Student Says She Was Kicked Out Of Gay Club For Being A Woman, Contacts Police

Student Says She Was Kicked Out Of Gay Club For Being A Woman, Contacts Police

Photo source: Hannah Riley/Facebook

Photo source: Hannah Riley/Facebook

All 21-year-old Hannah Riley wanted was to celebrate her friend’s birthday at one of the swankiest gay clubs in London. But her fun was completely ruined when she was refused entry into the club. Now, she wants to the world to know about the injustice she suffered at the hands of a merciless doorman.

It all started last Friday evening when Riley and her friends went to the popular SoHo nightclub G-A-Y.

Related: PHOTOS: London’s Biggest After Hours Party Is Simply Beyond

“We were about halfway to the front,” Riley, a lesbian, tells Buzzfeed in an interview, “and one of the security staff–a woman–said to me, ‘Er, ladies, have you got membership cards?’ And we said, ‘No.’ And she replied, ‘Well, you girls can’t come in then.’”

Riley tried appealing to the nearby doorman, but she says he just looked at her with a stone cold expression on his face and replied: “You’ve already been told you can’t come in, so why are you still here?”

So Riley and her friends went to another gay club called Heaven. When they got there, she says they faced a similar dilemma. As they approached the female security guard, Riley recalls, “she asked if we had membership cards and we said, ‘No we don’t,’ and she said, ‘Right, you can’t come in.’”

She continues: “I said, ‘This is really sexist,’ and left.”

Two police officers happened to be standing nearby, so Riley approached them. At this point, she was crying, but the officers were unsympathetic towards her plight.

“I said, ‘They didn’t let me in because I was a woman.’ They [the police officers] just laughed at me.”

Related: Azealia Banks Says Gay Men Are More Misogynistic Than Straights, Calls Them The F-Word

Defeated and upset, she and her friends caught the bus home. Their Friday night had been completely sabotaged.

In response to the treatment, Riley penned an open letter to G-A-Y on her blog, accusing the club of practicing poor “allyship” and not “embracing a diverse community.” She also criticized the two police officers “whose job it is to protect me” for laughing at her when her feelings were clearly very hurt.

Riley hopes that by sharing her story with the world, she will raise awareness to the issue of unfair treatment of women by gay men.

“I’ve had really awful experiences in [straight] clubs,” she says. “So I don’t like going to places that aren’t gay, so when I got turned away I was so upset. If I can’t go to the most famous gay bars in London, [then] where should I go?”

She continues: “I think the LGBT scene is just for gay men. It’s sad that women are put off going to gay bars. Why put yourself through queuing up if there’s a strong chance you’re not going to get in?”

As for bathrooms in gay bars, that’s a huge problem, too, Riley says.

“I’ve been to gay venues and used the men’s toilet because there’s a huge queue in the women’s. That should be a place where people don’t give you a funny look, and still the men are like, ‘Why are you in here?’”

She continues: “Gay men could be more open-minded and recognize the problem [of long lines in the women’s bathroom] and recognize they are in a privileged position: They can go out on a gay night and be surrounded by gay men in a place that caters exactly for their needs.”

Related: PHOTOS: Out-Of-Control Go-Go Boys Play With Each Other In London

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DVD: “54: The Director’s Cut,” “Princess,” “Like Cattle Towards Glow” & More!

DVD: “54: The Director’s Cut,” “Princess,” “Like Cattle Towards Glow” & More!

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It would seem the the dark side – at least of sexuality and human nature – runs strong through this week’s home entertainment selections.

An adolescent girl and her male doppleganger endure a difficult situation and emerging sexuality in Princess (above), while a naive albeit hot New Jersey boy lands in a decadent queer world in 54: The Director’s Cut.

Finally, controversial gay writer Dennis Cooper makes his (co-)directorial debut with a handful of tales about beautiful youth in crisis, Like Cattle Towards Glow.

Trailers and details await your scrolling!

 

Princess

($21.99 DVD; Breaking Glass Pictures)

A provocative Sundance Film Festival title, Israeli director Tali Shalom Ezer’s drama follows a 12-year-old girl, Adar, who comes across a male doppleganger, Alan, one day. They become fast friends, seemingly both intrigued by their physical semblance (Alan, by the way, appears to be a hustler), which also piques the curiosity of Alma’s mother’s boyfriend, Michael. In fact, Michael becomes downright smitten by the lad, and from there things get a bit dark and even dreamlike, leading one to wonder who this boy really is. Thought provoking, gorgeously lensed, and impressively acted by the two adolescent leads, this is a unique – and, admittedly, during one scene, quite uncomfortable – watch for sure.

