Casey Nikoleit, 23 March 1976 – 2 April 2016

Casey Nikoleit, 23 March 1976 – 2 April 2016

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Casey Nikoleit, 23 March 1976 - 2 April 2016

A photo from my archives of my then-partner Casey, taken in October 2013 in Fresno, California.

Casey had lived a difficult life and had substance abuse problems, but in 2013 she was hard at work on her way to recovery and having a life again. I fell in love with her warm soul and her ability to bring me out of my shell.

But relapse started in 2014, and my refusal to be her enabler caused the relationship to stall, and for her to move back to her family in Las Vegas, where the relapse continued to take a toll on her and her loved ones. The pain came to an end in April 2016, when an overdose episode claimed her life.

Casey, your pain is over, it’s time to be at peace and happy about the delightful soul that was you. The demons that haunted you are now history too. You will live on in the hearts and minds of your family and friends, and it was a true delight having had a chance to know and love you. Rest in peace.

Casey Nikoleit, 23 March 1976 - 2 April 2016

Tennessee AG Warns State Will Lose Federal Funding Over Discriminatory Bills

Tennessee AG Warns State Will Lose Federal Funding Over Discriminatory Bills

Today, HRC responded to Tennessee Attorney General Herbert Slatery III’s warning that the state could lose millions of dollars in federal funding if lawmakers move forward with legislation restricting transgender students’ access to bathroom facilities consistent with their gender identity.

“We hope that Tennessee’s elected officials hear Attorney General Herbert Slatery’s clear message — the state’s discriminatory, anti-transgender legislation will jeopardize crucial federal funding for the state’s public schools,” said HRC Senior Vice President of Policy and Political Affairs JoDee Winterhof. “Any compassionate person can see how cruel this legislation targeting transgender children is. But this warning from the state’s top lawyer also makes clear that the terrible bill puts millions of federal education dollars in peril, risking the quality of education received by every single student attending Tennessee’s public schools.”

In an opinion released earlier today, Slatery writes: “In sum, if a transgender student is required by a school district in Tennessee to use a restroom or locker room facility that is consistent with his or her anatomical gender rather than his or her gender expression or gender identity, and if that student files a complaint, [the U.S. Department of Education], applying its current interpretation of Title IX, will almost certainly require the school district to permit the student access to the facility consistent with his or her gender expression, and refusal to do so could very well result in loss of federal funding — at least until [Department of Education’s] interpretation is overruled by authoritative and binding judicial decision.”

Tennessee Governor Bill Haslam has already voiced concerns that these discriminatory measures would compromise the state’s $3 billion in federal funding for its schools and universities. His spokesperson has said that the governor “trusts our teachers and local school boards to make necessary accommodations” for transgender students. The legislation offers costly supposed “solutions” to non-existent problems, and would force schools to choose between complying with federal law — while also doing the right thing for their students — or complying with a state law that violates students’ civil rights. Several federal departments have announced that they are looking into whether to cut federal funding for North Carolina following the recent passage of their anti-LGBT laws. Read more about how these bills put federal funding at risk here.

Last week, HRC released an open letter from executives at the Dow Chemical Company, Hewlett Packard Enterprise, Choice Hotels International, Inc., and Alcoa, Inc. urging Tennessee lawmakers to abandon their legislative assault on transgender students. Major CEOs and business leaders are speaking out because they know the legislation is bad for business and bad for Tennessee. Country music stars including  Emmylou Harris, Chely Wright, Ty Herndon, and Miley Cyrus are also publicly condemning these discriminatory bills, as is Viacom, the parent company of Country Music Television.

Over the past month, bills with language similar to Tennessee’s discriminatory proposal were vetoed in South Dakota, but enacted in North Carolina, where lawmakers are facing fierce backlash. In South Dakota, Republican Governor Dennis Daugaard vetoed a similar bill after listening to child welfare organizations, pediatricians, and parents, and meeting with transgender children.

In North Carolina, Governor Pat McCrory and the state legislature rammed through a measure that, among other discriminatory provisions, includes a similar appalling attack on transgender students. More than 130 business leaders are calling on North Carolina’s elected officials in their upcoming legislative session to repeal that law, which puts thousands of youth, citizens, employees, and visitors to the state at risk. In the meantime, a number of businesses have begun removing investments from the state.

www.hrc.org/blog/ag-warns-tennessee-will-lose-federal-funding-over-bill?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss-feed

HRC Mississippi Provides Cultural Competency Training for Teach for America

HRC Mississippi Provides Cultural Competency Training for Teach for America

Post submitted by Harry Hawkins, Field Organizer HRC Mississippi

Recently, HRC Mississippi spoke to a group of teachers from Teach for America (TFA).

