Obamas Send Heartfelt RSVP to Binational Same-Sex Wedding
The first family wished binational couple Chelsea Roden and Lisa Hirschpek well on their wedding day.
www.advocate.com/marriage-equality/2016/5/16/obamas-send-heartfelt-rsvp-binational-same-sex-wedding
Hate Cake Pastor Admits He Made Up the Whole Story
The gay pastor who accused Whole Foods of writing an antigay slur on his cake is recanting.
www.advocate.com/business/2016/5/16/hate-cake-pastor-admits-he-made-whole-story
Tourists Canceling Visits to North Carolina, Mississippi After Anti-LGBT Laws
These states stand to lose billions of dollars in revenue each year.
Groundhog Day: Ben Carson Confirms Trump Might Pick Sarah Palin for VP
Just in case you thought America had a functioning democracy, over the weekend noted idiot Ben Carson leaked a few details about a few of the other inmates currently in the running to finish the 200-year-old job of destroying the country.
Trump has, for reasons that will probably never be clear, allowed Ben Carson some measure of authority over choosing the Vice Presidential nominee. And while been shadowed by a Washington Post employee, Ben just blabbed some of the names that they’re considering. And among them was walking patois Sarah Palin.
Also on the list: John Kasich, Marco Rubio, Ted Cruz, and Chris Christie.
But it seems unlikely that Trump would pick any of these court jesters. John Kasich is boring, Marco Rubio is a turnip, Ted Cruz has a voice like someone hooked a vacuum cleaner up to a saxophone, and Chris Christie just makes everyone sad. Sarah Palin is more aligned with Trump’s brand, in that she is an actual crazy person from another planet. But even she is too predictable. Trump will undoubtedly want to choose someone shocking who we never saw coming.
That’s why, in a few weeks, we can probably look forward to an announcement about Trump teaming up with the comedian Gallagher; or Michael Jordan; or the man who invented the selfie stick. Somebody so unpredictably bizarre that we cannot resist the urge to discuss the choice at length until we are even more nauseated than we thought possible.
After the article was published, in fact, Carson attempted to clarify: they’re considering everyone for the post, so yes, of course Sarah Palin is on the list. But they’re not ruling anyone out, so it could be Elton John or Bill Nye or the ghost of Pablo Picasso for all we know.
And so there you have it: the country could soon be in the hands of some bumbling henchmen sidekicks, with a level of competence commensurate with someone who might follow The Penguin around. America! You can’t say we don’t get the leaders we deserve.
RuPaul Explains Why ‘Drag Race’ Can’t Go Mainstream – WATCH
In an interview with Nightline, RuPaul says that he he thinks his hit show RuPaul’s Drag Race will never be able to go ‘mainstream’ because drag is inherently antithetical to mainstream culture.
RuPaul told ABC News’ Dan Harris,
“I don’t think the show could ever go mainstream because drag is the antithesis of the matrix. You know, the matrix says, ‘Pick an identity and stick with it. Because I want to sell you some beer and shampoo and I need you to stick with what you are so I’ll know how to market it to you.’ Drag is the opposite. Drag says, ‘Identity is a joke,’” RuPaul explained.
He added, “I think that I haven’t been accepted in mainstream media outlets like ‘The Tonight Show’ or ‘Ellen’ or the late-night shows because the only way they could actually have a conversation with me is to make fun of me, or if they could somehow make a joke about what I’m doing.”
Ru also shared his emotional connection to the show and its contestants:
“‘Drag Race’ is popular because at its core it is the story of the tenacity of the human spirit. We get to see these kids who have been pushed aside by society, who’ve made a way for themselves to be seen and to be great. And watching them thrive throughout these challenges is captivating, especially knowing their stories. And I know their stories because it’s my story. It really is the story of really everyone who thinks outside the box.”
He adds,
“You know, show business is not for sissies. Drag ain’t for sissies. You’ve got to toughen up. I’m not on this show to … to make it easy, you know? I wanna prepare them.”
But through it all, Ru says he tries to balance his emotional reaction to the contestants’ stories with being their mama hen:
“…they’re looking to me to know how to react, so I react with compassion and with my heart. But I don’t want to break down, even though I do want to break down. You know, I have to stay strong because they see me as Mama Ru.”
