Interview: Summayah Dawud talks about being a transgender Muslim woman

Interview: Summayah Dawud talks about being a transgender Muslim woman

PC: Summayah Dawud

In an effort to continually raise awareness and celebrate transgender people, GLAAD has conducted interviews with transgender individuals of faith as part of an ongoing series. This series aims to highlight the reality that transgender people exist across many religions and faiths.

Sumayyah Dawud is a transgender Muslim woman and a human rights activist. She was assigned male at birth and transitioned in November 2010. Sumayyah embraced Islam in March 2013 after having studied and explored many world religions. She was born and raised in Arizona and has spent most of her life in Phoenix and Tucson. Sumayyah loves the outdoors but is not so fond of the hot summer months. Her daily routine is not complete without at least one large iced espresso drink with whipped cream on top.

 

GLAAD: What is your relationship to your faith?

Sumayyah Dawud: I am a Muslim. I converted to Islam in 2013 and I consider Islam to be central to my life and the most important aspect of my life. I arrived at this decision to become Muslim after exploring many world religions and finding complete agreement with the beliefs and practices of Islam.

GLAAD: How has your faith impacted your coming out process/transition?

Sumayyah Dawud: I went through my gender transition in 2010 so I was already living full time as a woman when I embraced Islam. Knowing that the Muslim community has an unfortunate level of transphobia and ignorance regarding transgender people, I chose to keep my status as transgender private except to close friends. However, in 2015 leaders at the mosque I most frequently attended obtained information about me being transgender and then publicly outed me and banned me from the mosque. Since then I have been working at advocating for the rights and inclusion of transgender Muslim women.

GLAAD: What do you want to tell to people of faith who do not understand what it means to be transgender, or still hold onto misinformation and stereotypes?

Sumayyah Dawud: Being transgender is not a choice, it is simply who we are. Our gender is inborn and cannot be chosen. Transgender people are not deceiving anyone but rather just being ourselves and we should be accepted, loved, and included the same as any other human being in this world

 

GLAAD: What stories or lessons from you faith do you find inspiring as a transgender person?

Sumayyah Dawud: No specific story in particular but Islam in general strongly values those who strive in the face of difficulties and do not give up. Islam encourages Muslims to be patient, always trust in Allah, and to stand up for ourselves and others who are oppressed or face injustices. As a transgender woman who has been oppressed both inside and outside of the Muslim community, I find solace and guidance from Islam on how to be myself and grow in my faith.

GLAAD: How accepting has your faith community been during your transition? Do you think they can be even more accepting?

Sumayyah Dawud: Once my status as transgender became public, I have found the community rather polarized on the issue. Many Muslims have come forward and expressed their support, love, and understanding as well as acceptance for who I am. There are many Muslims, however, who will not associate with me or support me including Islamic leaders. I pray that the community will become more educated and accepting over time.

GLAAD: If you could go back and tell your younger self one thing, what would it be?

Sumayyah Dawud: I would tell my younger self not to worry about what other people think and to just be myself.

May 6, 2016

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PHOTOS: Move Over Billy Reilich, Gab The Gardener Is Instagram’s Hottest New Grower

PHOTOS: Move Over Billy Reilich, Gab The Gardener Is Instagram’s Hottest New Grower

Meet Gab.

Gab the Gardner.

Or as we like to call him, the hottest horticulturist on Instagram. (Sorry, Billy Reilich, you’ve been replaced.)

Gab is a scruffy, blue-eyed, buff-bodied French landscape architect from Paris with a passion for plants, animals, outdoor adventures and the Mediterranean flora. He’s also gay. Oh, and did we mention that he takes a great gym selfie?

Join us for a leisurely wander through Gab’s garden below…

C L I P P I N G S E S S I O N ? #lavandula #drygarden #mediterraneangarden #lavender #tgif

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Greek way of life ? #athens #labradors #bear

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Getting ready for winter ? #throwback #dromeprovencale #missingsummer #provence #meninshorts #backtonature

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Related: PHOTOS: Outdoorsmen Get Back To Nature In Celebration Of Earth Day

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Dave Franco’s Frat Bro Comes Out As Gay In ‘Neighbors 2’

Dave Franco’s Frat Bro Comes Out As Gay In ‘Neighbors 2’

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Homoerotic frat boys are the stuff of gay erotic fantasy. And actually, come to think of it, so apparently is Dave Franco. So it makes a kind of roundabout sense that — spoiler alert — Neighbors 2: Sorority Rising finds Franco’s character in a relationship with another man.

d6e17f9635de233d5640a3449676dbb4As director Nicholas Stoller recently explained to Yahoo! Movies, the decision the have the character come out not only came from the first film’s homoerotic undertones, but from a journalist questioning why the director had never included a gay character in any of his previous movies. “I was like, ‘I don’t know why. I literally don’t know. I have no good answer for that,’” Stoller said. “So this seemed like an organic way to have that happen.”

