This New App Aims To Build An All-Inclusive Queer Online Community

This New App Aims To Build An All-Inclusive Queer Online Community

A new app launched last week that claims to be the first gender-inclusive social network for individuals identifying all across the spectrum of queer identity.

Called “Q,” the app’s availability follows a massively successful Kickstarter campaign. While other queer apps tend to cater more towards specific kinds of bodies and modes of connections, “Q” wants complicate the way that the community meets and interacts with one another in online space.

“Racist, misogynistic, and dehumanizing comments are endemic on these platforms,” CEO Eric Cervini said of the need for Q in world of apps catering towards to lesbian, gay bisexual and queer (LGBT) community. “Not a single inclusive, queer, platonic app exists for our community… The Kickstarter demonstrated how much demand there is for an inclusive, human, queer online community.”

Cervini then added, “Our supporters gave us fantastic ideas and feedback as we perfected the app, and we look forward to adopting the suggestions and critiques of our new users.”

Check out the video above to learn more about “Q.” iPhone users can currently download the app, while Android users can join the waiting list here.

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Bullied at work? Study finds workplace harassment is on the rise

Bullied at work? Study finds workplace harassment is on the rise

To coincide with Anti-Bullying Week in the UK (16-20 November), the Advisory, Conciliation and Arbitration Service (Acas) has issued a report on bullying in the workplace.

The organization says that it receives around 20,000 calls related to bullying and harassment each year, and has estimated that the annual cost to the economy in terms of lost productivity is around £18billion ($27billion/€25.5billion).

LGBT people are one of the group’s that it identifies as being particularly prone to harassment in the workplace, alongside public sector ethnic minority workers; professional and management occupations; women in traditionally male-dominated occupations; and workers with disabilities, among others.

The report, Seeking better solutions: tackling bullying and ill-treatment in Britain’s workplaces states that rather than diminishing, the problem is getting worse: In 1998, managers in 7% of workplaces reported grievances raised concerning bullying or harassment issues – this rose to 8% in 2004, and to 11% in 2011.

Sir Brendan Barber, Acas chair, said in a statement: ‘Our analysis reveals that bullying is on the rise in Britain and it is more likely to be found in organizations that have poor workplace climates, where this type of behavior can become institutionalized.

‘Callers to our helpline have experienced some horrific incidents around bullying that have included: humiliation; ostracism; verbal; and physical abuse.

‘Managers sometimes dismiss accusations around bullying as simply personality or management style clashes, while others may recognize the problem but lack the confidence or skills to deal with it.’

‘Anti-bullying workplace policies and managers with good people-management skills are essential to deal with the growing problem of bullying.’

The bullying of LGBT people at work is something that has been noted before by UK advocacy group, Stonewall. Alex Gwynne, Senior Account Manager with the organization, said: ‘Lesbian, gay, bi and trans people are disproportionately affected by bullying and discrimination – at work, at school and at home.

‘It’s essential that people are not bystanders to bullying and teasing language, support victims of bullying and call out the perpetrators without putting themselves at risk. Anti-Bullying Week is a time to really reflect on that, and talk about how we can best work towards a world where all LGBT people are accepted without exception.’

Acas is not the only organization to mark Anti-Bullying Week. Trade union TUC also issued statistics on workplace harassment, which revealed that nearly a third of people have been bullied at work.

It said that in nearly three-quarters of cases (72%) the bullying is carried out by a manager, and that more than one in three (36%) of people who report being bullied at work leave their job because of it.

TUC General Secretary Frances O’Grady told Gay Star Business: ‘LGBT workers are particularly badly affected by bullying at work. Prejudiced attitudes are at the root of this. Unions try both to protect the individual being bullied, and to bring about a workplace culture where such behavior is not tolerated.

‘We need support from workers and management alike to ensure that LGBT workers are safe and supported at work.’

Thomas Anderson, Founder and Director at Inclusive Networks called the Acas report ‘shocking’ and said it emphasized the need for employee network groups.

‘There is clearly lots to be done to change our workplace cultures where everyone can go to work and be treated the same, no matter our differences.’