 

54: The Director’s Cut

($14.99 Blu-ray, $9.99 DVD; Lionsgate)

Mark Christopher’s Saturday Night Fever-esque tale about a young New Jersey guy – played by Ryan Philippe – who enters the decadent, queer world of legendary NYC disco Studio 54 was infamously de-gayed by distributor Miramax back when it hit theaters in 1998. Over 15 years later, Christopher’s original, saucy unrated vision, complete with a gay kiss between Philippe and Breckin Meyer and more of Mike Myers as lecherous owner Steve Rubell, has been restored and released. A must!

 

Like Cattle Towards Glow

($24.99 DVD; TLA)

Writer Dennis Cooper (Frisk) brings more of his alternatively erotic and disturbing tales about queer lost, and sometimes murdered, youth to the screen with his first directorial effort, in collaboration with co-screenwriter/director Zac Farley. Comprised of five sometimes sexually explicit stories, the film’s protagonists include a hustler who specializes in necrophiliac clients, a skater boy who gets kidnapped, and a voyeur. Dark stuff, kids!

 

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The Finest Hours

 

How To Be Single

 

Risen

 

 

 

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Fergie to Headline This Year’s NYC Pride Dance on the Pier: WATCH

Fergie to Headline This Year’s NYC Pride Dance on the Pier: WATCH

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Pride Season has officially begun!

Eight-time Grammy Award-winner Fergie will be the headline performer of this year’s Dance on the Pier at NYC Pride (Sunday, June 26) at Pier 26, on Hudson River Park, Heritage of Pride announced this morning.

This year marks Dance on the Pier’s 30th anniversary, and it’s also the last time the event will take place on Pier 26. Dance on the Pier is a New York City LGBT tradition, and it always closes out NYC Pride Week, with fireworks, fierceness and fabulousness.

Our girl Fergalicious, multi-platinum solo artist and vocalist for The Black Eyed Peas, said on a video she posted this morning on YouTube that she was very excited to be part of the celebration.

 

cher, deborah cox, whoopi goldbergShe will join the impressive list of superstars who have also been part of the celebration in previous years: Cher, Whitney Houston, Deborah Cox, Demi Lovato, Jennifer Lopez and Ariana Grande, just to name a few.

“I’m so honored to be performing at the 30th Dance on the Pier at NYC Pride, the largest LGBT Pride celebration in the world. There have been so many incredible artists that have performed at this landmark event in the past, and we’re going to create something extra special to celebrate this milestone,” says Fergie.

The DJs this year will be Ben Baker, Honey Soundsystem, Hoxton Whores and Alain Jackinsky.

More than 7,500 people are expected to attend the Dance, and tickets always sell out way in advance. So you really need to get you tickets soon.

Tickets start at $25. For more information and to purchase tickets, visit here. 

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Nolan Gerard Funk, Nile Crocodiles, Bernie Sanders, Emilia Clarke, Jake Gyllenhaal: NEWS

Nolan Gerard Funk, Nile Crocodiles, Bernie Sanders, Emilia Clarke, Jake Gyllenhaal: NEWS

BERNIE SANDERS. New California ad attacks Clinton for refusing to debate him: “Prior to his rally, Clinton communications director Jennifer Palmieri sent out a statement about the former secretary of State’s decision to decline to debate Sanders. ‘We have declined Fox News’ invitation to participate in a debate in California,’ Palmieri said. ‘As we have said previously, we plan to compete hard in the remaining primary states, particularly California, while turning out attention to the threat a Donald Trump presidency poses.’”

ROMANIA. Groups push for ban on same-sex marriage: “Several groups linked to the Orthodox Church and united under the umbrella Coalition for Family are seeking a constitutional amendment to narrowly define marriage as the ‘union between a man and a woman’. It is the second such move in Europe this month after a group of mostly right-wing Italian politicians said they will push for a referendum to overturn the introduction of gay civil unions in their country.”

tutuSOUTH AFRICA. Desmond Tutu’s daughter forced to leave priesthood after marrying woman: “Reverend Canon Mpho Tutu-van Furth can no longer preside at Holy Communion, weddings, baptisms or funerals after handing in her licence because the church does not recognise gay marriage. She said her father, the retired archbishop and celebrated anti-apartheid campaigner, was “sad but not surprised” at the news.”