Related: Dave Franco And Zac Efron Confirmed To Be Dating, James Franco Offers Congratulations

(Oh, Nicholas. I’m sure there’s someone else who has time to explain the ways in which Hollywood has either ignored or misrepresented the LGBT experience to you. I’ll just send you a copy of The Celluloid Closet and call it a day.)

Related: Everything You Need To Know About Dave Franco’s Bare Butt

The upcoming sequel — which pits Seth Rogen and Rose Byrne against a rowdy sorority lead by Chloë Grace Moretz — finds Franco’s former frat bro Pete essentially inverting the old four-year-queer, gay-till-graduation stereotype. He’s graduated and engaged to his boyfriend, played by hilarious out actor John Early.
Of course, Franco’s character’s role is significantly reduced in Neighbors 2. Meanwhile, director Stoller implies that having Zac Efron’s ripped and often shirtless lead go gay was never an option: “A lot of Zac’s motivations in the first movie, especially with his girlfriend and stuff, seemed pretty straight. It felt like it might seem like a stunt if we made him gay. But it seemed to just work with Dave.”

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Channing Tatum Introduces the Men of ‘Magic Mike Live’ (And Their Abs) – LOOK

Channing Tatum Introduces the Men of ‘Magic Mike Live’ (And Their Abs) – LOOK

Have you ever wanted Magic Mike to not just be a series of thirst trap movies but an actual place on earth? If so, wish no more. On Thursday, Channing Tatum announced that he’s launching a Magic Mike live show set to debut in Las Vegas.

He also introduced the men of Magic Mike Live–and their abs.

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In a video announcement, Tatum explained how he came up with the idea for Magic Mike Live:

“I was walking around my house filled with hot men that I live with everyday…and I was thinking, what’s the next step for Magic Mike? 2D? We’ve done it twice. 3D? 3D hasn’t been cool since Avatar. Virtual reality? I don’t know. And that’s when Justin Timberlake from The Social Network popped into my mind and he goes, ‘What if you just dropped the virtual? Magic Mike: Reality.’”

He added, “God knows we have enough gentleman’s clubs in this world. So let’s start the first gentle ladies club. Or maybe not so gentle. Depends on what you’re into.”

Here’s to hoping it will also be a gentle-man-on-man club. Or something.

PREVIOUSLY: The Honest Trailer For ‘Magic Mike’ You’ve Been Waiting For Is Here: WATCH

Watch Tatum’s announcement, below.

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Hillary Clinton Tells NYC Trans Woman She is Loved, Calls Subway Attack ‘a Rebuke To All of Us’

Hillary Clinton Tells NYC Trans Woman She is Loved, Calls Subway Attack ‘a Rebuke To All of Us’

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Earlier this week, we posted about the horrific NYC subway attack on Pearl Love, a transgender woman who was minding her own business when she was harassed and assaulted by a woman on a busy subway. Love posted the video to Facebook, where it has since gone viral.

Yesterday, Hillary Clinton left Love a message on the post, reading:

Pearl, I’m so sorry that you experienced this. The all-too-high prevalence of violence and hatred faced by the transgender community —  in 2016! —is a rebuke to all of us. Every single person deserves to be safe and live free from discrimination and cruelty, period. And transgender people need to hear from every one of us that you are loved, respected, and deserving of equality under the law. Know that you have my support, and I’m on your side.

Clinton react

It’s unclear whether Love has filed a police report. She said that she may do so with the help of friends. The Anti-Violence Project said it is aware of the attack and reached out to elected officials in the appropriate districts.

