Sir Elton John Condemns North Carolina’s HB2; Highlights Governor’s Ignorance of Transgender Issues

Sir Elton John Condemns North Carolina’s HB2; Highlights Governor’s Ignorance of Transgender Issues

In a powerful op-ed in The Hill, Sir Elton John condemned North Carolina’s discriminatory HB2 and criticized Governor Pat McCrory’s ignorance on transgender issues.

“North Carolina Gov. Pat McCrory has doubled down on his support for H.B. 2, the discriminatory bill requiring public school students to use restrooms for the gender they were assigned at birth,” he wrote. “What’s worse than the discriminatory bill itself, and the millions in taxpayer dollars McCrory is wasting to defend it, is that the governor signed it after admitting he had never met a transgender person. Although McCrory later walked his statement back, the message he sent was clear: the actual experiences of transgender people have no place in a debate over their basic rights.”

HB2 is an outrageous and unprecedented anti-LGBT law that eliminated existing municipal non-discrimination protections for LGBT people and living wage ordinances and prevents such protections from being passed by cities in the future. The legislation also forces transgender students in public schools to use restrooms and other facilities inconsistent with their gender identity, putting $4.5 billion in federal education funding alone at risk, and compelling the same type of discrimination against transgender people to take place in publicly-owned buildings, including in public universities, convention centers, and airports. Further, it gutted the existing ability of people who have been discriminated against – including on the basis of race, religion, and sex – to sue in state court, undermining critical discrimination protections for all.

“Forcing transgender people to use the bathroom of a gender with which they don’t identify isn’t just inconvenient or impractical. For many, especially young students still grappling with their transition, it can be traumatic, and at worst, unsafe,” he continued. “The failure of McCrory and other lawmakers to see this is a failure of compassion, a failure to recognize the difficult and frequently unwelcoming world transgender people must navigate every day, stigmatized by the fear and ignorance of others.”

Sir Elton John is a longtime HRC supporter and HIV & AIDS activist. He is also the founder of the Elton John AIDS Foundation, a global non-profit organization that works tirelessly to combat stigma, prevent transmissions, provide treatment and services, and motivate governments to end HIV & AIDS. 

“McCrory and others who support these discriminatory bathroom bills need to reverse course, but moreover, they need a lesson in compassion,” he concluded. “They need to recognize the existence of trans people, and they need to acknowledge that all people have a fundamental desire — and a fundamental right — to be treated fairly.”

Read the op-ed in full here.

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Regular Guys Get Photoshopped With Men’s “Ideal” Body Types

Regular Guys Get Photoshopped With Men’s “Ideal” Body Types

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If you think drag queens spend a lot of time contouring, shading and highlighting, you’ve never seen a professional photoshopper in action.

It’s no secret that the finished product in ads and magazine spreads have passed through some serious editing phases, with the result always coming out the same: chiseled, smooth and bulky in all the way’s you’d expect.

Related: One Man’s Body Is Morphed To Fit 19 World Beauty Standards

In a recent Buzzfeed “Try Guys” video, the gents try their hand at recreating some iconic shots to see how much power those tech-savvy photo magicians really have.

Along the way, some interesting conversation happens. Insecurity, body image, societal standards…what does it all mean?

Love yourself seems to be the answer, in whatever form that takes for you.

Watch below:

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Boy Erased: A Preacher’s Son Recounts His Failed Journey Through Gay Conversion Therapy

Boy Erased: A Preacher’s Son Recounts His Failed Journey Through Gay Conversion Therapy

Garrard Conley Boy Erased memoir gay conversion therapy

Our TowleREAD audio segment returns this week with a new memoir from Garrard Conley. Boy Erased recounts Arkansas native Conley’s life growing up in a religious home and being sent away to gay conversion therapy, an ordeal he would survive but which would drastically affect his life.

Longtime Towleroad readers will be familiar with the program Conley attended as the same one that teenager Zach Stark was sent to after he made national headlines in 2005 after sending out a call for help on his MySpace blog.

Conley spoke with Towleroad about Boy Erased, and he reads from the book in a segment below. Please have a listen.

 

Said Conley:

In 2004, I attended Love in Action’s “ex-gay” conversion therapy program in Memphis, TN. My father had just become a Missionary Baptist preacher, and his new calling required him to take drastic steps with his recently outed son. There was simply no way he would be accepted as an ordained minister if people knew about my “sexual deviance.”

While he stayed home to prepare for his ordination ceremony, my mother and I travelled to Memphis, where I underwent two weeks of therapy. Spoiler alert: It didn’t work.