 

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Barbie-Loving Boy Is The Best Thing You’ll See This Week

Barbie-Loving Boy Is The Best Thing You’ll See This Week

The One Million Dozen Moms are going to lose their minds over this and we can’t wait. In a true act of progress Toy-maker Mattel has teamed with fashion house Moschino to create a stylish new Barbie and in a true act of progress their half-minute ad features two young girls playing with the limited edition of the iconic doll, but it’s their little male friend who steals all the attention by telling viewers that this Barbie is “so fierce.” So is this kid.

Watch it below and order yours here.

H/t: Attitude

Jeremy Kinser

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Gay Man’s Alleged Killer Escapes From Houston Jail, Considered Highly Dangerous – VIDEO

Gay Man’s Alleged Killer Escapes From Houston Jail, Considered Highly Dangerous – VIDEO

Coby

A gay man’s alleged killer is on the loose and considered highly dangerous after escaping from a juvenile detention center in Houston.

Alferis Coby (above right), 16, is charged with capital murder in the death of 22-year-old Carlos Ramirez, who was fatally shot in the parking lot of F Bar, a popular gay club, in March.

Coby, who reportedly has psychopathic tendencies, escaped along with two other juveniles early Sunday.

From The Houston Chronicle:

“I’m worried not only about what he is capable of, but his very demonstrated lack of empathy to other people,” said 315th State District Judge Michael Schneider, who certified Coby to stand trial as an adult in October. “I usually don’t like to talk about kids in our juvenile system, but this is a dangerous kid. I am really worried he is out.”

Authorities said Coby asked for toiletries and then overpowered a guard who opened his cell door to provide them. Coby took the guard’s keys and phone and unlocked two others. The boys, all 16, slipped undetected through the lock-up, then somehow get buzzed through a security door leading to Caroline within 15 minutes.

Some of the detention-center issued white T-shirts and blue shorts the teens were wearing were found a few blocks away.

RamirezAccording to the Chronicle, a court-ordered evaluation determined that Coby has an exceptionally high risk for violence, aggressive tendencies, psychopathic features and extensive criminality.

Ramirez (right) was leaving a talent show at F Bar when Coby and another suspect robbed him, shot him and stole his car after he refused to turn over the keys. The suspects were later found driving Ramirez’s vehicle.

Ramirez’s murder was one of several violent crimes in the city’s gayborhood this spring that led to a “Take Back Montrose” rally and meetings between LGBT activists and police.

Authorities identified one of the other teens who escaped Sunday as Jahrell West (above, left), who faces charges of aggravated robbery and home burglary. The third teen has not been identified because he hasn’t been certified to stand trial as an adult.

Anyone with information on the escapees’ whereabouts is asked to call Crime Stoppers at 713-222-8477.

Watch a report on the escape and ensuing manhunt from KHOU-TV below.

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Celebration Today as Ireland Recognizes Same-Sex Marriages

Celebration Today as Ireland Recognizes Same-Sex Marriages

Marriages between same-sex couples are legally recognized in Ireland as of Monday, according to Irish media outlets, but due to delays and Ireland’s complex betrothal system, the first weddings may take place tomorrow.

Dolores Murphy and Mabel Stoop-Murphy plan to be one of the first couples to tie the knot in the country, according to the Irish Independent. The pair have a civil partnership but will obtain a marriage license at the registry office in Cork on Tuesday.

The certificate will finally give Murphy legal rights to the couple’s two-year-old son, according to the paper. However she explained that her wedding day would be emotionally difficulty.

“It will be bittersweet because there will really be just the two of us and our two witnesses,” Murphy told the paper, “We have no family left.”

Murphy’s her father was present to walk both women down the aisle during their civil partnership, but he died in 2013.

“My dad knew Mabel for more than 10 years and he adored her. We’re both so sad that he won’t be here to share this special day with us,” she told the paper.

Same-sex marriages registered abroad will be immediately recognized in Ireland, according to L’Agence France-Presse, while other couples can now submit their intention to marry and begin the archaic three-month long betrothal process.