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Six Amazing Moms Who Welcomed Their Transgender Children With Open Arms

Six Amazing Moms Who Welcomed Their Transgender Children With Open Arms

For Mother’s Day this year, HRC is honoring mothers across the nation who are standing up for transgender equality.

This particular group of mothers has become outspoken advocates for transgender equality. Whether on Capitol Hill, the Nightly News or at the White House, these moms have become exceptional role models for parents everywhere.

Here are their stories:

1. Michelle: Michelle is just your average mom in Northern California. She is the mother of three children, including her transgender daughter, Malisa. “Malisa is your typical pre-adolescent girl,” Michelle said in a video for HRC. “She loves to craft and sing.” Michelle and her father, Congressman Mike Honda, have both been open about their undivided support for Malisa and equality for the transgender community.           

2. Annie: Annie always knew there was something special about her grandchild, Kaycee. “I knew it was something different about Kaycee,” she said in a HRC video. “Kaycee didn’t have to tell me. I knew it.” While Kaycee was worried about coming out to her family as transgender, her grandmother stood by her side every step of the way.           

3. Ofelia: Ofelia, a mother of three, lives in Los Angeles with her three children, including her transgender daughter, Zoey. “It doesn’t make sense how people can define you without knowing you. It just doesn’t,” Ofelia said in a new HRC video. “If you look at Zoey and you see her, she’s a girl.” Ofelia has not only supported Zoey in her own home, but has lobbied on behalf of the transgender community in Sacramento, working for AB 1266, the School Success and Opportunity Act, and the TRUTH Project.

4. Ileana: Congresswoman Ileana Ros-Lehtinen, a Florida Republican, has long been an outspoken advocate on Capitol Hill for LGBT equality, from her early support for lifting the ban against openly-LGBT Americans serving in the military, to advocating for anti-discrimination and anti-bullying measures. For her, it’s personal. Rep. Ros-Lehtinen has a transgender son, Rodrigo.

5. Debi: Debi’s daughter Avery was four-years-old when she proclaimed her true gender identity to her mother. Debi, who is Southern Baptist, admitted that at first she didn’t quite know how to process the information, but as soon as Avery was able to live life freely and openly as her authentic self, Debi and her family saw an immediate change for the better.

6. Jodie:  A mother of five, Jodie noticed from an early age that her third child, Penelope, would study and imitate the actions of his father and brothers. Penelope was assigned female at birth but was certain of his true identity as early as he was able to express it. Jodie swiftly made the important decision to empower and support her child unconditionally.

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HRC and Equality NC Urge UNC Leadership to Reject HB2 and Comply with Federal Civil Rights Law

HRC and Equality NC Urge UNC Leadership to Reject HB2 and Comply with Federal Civil Rights Law

HRC and Equality NC have sent letters to chancellors and presidents of the University of North Carolina and North Carolina Community College systems urging them to reverse implementation of the deeply discriminatory HB2. The letter from the two civil rights organizations come after the Department of Justice notified Margaret Spellings, President of the University of North Carolina University System, Thomas Shanahan, Senior Vice President and General Counsel, and the UNC Board of Governors that by complying with HB2, the University of North Carolina is in direct violation of federal law.

If the state does not comply with federal civil rights law, it could lose $4.5 billion in federal education funding alone, which works out to nearly $500 per North Carolina taxpayer or a decrease of $2,500 in education funding per public school student, including those attending North Carolina’s public universities.

“Tens of thousands of students, faculty, and college employees across North Carolina have been harmed by HB2,” said HRC Legal Director Sarah Warbelow. “The Department of Justice has now affirmed HB2 violates the civil rights of those in the UNC community, and we therefore urge all public universities and colleges to reverse its implementation.  This is not only the right thing to do, it is the law.”

Just yesterday, North Carolina House Speaker Tim Moore said state leaders will defy federal civil rights laws and the Department of Justice, which gave Gov. McCrory and state officials until Monday to address the situation “by confirming that the State will not comply with or implement HB2.” University of North Carolina President Margaret Spellings, who also received a letter from the DOJ, must now decide whether to stand with the flailing governor and chaos he has created, or comply with federal law in the best interests of students.

The joint letter outlines how Title IX prohibits discrimination on the basis of gender identity, how Title VII prohibits discrimination on the basis of gender identity and sex stereotyping, and how non-compliance could cost North Carolina colleges and universities billions in federal funding.

Read the full letter here.

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