RuPaul also addressed the way in which mainstream ‘straight’ culture often steals from gay culture, saying,
“It always has. My whole life time it has. It’s fine. We got plenty…Listen as a gay man … I’ve always been gay. It’s always happened in our culture, always, where mainstream culture will say, ‘Ooh, I think I’ll take that,’ you know? It’s fine. I’m just calling it for what it is. It’s perfectly fine.”
Watch the interview, below.
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Austin LGBT Advocates Renew Push for Rainbow-Colored Gay Pride Crosswalks
LGBT advocates in America’s third-gayest city have renewed their push to install rainbow-colored crosswalks on a downtown street.
Austin Pride wants two rainbow-colored crosswalks on Bettie Naylor Street — named for a pioneering Texas LGBT activist — in the city’s warehouse district, which is home to its largest gay nightclubs.
The rainbow crosswalks received initial approval from the City Council in 2014, but the proposal was later rejected due to a lack of public support after some nearby business owners objected.
Now, Austin Pride has launched a Change.org petition to resurrect the project:
The Rainbow Crosswalks for the 4th & Colorado area were approved by the Austin City Council in 2014, with the caveat that the proposal be sent to the City Of Austin Art & Cultural Board for Artwork Donation Approval. That Art & Cultural Board voted it down, due to, in part, the ‘lack of public support’, which was initially gathered on their website, prior to the Board Meeting/Vote. They were also swayed by a couple of local businesses that didn’t want the rainbow crosswalks near their businesses. It is important to note that the City of Austin is in support of the proposed crosswalks. Support is to be reintroduced to the City and the Arts & Cultural Board for approval. Please take a moment and sign this petition, which will be presented to the City Council as proof of public support for this project.
What The Rainbow Crosswalks Will Represent?
Above all, the crosswalks will be an indication of Austin’s inclusion, unity, and acceptance.
It will stand as a beacon and a symbol of diversity to everyone who lives in and visits Austin, as a city that is welcome to and accepting of everyone, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.
The initial installation is proposed to be provided by the City of Austin. Up keep and repainting will be paid for utilizing private funds and donations gathered by the Austin Gay and Lesbian Pride Foundation.
Nearly 2,500 people have signed the petition in the three days since it was launched.
Other cities with rainbow-colored crosswalks include San Francisco, Toronto and Vancouver.
Watch a report from Time Warner Cable News here.
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ACLU and Lambda Legal Seek to Immediately Halt Enforcement of North Carolina’s HB 2
The ACLU, the ACLU of North Carolina and Lambda Legal have filed a lawsuit in federal court against North Carolina’s anti-LGBT bathroom bill, HB 2, requesting that enforcement of the law be halted immediately.
The two civil rights legal groups argue that HB 2 singles out transgender individuals as targets for sex-based discrimination.
Via press release:
The three organizations and the law firm of Jenner and Block are challenging the law, House Bill 2, on behalf of six LGBT North Carolinians and members of the ACLU of North Carolina. They filed today’s motion for preliminary injunction while the case proceeds through the court system.
“HB 2 is causing ongoing and serious harm to transgender people in North Carolina and must be put on hold while it is reviewed by the court,” said Chris Brook, ACLU of North Carolina legal director. “The Justice Department has made it clear that HB 2 violates federal law. Gov. McCrory and the North Carolina Legislature wrote into state law discrimination against transgender people who just want to be able to use public facilities safely and securely.”
Kyle Palazzolo, Lambda legal staff attorney, said, “Each day that transgender North Carolinians are singled out by this harmful law, whether they are at school, at work, or just moving through their daily lives in society is another day the state is causing irreparable harm to an already vulnerable community. As Attorney General Lynch said this week, ‘none of us can stand by when a state enters the business of legislating identity and insists that a person pretend to be something they are not, or invents a problem that doesn’t exist as a pretext for discrimination and harassment,’ and we couldn’t agree more.”
Last week, U.S. Attorney General Loretta Lynch announced that the Department of Justice would be suing North Carolina and Governor Pat McCrory for violating Title VII of the Civil Rights Act, Title IX, and the Violence Against Women Act.