Vivian Cummins, 57, from Dublin who married his partner Erney in South Africa in 2009 told AFP that before the passage of Ireland’s same-sex marriage referendum it was hard for him to speak openly about his relationship.

“I would never really admit by choice to being married because I didn’t feel married in this country,” he told the wire, “I felt I didn’t have permission to say we were married but from now we will say it at every opportunity.”

In May, Ireland made history by passing marriage equality by popular vote with 62.1 percent of voters in favor of defining marriage as being between two people “without distinction as to their sex.” This was the first time that marriage equality has been passed in a referendum.

It is not known which same-sex couple will be first to wed in the country but “regulatory and procedural issues are expected to require a 24-hour delay,” following today’s legalization according to the Irish Independent.

Those who already have a civil union must sign up to be married and wait a fortnight, or two weeks, according to the Irish Gay and Lesbian Equality Network.

However, in addition to the Cork women’s union, same-sex marriages are already planned for tomorrow for Dublin and Galway, according to the Irish Independent.

Elizabeth Daley

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Charm and enchantment in the Basilicata region of Southern Italy

Charm and enchantment in the Basilicata region of Southern Italy

Welcome to Basilicata, Italy – a charming region south of Naples with two separate coastlines (touching the Tyrrhenian and Ionian Seas), two cities/provinces (Potenza and Matera), two souls (mythical forests and Mediterranean shores) and even two names, (it’s also known globally as Lucania).

Forget the Renaissance of Florence, the Baroque of Rome, the magic of Venice and the buzz and fashion of Milan. Forget nightclubs and catwalks. Here, you’ll find the possibility of a countryside holiday in a European environment where almost everything seems to be stuck in time.

Visiting Basilicata, especially the Province of Potenza, will reconcile you with your senses, nature, traditions, good food and myths. 

Yes, myths. In Basilicata, some people believe in fairies, witches, evil spirits, destiny and ‘Rumit’ (tree-like men who live in the forests). This area is known to be enchanted throughout Italian literature and has been represented in several films.

The area is also dependent on the seasons – in summer you’ll find lush green landscapes; in autumn, the magic of foliage; in winter, snowy mountains and in spring, blossoming valleys.

Of course, gay life is not absent in southern Italy. You’ll find plenty of it in Naples or in Bari, not far from Basilicata. But my suggestion is simple and basic. Behave like you are not in London, in Sitges, in Madrid or in Berlin. Simply, you are in a part of Italy where the food tastes wonderful, the air is clean and the pace of life slow, relaxed and chilled.

SASSO-di-CASTALDA-2

The Valle del Melandro in the Melandro river valley is one of the secret gems of Basilicata. Waterfalls, woods, small villages and mountains, and encounters with deer, wild boar, eagles and wolves. Here is the National Park of the Lucanian Apennines – Agri Valley – near the town of Lagonegro. The best towns – I’m talking Sasso di Castalda [above], Satriano di Lucania, Brienza, Sant’Angelo le Fratte and Savoia di Lucania – boast beautifully painted houses, enchanting squares, Medieval fountains and, sometimes, towers and castles. The capital city of this region, Potenza, is nested on top of a mountain with some great attractions on offer which deserve consideration.

Being a city of services and institutions, Potenza hosts the best museums in Basilicata, like The National Archeaological Museum of Basilicatau, where you’ll find the treasures of a land which was colonized first by the ancient Greeks and then by the Romans.

But Potenza is also a city of Medieval churches, like the one dedicated to San Francesco d’Assisi and another, even more beautiful, dedicated to San Michele Arcangelo.

CHEESE-SALAMI

A quick word on what Italy’s most famous for: food. Basilicata is known for its red peppers called pepperoni cruschi, which are dried and then deep fried, as well as its Caciocavallo podolico cheese which is as big as a football, and the delicious meat and salami. Obviously there is the pasta. Like the cavatelli, the strascinati or the orecchiette. Nature, traditions, food. This is a small region, but sometimes the best jewels are in the smallest of boxes.