The event was a full day competency training held at Delta State University in Cleveland, Mississippi, for TFA, which is a national non-profit placing recent college graduates in under-resourced urban and rural public schools.

Since HRC and Teach for America have a formal partnership, I was able to introduce their members to our Welcoming Schools program and best practices for working with LGBTQ students.

One of the most powerful moments of my day was having conversations with the teachers about how they are working with LGBT students everyday. I hope that our conversations will have a positive impact on these teachers, their students and their communities.

LGBTQ students continue to face challenges, especially at school.  HRC’s groundbreaking report, Growing Up LGBT in Americafound that LGBTQ youth are twice as likely as their peers to say they have been physically assaulted, kicked or shoved at school. Twenty-one percent of LGBTQ youth identified school/bullying as the most important problem facing them right now. Shockingly, 92 percent of LGBTQ youth say they hear negative messages about being LGBT. The top sources are school and their peers.

Mississippi’s children are our future and I’m glad to know that there are teachers in our state celebrating and embracing diversity and inclusion.

Being supported at home, in school and in the community is important for all children and youth – especially LGBTQ youth. From creating an inclusive learning environment for students – whether a student is in the process of transitioning or she has two moms – to understanding the challenges and resiliency of LGBTQ youth, HRC provides a wealth of resources for supporting LGBTQ youth. To learn more about how you can support LGBTQ youth, click here.

www.hrc.org/blog/hrc-mississippi-provides-cultural-competency-training-for-teach-for-america?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss-feed

GLAAD releases new guide for reporting on bisexual community

GLAAD releases new guide for reporting on bisexual community

GLAAD

 

Today, GLAAD, in partnership with BiNet USABisexual Organizing Project, and the Bisexual Resource Center, released In Focus: Reporting on the Bisexual Community, a resource guide to equp journalists and media experts to accurately and effectively report on the bisexual community, its experiences, and the important issues bi people face.

“Bisexual people have been at the forefront of LGBT rights throughout history, but are still too often left out of the conversation,” said Sarah Kate Ellis, GLAAD President and CEO. “This guide will serve as a powerful tool to combat harmful stereotypes, misconceptions, and erasure of bi people in the media.”

“How bisexuality is portrayed in the media has tangible consequences on bi people’s day-to-day experiences,” said Alexandra Bolles, Programs Strategist at GLAAD. “Empowering the media to represent the bisexual community, its challenges, and its achievements in many dimensions is an invaluable and necessary step in shifting the cultural narrative towards bi visibility and, ultimately, full acceptance.”

Despite comprising a large portion of the LGBT community as a whole, bisexual people face disproportionately high rates of physical and mental illness, and are more likely to experience sexual and intimate partner violence than gay, lesbian, or non-LGBT people. By being more cognizant of the realities bisexual people face and committing to report on the bi community responsibly and accurately, the media has the potential to help eliminate some of the misconceptions and damaging stereotypes that impact bisexual people on a daily basis. 

This is why GLAAD has teamed up with BiNet USA, Bisexual Organizing Project, and Bisexual Resource Center to publish In Focus: Reporting on the Bisexual Community. The publication made its debut with a sneak preview at the BECAUSE Conference, hosted by the Bisexual Organizing Project. BECAUSE is a national conference for bisexual advocates that focuses on building an empowered bisexual, pansexual, fluid, queer, and unlabeled (bi+) community in the United States. 

Arrived @ #BECAUSE2016 & am SO EXCITED to see final, printed results of a @glaad project months in the making. pic.twitter.com/fGblqUyfEl

— Alexandra Bolles (@anorianb) April 10, 2016

&pumped to debut this to #because2016 before it’s live online. Proud of the work done w/@biorgproject @BiNetUSA @BRC_Central & @glaad

— Alexandra Bolles (@anorianb) April 10, 2016

The resource guide makes clear the importance of fair and accurate reporting, highlights the viral digital awareness campaign #BiWeek (co-founded by GLAAD), and provides numerous story ideas that illustrate the intersecting and diverse realities of being bi. The guide also includes best practices for media coverage in addition to providing terms, definitions, pitfalls to avoid, and more for covering bi people and their experiences.

You can learn more about bisexuality at glaad.org/bisexual, and check out the full guide here:

 
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www.glaad.org/blog/glaad-releases-new-guide-reporting-bisexual-community