I didn’t talk about my experience for 8 years. My parents and I never had conversations about what had happened or why my therapy had failed. I joined the Peace Corps and moved to Ukraine and tried to put the past behind me. But as most “ex-gay” survivors know, the trauma we experienced is not often immediately decipherable, though its effects are long lasting.

I began to wonder why I experienced so many intimacy issues, why another man’s touch would sometimes burn my skin. I wondered why I didn’t feel very close to my parents, why so many things were left unsaid. Many of us who have lived in fundamentalist households or experienced the mind-numbing effects of a fundamentalist church know just how persistent denial can be.

So when I returned home to the States one summer, I began to interview my mom. I asked her to sit down at a table with me, and I placed a recorder between us, and I listened to her side of the story. She listed to my side. We cried, and we laughed, and we asked for forgiveness. Hearing my mother’s take on Love in Action’s therapeutic process was extremely helpful in structuring my book. I was able to fill in the gaps in my memory, look at the experience anew.

When I talk about this subject, so many people ask me, “How could a parent ever subject a child to ‘ex-gay’ therapy?” And my answer is always, “Have you never visited these towns? Have you never been to the Bible Belt?” It is my hope that this book offers a window into the evangelical world for the incredulous outsider and a shock of recognition to the initiated insider.

Conley’s fiction and nonfiction has been published in The Common, The Madison Review, The Virginia Quarterly Review. He teaches English literature and promotes LGBTQ equality in Sofia, Bulgaria.

You can pick up Boy Erased on Amazon.

You can also buy any of the books we have featured on TowleREAD in our store.

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Gay SCOTUS Marriage Plaintiffs Denied Cemetery Headstone by Louisville Archdiocese: WATCH

Gay SCOTUS Marriage Plaintiffs Denied Cemetery Headstone by Louisville Archdiocese: WATCH

Bourke and De Leon gay couple headstone

Greg Bourke and Michael De Leon, a gay couple who were among the plaintiffs in one of the cases involved in last June’s historic marriage equality ruling by the Supreme Court, would like to commemorate that on their cemetery headstone, but have been denied, WDRB reports:

Both are Catholic and purchased a joint burial plot in St. Michael Cemetery in Louisville. They submitted their headstone design for approval, which included an image of the Supreme Court and interlocking wedding bans.  But the cemetery run by the Archdiocese denied it, saying the headstone conflicted with the teachings of the church.

Here’s their design:

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Read the letter from the ARchdiocese:

Bourke and De Leon are planning to hold a “Freedom to Bury” press conference on Wednesday morning.

 

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Demi Lovato and Nick Jonas Carpool Karaoke with James Corden: WATCH

Demi Lovato and Nick Jonas Carpool Karaoke with James Corden: WATCH

Carpool Karaoke

Demi Lovato and Nick Jonas joined James Corden last night for another round of his infectiously fun Carpool Karaoke and it did not disappoint.

In addition to banging out “Heart Attack”,”Stone Cold”, “Chains”, and “Close”, they also took on Joe Jonas and DNCE’s massive hit “Cake By the Ocean” and Jonas squealed “It’s about sex!”

Nick Jonas

Nick also reminisced about getting tied up in front of his gay fans as he sang “Chains”.

“I performed at a gay club one time and they literally chained me to the wall as I’m performing the song. It was very, very erotic.”

Finally, Jonas, Lovato, and Corden ended the ride by forming a band and performing a concert on the sidewalk.

Watch:

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HRC Joins Logo, U.N. Free & Equal Campaign in Recognizing Resilient LGBTI Activists Around the World

HRC Joins Logo, U.N. Free & Equal Campaign in Recognizing Resilient LGBTI Activists Around the World

In recognition of International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia and Transphobia (IDAHOT) on May 17, the Human Rights Campaign joins Logo and the United Nations Free & Equality Campaign in highlighting the resilience of activists across the world who work tirelessly for the rights of LGBTQ people.

HRC is a partner in Logo’s Global Ally campaign, a year-long multi-platform storytelling project which features video interviews with dozens of international LGBTI activists. The campaign provides Logo’s audience with first-hand looks into the lives of LGBTI individuals across the world and features more than a dozen ways that LGBTI people and allies can take action for international equality. The Global Ally campaign features several of the incredible innovators who attended HRC’s inaugural Global Innovative Advocacy Summit earlier this year.

HRC also partnered with the United Nations Free & Equal (U.N.F.E.) Campaign in the release of their inspiring video Why We Fight. The U.N.F.E. Campaign asked people to help create a video that captures some of the strength and spirit that LGBTQ activists and allies bring to their work and the sheer diversity of causes that help make up the movement globally. The result is a celebration of activism and a reminder of why we fight.