INVASION. Man-eating Nile crocodiles discovered in Florida. “Now four have been found in Florida, although none were that large. They were probably brought from South Africa and kept as pets or zoo displays. One was a hatchling about a foot long sitting on a porch in Miami. Another was found on the property of a private zoo in Homestead, Fla., and a third, a 10-pound female, was captured in a public park, also in Homestead. Finally, five months later, in March 2012, a three-foot-long female was trapped in a canal in Homestead, above. This one was tagged and released.”

hersheypark-660x330PENNSYLVANIA. Hershey Park issues trans-friendly policy: “For decades, Hersheypark has been dedicated to the safety and security of our guest and employees. It is foundational to our brand. Additionally, the Park has and will always strive to accommodate all guests and employees – including members of the LGBT community – to ensure those visiting or working at Hersheypark are comfortable and feel secure. To that end, the Park will continue its practice of treating all guests and employees the same no matter race, ethnicity, sexual identity, etc. Guests and employees may continue to use the restrooms with which they gender-identify, or are welcome to use the many family restrooms available across the destination.”

PROMOTION OF THE DAY. Nolan Gerard Funk prepares us for the Arrow finale.

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JAKE GYLLENHAAL SHOWERONE NIGHT ONLY. Jake Gyllenhaal to star in Sunday in the Park with George: “Jake Gyllenhaal, for a special performance on October 24 to raise money for the New York City Center, will be portraying post-impressionist artist Georges Seurat in the musical Sunday in the Park With George. The Pulitzer Prize–winning musical with music and lyrics by Stephen Sondheim and book by James Lapine chronicles the various, often humorous life exploits of a fictionalized Seuret as he works on his seminal painting ‘A Sunday Afternoon on the Island of La Grande Jatte.’”

TIM MURPHY. How gay men really feel about straight men: “I’m not alone, apparently. Via Facebook chat, I asked a few dozen gay male friends of mine, varying by race and age, what first came up for them when I said the words ‘straight men,’ and, almost uniformly, the results weren’t pretty.”

Bayna-Lehkiem-El-AminDALLAS BBQ TRIAL. Prosecutor argues that man charged with attacking gay couple had no justification: “The defendant didn’t attack these men because he was scared for his life — he attacked them because Jonathan Snipes humiliated him and he was pissed off,” the ADA argued. The bag-swatting by Snipes, who admittedly had several stiff drinks that evening, was not a ‘free pass’ for El-Amin ‘to do whatever he wants to [Snipes] and his partner, whenever he wants.’ Taking a blow from a soft and nearly empty bag was nothing compared to what El-Amin would do — stomping on Snipes’ head repeatedly and knocking out his boyfriend Ethan Adams by slamming a chair over his head.

EMILIA CLARKE. The Game of Thrones star demands more male nudity.

NATURE. Octopuses and other cephalopods experiencing surge in population: “The consistency was the biggest surprise,” said lead study author Zoë Doubleday of the University of Adelaide. “Cephalopods are notoriously variable, and population abundance can fluctuate wildly, both within and among species.”

KITE OF THE DAY. The giant octopus.

TECH. Here’s the world’s first 3D printed motorcycle: “The bike has been dubbed Light Rider, as it weights just 77 pounds, and it’s powered by a six-kilowatt electric engine that allows it to accelerate from 0 to 50 miles per hour in just a few seconds. By utilizing a “selective 3D laser printing system,” APWorks was able to mold melted minuscule aluminum alloy particles together to in turn create the web-like frame.”

TOO HOT FOR TUESDAY. Ricardo Rocha.

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Watch This Bizarre Music Video Christians Have Launched Against Target’s Transgender Policy

Watch This Bizarre Music Video Christians Have Launched Against Target’s Transgender Policy

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Janet PorterFaith2Action, a “pro-active launching pad for the pro-family movement,” is planning a new protest to highlight Target’s pro-transgender bathroom policy.

Anti-gay groups are up in arms at Target’s decision to allow transgender people to use bathrooms in accordance with their gender identity. Earlier this month, a bible-waving Christian mom took her family into Target on Mother’s Day to protest the company.