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LGBT Rights Just Won An Unexpected Victory Despite Clarence Thomas
A potentially serious blow to LGBT rights will not happen, most likely because Justice Scalia isn’t around to deliver it.
The post LGBT Rights Just Won An Unexpected Victory Despite Clarence Thomas appeared first on ThinkProgress.
thinkprogress.org/justice/2016/05/16/3778546/lgbt-rights-just-dodged-huge-bullet-supreme-court/
Women for the Repeal of HB2: A Transgender Perspective
Today, TurnOUT! North Carolina (NC), a coalition of HRC, Equality North Carolina, the ACLU and the Campaign for Southern Equality, launched a three-city press tour across the Tar Heel State featuring the voices and perspectives of women in North Carolina against the discriminatory HB 2. Starting in Raleigh today then continuing to Greenville and Charlotte later this week, “Women for the Repeal of HB2” will feature a diverse range of women’s voices, experiences and concerns calling for full repeal of this discriminatory law.
Women from North Carolina Coalition Against Sexual Assault (NC CASA), Planned Parenthood South Atlantic, Action NC, WomenNC, League of Women Voters–Charlotte-Mecklenberg, Sister Song and several state and local elected leaders are joining the tour.
Today in Raleigh, Alexis Dee, President of the Southern Comfort Conference Board of Directors, kicked off the press conference. The Southern Comfort Conference is one of the largest transgender conferences in North America, celebrating 26 years of service. Alexis, who is wife, mother and grandmother, has lived in Southport, North Carolina for the past 15 years as a proud transgender woman.
“I frequent local restaurants, shopping malls and theaters in both North Carolina and South Carolina. I fly extensively throughout the United States using various North and South Carolina airports, including Myrtle Beach, Wilmington, Raleigh and Charlotte,” she said. “I have used the women’s restrooms exclusively in all those places for the past 15 years with absolutely no incidents, problems or privacy issues with other users of the restroom.”
HB2 is an outrageous and unprecedented anti-LGBT law that eliminated existing municipal non-discrimination protections for LGBT people and living wage ordinances and prevents such protections from being passed by cities in the future. The legislation also forces transgender students in public schools to use restrooms and other facilities inconsistent with their gender identity, putting 4.5 billion dollars in federal education funding alone at risk, and it compels the same type of discrimination against transgender people to take place in publicly-owned buildings, including in public universities, convention centers, and airports. Further, it gutted the existing ability of people who have been discriminated against – including on the basis of race, religion, and sex – to sue in state court, undermining critical discrimination protections for all.
“The governor’s contention that transgender women and men are predators or pedophiles is personally hurtful and very insulting,” she continued. “It is hurtful and insulting for entire trans community…and it is very wrong!”
It’s already illegal to enter a restroom for the purpose of assaulting anyone. That was true the day before Charlotte passed its non-discrimination ordinance, and it was true the day after. Additionally, there have been no increases in public safety incidents in the more than 100 cities and 18 states that have passed non-discrimination laws like Charlotte’s. What’s more, a survey of transgender North Carolinians found that half of respondents had been harassed or discriminated against in public places like hotels, restrooms, restaurants and other public services.
Recently the Charlotte Observer confirmed what advocates for equality have been saying all along: “Virtually no cases of sexual predators benefiting from transgender anti-discrimination laws”
This is why TurnOUT! NC is working to mobilize the voices of women, both transgender and allied, to speak out for the full repeal of HB2. TurnOUT! NC has field organizers based in Asheville, Charlotte and the Triangle area. Additionally, HRC staff is on the ground working with coalition partners across the Tar Heel State. There are daily opportunities to volunteer with weekly phonebanks and weekend canvassing opportunities.
If you live in North Carolina and want to join the efforts to repeal HB2, RSVP for upcoming phonebanks and volunteer opportunities. For more information about our work in North Carolina, contact HRC Associate Regional Field Director Ryan Rowe at [email protected].
Above: Alexis Dee, President of the Southern Comfort Conference Board of Directors speaking in Raleigh on Monday about how HB2 impacts transgender North Carolinians.
Below: Monika Johnson Hostler, Executive Director of NC Coalition Against Sexual Assault (NC CASA), sharing that HB 2 does nothing to protect women from sexual violence.
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