that’s just begging to be extended into a documentary or adapted into a TV show/movie of the week.

And, oh yeah, did we mention he’s going to Harvard in the fall?

We know it’s the internet in 2016, but this one is definitely worth six minutes of your time. Check it out below…

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The Maytag Man Wants to Celebrate Pride with You

The Maytag Man Wants to Celebrate Pride with You

maytag manFor 49 years, he’s been America’s “reliable and strong repairman who loves to do the dishes.” This year, he’s also “dependable, powerful and stocked full of Pride.”

After last year’s successful ad campaign that showed the Maytag Man holding a colored layer cake with a caption that read “Proud to be in any home,” an allusion to bakeries that had refused to serve same-sex couples, Maytag is bringing back the rainbow version of the good-looking handyman to celebrate LGBT Pride month. And this year, Maytag’s parent company Whirlpool also joined in.

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On its Facebook page, the caption reads “It’s just that simple.”

It’s not as simple, however, to please everybody. Tweets applauding and criticizing the initiative quickly appeared on the social network.

The lgbt pandering is nauseating @TheMaytagMan .

— DernDawn (@noprezzie2012) June 2, 2016

@TheMaytagMan love you Maytag Man lol 😁🌈

— des (@603Lezzy) June 2, 2016

@TheMaytagMan Stop making lgbt identities saleable product shit man machine seller

— real subtle (@realsubtle) June 2, 2016

@realsubtle @TheMaytagMan pic.twitter.com/Ia3ctr3NOX

— Andrew S. (@shoutingboy) June 2, 2016

Whirlpool is proud to be the first and only appliance manufacturer to receive a 100 score from the Human Rights Campaign on its annual Corporate Equality Index, a list of the nation’s most LGBT-inclusive companies based on their treatment of LGBT employees, consumers and investors. The company says it has received perfect scores since 2003.

#EqualityWorks, which is why we are proud to support the #LGBT community by participating in @HRC’s #CEI2016 pic.twitter.com/c9B9S3rFhY

— Whirlpool Corp (@WhirlpoolCorp) November 18, 2015

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LGBT Hotel Chain Wants You To Be ‘Heterofriendly’ – WATCH

LGBT Hotel Chain Wants You To Be ‘Heterofriendly’ – WATCH

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We’ve seen a spate of new gay and gay friendly ads released as of late, which might not seem surprising given that June is national LGBT Pride month in the U.S. Still, some of the more memorable ads have come from overseas. Take for instance Dove for Men ad featuring Australian LGBT ally and rugby player David Pocock, or the heartwarming ad about a gay soccer star and his boyfriend created by a German rail company.

You can now add to that list a more bizarre entry: an ad for a European-based LGBT chain of hotels called Axel Hotels that features a faux gay boyband satirically flipping stereotypes on their heads and urging guests to be ‘heterofriendly.’

In the music video-style ad, members of the boyband preach tolerance for straight boys and sing about taking a hapless straight under their wings a la Queer Eye For A Straight Guy.

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Juan Juliá, founder and president of Axel Hotels, said of the ad, “We wanted to blink an eye at society when facing the struggle for true normalization of the LGBT community, we wanted them to step in our shoes for a moment.”

Said the company on its YouTube posting:

“The world get closer to be more gay”. With this pharse begin “Be Heterofriendly”, the new video launched by Axel Hotels, and which uses humor sense to put an accent on positive discrimination in current society.

Axel Hotels supports since its opening the normalization and rights of the LGBT community. Straights, we love you too!

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Watch the video, below.

[h/t Attitude]

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Man Booker Prize Winner Marlon James Was Tortured By ‘Ex-Gay’ Exorcism: VIDEO

Man Booker Prize Winner Marlon James Was Tortured By ‘Ex-Gay’ Exorcism: VIDEO

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Jamaican author and Man Booker Prize winner Marlon James has claimed that preachers tortured him in order to “cure” him of his sexuality.

James, who had struggled to come to terms with being gay, said the treatment involved “a mixture of prayer and support and shaming and vomiting.”