HRC also partnered with the United Nations Free & Equal (U.N.F.E.) Campaign in the release of their inspiring video Why We Fight. The U.N.F.E. Campaign asked people to help create a video that captures some of the strength and spirit that LGBTQ activists and allies bring to their work and the sheer diversity of causes that help make up the movement globally. The result is a celebration of activism and a reminder of why we fight.

IDAHOT was created in 2004 to draw the attention of policymakers, political leaders, the public and the media to the violence and discrimination experienced by LGBTQ people and those who do not conform to socially defined sexual and gender norms. IDAHOT also recognizes significant advances in LGBTQ equality through celebrations that raise the visibility of the LGBTQ community.

Millions of people around the world commemorate IDAHOT and many authorities, including  city councils, national governments, regional institutions and United Nations agencies, have officially recognized the holiday.

IDAHOT also reminds us that there is still a lot of work to do. At least 75 countries criminalize same-sex relationships and same-sex conduct may be punishable by death in up to 10 countries. HRC Global stands in solidarity with advocates everywhere against homophobia, transphobia, biphobia and all forms of hate facing the LGBTQ community across the globe. Read more about the work of HRC Global here.

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Think globally: Today is International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia

Think globally: Today is International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia

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The International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia (IDAHOT), observed annually on May 17th, draws the attention of policymakers, opinion leaders, social movements,the public and the media to the violence and discrimination experienced by LGBT people internationally. Since the day’s founding in 2004, IDAHOT has been reported in 124 countries, involving over 1,200 local, national and global organizations.

“The date of May 17th was specifically chosen to commemorate the World Health Organization’s decision in 1990 to declassify homosexuality as a mental disorder,” the IDAHOT Committee notes on their website. Hearkening back to IDAHOT’s inception, global LGBT activists have selected “Mental Health and Well Being” as the theme for IDAHOT 2016:

Sexual and gender diversities are still characterized by many states and by a majority of people worldwide as mental health problems, and these definitions then feature at the heart of public persecution, discrimination and social stigma. Even in more progressive places, this assumption, albeit unconscious, still lies at the root of many barriers to full equality for LGBTI people. 

Within the wide range of consequences this has for sexual, gender and bodily minorities, advocates have wished to highlight two particular situations:

– A mental health diagnosis like “Gender identity disorder” (GID) is mandatory in almost all countries for any Trans person wishing to transition. While some form of diagnosis remains necessary to access health care as desired by Trans people, to keep this diagnosis within the mental health categories contributes to the stigmatization and social exclusion of trans people, without contributing to their physical or mental well-being.

– The “psychiatric” argument is still used in many places to justify the “treatment” of LGBT people, that aims to ‘reform’ or ‘cure’ them of their ‘disease.’ While there is a growing consensus against this approach, “conversion therapies” still constitute a major challenge in many contexts.

“The International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia is not one centralized campaign,” the IDAHOT Committee asserts, “rather it is a moment that everyone can take advantage of to take action.”

This year, Congresswoman Barbara Lee introduced House Resolution 263, a resolution supporting  the goals and ideals of IDAHOT and offically marking May 17th the International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia.  The bill is endorsed by GLAAD and several other LGBT and human rights organizations, and is supported by 67 other members of congress. 

In a letter urging her fellow Congres members to cosponsor the bill, Congresswoman Barbara Lee wrote:

Whether here at home or around the world, homophobia and transphobia are alive and well – and it is up to us to speak out.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), homophobia can affect one’s physical and mental health, including increased risk of depression and suicide. Homophobia can also result in limiting access to high quality health care, and negatively affect income and employment status. For many people who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT), community environments – such as schools, clinical settings, and the workplace – are unsafe and unwelcoming spaces.

Worldwide, some 2.8 billion people live in the nearly 80 countries that criminalize same-sex activities. LGBT individuals in these countries live in a climate of fear, and are often threatened with discrimination, imprisonment, and violence. From the Gambia to former Soviet Union countries, parliaments have passed or are considering new criminalization provisions or so-called anti-LGBT “propaganda” laws.

Here in the United States, despite advances made in achieving marriage equality for same-sex couples, LGBT people still face hatred and discrimination.

Nearly one-third of students who identify as LGBT drop out of high school due to violence, harassment, and social isolation. And 40 percent of homeless youth in America identify as LGBT.

To find International Day of Homophobia, Transphobia & Biphobia events to attend, check out IDAHOT’s list global events here

Our movement is a global movement #WhyWeFight t.co/e27yGRRMHn

— IDAHOT (@may17IDAHOT) May 13, 2016

May 17, 2016
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www.glaad.org/blog/think-globally-today-international-day-against-homophobia-transphobia-and-biphobia