Now, Faith2Action – best known for their utterly charming documentary Light Wins: How To Overcome The Criminalization Of Christianity – are planning a “Don’t Target Our Daughters Day” on June 4. Faith2Action head honcho Janet Porter (right) and co. are hoping the protest will be an opportunity to warn shoppers about Target’s policy allowing “predators and sex offenders” into women’s restrooms and fitting rooms.

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RELATED: Janet Porter: ‘Homosexualizing of Marriage’ Will Lead To ‘Criminalization of Christianity’ – VIDEO

To promote “Don’t Target Our Daughters Day,” Faith2Action has produced a music video of sorts soundtracked by the worst in Christian music:

“No matter how long it’s shouted, sin is not a civil right,

And calling evil good will never make it right.”

Okaaaay then….

According to Huffington Post, the video also shows a little girl being attacked in a bathroom and a righteous ex-customer cutting up a store card. That’ll show ‘em.

Earlier this month, American Family Association facilitated the first documented cases of sexual predators using Target’s policy by sending men into the retailer’s bathrooms. Makes sense.

Watch Faith2Action’s video below.

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HRC Arkansas Hosts Workshops for Teach for America Summit

HRC Arkansas Hosts Workshops for Teach for America Summit

Post submitted by James K Rector, HRC Arkansas Field Organizer

Earlier this month, HRC Arkansas presented three workshops to over 30 students in rural Arkansas at the Teach for America (TFA) Arkansas Student Leadership Initiative. TFA works to provide a diverse corps of recent college graduates that make a two-year commitment to give back to local urban and rural communities. Through this service they provide leadership in schools that in are in distress and help with educational inequity within schools.

The workshops were divided into middle school, high school and elementary school, but the content and structure remained the same. During the workshop, students were asked to think of places that they felt safe and unsafe and to compare the two. Diving deeper into the discussion, the students were then asked what made them feel unsafe. This discussion ultimately led to the topic of bullying in schools.

LGBTQ students continue to face challenges, especially at school.  HRC’s groundbreaking report, Growing Up LGBT in Americafound that LGBTQ youth are twice as likely as their peers to say they have been physically assaulted, kicked or shoved at school. Twenty-one percent of LGBTQ youth identified school/bullying as the most important problem facing them right now. Shockingly, 92 percent of LGBTQ youth say they hear negative messages about being LGBT. The top sources are school and their peers.

By identifying bullying as a problem and focusing on what students could do to help in certain situations, they developed ally pledges with a goal of taking them back to their schools to share with teachers and students. The groups also discussed creating visibility about bullying through social media.

One pledge offered by a group of third graders was, “I pledge to be truthful, kind, and respectful as an ally to anyone, because everyone deserves to be heard and seen equally.”

This meeting was part of HRC and TFA’s formal partnership, allowing HRC to share our Welcoming Schools program broadly across the U.S.

The workshops were modeled after activities for classrooms that can be found on the Welcoming Schools website. Arkansas is one of two southern states in the U.S. that includes sexual orientation and gender identity in their state’s anti-bullying laws.

HRC Welcoming Schools is a comprehensive approach to creating respectful and supportive elementary schools with resources and professional development to embrace family diversity, create LGBTQ-inclusive schools, prevent bias-based bullying and gender stereotyping, and support transgender and gender-expansive students.

Being supported at home, in school and in the community is important for all children and youth – especially LGBTQ youth. From creating an inclusive learning environment for students – whether a student is in the process of transitioning or she has two moms – to understanding the challenges and resiliency of LGBTQ youth, HRC provides a wealth of resources for supporting LGBTQ youth. To learn more about how you can support LGBTQ youth, click here.

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HRC Participates in HIV is Not a Crime II Conference; Advocates to End Bad HIV Laws

HRC Participates in HIV is Not a Crime II Conference; Advocates to End Bad HIV Laws

Last week, I attended the HIV is Not a Crime II National Training Academy in Huntsville at the University of Alabama. Positive Women’s Network USA and the Sero Project, two groups leading the fight against HIV criminalization in the U.S., organized the conference. Co-sponsors included HRC, GMHC, the Southern AIDS Coalition, the Williams Institute and several others.

In a room of more than 300 advocates and activists, topics such as criminal justice reform, anti-Blackness and sex workers’ rights were discussed and debated in plenary sessions and workshops throughout the week. While everyone may not have agreed on every point or every issue, there was broad consensus that something had to be done to address the harmful effects of HIV criminalization laws, which run counter to public health and perpetuate stigma against people living with or affected by HIV.