Speaking during an interview at the Hay Festival of Literature & Arts in Wales, he said the ‘exorcism’ made him feel cured. “I thought ‘Great, I am getting rid of demons’, until I read up on the whole ex-gay thing,” he said.

RELATED – Human Rights Watch Documents Abuse Of Gays In Jamaica: VIDEO

James added that “ex-gay” therapy is “dangerously misleading and I think has been discredited. It is a really primitive and backward way of curing people.”

Homosexuality remains illegal in Jamaica.

The country celebrated its first Pride Festival in August last year.

Watch an interview in which James talks about being black, Jamaican and gay below.

(Image via Twitter)

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Senator Casey Endorses the Equality Act

Senator Casey Endorses the Equality Act

Today, U.S. Senator Bob Casey (D-PA) announced that he will co-sponsor the Equality Act. Senator Casey will become the 42nd senator to cosponsor the legislation, in addition to 175 members of the House.

The bipartisan Equality Act would provide consistent and explicit non-discrimination protections for LGBTQ people across key areas of life, including employment, housing, credit, education, public spaces and services, federally funded programs and jury service.

Our nation’s civil rights laws protect people on the basis of race, color and national origin and in most cases, sex, disability and religion.  However, federal law does not provide consistent non-discrimination protections based on sexual orientation or gender identity.  The need for the Equality Act is clear—nearly two-thirds of LGBTQ Americans report having experienced discrimination in their personal lives

“Despite the Supreme Court’s decision in favor of marriage equality in June of 2015, it’s still legal under federal law and in many states, including Pennsylvania, to fire someone, or deny them access to public accommodations because they’re gay or transgender,” Casey said in a press release announcing his support for the Equality Act. “Just recently states like North Carolina and Mississippi have enacted laws that are nothing more than state sponsored discrimination. Much of the discussion around these laws has centered on public restrooms. These laws are about much more that: they are a license to discriminate in all aspects of our society like the workplace and in housing. These laws are contrary the values of our nation and make clear the need for the Equality Act.”

Senator Casey, who defeated the notoriously anti-LGBTQ Rick Santorum, has been a strong proponent of LGBTQ rights in the Senate. He is the lead sponsor of the Safe Schools Improvement Act (SSIA), which would require school districts to adopt codes of conduct prohibiting bullying and harassment, including explicitly on the basis of race, color, national origin, sex, disability, sexual orientation, gender identity and religion.

Everyone should have a fair chance to earn a living and provide a home for their families without fear of constant harassment or discrimination. HRC applauds Senator Casey’s leadership and will continue to work with Members of Congress to increase support for commonsense, explicit non-discrimination protections for LGBTQ people.

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HRC & EqualityNC Grateful for Dead & Company’s $100,000 Commitment to Repeal HB2

HRC & EqualityNC Grateful for Dead & Company’s $100,000 Commitment to Repeal HB2

Today, Chad Griffin, President of HRC, and Chris Sgro, Executive Director of Equality NC, released the following statements in response to Dead & Company’s announcement that it will donate $100,000 to the organizations for  on-the-ground efforts to repeal the state’s discriminatory, anti-LGBT law known as HB2:

“We are grateful to the members of Dead & Company for standing with HRC and Equality North Carolina in fighting this hateful law,” said Griffin. “They join a growing list of artists and entertainers who have publicly committed their time and resources to repealing HB2.”

“Their generous support will help us repeal this draconian law and get us one step closer to ensuring that all North Carolinians can live their lives free from discrimination, ” Griffin said.

Said Equality NC Executive Director Chris Sgro: “Equality NC is so grateful for this generous support, which continues to buoy our efforts to defeat HB2 – the worst anti-LGBT law in the nation. North Carolina is a welcoming and wonderful state. HB2 is not indicative of who we are, and this gift will help us return to a state of equality.”