I also spent three days hiking, jumping small rivers and rocks, looking for wildlife and very old trees, breathing the freshest and cleanest air to be found in this part of the world. The sentiero Frassati di Sasso di Castalda, part of the network of footpaths organized by the Italian Alpine Club, is absolutely unmissable.

The small town of Sasso di Castalda lies down in the valley, while on top of the mountain you will find a huge beech tree forest which is very beautiful in early autumn and late spring. Thanks to a professional hiking guide I discovered the secrets of the woods, like the danger which might come from the mushrooms, the magic of an encounter with a solitary wolf or the uniqueness of the water which spills from a mountain spring.

Meanwhile Brienza has just 5,000 inhabitants, but is one of the biggest towns in the valley. It has a Medieval castle, some entertainment and beautiful artworks, like the frescos in the Medieval cloister of the town hall. Unfortunately the castle is not easily accessible at the moment, due to the works which still are in progress after a big earthquake which happened years ago.

Other towns which are worth mentioning are Satriano and Sant’Angelo, famous for the tradition of enriching the houses with vivid colors and mural paintings.

CASCATA-waterfall

I also hiked for 45 minutes to see one of the hidden gems of this valley, the Tuorno waterfalls in the Luceto forest. They are barely indicated in the local maps, so try to ask for a local guide in the town of Savoia di Lucania. The municipality will be happy to help you with your requests.

WHERE TO STAY

In the area there is a lovely bed and breakfast, the Rifugio della Luna, a charming villa with a huge patio and a big garden. Its owners are very kind, the furniture is full of taste and you will also be able to organize dinners and parties. It’s not far from the town of Satriano.

Another nice option is the Fattoriabio, a rural hotel with restaurant. They’ll be able to show you how to cook peppers and local chickpeas. By staying here you will be able to see the best starry nights of your life.

Not far from here, there is also the seaside resort of Maratea, which offers top quality accommodations, like the Hotel Santavenere or the Hotel Villa del Mare.

Thanks to Full Travel, FullPress Agency and the APT della Basilicata (the Regional Promotion Agency of Basilicata).

Photos: Daniele Guido Gessa

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Monday Morning News Feed: Paris, Tim Cook, Sarah Palin, Aaron Rodgers, Demi Lovato

Monday Morning News Feed: Paris, Tim Cook, Sarah Palin, Aaron Rodgers, Demi Lovato

abaaoudPARIS MASTERMIND: Police have identified  Abdelhamid Abaaoud as the mastermind of the Paris attacks and linked him to the attack thwarted by three Americans on a French high-speed train earlier this year: “All my life, I have seen the blood of Muslims flow,” Abaaoud said in a video made public in 2014. “I pray that Allah will break the backs of those who oppose him, his soldiers and his admirers, and that he will exterminate them.”

BRUSSELS: Police conduct raids in search for terror suspect: “Heavily armed police officers wearing balaclavas descended on the Molenbeek neighborhood of Brussels on Monday in a manhunt for Salah Abdeslam, who is believed to have helped carry out the Paris terrorist attacks on Friday with his two brothers.”

PARIS: These are the victims of the Paris terrorist attacks.

Tim CookIRELAND: Apple CEO Tim Cook says marriage equality should attract more investment to the country: “It will lead to many more businesses coming in. This is another example where Ireland will be the ripple in the pond. I am thrilled about it. I think it will result in many other countries following. I give a lot of credit to the Irish people. From a business point of view, we need to be able to attract and retain talent from all walks of life, all sexual orientations, all races and all ethnic backgrounds. Otherwise we’re not going to be successful. So I think Ireland did itself a great service, not only because it’s just and right, but also because it will attract more business. The [marriage equality] campaign here was so professional. It wasn’t an antagonistic kind of campaign. So I think everyone is to be complimented.”

SARAH PALIN: Bristol keeps getting pregnant because God is giving her third, fourth, and fifth chances: “The cool thing about putting your faith in God, is that he certainly is a God of second chances, and third, and fourth, and fifth chances.”