The conference began with former Secretary of State Hillary Clinton who welcomed attendees, including several from Canada, Germany, Mexico and the United Kingdom, and reaffirmed her commitment to ending the unfair prosecution of people living with HIV and AIDS. In a plenary session entitled Anti-Blackness & HIV Criminalization: Grounding Ourselves in Racial Justice, Akil Patterson, Steven Thrasher, Isaiah Wilson and Tyrone Hanley discussed the racialized aspects of the Michael Johnson case and how Black LGBTQ advocates from across the country banned together to educate the LGBTQ community about his case. In April, HRC signed onto an amicus brief led by the National Center for Lesbian Rights in support of Johnson.

Conference attendees also heard from Kerry Thomas, a Black man who is currently serving 30 years in an Idaho prison for non-disclosure, even though he used a condom and did not actually transmit HIV to a partner. Other speakers included Mary FisherJoel Goodman and Colorado State Senator Pat Steadman.

Ultimately, HIV Is Not a Crime Training Academy II made clear to me that there are advocates and networks of activists all across the country who are working passionately to address the criminalization of HIV and sex work in the U.S.  I left with a greater responsibility to integrate those messages and personal narratives as often as I can into my daily work.

In more than 30 states, people living with HIV can be tried and imprisoned simply because a partner accuses them of hiding their HIV status. While originally thought to promote disclosure of one’s HIV status, there’s no proof these laws work. And they run counter to public health by discouraging HIV testing and treatment and perpetuating stigma. Join the Human Rights Campaign, National Center for Lesbian Rights, and Center for HIV Law & Policy as we raise awareness and work to end bad HIV laws. Click here to learn more.

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Guide Helps LGBTQ Youth Face Issues of Living Independently When Forced to Leave Unsupportive Homes

Guide Helps LGBTQ Youth Face Issues of Living Independently When Forced to Leave Unsupportive Homes

Today, HRC Foundation, in partnership with the True Colors Fund, co-founded by Cyndi Lauper, and Time Out Youth Center in Charlotte, North Carolina, released an innovative guide for LGBTQ youth facing the daunting prospect of living on their own after leaving unsupportive or abusive homes, or aging out of foster care.

On Our Own: A Survival Guide for Independent LGBTQ Youth is geared toward older teens and young adults forced to fend for themselves, typically without parental support and often lacking the skills or resources needed to live safely and begin building a successful life. The guide provides practical advice on essential topics ranging from finding housing, going to school and opening a bank account, to getting a job, accessing healthcare and living on a budget.

“As we work toward a more equal world for LGBTQ people, we know that our youth remain vulnerable, particularly when they are rejected by their families simply because of who they are,” said Mary Beth Maxwell, HRC Senior Vice President for Programs, Research, and Training. “The distressing reality is that far too many LGBTQ young people are forced to fend for themselves, and struggle daily to find housing, food, and other basic resources.”

“As the mother of a teenager, I’m constantly reminded of how important it is for young people to have help and guidance as they transition to adulthood,” Maxwell said. “We were honored to partner with True Colors and Time Out Youth to provide this practical roadmap for LGBTQ youth looking to independently establish stability and security in their lives.”

Across the country, LGBTQ youth are particularly vulnerable to homelessness. Research shows that of the nearly two million young people affected by homelessness each year, up to 40 percent identify as LGBTQ — even though they make up only five to 10 percent of the overall youth population. Many homeless LGBTQ young people say they have been rejected by their families. They also often face harassment or discrimination when attempting to access shelters and other services. The new guide highlights many LGBTQ-friendly service providers.

LGBTQ youth are also overrepresented in the foster care system, where they face unique challenges because of their identities, and often age out without the support necessary to live successfully on their own.

“LGBTQ youth experiencing homelessness may not know how to navigate certain situations, like opening a bank account, accessing healthcare, or locating food – and they may not have anyone to ask for guidance,” said Jama Shelton, Deputy Executive Director of True Colors Fund. “‘On Our Own’ provides the information and resources these young people need to thrive.”

“So many of our youth become independent at an early age and do not know where to turn for help or have the basic skills to survive on their own,” said Rodney S. Tucker, Executive Director, Time Out Youth. “We hope this guide will answer some of their big questions and get them on the path to stability.”

For more information on LGBTQ youth, including issues of homelessness and foster care, visit www.hrc.org/resources/topic/children-youth

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