Members of Dead & Company join a growing list of artists and entertainers, including Cyndi Lauper, Jackson Browne and members of Pearl Jam, who have publicly committed their time and resources to repealing HB2. During Dead & Company’s June 10 concert in Charlotte, the band says it will host a social action area featuring organizations fighting discrimination, registering voters, and protecting the planet. Fans will have an opportunity to learn about HB2, the band says, to take meaningful action against it, and to register to vote.

Here is the full text of Dead & Company’s statement on HB2:

This March, when North Carolina lawmakers passed HB2 and Governor Pat McCrory signed it into law, we categorically objected to it. We had hoped that by now this abhorrent law would have been repealed. Sadly, it has not.

After much thought, consideration and conversation, we feel the most effective way to move forward is to perform as scheduled in Charlotte, North Carolina on June 10 and to donate $100,000.00 to organizations engaged in this battle for justice – the Human Rights Campaign and Equality North Carolina.

Additionally, we will assemble a “Participation Row” social action area, where we’ll host local organizations fighting discrimination and national organizations dedicated to voter registration and protecting the planet. Every fan in attendance will have an opportunity to learn about the true ramifications of the HB2 law, and take meaningful action by registering to vote; to that end we are working on an online community registration site that will assist the HeadCount organization in promoting and simplifying voter registration.

Dead shows have always been a safe place for all of our audience to come together through music no matter how they appear or self-identify. History shows these values of openness and inclusiveness have served us – and the world around us – well.

We’ve never been a band that’s spoken many words when we’re on stage. But we hope that our actions, and the actions of our fans, will ring louder than ever before.

With Love and Respect,

Dead & Company    

[Band members: Mickey Hart, Bill Kreutzmann, John Mayer, and Bob Weir, with Oteil Burbridge and Jeff Chimenti.]

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GLAAD partners with MTV to launch Elect This

GLAAD partners with MTV to launch Elect This

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Yesterday, MTV launched Elect This, a campaign to help its audience connect with the issues that matter to them in an election season dominated by personalities over policy, and scandal over substance. The interactive sites breaks down various issues facing our nation, telling its audience what the issue is, what they need to know and why they should care. In addition to education, the site also provides opportunities for readers to get involved through a number of petitions, social media campaigns and action items. 

A new, national study conducted by MTV found that while an overwhelming 92 percent of Millennials ages 18-34 agree “this election is like a bad reality show” and 74 percent are embarrassed by the current cycle, an even greater 93 percent see through the chaos and agree “this election should be about issues.” Through its original content that satirizes the punditry and illuminates the truth behind the talking points, “Elect This” hopes to drive young voters to be more informed and take action on the topics that matter to them.

GLAAD teamed up with MTV to help educate people on the issues facing the LGBT community this election. The voices of LGBT and allied voters are vital to accelerating acceptance in the U.S., and thought marriage equality was achieved in June of 2015, this election will still decide the fate of many other pressing issues in the LGBT community.

In many states, it is still legal to discriminate against someone based on their sexual orientation or gender identity and many legally married same-sex couples are still met with obstacle when trying to adopt a child, receive familial leave and more.

This is especially true for the U.S. South, where many states legislatures have considered and passed so-called “bathroom-bills” that ban transgender people from the restroom that corresponds to their gender identity.

The site also directs reader to a Change.org petition GLAAD launched  with South Carolina transgender activist Blair Durkee. Durkee calls upon Senator Lee Bright of South Carolina and any supporters of anti-LGBT legislation to meet with transgender people — the people these laws target.

Movements like these are exactly what GLAAD and Elect This are trying to encourage young voters to become a part of. Earlier this year, GLAAD launched a resource for voters and journalists on LGBT issues in the election and how to accurately report on said issues. It is crucial that the voices of LGBT voters are heard in this election in order to further an upward path towards acceptance and equality.

To take action now, you can educate yourself about the LGBT issues in this election, learn what laws your state has in place and learn how to be a better ally to transgender people.