HAWAIIDengue fever outbreak in sickens 49, is transmitted by mosquito: “The Hawaii Department of Health (HDOH) is investigating a cluster of locally-acquired cases of dengue fever on Hawaii Island. Dengue is not endemic to Hawaii. However, it is intermittently imported from endemic areas by infected travelers. This is the first cluster of locally-acquired dengue fever since the 2011 outbreak on Oahu. Of the confirmed cases, 39 are Hawaii residents and 10 are visitors. 39 cases have been adults; ten have been children. Symptoms include fever, joint pain, headaches, and rash.

Aaron RodgersSPORTS: Green Bay Packer QB Aaron Rodgers called out a fan for anti-Muslim comments during moment of silence: “I must admit I was very disappointed with whoever the fan was that made a comment that was very inappropriate during the moment of silence. It’s that kind of prejudicial ideology that puts us in the position we’re in today as a world.”

MUSIC: Demi Lovato delivered a searing cover of Adele’s “Hello” at Seattle’s Fall Ball. The clip has already been viewed more than 1.3 million times since yesterday.

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30 Then-And-Now Images That Show Beautiful Decades-Long Friendships

30 Then-And-Now Images That Show Beautiful Decades-Long Friendships

Your tribe. Your wolf pack. Your people. Whatever you call them, a woman’s friendship with her best girlfriends is a powerful one.

The strongest friendships often start in childhood — you know, with the nice girl in grade school who shared her pudding pack when you forgot your lunch. And if you’re really lucky, the respect, trust and fun found in these sacred early relationships truly do last forever.

With a little help from our editor-at-large, Rita Wilson, we asked our amazing community of Huff/Post 50 readers to tell us about their most important relationships: the ones with their lifelong gal pals. We were astounded by the outpouring of stories and photos — over 600 in total. While every long-lasting female friendship deserves special mention, here are just a few of the heartwarming pieces we received from women of all walks of life, but with one thing in common: loyalty and love for their longtime friends. 

 

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Westboro Baptist Church blames Paris attacks on ‘fag marriage’

Westboro Baptist Church blames Paris attacks on ‘fag marriage’

If Westboro Baptist Church could get any worse, they just have.

The leaders of the homophobic church has blamed the Paris attacks, that killed at least 129 people, on the legalization of ‘fag marriage’.

ISIS have taken responsibility for the attacks, calling it the ‘world capital of prostitution and obscenity’. They pronounced it to be the ‘top of the list of targets of the Islamic State’.

France legalized same-sex marriage in 2013.

In a series of tweets, the Westboro Baptist Church praised ISIS for doing ‘God’s work’ and saying the shooters were ‘servants of God’s terror’.

They have vowed to go to Paris, shouting at the people who may have very easily lost loved friends and family members that they are to blame for the deaths for being ‘fag lovers’.

So long as you have fag marriage and abortion, terror reigns! #godisyourenemy! #godisyourterrorist! #ParisAttacks #ParisShooting

— Westboro Baptist (@WBCSaysRepent) November 14, 2015

The only way Paris is going to get peace with God is put away proud sin & obey. #parisattacks #NoFagMarriage t.co/8FReEJP9Nh — Westboro Baptist (@WBCSaysRepent) November 14, 2015

 

The next day, as reports of Islamophobia were growing, author Stephen King sent out the following tweet:

Hating all Muslims for what happened in Paris is like hating all Christians because of the gay-hating Westboro Baptist Church.

— Stephen King (@StephenKing) November 14, 2015

Even though the Westboro Baptist Church had spent hours praising ISIS and appearing to be happy 129 people were dead, they then appeared to be offended by that comment.

‘What do we say to this lying, malicious comparison of our gentle pickets to the violence of ISIS?’ they said. ‘First — and foremost — Thank God!’

They added: ‘The wrath to which these pernicious “talking heads” hope to expose the humble, peaceful servants of Christ at WBC, is impotent in fact.  We know that God moves in every man to act in accordance with His perfect will.  This includes the violent monsters of ISIS, as the wicked propagandists within today’s “media”.  All of them are filled with violence — which is fitting for a world that sits literally on the verge of destruction.’

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