June 2, 2016

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Internet Totally Loses It Over Images Of ‘Big, Fat’ Gay Hindu Wedding

Internet Totally Loses It Over Images Of ‘Big, Fat’ Gay Hindu Wedding

Rishi & Dan Hindu Gay Wedding Pioneering South Asian parents start Peel chapter of PFLAG When their son asked for a big fat Hindu gay wedding, Vijay and Sushma Agarwal had to face up to their community's fear and silence. CREDIT: Sukhbir Channa Photography add link: http://www.channaphotography.com/rishi-dans-wedding/

In 2016, being gay is still illegal in India, and, as far as traditional Indian families are concerned, homosexuality remains a highly taboo subject.

That’s why these widely circulated images of a sumptuous gay Hindu wedding are proving to be such an inspiration to Indian families everywhere.

Related: This Indian Trans Band’s Cover Of Pharrell’s “Happy” Will Make You Smile

The photographs feature Rishi Agarwal and Daniel Langdon getting hitched in a traditional ceremony.

Agarwal was raised in a Hindu household,  and his parents always dreamed of throwing him a seriously epic wedding.

(The family left India in the ’70s in order to move to Canada.)

Agarwal was initially apprehensive to come out to his parents, particularly after the suicide of a gay Sikh student he knew, whose parents simply wouldn’t accept his homosexuality.

Nevertheless, he came out in 2011 and admits his mom and dad were at first “stunned” at the news. He feared his hopes of a dream wedding with friends and family was quashed for good.

But no.

Related: PHOTOS: Here’s What Goes On Inside The All-Male “Akharas” Of India

Agarwal’s parents ultimately wound up accepting him. In fact, they spent three entire days learning everything they could about LGBTQ issues, even starting a chapter of PFLAG based in Peel.

“You’re still our son and we love you,” they said when he asked if they wanted him to leave their household.

“This is strictly our baggage, what we bring from India,” said his mom, blaming their own ignorance for any hesitation he may have sensed from them.

Rishi and Dan got married, going through all the elaborate traditions of a “big fat Hindu wedding.”

Talking to local media, Rishi confessed, “I never thought in my wildest dreams that I could have the wedding that I wanted with the person I loved and with all my family and my friends.”

Related: Meddling Mom Bucks Law, Posts India’s First Gay Personal Ad For Son

Now, the couple are sharing their story to demonstrate how important acceptance is, and to show how families need to stay together and celebrate same-sex relationships the way they would any other couple.

In Rishi’s words: “In order to run a lot of those ceremonies, you really need everyone, the community’s involvement, otherwise it doesn’t really work.”

“Unfortunately, others have not had that support in their lives.”

Check out images from the wedding ceremony below:

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Rishi & Dan Hindu Gay Wedding Pioneering South Asian parents start Peel chapter of PFLAG When their son asked for a big fat Hindu gay wedding, Vijay and Sushma Agarwal had to face up to their community's fear and silence. CREDIT: Sukhbir Channa Photography add link: http://www.channaphotography.com/rishi-dans-wedding/

Rishi & Dan Hindu Gay Wedding Pioneering South Asian parents start Peel chapter of PFLAG When their son asked for a big fat Hindu gay wedding, Vijay and Sushma Agarwal had to face up to their community's fear and silence. CREDIT: Sukhbir Channa Photography add link: http://www.channaphotography.com/rishi-dans-wedding/

Rishi & Dan Hindu Gay Wedding Pioneering South Asian parents start Peel chapter of PFLAG When their son asked for a big fat Hindu gay wedding, Vijay and Sushma Agarwal had to face up to their community's fear and silence. CREDIT: Sukhbir Channa Photography add link: http://www.channaphotography.com/rishi-dans-wedding/

Rishi & Dan Hindu Gay Wedding Pioneering South Asian parents start Peel chapter of PFLAG When their son asked for a big fat Hindu gay wedding, Vijay and Sushma Agarwal had to face up to their community's fear and silence. CREDIT: Sukhbir Channa Photography add link: http://www.channaphotography.com/rishi-dans-wedding/

h/t: Pink News

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